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Pejah97:
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Taaar na black man... na scam
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Iamzealousman:
There's this girl I met in a city, when I met her I was working. She's a good girl. Though she's independent financially. I asked her out once last year August she said no. Though ever since I asked her out she started moving more closer to me.
But unfortunately I lost my job that same August and I wasn't motivated with her anymore. Because she became financially better than me and all sort.
I moved away from that city in search of a job, till now I have not gotten another job.
But around February this year, she called me to inform me that she's gotten a job. And she complained that I haven't been calling her. That are we fighting?
I ensured I stopped contacting her anymore ever since I left that city.
I noticed after she got to Lagos she calls me more often. Even with the fact that I told her of my job status.(unemployed). She still keep calling
In fact around June this year she told me that she misses me. I said okay that I missed her more.
She has been trying to get jobs for me tho. She even informed me of a vacancy at her place of work. But unfortunately I missed out at the last stage of the interview.

Tho I like this girl but dating a girl financially buoyant than me is a problem.
And I don't really know what she wants if it's a relationship or friendship.
I wanted a relationship with her tho.

Part of the reasons why I don't know what she wants is that when we were in the same city. We go to church programs together etc and after work every day we walk together. People noticed this and they thought we were dating so she said we shouldn't walk openly together.

Now, I don't even call her she's the one that calls

Why you Dey do like pikin ask her out again know what’s up

Pejah97:
the said person on WhatsApp o.

Na black man too?

LiberatedGirl:
It's 2021 and alot of people are still doing large Weddings in a day and age where Divorce has reached Epidemic Proportions. All this Brides Maids Crap and Dancing Crap. You can get married at the Registry or do a small church Wedding on Tuesday when everyone is at work. But the African is a Coward " What will people say ! " is more important than doing the sensible thing. All africans can do is Party while their mates in America are inventing things, their mates in China are manufacturing things. These days a woman looks forward to her Wedding in Africa because Marriage to most women is their Biggest Achievement in life. So Sad. Something so basic. Anyway people still throw Birthday parties as if they have just invented Fuelless Cars and are celebrating the achievement. A Birthday is a Time to reflect on your life and not a time to celebrate. What are you celebrating ? Did you plan your Birth ? Did you dig a tunnel and come out on that day ?. I am not Jehovah's Witness but the best and most meaningful Birthday parties are with just immediate family alone. It's a bit of a Circus to invite people. Anyway Africans are a highly unserious lot of people all they do is party while their peers abroad are working hard. The black man dances and parties then wonders why he is poor and his economy is in pieces.

I thought we said we don’t want to be slaves to the white and not copy their way of life? Hypocrite

Ammishaddai:
Black American are just like the rest of us here, and their level of reasoning is pretty much like ours , so why would I want to mingle with someone who's on my own class and level ? It doesn't make sense to me ...

lol in your own explanation
The oyinbo you want to get married to is daftt for wanting to mingle with you because you are below her class and level, abi help me understand this oo

Pejah97:
I have been chatting with this dude who claims to be in the US and he said he gonna send me some stuff.

So today I receive this massage


Picture 1 is the massage I received from the claim emirate...

Picture 2 is the receipt he sent to me
Another level of scam?

*I have equally chat with him on video

Lol old format, who did you chat on video?

Ayojideonline:
....lol ...I see you dont have much of the idea. ...How it works, .......If disbursed actually ....it already carries added interest, so the actual money sent cannot repay it back. He must include the added interest. That is if he got the disbursement anyways. He should check his OPay App!

Lol true sha

Met her early this year. Flew in from the states because of her. The relationship has been a dream come true but.....
I'm a single father and ladies tend to turn me to an ATM once they know who I really am. The money is not a problem but this relationship is just too sweet to allow it crash. I've been so deceptive to the extent that she virtually feeds me and pays my bills. All of them.Not knowing that I've bought a house for her close to her area. Amongst so many other things I've done for her in secret without her knowledge. I did this because I'm a master at eating breakfast. Can someone advice me on how to break the news to her and if you were her how will you feel for what I've done. I'm not new to this forum so I'll be expecting your insults and positive contribution.
PS. I want to marry her thus this inquiry.

Fake story

YoungRay007:
I remember when I visited Thailand last year, I noticed that Asian ladies were very beautiful and sexy. I slept with Indian, Chinese and Thai ladies. But it was the Japanese ladies that burst my head. Those ladies have a very tight pussy and standing brest, they cry out loud when I am banging them and this intensify the pleasure. Share your experience

Una go just fine Nairaland Dey lie han han iro baye yin je o

E no get anything you fit tiff for the company

SundayNightGist:
Apart from being chronic masturbators, most virgins (male and female) can easily be heard saying "I've done every other thing apart from penetrative sex…" What the actual…?!
 
Who's deceiving who?
Why rob Peter to pay Paul?
What kind of mago mago is this?
 
Does it now mean that it is impossible to be a virgin 100% without any form of sexual involvement?

Rest Oga
Check meaning of virgin and rest

If you didn’t take loan and it reflected in your account then refund na
Oga

Tobam7302:
I don't know why I am just different from everyone. For most of my life I have always been the quiet one in any group even if I wish I could also be free like anyone else.

And now I am in the university. I am still the same maybe even worse, I am pratically a loner now. The virtual stuff we are doing is not even helping matter at all.

Before I gained admission I have always hoped that university will probably change me, but I am in 200 level now nothing has changed. It's like I don't have that fast thinking to give good replies to conversations (especially Yoruba ). And my friend is like the complete opposite of me; free with everyone, funny, witty with words and stuffs.

I can count the number of things I say per day. I just want to get better than this and meet new people. I am going to be 20 next year, yet no babe or even female friends. Shey I even get male sef talkless of female.

My parents sef are probably hoping for some changes. One of my Granny's last words to me was 'when will you not be shy again'. I just laughed then but it's really serious to me... No day pass without me thinking about this.

I just envy people that are just so fucking good at talking, especially this funny bangers people do ( I am so bad at this. I will probably just bore the person out).

The worst part is the way people treat you like a kid just because I don't talk the way, I am supposed to. I am just depressed. Anytime I go out, I always come back depressed, why?. When I see the quality of conversations people have and how fun and confident they are talking. My friend is probably tired of me. Phone calls sef na trouble. No one calls me except my parents.


What do I do to be normal, how do I live like others and just enjoy life? I have even thought about taking weed to help me that's how desperate I am.

If you have experienced this before please how did you overcome.This is really draining me. I just wanted to let it all out sorry if the post is long.

Everyone not same, take solace in online chatting, download bumble, tinder and chat

He’s not a Nigerian school drop out o, before you think of dropping out, na uk he drop out oo

Amudeneogu:
I met this lady something in july this year and we started a serious relationship but i have never asked her for sex, how do you see it?

Depends on the lady, if you want to wife her, why not leave it, if she’s a CHopping type of lady then chop

Sambaby7640:
Mehn!

Lol

luluosas:
Shake up my dear, damn that depression.
Be hopeful, job will come someday

Thanks man
I love this words

Stephen2324:
How can you have sex with another guy just because the guy was nice to you, when you’re getting married in February.

How does this gender reason?

Give us the download

naijaman2225:
DON'T BE OVERLY DEPRESSED BRO. TRY AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND CONTINUE PUSHING. THE GOOD LORD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH.

Amen thanks mab

Nicklaus619:
Good day Nairalanders.
So I saw a thread that hit front page about ways of getting new jobs and I remembered this my personal experience and decided to share


I remembered applying for work at the federal Inland Revenue service here in Abuja, immediately after my service by the way i studied economics , so names was shortlisted for interview, we wrote the test and out of 15,000 candidates, though exams was scheduled separate days because of number of applicants , 50 was successfull and was short listed boom I checked and my name was number 18, my joy knew no bound, I didn't tell anyone as I wanted to take my people by surprise including my parents and siblings.
after that interview, they invited us for an oral interview.

I attended the interview and after the interview, 35 name was successful, I checked boom my name was number 12 on the list,
After the interview, we where all given breakdown of how the salary was like, omo, I see money tears dropped from my eyes, I was anticipating how to renovate my family house after working like for 6 months and changing my parents car as it was well deserved,

After the interview we where waiting for a mail to confirm our employment letter and posting, after waiting for 2 weeks no news, I went to the headquarters were we did our interview and was reliably informed that new recruit had resume work since, I made further inquiry and I was made to understand that the final interview was done on Sunday, and our names were replaced with people that lobbied,
I shouted, on Sunday, ?? Government work?? And we where never informed and
minimum of 7million naira was used to swap our names with the people that paid.

I find cry, I no see, I was depressed for almost 2 months, my babe will come and see me emantiating by the day as I refuse to eat, this girl will come to my house and cry from Morning till night begging me to eat, chai true love they shaa, love really shark her that year, but I bounced back to my feet and moved on.
And thank God, I am doing well for myself, and I pray that the Lord continues to shower me and everyone that refuse to give up blessings in abundance.

Most times when you see people contemplating suicide on the media, don't use it as a joke, encourage them not to commit suicide if u must comment, because most people vent their frustrations on the media waiting for validation, and believe me they do take anything said to them to heart 100%, unlike other people out there, I never contemplated suicide because I know I have got a thick skin and can survive the street, one of the advantages of being street smart, e never get wetin eye never see, so trolling and name calling and shaming on the internet don't move people like me, learn how to develop a thick skin in every situation like this. Most importantly don't ever wait for media validation in your personal life, what the media says don't mean nothing and won't affect you in anyway, know this and know peace

I hope someone learnt one or two things from my story.

This is like my story now
I’m so so depressed right now man
I need a job sha

lovedoctor26:
How much is d latest price?

69k

If it’s you or your sister, will you ask her to wait

Washere jare

dearie:
Guy you may not have failed it. I know someone who got an invite to come for the oral interview and later got another message to disregard it. Never to hear from them again. It is well with this country!

Omo e mad ooo
Chai this one is too bad sha

towax001:
Hello houz...am a Medical lab scientist, is there any link to check if one actually pass the CBT?

No link if you fail they won’t call you, they didn’t call me too, mean say I fail be that lol

They have called people already to start work, congrats to those who got it

We wey no get God go do better one

EkehPraise:
Honestly I am not trying to sound like a broken record though I'm hurting badly because I don't know how to feel, but this my babe that I've been dating for the past 2 years hardly calls me. Times without number we have talked about it and she promised to improve but that has not been the case.

We have discussed marriage plans and also introduced each other to our families hoping to give it a go ahead come 2022 by God's grace which I know she will be happy to settle with me but two days ago during my break time from work I checked my phone and as usual was about calling her then it occurred to me that this is what I do everyday from good morning to goodnight no calls from her except I call or chat first so I decided not to call or chat yet till now nothing from her.

She has been online on whatsapp, I am sure she calls other people. I have made up my mind not to call or write to her first and if she doesn't reach out to me then I will just bone and move on gently.

Guy make sure you update us after Benching her oo

blank:
It's working for me because I joined one of the big 4 early and hot a fantastic job right after it. However, it's not been the same story for most of my classmates. Those that are successful is inspite of being a CA not because of it.

Cutting to the chase; join a recognized accounting firm and build your experience. That's really when your CA will count.

Thank you for that.. how will I know when they recruiting, the big 4 ma

Lol

People gazette
They can carry any news verified or not
But then we saw it coming bubu don get their time

amiibaby:
no am actually in jos

Alright no problem

amiibaby:
yes

Ok are you working in Lagos?