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A year prior to traveling, be sending $$ in her name...problem solved

The good old days

Wondering where everyone is...bless you where ever you are.
Hauwa girl

Wish I could have number 1 and 4 in real life.

SAMBARRY:
almond abi wetin you call am.I no sabi oyinbo food o.if you're talking about fufu ,efo riro, egusi,goat meat,Catherine soup and other typical Nigerian food ahennn I sabi that one no be almond o my my dear efemena
This IS my specialty. Btw happy Easter

, alright dear I missed the cotton/cutting board.

slyrone:
I trust u didn't wear skirt to cover your big bulgy eyes wen she mentioned cotton board I trust u didn't wear skirt to cover your big bulgy eyes wen she mentioned cotton board

Depends on the dynamic of the family.
Not different from every aspect of human interaction- I like you or I don't like you...human nature.

Tiv soup kinda...i love it with huge bush meat and dried fish.

ummm, generalization bros.
Which is worst, men seeing ladies as a tool or object of pleasure, or a woman laying in bed like log of wood due to being told sex is bad ?
He should because his vows said for better or for worse. Btw, isn't he the proverbial head of the house
Op, do not threatened her anymore or make a u-turn...the grass isn't greener out there.
Too much emphasis on sex sef. No fun, no play...eat and shook
It is the reason why you see people having too many children. They see big O from sex as a thing of happiness in the same environment all year round till infinity...
Odi kwa not good for the psych.

x240:
And why should it be the husband that has to help her get her groove back?
and aside that, your assertion that most women lose apetite for sex is a big lie with no single fact backing it. Y'all Nigerian ladies were groomed to see sex as something not to be enjoyed, something you do just to satisfy him. sleep on the bed tie wrapper and lay like a log of wood. Yes, some males are to blame but most guys would want a lady who is "mad fun and crazy" in bed. Let him try introduce a new style or taking it a notch higher and she starts complaining that she isnt a slut and he cant expect her to do those acrobatic styles.
What do we get instead? Log of wood, no action, dead style of sex. Why won't it be tiring and get boring?
When you would never take the initiative to request for sex or try to enjoy it. Our mothers made the mistake and the new generation ladies are towing that same line again. No wonder there's so much failed marriages and bitter people out there. If the sex was good and mutual you would be 50% more happy and this would sip into other areas of your lives and makes bonding much more stronger.
It is a no brainer.
This is not absolving the male of wrongdoing but you ladies should please remove the "getting old and loosing apetite story".It's boring to hear already.

Try take your mind off sex for some time.
Granted house help is doing the big house work, you should join her in the small house work she does. Help getting kids ready for the night, join in preparation of dinner, shower kids, read to them, watch TV and chat about current issues like political, whats happening around town, in the country, foreign news, watch movies and ask babes what do think about the movie etc.
Buy her stuff, magazines, sweet mouthy food/snack, chocolate, flowers, her kind of shoes, clothes any gifts idea. Put in more efforts.
By the way, it should not be all about sex. Get a good book, read then give her a good night kiss before sleep with less expectation of sex.

Don't forget to pray...Wetin I know self.

I have seen so many horror movies.
They still scare the day out of me yet I love watching them. I have put an hold to Japanese horror movies.
That exorcism and the turning of the head at 360 degree was no fun
I think overly horror movies are not good for us
There is an horror movie I'm looking to watch. It is an old horror movie where this butterfly like bug would just fly out of no where and glue itself on its victim sucking their blood till they are dead. Any one with idea of the title ?

I'm typing from the village mango tree ya know.

agarawu23:
yeah I know.

I mean you should come here and practice what u preached.

See me see trouble o na the level I dey now abi how I take know say him fit clear small bush and spread mat eh ?

agarawu23:
we don know say na USA u dey

You can now come down to our level

Which kind relaxation place are you looking for eh.
My brother just go near one small bush, clear small place, spread out your mat chat up nature.
If hungry come, pluck corn roast or grab a banana.
Oyinbo style is too expensive.
But concept like 6 Flags/universal studios/Disney/Knotts Berry Farm etc should be available in Nigeria now.

Op, You are not wrong in fact send another request again. Invite them to dinner and make sure you hold a good conversation with the guy.

Very possible that the other woman's husband told his wife and she ended up telling her man friend what his wife did.

Acidosis:
I still don't know how the husband found out that his wife sent a Facebook friend request.
Some lies are not worth it.

mean say no breaststroke to hokd.

Kimoni:
I'm confused, pls explain this. Thanks

My grandmother told me in those days, when a king likes a woman, he banished the husband and take the wife. I guess the Oba merely followed his tradition without the banishment .
The scent of a woman....when a man loves a woman ummm he acts like a drunken dragon. Please you guys leave them alone. I hope this guy is not going to marry again. We are moving away from polygamy.

Damn!! What are you using, fowl feather ?
Allowing someone else clean out your own ear when and if the quarrel is settled, please don't do it anymore.

Emperor Trump is already on his way to the white house. There is nothing anyone can do about it. It is either him or Cruz.

Moana:
you better make sure they do not vote for Trump otherwise thats the end of it

the Emperor will never allow those funky rules anyway...maybe for those in STEM.

CFCman:
Trump and his fellow immigrant-bashing supporters are gonna have sleepless nights because of this new rule.

It is not hard to clean. Just make sure to do it right after you are done eating. Now for starter, get Ajax powder cleanser w/bleach. 5 mins later, you're done leaving your stove sparkling.
Nicely presented food.

Op, is there anyway the boy could leave that place ?
How can you, us or anyone help his current condition?

I laughed so hard too
Number 13 I can relate...after staying all night chatting thinking gal is done crossing all her T's.

bebe2:
Very funny

Pls add more I beg , memes make me laugh.

Love them.

Postmann, for moral decay in our society, I'd like you to
focus on polygamy and having too many children.
Not the way you are going.
Good morning.

Nicely made toast...now I need Starbucks white chocolate mocha

KanwuliaExtra:
Nna!
I don ask you taya!
You be "dinachi"?
Please, join me for breakfast.
Prostitution only reigns in poverty-stricken, drug-infested areas of the world o.
I only prostitute for FUN, because I LOVE HOW NIGERIAN MEN DROOOOOOL!
Priceless!

Yes, because two can play that game. Why should only one person do the chopping, isn't it the same Orgasm huh? By the way, is the guy not the head of the house? Why should his punishment be lenient or his being allowed to walk away?

postmann:
And I guess your definition of a civilized society is when females match their male counterparts in debauchery?

This is becoming too much. They don't want to move on or be liberated from African emotional slavery

KanwuliaExtra:
Thank you!

Mr. Postmann, learn to accept correction. You are so wrong. Gently say, I'm sorry I was wrong instead of drawing us back to 18th century.
You need one way ticket to a civilized society.

No need for the road you are planning to forge. Sell the properties and enjoy life overseas after all, the hassles drove you out in the first place.
Please stay with your white wife till death do guys part.
No cunny cunny or secret marriage. No good stories from such deal at the end of the day or at the end of your sojourn in life. Are you scared of old age and retirement home where your kids are too busy to visit you? Save that investment and use it to enjoy old age where you have money to be an old tourist with your wife on some jamaica island.
No need for another woman. Peace like a river.

Donbrig:
I thank and appreciate all your advice and contributions. Having relatives to run my businesses is the last option on the table. Managers could be an option, but good and honest ones are very very rare to find in our part of the world, that is why lots of businesses are often messed up in Nigeria. I decided to invest much in Nigeria because Nigeria remains one of the best place to invest in the world, most especially when it comes to tax advantages that you hardly get abroad.
Virtually all Nigerian men married to whites are often shattered with the idea of getting a second wife in Nigeria. I think that is just the African side of us coming to play on us.
I really hope and pray to make the right decision at the end of the day.
IT IS NOT EASY WHEN THE ROAD IS YOUR DRIVER.

My post was for those starting up...not specifically for her.
Nothing wrong but see the double requests coming his made him shy away.

PresVA:
Her parents are late, didn't you read that?

Besides, nothing wrong with helping your younger ones.. if you're successful, it's good you help your siblings succeed too; if it's in your power. .. Nobody is asking you take care of them all their life; it's just for a few years till they stand their feet.. Not by force though and I don't think op is forcing her brother. .

Your sibling may be one to help you tomorrow. ..

Just imagine that... please op, look for a job. Look for a part time jobs at your school and work. You guys say no job ummm oh yeah. Tutoring, cleaning campus toilets and cafeteria jobs etc are done by American students. So look for those kind of work. I'm sure your bros would be happy to hear something like hey brother I have 40 k from my hair braiding business or my small job and would need 40 k to make up same with Dave etc
Happy Sunday.

Evina:
Is one month a reasonable amount of time frame to rebuild?

I hope new generation Nigerians will stay off having too many children than they can care for. Imagine you and your brother's school fee on top a married man's head
We are no longer in the age of putting responsibilities on someone or first born take care of the rest syndrome.
Parents should be the one caring for their own children so have small family.
If you have the money help is what you give and no one should make it your responsibility or force you to do something you cannot bearing in mind limited resources.
Op, he has a family now and soon their own child to focus on so remember that. You never know they have a baby on the way or paying back wedding loans.

Nigerian lecturers and the demand for sex, smh
Op, divorce isn't good for children so keep that in mind.

Girl, preach it
To err is human, to forgive is divine.

lesbiangirl:
I feel for you op...please forgive her,fast and pray for her to change her ways, try and spice the marriage alot so she won't look outside. Cook nice meals,wear red boxers and lose some weight...(especially potbellies )

Trust me it aint easy to be married to one prick for d rest of ur life unless yua filled with the spirit of God. God forgives us wen we err so who are we not to forgive. If u leave her now what's to say the next woman won't cheat on you...so please ehn forgive her and don't forget to pray for ur marriage.

Stay blessed!