₦airaland Forum

when you fall in love with someone who really loves you and has your interest, no more long stories
the ups and downs of life (school, work, marriage, friendship etc) we can't escape.

pets are family too. so the story should belong to 'family' section.
God bless you doggie.

OP, couldnt you have waited a bit before getting her pregnant?

queensmith, you are right. it is hard to be black in the USA. i'm so proud of this guy and wish him the best.
it sadden me when those that clean the malls, schools, hospitals etc are mostly black.
may he continue to be strong to face the challenges ahead.

one and only: Omoge/Hauwa now mo ti tu asheri mi

Pataki: E seun oh.

Yes this is me. Unfortunately, am sorry your username is a new one. So pls who were you in your previous cyber nairaland life?

what is the essence of long term/time courtship? what's the need?

if he can WU a fixed amt to you every month, amount for your upkeeping, then no wahala girl.
tell him you want 1000 dollars or Pounds (more if you have kids) for monthly expenses (make up a very long list too) that you want to quit the job he is complaining about.
see him keep quiet and stop bugging you of time

coogar: https://i53.tinypic.com/2j4brld.gif

haha, weird one

i don't like long courtship and i think it does not really matter. for me, i get bored easily.
after 2 years with a guy and he hasn't proposed, something isn't right.

All the best then with your decision.

Pataki: In a sane environment, PHCN would be sued and fined heavily.

Unfortunately, the only thing Nigerians know how to do is to say: RIP, omase oh, etc.

Only in an insane country.

umm se oju e ni yi?

Pataki, longest of time.

sisi don seize you ni.

oh! what a tragedy!!
it is time traders are made to sell their stuff in a store/plaza/ etc

everywhere in Ibadan is a market place. what a long stretch of markets from dugbe/sango/ui/ etc

so fun!! laughing real hard

3 of you just bend down and work cleaning the whole mess. just wait till mom comes she wil l blame you
take the kids to the bathroom and clean them up.
if there is time, go shop for new one. make sure you seal your poundo and put it where they can't reach
tell inlaw stories then show them pic of the messy poundo.
next time stay close and don't leave them unattended.

modern homes in the US have living room and kitchen in same area. i love it.

Rokiatu, that picture is really cute, that's my ideal kitchen too.
I'd love to have a really big kitchen and huge bedroom.

lol, i knew Dayokanu go come like fly
how are you sha?
the mention of kpesu and food will always bring you
common Nwa oma's dowry you no fit pay, carry go

help me ooo, that na real otolo

get clorox ready nwannem ronkelus

chamotex: 50 wraps of moin moin? Only you
Blimey!

girl, my man will not suffer at all he will never be unhappy not when i wire him head with nice nigerian dishes.
food no go be his problem lai lai, kpesuing will not be his problem too

girl, you paid? you know you can buy my flight ticket from to Philly to do some nice cooking for you.
just got done cooking moi moi for mi myself and i

lots of pepper, tatashe, onion, crayfish and boiled eggs.

ronkebp: Omo you too like food....guess what?!! i paid for moin-moin...will be getting 50 wraps over the weekend, it is going to be me, gari and moin-moin this weekend? dancing alanta!!!

ummm,interesting thread. unu still dey here

eating this snail stew with lots of rodo/habanero pepper and hot rice.
reading with delight.

gal gotta eat. gal gotta eat.
where is my oyinbo ogogoro sef phew!

sighs! can i start this argument with baba agbo today?

thinking of how to handle this cretinous quote.
i will leave you for another day, man!

Sagamite: You are a Arrow!

So you have to be his housemaid, cleaning maid, custodial worker blah blah blah before you do all those?

But you expect him to pay when you go on dates? Because he is your caretaker?

You expect him to come and pick you up from the station if you feel it is unsafe? Because he is your bodygaurd?

You expect him to do something romantic for valentine's day? Because he is your father xmas?

You expect him to take your womanly irrational BS? Because he is your psychiatrist?

haha, very funny!

luckgames: Yes
Pleas don't go buy a land in your name only
before he get back home

Thank you sir. i will sir
I worship the ground he stands on, dobale all the time, satisfied?

mangbede: @armyofone,beta treat ur man right n stop being a feminist.There is so much competition 4 men dis days....Even Abgani Derego is stil unmarried at 29 probably because she talk down on genuine men n refuses to mop or clean theire houses.find out d marital status of oda beuty queens...guys r refusing 2 marry dem cos d luv is broken beyond repairs due to their xter

who told you i'm a feminist?
Mother of God who gave me label

i'm into accounting plus in our kind of job in the mil, he travels more than i do. satisfied?

luckgames: Why should your be in control of the money?

by the way, ofc he can pay for my dinner but not brazillian hair. not a fan of such though.

i can pay for my brazillian hair if i want it. when we are married, well, i will be in control of the money so no need for that

but just because you are paying for my dinner and buying me those hair doesn't mean i should start playing full wifey role nah nah.

na wah for expectation from girlfriend sha.

davidylan: I beg to disagree on the following counts:

1. Women on the web shld stop this pretense pls... stop acting as if you dont do such in your man's house.

2. So you would also agree that a man shld seal up his pockets when it comes to his woman until they are married right? No paying for her dinners, no giving her money for brazilian hair, no helping out with recharge cards once in a while right? Biko pls.

3. There is nothing wrong with the above, it does not mean the woman is a slave and no right thinking dude will treat her as such.



False.

@ davidylan:
I didnt do all those things and prince charming popped the surprise question with huge diamond

david, you will get your iv in the mail.
anyway, the truth is there is more to who you are than meet the eyes. no one size fit all. to each their own bros.

says who? what is she?
pop in to clean his house? is she his housemaid, cleaning maid, custodial worker?
is he going to do the same at her house?
when you are not married yet, biko careful what you do for 'him'
married, okay. not married, eh puhlease

abeg, a real man will still love a lady even if she doesn't do those things you listed.

davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)...

A REAL man will love such a woman and treat her like precious gold.

true thing is Naija men will love you if you have kudi fala fala.

OP, what are you waiting for? why the secret, why not just blow the asheri and let the church crumbles like undone cake?


shine ya eyes before he shines it for you. a two timer is not joker!

so sad!

a wife beater must be given his own bitter pills to swallow. the day the son of adam dare pinches you, same day you give it back through awon boyz or your big brothers.
anyway, rest in peace. may new generation ladies take heed

suffer head soup. when we asked you to appreciate a lady, you started blowing some cretinous grammar .
i wouldn't touch that onugbu soup you cooking with 150ft pole.

by the way, make sure you pluck the bitter leaf from the stem, wash with 1 drum of water, leave some bitter and blend
with grinding stone. also use atarodo and ata wewe for the soup.
make yellow garri eba not some yeye poundo.

no too much salt or maggi okay.
add crayfish and prawns.

attempting indeed

Sagamite: I am actually about to attempt cooking bitter leaf soup for the first time in my life right now.

at # 7, ummm waiting to exhale! when they are expected to get done real quick and start bring home huge bacon?

Red carpet?
wow!!
why are the fat ones not on buba and iro or wrapper and blouse?