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Yes, avocado and brown organic egg for breakfast fan here
Happy New Year mizz cococandy

cococandy:
Are you guys still eating healthy this side
Happy new year.

sparking white cider sparkling white joystick

Timbuktuo:
She doesn't need advice, she needs encouragement. Tell her she's been permitted to retaliate. But she should make sure she also comes home with sparkling clean kitty.

Happy New Year o. Throw away that goat meat to my side. Boya apa adiye ni sha throw it.

Burntpalace:
Happy new year ladies!! Wishing peace and blessings to all.

Keep up the good work in 2016!

Efe, lunch at work can be expensive.
I have a coworker whose meals at work are fancy eats. For me, I just take a salad bowl and an avocado to work. Some days I go with my own cooked meals. I have 30 minutes for lunch so that's a good excuse not to go with them to get lunch outside.
My breakfast is an avocado...quite filling for Breakfast. Mid morning snacking is one organic brown egg and some nuts...I thank God for not adding any blobs this year
***Teamworkingout***

EfemenaXY:
Haha! Yes na - I need to source some ideas from you.
I was thinking, I could put that £50 - £60 I save weekly on buying lunch, etc from work into a Cash ISA every week. That's been my honest intention but then I found myself shopping at Boots Which isn't such a bad thing oh! As they had this deal going on last week or so at the Canary Branch - Spend £50 or more and get £10 worth of Advantage points on your Boots Card. I managed to get up to £52 worth of points and guess what? I found that bike my daughter's been asking for since the beginning of this year. £35. Now that's come in quite handy for me. Don't ask me what I'll be getting the others - it's a completely different story!

brothers want a woman who is not open eye, do not have horns or wings..

raumdeuter:
Unless you have been dating before you travelled, its extremely foolish for anyone to go home and pick a wife when there are millions of female in the country you reside

I have little sympathy for those kain guys who travel home to import wifes they barely knew

She could make calls from work and do interviews on Saturday and Sunday.

phabulous88:
What time does she have to hire a maid when she leaves the house at 4am & comes back at 11pm?

Not even cooking all the world ofe onugbu (bitter leaf soup) would bring him back. If you force him to come back, you'll have yourself to blame. Let him go.
Don't start joining and taking up a role in his church just to win him back. Your own african brother is on the way. Ofe ose hot sistah, we ri nwayo.

Your wife should be the one doing the hiring not you. She knows what is best as far as getting help. You should hands off the hiring process. You can't just bring in someone else into your home without her having a say. What happened to you getting involved in running your own home while your holds down a job ?

She should work hard to get his green card revoked, sue for polygamy etc. Get a good lawyer who is good at making up lawsuit names....make sure life is unsuitable for him in the UK.
Work and forge ahead.
No long thing.

@Sagamite

Ummmm well alright. But hope you won't expect her to wear lingerie or something sexy to bed. With all you wrote, your marriage to AA or white lady won't last long. You will end up paying the alimony you so loathe .

Thank you for doing justice by breaking it down. I agree he should make sure he goes on birth control.
The part that got me was i can't part with 100 k this Christmas like Christmas is more important than getting things his own baby would need. At least madam wasn't asking or specified a certain amount. Instead she gave him list of things. Just give what you have and discuss about the next items for the baby. Babies are expensive not a child's play. He wanted posters to accuse his wife. Wifey that he should be supporting 1000%
OP, i hope you have given your wallet and Atm cards to her with no questions asked

EfemenaXY:
Not agitated man.
Just telling it like it is.

For your own baby you are talking like this ?
You can always ask for the most important things that are needed first and mark the rest as next on the list. With that your "I can part with 50 k this Dec and not 100 k " attitude are you sure you are ready? You better be for your child/children.

NORAD:
Thanks for your suggestion. I can part with 50k THIS DECEMBER but not 100k.
By the way, the baby is due in March, (plus or minus two weeks). I hope we can still go about this in piecemeal fashion.

21st century grandma wey dey do Patience Ozukwo.

Kimoni, 3 weeks before Xmas school don close

SAMBARRY:
THEM NOR GET GRANDMA NI? ABEG CARRY THEM GO GRANMA PLACE MAKE THEM GO DO XMAS AND NEW YEAR SO YOU GO GET EAR HEAR WORD

BET DONT CALL THEM AFTER 2 DAYS DEY SAY YOU DON DEY MISS THEM ALREADY O

Oh man!!! Maybe a mistake cleanup.
No play again but seriousness even for December...Santa must hear this.

ifyalways:
Reported or cleaned by someone passing through horrible mid life crises.

Some people are allergic to goodnews and get blind when they see others happy.

What happened who did cleaned up here?
Gosh ebelebe igba (ifyalways let me use your words )
I didn't see or read anything bad in what was written here, so why the cleaning ?

He is copying western pastor like Joel Osteen...same style but he forgot Joel lives in a country that has good roads and 24 hours working infrastructure. He should use the money to improve lives of those in his community. ..misplace priority

He is copying Western pastors like Joel Osteen...same style but he forgot Joel lives in a country that has good roads and 24 hours working infrastructure. He should use the money to improve the lives of those in his community...misplace priority

I laughed so hard too. Onegai, thumb up!! Op, don't try it. Finish school and get a job before ever dream of marriage.

cococandy:
I laughed when I read that.
Besides childbirth what else is there?
Like really?

No don't, let kids have fun as long as they like thinking about imaginary man and Rudolph. That's the most exciting thing left for them in December with its bitter cold and sunless month. I'm just dreaming of Santa land in Texas. Imagine driving through 3 million lights can't wait to visit.

damiso:
to be honest though I was sincerely looking forward to getting rid of the whole Santa charade but I was hoping for another 2/3 years so by then her brother would have been a bit older and we just get it over and done with once and for all
Meanwhile her brother thinks Santa is Bill Gates with the ever increasing list of train toys/track sets

50 shades of gray. Make sure to run 3 miles 5 time a week and a must before sex as you will be too tired to act aggressively.

I could try the crocodile for $$$ only.

For Naira, no way!!

go check surrogate price and come back.
Fair enough now The money goes into raising and caring for our kids not for doing my nails or hair.

Sagamite:
Ole oshi.

Country of the blind being led by half eyed

If the marriage is childless, then everyone should go away with what they came in with. Things accumulated during the marriage including debt should be shared. If she is disabled in the course of the marriage, then she should get half his money for life.
If there are children, ofc most if not everything goes to the woman

Especially Patience. Her omugwo drama is something else. I personally don't see the needs for omugwo if you have a caring, loving husband and a weekend paid helper.

cococandy:
those nollywood people.

Spoiling reality for us.

Lol, mama watched a bit too much of nollywood. Who wouldn't be motivated to drink minutes maid and eat Mr. Biggs after watching Patience Ozukwo enjoying peri peri
Anyway Op, DIY. You should help your wife, take turns to sleep at night and caring for the baby. Caring for a baby should not be a job for madam alone. But both of you can do it.

cococandy:
Does she even have your best interests at heart?
If she won't come, let your own mom come.
C'est finis

Snoop is a cool guy. I thought I read they separated/divorced at some point and came back together again.

His dance steps are awesome. I just love his dancing.
You are right but who wouldn't try so hard given his personal experience.

Timbuktou:
I think Snoop tries too had some times. Saw it just once anyway. But I'm glad he's very involved in his son's life. Better that than no interest at all.

2 options

Open up and let him suck the juice of life

Or

Leave it unwashed for some days
Follow the second option at your own perils.

Ummmm ummm ummm

* coughing coughing*

Op, it is about time you forge your own paths.

niggi4life:
so? What's wrong if he's staying with her BF?
U girls think guys like girls that only come around 26 or 27 of the month (when dem don pay salary) and u spend only one night and the next morning u r gone... Things have changed dear, we need girls that r compatible with us before and after marriage. As per the OP d story is about her boyfriend's sister and not his problem until u approach him.... Make u girls shine una eyes ooooo... Money no dey street oooo and boys dey vex gannnn

if you marry at 30, and waited for your kids to be 10 before working, then you are on your own. Look for jobs with flexibility and juggle both tasks.

Ginaz:
I'm seriously thinking about my future as a wife and mother (no ring yet) I would like to be a full time house wife till when my kids are up to 10years then I can do something.

Just last week, I and my friend are talking about housewife stuff and she outrightly insulted me saying I'm a foolish girl for thinking about it.
My aunt's a full time house wife, she joins her husband occasionally to assist him in his business and her home is the best ever. Children are well taken care of emotionally and everything. My boyfriend's mother was a full time house wife till the children turned 15 before she stared working, her children turned out responsible and focus.

Now, I've seen the examples and I wanna take this step, what do you think guys? Is it advisable to be a housewife or would you allow your wife to be a full time housewife? Ladies will you consider it? If yea or no, give reasons . Sorry my post its lengthy

Modified.....Look for your own fun such as join a gym and women's clubs. No kids yet so spread your wings.
You have to try and be a small social butterfly for your own sanity. If you go to church, connect with someone who could pick you up sometime.