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eating this nice ofe snail with hot rice.
and laughing at that epistle according to Saga.

oh well, let donkey fly on

Sagamite, go run bath for me and stop making mouth here . also place the scented candles by the side of the tub . bring my white towel and not the red one. How many times do i say that again eh?
i'm going to bed early. please feed the kids and get their daytime clothes ready for tmr.
where is the charcoal grill? the steak yesterday was not peppery, too hard. marinate and cook it longer next time.

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

grabbing my spinach salad and italian dressing with huge fork and enjoy this rap.

tori don get Kleg

There are simple way to do it without sounding off.
send money thru Des or both names eg Des and bomboi etc then pass the info to them that Des sent something little to them.
i'm sure they will learn to say something as simple as 'thank you Des''

I don't think ignoring it or asking God to put the frustration away will make things better. there is limit to what we human can take. the best is you talk to him, to make sure they show appreciation to whatever help no matter how small you and your family give them.
one thing i know is that if the wifey did not support (direct or indirectly, I doubt the guy will be able to sent money).
Desirel, talk to your husband, tell him you want to hear thank you from his people whenever money/stuff is sent to them.

shushu: desirel,
actually that lack of courtesy is not peculiar to you because you are a non nigerian wife. It also happens to some Nigerian wives as well.It does my head in as well, but, try to ignore those petty things.Everytime it bothers you, if you are a christian ask God to help take that frustration away, After a while, you wont care whether or not they call you, say thank you etc.

na wah o, naija guy car that depreciates na that be prized something?
ummm, well op focus on school and ya baby . . . if he is paying you to get a cab, fine. no no to Okada.
Better ya oga drop off baby on the way. That's what i see pple with one car do here.
They drop off their kid while their madam ride the bus to work/school.
but ya oga selfish leaving wifey and baby to endure hardship eh
oh well.

Happy Belated Birthday lady
many happy returns!!
when you are in town, let me know. I plan to take you to one nice resturant
but i can still cook your favorite obe and plantain amala for you sha.

ummmm,
like she can't ask you to go to hell too
when you are done acting up and putting up false toughie here, no forget to make dinner. also make the steak well cooked too.
oh, please change that grill to charco grill and put lot of pepper while marinating it.
also, pick up some scented candle for the bath

Sagamite: So fucking well said.

I was thinking about it about 30 mins ago to say it on NL but it slipped my mind.

So absolutely fcking well said.

I have learnt in life that you can rarely be happy with a woman and you are not mature enough for long-term relationship with a woman until you are capable of telling her to go to hell if needs be and she knows you would.

I have become fcking good at that shyt men. I am a professional! None of that "You are everything BS".

I let them know I can and would move on. Behave or you are a goner! No matter how fine you are, there are hundreds of you out there and I am good at getting them.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Apc_g_ZSZEE

i do see it in african/asian store in US. I once saw a young lady buying the hefty pack (christmas time).
I hate that thing with a passion. I rather not eat african christmas party food

how can someone western union money in this case?

blend atarodo or dried ata wewe and mixed with werepe and shower that man with it.
organize some awon boyz to give it back to him. pay them handsomely so they deal with him mercilessly. about time your sistah pack her things and vamoose. beating her during preg cuz of bean Chineke God of John the Baptist!!!
no need to stay no more. from hospital to parents home. that man must be dealt with.

Single mom life is really hard i agree. One used to bring her baby to class. Put the baby on top her desk while still on phone arguing with
boyfriend who didn't turn up to pick up the child like promised.
You should see how they fight over one baby thing or the other.
I don't pray for such for my future children.

i guess he said that cuz Nigeria can't afford another mouth to feed

[quote author=~Kaylee~]I am struggling to understand the emboldened. By saying it should be outlawed, what exactly do you mean? Are you inferring that punitive measures should be taken against anyone who gets pregnant during [her] teenage years?[/quote]

@ San abover me,
why disown her?

boy/girls should be close to their parents enough to share such life turning circumstance.

it is sad that girls are left alone to carry the headache.

I don't know what I will do in such situation. But I think as long as she wasn't raped, I will go through it all with her.
Born finish and oya go back to school. me and the boy parents will be playing mommys.

davidylan: Cancel the wedding. The fact that the thought even popped into your head at all means you dont truly love this man enough if not no sacrifice would be too much to make for your marriage.
Where was this man all the time you were looking for a job?

Take your job... true good men are scarce but the Lord will provide for you. You just have to look well.

good idea . There are plenty fishes in the river.
the fact that the job was so hard to find will be one reason why I won't quit it cuz of some son's of Adam.
We marry, you relocate or come visiting, look for job where my good job is.
if you say no, then please mon find ya way.
there are many kondo out there and i can easily and discreetly order Love Machine from oversea

i would have said take your guy and forget the job but the thing now is African guy want a woman who will not piranha on him. you hear them all the time on NL shebi . Gone are the days when a man won't bug if new wifey is not brining in ego/kudi/owo.
2 options:
take the job, buy a big dilly
take the job, marry and stay where you are till you find job where he is

if the job pays real good, my sister take it. this hard economic if you chop finish for bed, food must be on the table.
you plus your guy could come to an agreement. come visiting etc.

RIP to the dead. So sad
my heartfelt condolence to OP and everyone who lost someone.
May you all be comforted by good memories.

Rest In Peace.

Goodnight

Sagamite: Yep! He is having similar fury to the one I am having when armyofone says I fancy the vile thing.

Like him, I am deliberating whether to shoot armyofone or not for that insult.

Carry on!!

i love gun battle .

when a guy is unecessarily arguing with a lady, it tells the guy like/love such gal
Saga and Cooger are just acting up.

ronkebp: Guys (Sagamite and Coogar) you both should free Queensmith and you all will say na women get bad-belle pass!!!! what i am reading on here is real bad belle, from men for that matter!!!!

lol, girl i have told him eions ago to join West Point before i can give him eyes sef
see me o .

[quote author=*Ileke-IdI]armyofone, is dayo stalking you again? na wa o,dayo, the girl is not ready for pikin o [/quote][quote author=*Ileke-IdI]

girl, congratulation!!! . you didn't iv Omoge to the naming to come wack some real ewa ati rice, iyan ati elegusi eh?
i know you will be a doting mom

[quote author=*Ileke-IdI]I'm actually a nursing mother now, if anyone cares to know.[/quote]

you heard right, that the husband is s.ex starved.
don't play with a desperate girl and a s.ex starved guy.

OP, honest fear i see. well, this is tough cuz mama refused to get involved.
Can you send the girl a very long errand when you know your guy is coming?
money is important to your mom, i wish she would have talk decency into the girl.

Dayo, thank you.

i read one of your post yesterday in one other thread . You can be good and talk sense when you allow yourself
original bad boy

ummm, sorry you can't afford the bride price and 'list".
now gerraway from my front and clean up when you wrote up there, thank you again for doing just that.

dayokanu: Modify wetin, Answer me sharp sharp, You know say i don get you for mind since

Survival instinct.

Sagamite: You are wrong that it is only an evil-minded lady, who will hate on another sister. Probably 90% of women I have met in my life (and I have met alot ) casually hate on other women and I don't think they are evil-minded people. I just think they are women. It is a natural state, they always see other women as competition especially if they feel she has a lot going for her. If she is in the gutters or butters (I hope you like my rhymes ), they are good at having empathy for her, as they are more comfortable with her. No wonder everytime you go to a club, you see a fine girl with a horrible looking/obese friend. This happend alot in teen and early 20s girlfriendships. The fine girl is happy to use the friend to be used as a contrast against her to emphasis her own good features. The friend on the other hand would do anything possible to block any good guy approaching her. Awon weere meji (two mad people).

quite interesting take. Personally for me all the ones i have around me are doing well for themselves (money/guys/marriage/work/education)
so no competition nor have i experienced one.
Soja for life!
SemperFi.

dayo, Please i'd appreciate you modifying your post, thanks.

oh goodness!! how can i read those long epistle according to Saga? just to cast ojuju on ladies you wrote that
oh well
Ronkelus, how now, Sanu da zuwa. Yaya mijin da yara?

You this lenge lenge guy, commot for road

dayokanu: Armyofone,

You now see reasons why I must shine your Kongo wella before we marry

[quote author=c.fours]If you don't have the patience any more, the solution will be for both of you to agree to sleep with other people. and have child(ren) that way.
sometimes, the infertility comes from the male is why i suggest both of you to do it.[/quote]Right! Gbam! Exactly! One man can't go chopulate leaving the poor woman at home feeling sorry for herself. All is fair in love and Basketball War choping outside your marriage. No be only OP the thing dey pain.