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So right...misplaced priorities.
[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Omoge, I see nothing wrong with taking children to events. They just shouldn't be out past 9pm on a weekday and 11pm on a weekend (but then, we all know how Naija parties start at 1am).

Nigerian parents fail to understand that once they have children, they're not as free as they used to be. Like Ogugua said, it's sad to children slumped/sleeping on chairs while their parents are dancing. [/quote]

True, without anything growing on her skin
I hate dirty living space, i will be having imaginary itching all day.

stillwater: If I'm going to be staying in his house for a short while, I could clean it, before something starts growing on my skin.

A man who loves you would make an effort of keeping his house clean when you visit. He would want his princess to be comfortable.

I think children should not be taken to Nigerian parties. Too much stretch time. If you plan to take your kids with you, leave after some few hours.
kids need to be in bed at 8pm. get a nanny or sitter to stay with them at home.

well, RIP.
Ije ewere.

leave him alone. that little side money can be used to buy kortex and jabaki.

a real man with head for him shoulder, i'm sure he has a good relationship with madam.

those are the type of guys who will prefer to come home to madam than hitting niteclub drinking beer and developing pottybelle.
ezigbo mmadu carry on and don't mind what others are saying.

a man is not marriage material if his home is like animal farm laid out in original Post.

you should keep clean for your lady's arrival.
i'd prefer to visit a nice/clean home. Also get food ready for my arrival too.
too tired to cook then immediately i come in, go get your key and we go dine somewhere.

no manage so tay turn me to your cook/kitchen aide when we never marry bikonu.

Do what i'd do for you.

chi meeee, ukpo with garri?

I love ukpo oka. good memories of my mom making it for us. i miss fresh corn pudding.

fast forward to June 20, so many fresh corn in store. I was ready to make Ukpo.
sadly my ukpo refused to get done. cooked for more than an hour and thirty mins still watery even though i didn't add zero water to my paste.

it was a waste of time and money. everything went down the sink.

Question: is it the corn? chemical? pesticides? not matured?

VAG INA MONOLOGUE, VAG INA MONOLOGUE, VAG INA MONOLOGUE.

Sista, i hope we can create more awareness.

Colleges here have an event called Vag ina Monologue and the plight of African women top the list.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Cheap stuff makes me suspicious of how "authentic" they are. lol

It's like buying cocoa puffs Flakes instead of chocolate puffs. Shady generic companies lol.[/quote]talking of cheap, two stores i hate to shop:

payless shoes
Dollar General or dollar stores.


@ OP
Walmart brand milk

davidylan: hahaha no be you be omoge? I didnt fight tope2000 also... too gentle for that. She married and promptly vanished from here chei!

Na this thread i dey remember pass - back in my days as PTH - https://www.nairaland.com/72759/nigerians-nigeria-versus-nigerians-diaspora/6

lol,
That thread at that time was soooo freaking hilarious.
good memories.

the only chics you didn't fight or carry cutlass pursue :
Osisi
Omoge
the rest na fire on the mountain. Foreign palace, you dey, church corner, you dey, kai!

davidylan: Choi! Where are all these people now?
Boys have certainly grown into men and girls have grown into women.

Spikedcylinder, karmamod, Lesleen... my e-enemies back in the day!
The good chicks - platinumnk, tope2000, ujujoan, daphoenix/rebellious... chei!

Nairaland no sweet like before again oh walahi! 2006-2009 set was the bomb! There was one scandal everyday... you dared not log off for more than 10 minutes.

lol, i don't have any Id.
once i was omoge. cool then cool now

shymmex: But you've been fighting your own identity..

You're faker than a $2 bill..

I hope you find yourself soon.

classic
Osisi and Omo eko
Islander and davidylan
the list goes on bo.

oh

people like us just come in peace, read, laugh, joke and vamoose to real world.
no victor, no vanguished.
it is nice to know that all my time on NL, i haven't fought no one, phew .

I love me

NRA still supporting gun possession
RIP folks.

they are busy thinking of how to lay that chic, marry more than one etc.

women think with the God given package upstair while men think with the package downstair.

jennykadry: Wow, so many women got married at 18 and have been able to keep their marriage. What can we say of the opposite gender?

@ OP
I agree that women have higher IQs. I went to a college in the US well known for their Engineering and IT.
So many women in both depts.
Tough colleges such as Naval academy and West Point have many women.

the part i don't get is sex being a recreation especially among the unmarried.

how can you not pay (child support) for a recreational activity?

dayokanu: If the man cant have a say in whether the child should be born, Then can he be forced to pay Child support for a child he never wanted or that was the mothers idea?

Yes, he will be forced to pay big time. Thanks to the system, your pay will be garnished before hitting your debit account

here we go, someone drawing the 21st century woman backward into cave age

I like TC and i hope madam will get a nice settlement

Johndoe100: Sometimes you say things that are so true. Women being naturally inferior to men are not supposed to leave men. I blame Tom, he should have been more on the ball, these women cannot be trusted and are not to be taken seriously, they should be monitored effectively. Read the bible and see what happened to any man that trusted a woman. Females cannot be trusted it's just in their nature (see Eve in the bible) proper monitoring is required, the ones that live in the west have been allowed to slip out of the noose these females need to keep them in their proper place and ensure that they maintain the proper respect due to men in their behavior. This is why the western females continuously misbehave.

Sagamite: You dey crase!

hehehe, oh mine mine!!

Sagamite: If I am not a quality husband, is it not a good thing I leave her and go and find someone that likes the quality I have to offer then?

You stay for better for worst for gratuity or not forever till death do you part.
i love those line men
especially if reciting those lines with a rich bobo you know with fake tears, i love you baby,

lol, i know i know. that guy is something. don't be surprise he is calm in real life with 'fire starter' for chic

ronkebp: My dear...he has 'values" he will be bringing into the marraige...naaa!!!!

and what do you mean by "quality wife"? a time in your old age that you should lay back and enjoy quiet time with your wife you are being selfish.
how do you know you are a quality husband? that she wasn't managing a "limpy and no tashi johnny?

Inspite of everything, i hope he take his wife to the hospital.

Sagamite: Have you thought if she was a good wife she would have done enough for him to cherish and adore her by now to the point this could possibly not happen?

I know I will not dream of leaving a quality wife (that has shown me qualities I love) in her old age, but I sure damn will leave a fooool and no marriage vows shouting will stop me. I will tell people where to shove it.

What is lack of discipline or respect in being attracted to a beautiful woman?

If the youngie leaves, is it not better to live a happy medium life than a miserable long life?

what kind of quality you looking for in old age with your wife? s.ex? no more quality sex, love, food, time?
if the wife is not giving him quality se.x anymore, the can solve that by seeing a doctor/communicate. anyway, you never jam

Cassave bread indeed. Why not Akpu bread

why not Wheat? another avenue to increase the rate of diabetes (white refined whatever/bread)

Bad rubbish already, he shouldn't try it.

even if Sagamite doesn't believe in the bible or koran, the oyinbo law of where he resides must apply.

if you have been married for some years, the woman must get something if the marriage eventually ends.

in the UCMJ, i think it is half the time of his service. Automatically you get part or % of his retirement pay
in the Civilian justice system, not too sure how long to be married to get money but you will get money . The man can't run away with what you both worked for even if you were "stay at home" mommy.

ronkebp: Because the "two shall become one", whatever the husband own belongs to the woman also and vice-versa.....now i know you do not beleive in the Bible or the Koran, as long as we are obeying the "be fruitful and multiply law" and "a man shall leave his family and clive to his wife and they shall become one" the man's gratuity technically also belongs to the woman, if the man is sweating; she is also sweating, if he is crying; she is crying, if he is rich; she is rich and if he is poor; she is also poor.

Sagamite:
I mean it, i really do. It has to be so in a perfect world. I mean give her everything and start a new life with whomever.
I'm an advocate of any woman being treated well/right.

even if she is full time housewife and didn't give up any career, she is still entitled to whatever the guy has.


[quote author=dayokanu]In cases where the other spouse didnt give up anything why should he/she take part of his gratuity?

The OP didnt tell us their mother was a full time housewife who gave up her career.

quote]

what their father did might have made their mom to be pshchologically unstable. the would piss up any *good* son even without ifa consultation.

dayokanu: The man was already kicked out of the house he built, What more do they need?

The woman too worked and she has a right to spend her own retirement too anyway she wants.

When the father decided to marry another wife, the children since they were sent to school should find a way to take care of their mom and not to be fighting their father

I repeat no Human should be forced to be in a relationship he doesnt want to be it 6hrs long or 6decades

Would it be better if the man stayed with their mom and killed her at night?

@ Dayokanu

They didn't like the way he treated their old mother.

I'd like to have children who will be defensive for me especially against a guy .
They are boys, i'm sure they know what has been going on in the house without the knowledge of outsiders.

nothing like assuming in this case. read the Original post again.

She is entitled to that money.
don't get it twisted.

lol, better guy talk Ibime, you did a good job, thumb up . I strongly agree that she was entitled to that gratuity.
don't mind the guy. he sold his soul for 1 round of s.ex.