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no matter what, i will still support sistah against any piss off brodah anyday .

[quote author=Kevin_II]Una go talk from now till thy kingdom come, una no go see solution. Sisterhood ko, sisterhood ni. The amount of vileness, vanity, vainglory and anything evish in women will not allow them see the good in other women and appreciate it. You guys are a conquered gender. You owe your validation to men, and so shall it continue to be If una like make una do another beijing conference. The moment a man comes into the picture everything go dabaru...no be woman again? mscheeeeeeeeeeeeeew. sisterhood, my yansh[/quote]

Nice thread.
I think the guys are happy now cuz there is a thread to bash ladies

it is hard to be women. the way we think, i mean we are good at analysis
there are nice ones out there so are there jagudas
imagine if we are all the same cool and icy.
the uniqueness is in the variety.
if you meet a nice/good woman, great.
if you meet a gbagbati, dust your slipper and leave.

we can be our own worst enemy but then variety is the spice of life.

Watery sp.erm can also be a problem. whatever you want to do, discuss with her. Make sure it is all done amicably and not you doing some
secret randevous. Just as it is hard on you, I'm sure it is hard on her too knowing she is unable to give you a child/carry a baby like others no matter how tough she is trying to look.

na caring as in i love you with mouth i go take get better for bank ?
na man with head for him shoulder we dey pray for

hey darl', i'd like to have steak dinner. na that place i wan go chop steak a'la peri peri.

Congrat the Zuckerberg!

no more drinking coke and mountain dew (geeks love those) but better water and egg soup with noodles

ummm, i miss udala esp during raining season when they are sweet.

good memories: singing Udala song my mom used to sing to us.
missing you Nne and I wish i could just run down to eat your usual snail stew today Sunday.

why aren't hospitals helping women with birth control?
during routine checks with pregnant women, we discuss birth control and give idea what they would want to use after child birth.

OYINBOGOJU: See Parasite

You want her to continue collecting his money without addressing the issue of introduction or marriage.

Typical Nigerian woman,they will never let good man go unsratched.


Back to the topic.

Take off from school,get your a job for a year and you will save enough to keep you going
Never give up on your education

Oluwa mi o
kai, na gaji fa

lol
Work permit mean you can join the military? I won't go further .
Military chic for life

SemperFI

spikes C: Where do you get your info self anybody who's given student visa is also allowed work permit. And work permit allows you to join the army,chai,na wa o.
For the job, that is highly possible.

For real? oh

@OP; am not advising you join the army but it is just an option. I hear they pay well with other benefits and yes, you don't even have to go to war.

i wouldn't have accumulated such high bills. that's like more than a semester amt already. each semester, they carry over, add tax, late fees etc. my sch will suspend you/no sign up for class till you pay for last semester. i don't know how you got to that amount.
my question is why accumulate so much? once you smell trouble in the 1st semester, start looking for alternative, talk to your advisor (everyone has one), and cut your expenses such as living in dorms and eating 24meal plans ewww i so loathe that.

em you can't enter any soja by the way. Either citizen or gc to enter into the forces.
SemperFi

in this bad economy, which job will she get outside to safe enough to go to sch? una sef

Spike,
LOA not always allowed for international student unless in serious situation, you don't always get that luxury.

ummmm, that's why the OP should work on that .
i will tell him to pay the debt and once that is done, i will be buying my ticket home.
home ko

Cougar, you will pay for me if i'm in a bad financial situation

choi! shebi the guy already promised to pay, or did you miss that part?

well, i hate shaving my pretty hairy leg

you might want to talk to your student advisor and international student office.
continue to persuade your guy to pay the debt.
research banks, interest rate is high but possible to get a loan.

try everything possible before you make that decision to go back.
stay well and strong.

girl, you tried. i can't imagine living with someone i don't love not to talk of allowing him climb you for sXX not lovemaking (as you put it).

maybe the day you find that juicy mango of your eyes, you would jet off. till then, let's play mate my husband

by the way, you can still love him. have you thought about you both seeing a counselor? have you thought of a nice romantic vacation just you two?
do you watch romantic movies, visit romantic places etc they can make you wanna be in love and be loved.
eat oyster and ton of it.

OP, the positive thing is she gave you rice. that OP is not enough . what is rice without almight meat
let's say she fed you with garri and epa all the time nko? and then you developed some garrum plight/allergical reaction to garri etc
count your blessing...i'm sure what she did no matter what has an impact in your life. e.g you will never allow your kid to be raised by someone else.
cheers, it is well.

i love it and miss it so much.
ogiri in okro soup, ogbono soup with magala, tinko and bonga with nice yellow yam poundo .
thanks mom

dawadawa with miya yakua/kerikeshi da tuwo

love dawa dawa in pete or in Acha/goosegoose.

love mi the Tiv opeye (spell?) made from (locust beans) in a nice Tiv melon soup with dried green Pawpaw.
taste of bliss

well, wait till a day or two more. if you see some foam on top, then okay to blend.
blend till very smooth. pour the smooth paste into a large bowl. pour cold water into the paste and mix.
now get a sieve and filter. pour the chaff in the seive away and keep the one coming out from the seive.
leave overnight. ogi will be at the bottom after pouring the top water away.

Somewhere in the North.

Duniya sai ma akuri

my problem is why he didn't go to the gym to work out. He looked obese.
i feel for him, i think now he will have some peace. Dead man's name for that long? No evil spirit disturbing his sleep?
the guy bold though.

We fear anything about 'dead' in nigeria dead person pix are thrashed even the person's name will not be mentioned.
not to talk of inheriting it.
oh well

if your mom has email, continue to sent her articles such as "evil mothers do to their househelp", ''stop mistreating your househelp", "wicked women and househelp", etc and other touching stories. bombard her email account with those topics.

Why your dad is not dealing with her is what i don't understand. if you do western union her, stop. No more goodies from overseas for her till she changes.

also i think she need some psychological help. unless your dad is afraid of her, i see no reason why your dad can't give her ultimatum to free the poor guy.

don't worry about reconciling with her for now. show her you are really upset with her behavior.

close the door, put the key in my pocket.
straight to the kitchen to put kettle on fire.

yeah you know pant of fire will come to reality that day

Catholic no food before communion. Very strict... agro go dey catch ya belle but holy communion first

iyke648: . U must b an anglican lol. As 4 me my mum leaves d rice and locks d stew. Atimez she selektz all d meat 4rm d stew. So funny

funny childhood memories Sam Milla

got to a point nne stop cooking the rice until after church
then change to cooking the stew on saturday night but no rice.
no food in the morning because i have to take holy communion and drink wine
i found myself remembering the nice stew during Mass

well thanks to Eddie's coming to America movies wey him watch. Ajasoro fit talk too

ronkebp: Sharrap dia!!!! what do you know??....all this grammar you blow here on NL, who knows whether na "under agege bridge" you dey live. All this pose denge' through the internet is not cutting it

Ronke dear i just dey eat this nice moi moi made with atarodo, red pepper, crayfish, mackerel fish and ororo
and say make i tease you small *hugs* .
You are right, you don't have to live there to know what's happening.
I doubt Nigerian live there. Na person wey get 2 head fit do that one.
With all the gra gra nigerians are known for in Nigeria, e no reach Ghetto own

ronkebp: Ouch!!!!!!!!!!!!! Really? Armyoften!!! you gat jokes .....naaa i get liver to live in the ghetto who born me, i live in a very good area, moreso you do not have to live in the ghetto to know what happens there, why do we have T.V News? and all what is do you watch crime T'V at all?

haha, exactly why i picked lunch .

coogar: i prefer it to be dinner so we can cosy up somewhere

so our own Ronkelus upon all ya yagan na for Ghetto you dey for Philly i see why you wan pack go another hell hole Just wanna tease ya
but come o, wetin you see for Philly that place is just too odd for my liking.

davidylan: Depends on where you live. Stay in the suburbs and you will be just fine.

You know, a nice lunch for you (on me) for saying it like it is.
Let's no get carried away by our love for Nigeria. I miss home, but it saddened me what Nigeria has become.
I cried when i visited because things are just sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad.

coogar: crime in the states is not 1/3rd of what happens in nigeria. this ignorance must stop.
abeg - nigeria is worse than any where i have been
to. it's a hell-hole.

@ Chinom,
law enforment in Nigeria laughing and talking to my nice gun
A country where your husband can slap you and beat the day light out of you yet no place to run to?
no cops to call? no anger management clinic, no psycho ward (bless yaba left ) to keep him, no clinical assessment to sort
his brain to find out where some nut or screw upstair aren't well tightened? yet you call that the best place to live? a country
where they build prison walls to protect themselves cuz no law enforcers to protect you, emergency vehicle got no gas/petrol,
no ambulance, or no petrol for ambulance, oh Lordy. Scary
the only place i want to go is my grandparents village to bath in the village river, eat ube and fresh corn, walnut, eat ezigbo ofe etc
and then jet back home, sweet home the land of the free the home of the brave

Sempfer FI

maybe the father is putting the anger of mama leaving on him.
me o, i will not leave my child if I'm leaving Adam's son. My kids dey front, portmateau next, me follow.
i pity the boy in this case. I hope his father finds peace.