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firetrap: Now that's plain cold

I didnt mean it like that . If not Christian or Atheist then muslim is the next likely religion.

ponco: Turning down an opportunity to have s.ex, if you haven't got the opportunity and drive yet and then turn in down, i think you are no different from a 7 year old virgin.

I dont... I dont understand

Phartymah112: There are varying understanding as to which kind of sexual activities result in loss of virginity.
Some people often have "intimate actions" such as kissing deeply,touching of genitals etc. and still consider they are virgins.

In my own view,i think one who hasn't had sexual intercourse is a virgin.... I'm getting confused.

Any religious view to this real virginity definition will be welcome.

I will classify. Kissing is the barrier. Anything beyond that violates the right for a lady to call herself a virgin.

handling body parts
Orgasms
Mouth action
Rear action
Partial pene.tration

All the above are se.x. Just different forms of it. All violate a womans chastity.

A true virgin should not do any of these actions.

Imagine a woman telling me she is a virgin where as she has had rear action with up to 20 different men. Would I look at her as a chaste woman?

shizzle11: if the two of you have no qualms doing it, then good for you two, but know that the chances of pregnancy and STDs are higher. Dunno about your girl but its painful for most girls during that time and for guys, the sight/smell of the blood could just be disgusting]

So, is it possible to get pregnant during the ladies period?

Sanboy25:
I wouldn't say that... I refer my self as a 'Lost Sheep'.

Ok.... muslim?

pc guru: cough cough, shouldn't you guys been in church.

Shouldnt YOU be in church?

B_B013: U didnt wait for the concluding part of my story.
Well something led to an other now she got my baby in her. What do I do?

How am I meant to know? Was I the one slamming her up and down in the bedroom?

B_B013: Again cos the guit which comes after it wont make you want to repeat it.
To my surprise she came to me saying she was pregnant. I said I couldnt be possible cos I thought having sex while your period wont make you pregnant. And she said it has. This brings me to my questions " How possible can this be?" Should she abort or keep the pregnancy cos am scared of our lil adventure which resulted on her being pregnant..
Nairalanders pls I need your advise if it true you can get pregnant while on your period nd any advise you feel I need concerning it..
Thanks...

I have heard that it is possible. I dont know how but there have been cases. Women should know more about this.

Sanboy25:
For the same reason as you.
I'm alright and you ?

I am good. So what are you telling me? That you are an Atheist?

Kirinwa: I'll break words and see this humiliation ended.Not jupiter nor the gods themselves can wrest her from me.I'll see c.k return to it's place.

Good one. By Jupiters... err.... you know the last part

So how does one grow these... errr... cojones?

Sanboy25:
Of course it's not you.
Thanks for the encouragement.

Good. So how are you this fine sunday morning? How come you are not in church

B_B013: Just few weeks ago, my babe came visitin nd after much hours of discussion nd playing around. As we all not all guys can resist the idea of not doing "something" before she leaves. But on this faithful day she was on. I ve always had the idea of trying something new on her as she is my girlfriend nd possibly wife to be.. So we can do anything, anytime nd anywhere so long it is in the four walls of my apartment. We were both shy at it cos we ve never done it but thought since this avenue of trying new things anyway. So we proceeded nd I tell u it was fun but dont think I could ever repeat such an experience

Bonking her during her period?

Be cautious dude... use protection and dont go down on her. But why couldnt you just wait until it was over?

Sanboy25:
Hi guys,
There is a man/boy who is interested in me.
He doesn't stop teasing me, troubling me, trying to drive me crazy seeking my attention.
By doing so, he shows how immature he are, endorsing a childish behavior.
He is very mean to me while I never did him anything...
As in the saying: 'Boys always pick on the girl they like', I believe that he loves me.
He wants to enter in my life at any coast even if it's as an enemy.
I do not have any feelings/interest for this guy, I politely already told him so
but he won't stop the provocations.
I've already given him tips on how to forget about me, but he won't apply them...
I'm ignoring him for the time being.

What should I do/say in order for him to stop his provocations once and for all ?
I'm waiting for your answers.

Is it me

Just kidding .

Ride the storm babes... he will soon get bored.

IZUKWU: can you explain more.

It is self-explanatory

LastApostle: There must be some sort of body language.
My example is what I could conjure!

Maybe he knew it was likely she would reject it. That might be why he reacted so fiercely with the rejection.

Sanboy25:
I believe that the one who over-reacted to the refusal is foolish.
By doing so, not only he ruins all his chances with the lady, he also show a childish behavior: like a spoiled kid who trows a tantrum because he can't have what he want, that's an indicator of his immaturity. He asked the woman for marriage, so she has all the rights to refuse, he should have taken into account this possibility...

Disappointment, a realisation that it is not meant to be, a realisation that he now has to look for another lady to be his wife. How is he supposed to react... with joyous praise

He should have handled it more manly but I doubt the relationship would have survived.

LastApostle: which stopid man will propose to a girl without her giving him the green light. There must be some sort of pressure from her like when are you seeing my people, my mates are all getting married, I keep attending friends wedding, I wish to be the mother of your kids etc. Such signal will guide a guy to a more favourably decision.

Can't imagine the humiliation hosting friends for an engagement party and your woman supposedly turn you down to the consternation of friends and relatives. Omo, you had all along been dating someone else wife to be!

A desperate one

IZUKWU: Whatever a man can do,a woman can do better, has become a cliche that has come to stay. Women seem to derive joy in competing with men for their status and left their own status,if all of us become men, who will be women. Woman , be yourself. GOD created you a woman ,be proud ,be a woman that you were created to be. Don't be a man or try to be a man ,in your relationship or family. Allow the man be the man, he is your head. Submit to him. Submission is very important to you.

You are 100% right until:

IZUKWU: GOD created you a woman ,be proud ,be a woman that you were created to be.

This is where you lost your point.

28. "I am hor.ny"

They can remain lovers. But will she change her mind in the future? The situation depends on how the rejection is handled and reasons for the rejection.

Raggedy_Ann: This question is condescending. Why do people presume all women in general should have specific desires common to all at any given time. If I were to answer this, I would have to say: a woman just wants to be happy and accomplished. What it takes to make her happy would depend on any of several factors. Wants and needs change as we get older.

Stop guessing, just ask!

Some women are both and still they throw it away. So what do they really want?

What do you want? What will it take to make you happy and accomplished?

jntyjnty007: Black thigh length patent leather high healed boots.

Sounds kinky

have you got the legs to wear such stuff

Nookie

jay bee: So u a cougar

No she aint. 5 years isnt a cougar. AT least 10 years is needed for that.

Donalð Genes: am still a virgin tooo

Count me in too

I hope this testing will be by A rated babes and not some tranny looking ones... just saying

Dygeasy: I'm pretty sure you came out with 'a flying colours' after you faced your books too. Didn't ya?

OP here's not where to get what you want. Girls don finish for your school? Abi shey boys only university dey ni? Leave here jor!

He should face his studies. The economic climate is bleak. He should focus on studies and career. The women will always be there.

ceny6: I totally disagree with u mr brown jay. U cant call this write up nonsense every guy knows point 5 is so true.i will give u a classic illustration,why do gals easily fall for guys that call them on the phone several times a day?

Attention? They crave it

-Mr Cork-:
...from my experiience, they want a guy who eat puuuny goood.. i do!

Do you get rewards for your hard work... or do they just roll over and say.... "be quick about it"

lola.luv:
The issue isn't about staying with a girlfriend.
Whenever you stay with someone, know that they will soon get tired of you and your shenanigans. According to a Swahili proverb, 'a visitor (like badly smoked fish) starts to stink after 2 days'.

Oya, I want to hear your story.
But why did you move into your GF's place? You sound more 'put-together' than someone that would do that....
No offence.

There are many reasons for such stuff. If the girl didnt want him there she should have said no. You must always accomodate a guest.

In my case it was silly. I was invited to move there due to work reasons. We both work in the city and my place was further out where as she was nearby. I was always in her place too. She suggested I move into hers and rent mine so we could use the extra earnings to support her mortgage... bad move

But I agreed never the less. I had reservations however. Within 2 weeks (yes 2 weeks) she was misbehaving and it all collapsed. It nearly set me back. I had to lodge in a friends for a month.

tpia@:
i think men are generally only intimidated by what they cant acquire, ie get.

by the time they find out 99% of beautiful women are very easy to lay, and in fact might even be the ones desperately searching for men, it kind of takes the shine off the chase.

they might be intimidated by other factors besides beauty perhaps, eg background, education, money, etc.

Trrue. But an average looker rarely intimidates regardless of how difficult to lay they may be.

Godson201333: Love,caring everything...But wait,I think women never get satisfied!

Even in bed. They need more time to you know.....

tpia@:
are men intimidated by women's beauty?

given the fact that most of the beautiful women do end up with not so beautiful men, i wouldnt think so.

however, for whatever reason, some might be intimidated, i suppose.

Not all beautiful women. Just the odd stunner might do the job now and again .