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girl OP, why are you not going to the club with him? you don't need to call just go with him.

go shopping for that sleeky dress and go get your groove and funky side on with him.

kinda scary. i'm about to start shopping at natural food store like trader joe.

ileke, bobo yen ko? I need to give him my monthly list for natural food now.

Cheers my bros.

you are not a victim but knowingly chopulate.

ofcourse, very 99% possible you are the daddy to the cute little one. Now don't push the poor gal into abortion.
if i were you, i will start planning the wedding, buy baby stuff and life goes on. If she was good enough to chopulate, what else?

Please do not do chop and run. Karma is a bi.tch

that lil tadpole is always around fishflying with the speed of lightening that even withdrawal won't save u.

Congrat my brother.
Welcome to daddyship.

I agree, have that ''we must talk meeting'' and stand your ground. You've tried your best.

dayokanu: You would have to call your husband for a talk and spill it out just like you did here.

He would have to relocate his family out of that place cos since 2010, No on e would say you did not try

dayo, you hear

Abomination! beating you in your little child presence?

Are you still waiting for validation?
By now you should have gathered some naija awon boyz to give him a good beating same day you are moving out.
when you plan to move, take the key along and throw it away.

Either way, OP it is time you leave that marriage. Look for divorce lawyer and get that paper. The man is bitter so run while you are still alive.
You need peace of mind for yourself and your child.

i go, hey Babes, how was your day muah muah, oh really tell me about it.

take his bag, check for any cookies/goodies for me, drop lunch bag in the sink, sit him down, help unbutton him, kiss him again, take his boots off, one huge hug. we then sit and chat about work. then we both go into the kitchen to get dinner ready.

on a day i dey vex, if i'm home, i'm up in the bedroom watching Lifetime Network or stay back at work/lab/library etc for some hours so he gets home before me .

wasted life, wasted lives. A woman gave birth to those animals!

i hope they face the firing squad.
Anuofias
Useless criminals.
rap.e someone for 12 hours?
Satan spawn!

Gidan Allah.

I just feel like sitting in that fall and have the water fall on me.

i love hypenated names. I'm gonna have it.

Hauwa Brad-Pete
Armyofone Marine-Army
Omoge King-Kong

afam4eva: You know, i've never really clicked with Igbo girls because they're very powerful and strong and can be domineering considering the fact that i'm a very quiet person. That's not to say that if i meet an Igbo girl that possesses the quality i want in a woman, i won't marry her. I will definitely do. But right now, my torchlight is on Yoruba girls.

lol biko
if you don't want that cuz they are strong and domineering,
then it can easily be assumed that you like the ones you can dominate

volum. . . right, was that his excuse? oh well
everyone is given 2weeks each year. some could easily take more break too.
but you know, if they say they can't afford flight ticket, that's undestandable.
excuse for not having time due to work? phu leese now.

Dubemkelly: Have seen such weddings conducted in my family,it happens if da guy aint in twn saddled wit da voluminous working conditions in disapora,I think its quite acceptable if pix r used in absentia or d groom's brother standing in 4 da groom,after which d bride goes 2 meet her hubby wherever he resides,it happns nd has worked 4 my relatives who dd dat....The one I hate wit passion is d wife staying behind after da whole thing

groom brother? haba!

abi, i think it is best they marry where they are oversea no matter what kind of gal they have around . bad gal good for Nigeria man
instead of having a gal in Nigeria suffer in front of 'his' picture.

quite funny. the idea of sitting beside a picture is so .

oversea virus still fit catch that ice cool wifey from nigeria now

A strong black woman, a powerful breed who stoops to conquer. That's the Nigerian woman of today no matter what tribe.

so you are looking for the one you can easily dominate eh,

i thought i have heard it all, sighs!

SempferFI

@dayokanu

show me your friend and i'd tell you who you are

this kin marriage, agro dey catch me.

Ronkelicus, yaya?
hahaha, anyway I submitted my application still waiting for approval

the OP should buy and send herself a card signed
"I love you so much on your birthday and forever"
Jazzy
and put it on the table where he would see it.

i read somewhere that's also abortion. so not yet uhuru. do you know the trauma and emotional pains that person is going through that first 72 hours? dont blame them.

toshmann: and the abortion debate rages on . . . . now it's about abortion due to r-a-p-e.

come to think of it, i guess i'm really really really extremist when it comes to abortions. i reject abortion even in ra-pe, incest or whatever conditions. abortion is evil and MUST never be tolerated by any sane society. and whatever the cause of the unwanted pregnancy, the unborn baby in the womb is INNOCENT and MUST not be punished with death.

my solutions: if a woman is raped, she should go to the hospital asap(as well as the police of course), get medications for STDs as well as emergency contraception. there are contraceptives that can be used within 72hrs post sex that can work. some even withing 120hrs post sex that will work very well. not when a girl is raped she stays home and then comes after some months when she's pregnant to ask for abortions.

however, there is nothing like "legitimate ra-pe" . . r-ape is rap-e and must be condemned

it isn't right for a woman to be forced to carry a r.apist baby.
some republicans not sure what they think with

OP,

just try forget cooking dinner.
you got to have your own invented way of dealing with this kin case. so that next time he will celebrate it a day ahead. girl, open your eyes.
if you allow him go a yard, he'd go the whole nine yard.
snip it in the bud early
that kin behavior is unacceptable to 21st century lady.

Tell us about it, she is 36 and you are? 35, 36, 40,45, 46

instead of you getting busy with your new wife enjoying first year of marriage, working and saving money for the children on the way you are here complaining about religion the bane of nigeria problem eh? you chop belleful tweety.

the sp.erm isn't as good after 35 just as the female egg after 35.
better get your act together and come back to reality.

how i so miss the North.
sleeping under the dongoyaro tree enjoying the afternoon breeze with my parents.

eating fried jada and soaking kunu zaki zaki or eating goose goose/pete. listening to Almajiris singing lai lai lo lo while asking for old tuwo
life in the North, nostalgic.

Sigh!

I hope the father took his child with him after the dirty slaps that made madam to see passing stars. I think he has no right to slap the wifey. Just take your daughter away in peace.
one thing i pray is not to have family members coming to stay with us (mine or his). Too much hassle and i love my peace of mind.

dayo take note

LMAO
so freaking hilarous

though the Anthem can be moving. got to see them playing it in church (vet day, july 4 etc) the oyinbo sef face will be red.

but for you Afam, you really made me laugh. So patriotic! you should be given free visa

isn't he the head of the hawce? that's bad behavior starting fight and holding grudge with his wife. ha, you the one doing the begging?
now why should head of the house starts malice and expect you to beg or like someone said do dobale or submitting what?

he should be pleading for forgiveness with 24 roses or else take a hike.
keep yourself busy till he stop sulking

crazy about his money nothing beat that.

yeah right, you guys well done with the fear factor. RFID right, one giant step for mankind.
Hen-emies at work over the hen-tanet

gaskiya, a ma na sha kwaya yanzu so i am for it

it is true mana, those sleepless night when he was making the dough, wifey was home taking care of the homefront, leading behind the scene.
behind every successful man, there is a woman working behind. So she gotta have it.

[quote author=Sisi_Kill]Oh oh Hauwa, kin shiga uku yau [/quote]

Sagamite:

Crase girl!

where have ya been and how are you?

sigh! any picture of Ojoo high school and Army day (same area). alengogo huh glorious day gone by when they came to the army school for inter house sport...ummm men!! just few moons ago and here is what we got?

o ma se o.

God bless America