fati2001:
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DON'T MARRY SO THAT YOU CAN SEX FREELY, SINCE THAT'S YOUR AIM.

Best advice so far. Tell him sis. Most dogs and goats are becoming better than many Nigerian men

Nazgul:


I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

It's true dat some girls can be annoying but not all. I no there are still some decent girls out there

ok

CrazyMan:

Relax, she didn't confront you that means she isn't angry with what you said. If she found what you said irrating she would have responded directly to you and not involved a third party (her house help)

When she comes back, greet her normally and continue with your job, it's most likely that she'll let it slide or informally ask you what you meant by that statement. If the later is the case, simply tell her that you were appreciating God's creative art work in her and nothing more... believe me, women love being appreciated regardless of how unapproachable or mean they might look. That reply alone would make her giggle and give a fake hiss and ask you to return back to your job. But deep down she will be the happiest person that day.

There's nothing to worry about. No female boss would sack her staff for complimenting her looks.

But next time learn to mind your business...it reduces problems and unnecessary anxeity.

well said

chukxy44:
Sir, please how you take know the house girl of your oga for office?

lol abi...op should come and tell us his relationship with his Madam's maid

Igbo amaka

Fxwarrior:


Is she a full time house wife?

No. She has a shop but it's been closed for some weeks now cos she's nursing a baby

pocohantas:


She doesn't obviously. If she had a source of income, he won't be this overwhelmed, neither would his problem be "change".

She should go get a job and contributebher quota. Then save whatever she wants. Money dey stop some kind nonsense.

You didn't read the part I said she was a nursing mum...she has a shop that has been closed for weeks.

1x2x3:


She can't work?

you didn't read where I said she's a nursing mum...she has a shop that has been closed for weeks.

Datazone:

Then let her work and earn some money. Stop being a parasite. You all want gender equality, no?

you didn't read where I sad she's a nursing mum...she has a shop that has been closed for weeks now.

lilmax:
of course you will see nothing wrong in it

if it were your brother, your topic will be different

there's nothing wrong in saving, but it seems she got separate plans for it

even if he's my brother I wouldn't support him. it's totally wrong. does he expect his wife to be begging him for money to settle petty personal needs? she's a woman for crying out loud.

Husbands please will you be happy with your wife,if you discover she is saving from the house keep money? Please give reasons.

I went to spend sometime with my elder sister along with my mum cos she just delivered. And recently her husband was quarreling with her it got so serious that mumsy had to intervene. after everything died down, I asked mumsy what happened she said the man was very angry because his wife which is my sister has been saving money from the upkeep money he's been given to her.

that if she had any left overs she should have told him so he'll add it to the next money he'll give and spend less. he said she's selfish and inconsiderate.

for me I don't see any big deal in it cos as a woman a nursing mother she should have some cash in hand.

please what are your views

ok

SLAP44:
In Lagos, street urchins survive on phone snatching till they marry and give birth to small little phone snatchers.

small and little mean the same thing

h

Fulani herdsmen should be banned from the south east. they should operate only where they're needed. we have Jakie meat here and local cows, it's enough for us we don't want their cows. local youths should arm themselves and start resisting their presence it would send a warning that they are not needed since they can't live and let live

hmmmm

Ok

If insurgency exceeds 24hours, the government has a hand in it. late Gen Sani Abacha

God give me children, now God has given them, they can't even look after him.

And later people would be arguing that Lagos is better than abakaliki. ever since we entered rainy season Abakaliki has never been flooded. abakaliki should be made capital of Nigeria.

That's very good. I pray God gives her the strength to actualize this dream.

Iamklade:

Because they have the sympathy of the powers that be in this country and the IGP doesn't want to fall on the wrong side of the president and the 'cabal' so he doesn't wake up tomorrow morning replaced.

So he'll rather clinch to his job than preserve the lives and properties of Nigerians he was appointed to do?

What I know is that 85% of the ministerial norminees would perform below expectation.

So what should I do?

Her life her business...bloggers should let her be.

Why can't the IGP just send a team of combined police and mobile policemen to comb that ore Benin Forest and arrest those criminals hiding there. it's obvious that the place is a den to criminals so what are they waiting for. is it until that place becomes ummotorable like some roads in the north before they'll sit up?

Hope he told his grandson the truth this time.

The name Nigeria is related to stress. from nursery School to primary, to secondary, to university, to Nysc...even getting a job stress. when you get the job nko to safe you money inside bank stress, when you keep it to collect it either with ATM or across is even worse. this country needs help

h

Is like they have use debt and swear for this man. oga goan pay your deputy and civil servants.

hmmmm