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Have you contacted a divorce advocate ?
I hope you have moved on with your own life.

You will never know until life into the marriage. A game of chance. Take it or leave it.
As for me and my house, we keep work and ranks outside the home

Semper Fi
God bless our troops.

ITbomb:
If the woman accept the man as the head of the house and respect him, why not.

Cheating to me is intimate contact involving sex.
I can't prevent you from having opposite sex friends and as long as it ends there, I'm cool.

Chillisauce, see the huge bread that went with that tiny beans masties2 didn't show us

Yemiolads:
My homemade bread , tasty and fresh!
made according to this recipe: http://opeyemioladotun..com/2015/06/for-love-of-food-how-to-make-homemade.html#more

If the guy cheats, sit down like matured adults and discuss open marriage or divorce or free will staying.
All should be fair... why should only one person do the outside marriage eating? Discuss options and stop being cunny about extramarital affairs.
Too much sex is dangerous. ..it can cause poverty and reduce men life span.

naijababe:
I like my efo crispy and green, you know like efo tete, kale/spring greens are the best substitute, if however you like it soft, use spinach.
Wash the vegetables(kale in this instance) and pour in a pot of really hot water. It is best to put the veg in as soon as the water starts to boil but turn off the fire immediately. Make sure the water completely covers the vegetables and cover the for pot for about 5 mins ( I believe this process is called blanching). After 5 mins or so, drain away the hot water and replace with cold water and set aside. If you are using spinach, leave the veg for about 2 mins otherwise it will become completely soggy.
Blend your peppers - whatever your combo is ( i like to use a combo of orange and red bell peppers with tomato, onion, a hint of ginger, atarodo and half a clove of garlic).
Heat some oil and add your blended peppers, add some stock (i always have frozen stock stock and prefer that to maggi and salt and leave to boil until the sauce is cooked.
Add your orisirisi (meat, saki etc) at this point and cover half-way ( you want your meat to cook but also some of the water in the sauce to evaporate. While your pepper is cooking, strain the water from your veg and take enough to fit in your palms at a time and squeeze out as much of the excess water as you can. You want the veg to be completely dry and leave aside.
Go back to your cooking sauce and ensure most of the water has evaporated, it should be really really thick, add your vegetables at this point and use a ladle to turn the vegetable in and and around the sauce under medium to low heat for about 3-5mins. Once your vegetable has been thoroughly mixed with the sauce, remove from heat ans serve. That's all
You owe me £10

I owe you a good night out girl, thank you!!!
I wanted to try something from my memory but this snacking chewy spinach won't let me. I do make stewy spinach soup. I will try your steps....thanks a ton.

Lucky you! I so miss snails. It is so expensive here but I still buy them for my stews occasionally....then along came the news from Florida....ha mo gbe!!
I love mine chewy jare you know health freak omoge ni mo je...i believe chewy veg helps to off load with ease

let me have this recipe

I stop buying igbin cuz I don't know if it was picked up from the road side in Florida. My mom hope to send me some fried ones.

naijababe:
Take that Chillisauce, sweet potato and efo riro

Naijababe,

Give me your efo recipe please.

The who nine yard and what vegetables I can substitute for what you used.

I hope so too. Wondering if she will have monthly visitor. Imagine just got bored someday and grow some amu...what a wonderful journey. ..no need for next life...one-life-fits-all
Best wishes Kaitlyn.

ifyalways:
This America eeh. Wonders
I hope she shares her first seexperience as a woman. Otuocha!

Just have good intentions and not out to play long term boyfriend and girlfriend thing, eat or chop clean mouth and walk away. No play thing...your seriousness with the relationship will win him.

Eat fruits and vegetables? Is that another name for zex?
Carb rich diet eg eba, poundo, Amala or akpu then round it off with some zex.
Fruit and vegetables for cleansing when horses start to fly.

so messed and it is so sad.

Chillisauce:
Nigeria is messed up. The generator fumes, dust everywhere, poor diet, lack of goodhealth care etc.
Most times outdoors or in the market I find myself gasping for air. All these have effects on overall health of people.
People should try as much as possible to go for check up once a while and eat food meals. Esp vegetable and fruits . It's cleanses a lot and boost your immune system.
Most Nigerian men don't like going for check up. Always petronizing "chemist".
Pls people should take their health seriously.

Just would like to know how he picks who goes to event with him...any idea ?

Many wives sharing just one used and left over Johnny. ..ummm

Thought I'd read burukutu and kunu or fresh fura de nunu....or plain water.

Those are for poor masu Hausawa ko.

No question about that, yes get police and make sure they deal with him.
Such display of disrespect. ..i pity the gal who will have the misfortune of marrying him.

There should be no excuse to beat your spouse. Verbal argument should not be a reason. Argue it out or leave till tension cool off. Beating your spouse has a lasting effects on your own children. It tells them you are mean, bad and wicked. You want your child to grow in a loving environment not an environment where they see mom crying and sad from dad's big hand.
No matter how much I love you, you dare your hands on me, I will be calling the cops and we go from there. I will make you aware during courtship.
Stoning you with phone break that cycle.
Working on making marriage work is two ways. Hitting her doesn't solve the problem.

mcdokwe:
The question is did you take after your mother, giving him reasons to want to hit you?

It is easier to say you don't want the type of marriage your parents had but still gravitate towards such or an even more disastrous one when you don't do the things you ought to to ensure you have the sort of marriage you desire.

You have a choice to make, work on your marriage or walk out.

In all, I wish you the best.

See ogbologbo talking, thanks jare original meat amu eater talking better

corisande:
it's tasty
I always ask for the part with the amu if I'm buying the lap In the market

biko...you are missing out.

Chillisauce na lie?

babyosisi:
Tua
The amu of a goat

I said amu goat now, it is meat now

spadar4u:
badt boy

The bolded is he who that chopeth, chopeth no more...forgiveness is in thy hands oh Lord.

babyosisi:
Stop using the scripture fraudulently
There is no place the bible encourages anyone to go talking about their past
When Jesus met the prostitute the people wanted to stone,he forgave her and asked the crowd to cast a stone if they hadn't sinned
He didn't tell her to go telling the wives of all the men she had chopped to forgive her.
It wasn't necessary
The bible says let him who stole,steal no more
So let she who chopped,chop no more

Fornication is a sin one commits against one's own body
If God forgives you and you have forgiven yourself,that ends it

bra to bed, girl!!

Nothing to bed for me...not even my fancy Victorian secrets. After a tub bath in lavender, i just frog into bed. I free everything
Gravity is worst for those with big grape fruits...the ones on this chest are still looking up and straight
Future bre..ast feeding is what I hope would not flap it

Tight bra is best if one is a runner like me. I use the Hudson's sometimes.

Ewuro4:
The word 'dents' on a body sounds very uncomfortable ... Are your bras too tight? Maybe youre reacting to the wire/elastic hence the dark lines? Dents & skin discolouration is a nono jare. Pele

You know I started wearing light sports bra/camisoles w built in bras to bed for a while now since I watched 'the Doctors' show about "sagging" (something about Gravity) .. Though doctors have different inferences about it , but better be safe than sorry.

orikinla, congratulations and happy 23 years anniversary to you and your wife

see, you got the praise...so pass it to the owner

Got those but once in a while you just jump out of bed and grab just anything and then along came those dents...normal color is back now.
God bless our troops....
SemperFi

Ewuro4:
'Bralessness' ( make up word ) sag boobs though. and use sports bra for your workouts . Check out Fabletics by Kate Hudson for good deals

the brea.st is really tasty...so is the amu.
Childhood innocence and curiosity...

bestestgirl:
That's the most delicious parts. please don't tell me that you threw them away. eat it and go to the gym biko

@Touchmeder, what gives it that unique taste is the stock, rich amount of tomatoes and slow cooking. Goat meaty stock, (cooked goat meat, onion, some thyme, jamaica curry, salt and some bouillon).
Tomato and tatashe blended and steamed being used...i can see goat meat on your plate meaning the stocks was used. I see your jollof is so colorful meaning rich amount of tomatoes and red pepper/tatashe was used. One last thing is slow cooked...if you cook rice, pour it into stewly mixture to make a quick JRice, you wouldn't get that unique taste no matter how many ajinomoto or maggi you use in the cooking.

touchmeder:
Owambe jellof today. It was niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
PS: who knows what gives it that unique taste? Can anyone share. Someone told me butter and i tried it but i didn't get that particular taste.

I took off my bra after doing 21 laps and saw some dark lines beneath bra lines...sigh i hate putting dents on my body.

$$Teamfreethenipples$$

Goat meat egusi soup or goat meat stew ummm second to none.

Eyaa crying for the poor goat who got no say in the matter

You are right, in essence parents should have few children.
Too many African children are left to fend for themselves...using marriage as an escape route.

Truckpusher:
Everything still boils down to the authorities first amd parenthood.
Create an enabling environment , create the jobs and every individual will key into progress.
Your parents can't give you what they don't have.

laughing in Michelle Obama's voice with raised eyebrows

Chillisauce:
You still drinking coke zero
After all the fasting, typing and counselling we gave you.
This one is strong ghan.

If that guy is really smart, he should take a break from church and take his wife somewhere for real relaxation and getaway. Make up and make love.

i was in the office when i read what you wrote and bursted out lol. Michelle is something to be honest.

Chillisauce:
Are you indirect calling babyosisi

Babyosisi come and see what armyofone said.!

https://www.yahoo.com/health/michelle-obama-stars-in-her-own-workout-video-for-119411388062.html

i wonder if hefty pounded yam and egusi with oxtail go let naija sistah do this one.
Good job Michelle