₦airaland Forum

I read a journal where it said male pills will be out soon. maybe it will save many guys/girls prayers of not getting pregnant. seems many don't know that when you have unprotect sex, your chance of getting preg is 100%.
you know, guy takes pill this month, gal takes the pill next month. no more worries for abortion.

umm odikwa risky

my focus is for those carpenters and food sellers having 8-9 children. there should be something like PlannedParentshold for them.

she should have stayed in the US and get a job. life goes on.

ronkebp, lol well just trying to make it lighter for dayo now. no monopoly at all

washing car and mowing are now hard work for a guy to say i wont do the dish i ate cuz i mow my home lawn, ummmm to each his/her own o.
washing car is soooooooooooo fun same with mowing. i love those put on short and fancy top and scrub while greeting, chatting and waving to neighbors/passerby. that kin thing naija man like and they won't let a woman do it 
pls man do the dish after lunch, i will be outside mowing

tpia, i love nigerian coconut candy. i have tried to make it here but not coming out well. so i go with store bought coconut macaroon.

western style and i'm liking it i think we should have Target, Walmart etc too. No more street trading.

they should do the same all over the country now.

maybe pple should be eating out more there are healthy choices. at least one less housework to worry about. i love cooking and can make any meal (nig food take long to prep sha) but if i have a man who will not help with cooking, not help setting table, not help washing/loading the machine and unpacking if home, then we better be eating out, ordering chinese/take out/pizza 

for laundry, well let him use one boxer, jeans, work clothes etc for the whole week. less clothes to wash  .
for making the bed, it is a must for me so whoever get off the bed last should do it. 
for house cleaning, get someone to do it and pay.

for lawn, we can both take turns. washing car, do drive thru. we both don't want extra cost, then lets do it together. it's not too hard now eh?

no matter if the woman is doing part time job, housework should not be left for one person. in a home where we both use/dirty up, dont expect me alone to be doing the work, common now.

oh dear, and oga refuses to wash abi
let me buy my ticket to london, pls safe me a month worth of cloth to wash

naijababe:
^ Abeg, we dey recession for UK, my kids especially my son wears two sets of clothing per day. If I switch to dry cleaning, we may not have money left for food

doing laundry is hard, sort is not fun. then folding ''huge sigh'' the folding part is harder. for now, i take them to dry cleaner. i tire to wash my clothes

i donnt like watery egusi soup @ last pix i can imagine pursuing the soup to my elbow

they should open more all over the place, even in villages. Nigeria should stop making one place more important than the other. it is abt time no more street trade, street trading is partly why Nigeria is dirty

which one is kulu kulu again

kulu is a name in the North

apart from that, the law protect women here. i just want things to be different for women in nigeria.

ThiefOfHearts:
army woman like you. Only a fool would dare

how are you doing Karma?

na so ooo, i love attending Vag.ina Monologue, woman don suffer tire for this life and pple like coogar and Jonnadone appreciate we being disciplined, oh well.
me i no take my life play, no man born of a woman will ever put his hands on me.

@ cotton
Thank God, you are in a better place. cheer up 

cooger cooger, cooger, stop the jara you adding now

the number of women getting banged up for domestic abuse increased sharply in the last 5 years.
prosecutors keep wondering why such a sudden increase. well. . . .the answer is, men have been keeping quiet about it for hundreds of years!!

lie, not true pant on fire it is the other way round. women have been keeping quiet about it since the beginning of time.

where do some of your guys find your own kind of gal from? Yaba left? how unpleasant!

yet it shouldn't warrant hitting/beating.

coogar:
debate and argue with a woman throwing objects in every direction. . . .
how pleasant!!!

talk it out, argue, debate the situation, pros and cons it etc. but not by using your hands, how hard? they say men don't know how to talk, really?? go see them argueing abt games/soccer/football etc.

i think its anger management on the male part.

9to5365:
Sorry, I seem to be missing somthing here.  As johndoe said beating your wife is legal in Nigeria, our culture supports it and religions ok it. So what is the problem or rather the point of this thread?
It seems that the point is an attempt by people who live outside Nigeria to change us. Now how patronising is that?

ROFLMAO kai! na gaji

@coogar
for your friend:
you cause problem at home and run away, coming back much later to ask for food and s.hag? no, some prefer you dont just take car key and run away. stay and talk it out esp if you the cause of the problem in the first place  

my sister, it is a stinking situation o.
to have Johndoe talking abt 'husband disciplining his wife'' is a rude shock i was thinking we are out of the wood  
oh well.

have plan B ladies, have plan B.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=758548.msg9147598#msg9147598 date=1316023239]OMOGE

This is the generation of Nigerian men we were discussing in the other thread.
Aint it just a shame. Wife beaters in the making.[/quote]

i think some nigerian ladies outside nig don't know the resources available to them.

Outstrip:
Please to the poster who has a friend that lives in the US and let her husband turn her into a cripple please tell your friend to have her head examined. She is wicked. To raise a child in that environment. For what reason. She needs to be careful because God has entrusted those children to her and it is a sin to put those children through that mess. i cannot even imagine. God please because I will be happy to dance to the music for running someone over for doing that to my sister not even to me. What nonsense. I cannot imagine the horrow that child went through that moment when he was screaming. some women really need to stop being so silly.

coogar, heard you are Sauron/hannibal/ ati be be lo

thought you've changed all the while.

WOW!!!

coogar:
and your mother did the world a worse disservice by bringing a nincompoop like yourself to the world with your utter bitterness and disgraceful chain of thoughts. talking about someone's mother - do you have one?

crying? so you can see my tears from where you are standing?
silly twit.

if a woman hits you, end the relationship? if a wife hits a husband, he should end the marriage as well?
such infantile remarks from a drug-fiend like yourself. some people take their marriage seriously, not like you do with your flings and booty calls.
divorce is a sin(unless tainted with infidelity). if a divorcee remarries again, she's an adulteress and the man she marries is also an adulterer. people don't just leave their marriages at the first sign of trouble. marriage has never been a bed of roses for anyone. but how would you know? you never stayed with your parents!

your ex flogged you because someone came to report him to you?
biko, are you really serious about these stuffs or you are on a wind-up?

how is it possible for a man to just wake up and start beating his wife?
unbelievable. . . .women are excellent story tellers when it comes to relationships so i cannot be convinced with your tales by moonlight.

not surprise, even the devil quoted Jesus  . a woman should stay in an abusive marriage? odikwa risky o.

well, thank God for God's own country where many Nigerian guys wouldn't try such nonsense. they usually end up in jail where criminals shove their index finger inside their an.u.s.

xcuse me, my name is Walter, are you calling me?
which is wader again na prison warder??


[quote author=okada_man link=topic=759141.msg9146016#msg9146016 date=1316010700]Their is nothing wrong with saying tharteeen or pronouncing things with the inflection and accent of your grandmother. Embrace your own uniqueness.  

British  = water
American = wa[b]d[/b]er

Nigeria = warthaa

All get meaning. Embrace your own, it's not by force to conform.[/quote]

to be honest, simply because women push their men to the breaking point with ''our'' mouth should not be an excuse to beat a woman. it is just so not right.
debrief dear, glad you left. i think that's the best option. i hope they are do advert the program so many nigerian women be aware of help.

Ron Paul would prefer an adult who doesn't have health insurance be left to die because to him, it is the beauty of freedom
now why are republicans bothered about Planned Parenthood doing abortion? isn't it also the beauty of freedom?

Tayo, please help me here

new generation of nig ladies should learn how to protect themselves. there are no cop to call so when in Uni learn karate, boxing, judo, etc. learn so that if you marry a miserable wife beater, you have already acquire all the protective skills. fight back, i mean don't just fold your hands and cry . . .  
if he gives you one blow, give him back, grab his epon and fight.
if you don't have the power to fight, please dump him real quick like it's hot, ofc it is hot.

thank God for the system of obodo O. i will not take even a pinch from any unfortunate son of Adam. you as well as pinches me, you are going to spend the night in Jail.

true, naija man must take advantage of any situation with their ever itchy long thomas

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=757744.msg9137584#msg9137584 date=1315916895]like i said, its a common habit with nigerian men.

the lady doesnt even have to be in any kind of distress.[/quote]

i have a juicy/delicious secret recipe for pasta and co .
Missy any idea how to market it?

haha, bros na so we see am
I left too, missing that city and its famous sandwich so much. thinking of going back there for PG, i just love the winter.
i miss my school environment too.
glad say you dey kampe bo iroko no dey broke  .

davidylan:
my sister, i'm sure this is hauwa in disguise. 
I dey kampe, i left Rochy over a year ago.