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Romance / Re: I Broke Up, Should I Call Her Back? by AussiePlayboy(f): 8:35am On Aug 11, 2020 |
haiti007:Your self worth is so non-existent, that you have to tie it to money. It's people like you beg girls to date you and then get scared she will leave you if you don't "pay her subscription" Smh. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Please Advise A Brother Who Is In Dilemma by AussiePlayboy(f): 10:10pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
donstan18: The op James 12 is an irritating excuse of a man. I honestly hope and tbh.. It will happen when she leaves him for another guy when they begin to have disagreements. It is inevitable. *Spits away* 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guys, Don't Die Trying. Don't Kill Yourself by AussiePlayboy(f): 7:55am On Jun 01, 2020 |
jorion:Not that I am a fan of paying, but you are wise. Not many people will understand this. 1 Like |
Family / Re: HELP! My Brother Is Too Dull by AussiePlayboy(f): 10:36am On May 30, 2020 |
ThothHermes:Sounds more like dyslexia |
Business / Re: List And Names Of SCAMMERS by AussiePlayboy(f): 11:58am On May 22, 2020 |
Fynestboi: Hello, not related, but do we still have to go through you to change username? Thanks, |
Romance / Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by AussiePlayboy(f): 4:48am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: Except that when we are 33, you 'll be too old to chase at 35. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by AussiePlayboy(f): 4:31am On Apr 14, 2020 |
LifeCoachAndre: I am below 30 yet I strongly disagree. Relationships cannot be forced. Even the so-called committed women change over time. What you call genuine love has it's own sentiments and self preserved interests you cannot see. You cannot control the fate of some other person too. A man should primarily be in love with his purpose and being a better version of himself, and women naturally fall in line with it. Women do not run away, they are always there. To my fellow gentlemen, if you think being single for a while is what you need to focus and achieve that goal, please do not waste a second. Your time is precious. It is of value. Cheers 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by AussiePlayboy(f): 1:51am On Apr 14, 2020 |
Ihatefeminist: Preach! |
Romance / Re: It Happening To Me Now Pls Advice Me. (true Life Post) by AussiePlayboy(f): 11:25am On Jan 16, 2020 |
gregyboy:What a self defeating position to begin with... Is it necessary to get married? |
Romance / Re: It Happening To Me Now Pls Advice Me. (true Life Post) by AussiePlayboy(f): 11:01am On Jan 16, 2020 |
This is what happens daily till many men open their eyes. Op, you need a good change of mindset. First you spend many years being friends for just a one time peep. Then you keep being the man guard, while some other guy rides her away. The mistake was obvious the day you decided to commit after hitting it.. You know the saying.. Once a H, always a H. She doesn't respect you, just take your shit together, move on and never look back 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I See No Use In Having A Girlfriend. Change My View!! by AussiePlayboy(f): 5:17am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Richnerd69:You are a good guy but you don't realize. Some guys have mastered the art of using their hypergamy against them till they get what they want. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I See No Use In Having A Girlfriend. Change My View!! by AussiePlayboy(f): 4:56am On Jan 03, 2020 |
Varlfott: Smart guy... I like that one "Social clout" however, i think. Men should stop thinking spending money will keep a woman... It cannot!!! Rather.. It is not sustainable. Infact, if she watches you become more successful, she will never leave you... Her natural hypergamy works against it. And tbh, you gain more confidence with it, which is actually the bedrock of it all 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by AussiePlayboy(f): 10:19pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Skepticus:Simply put. I think you need to put this in a fresh post. Lots of men think it is better out there. Women hate being accountable for their actions. The very fact that in comparison, when a Nigerian woman cheats, you simply kick her ass out of your house, meanwhile a foreign woman will cheat, and divorce you for whatever reason she makes up, while you pay alimony and child support pending when she remarries - is enough reason to be wise. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by AussiePlayboy(f): 10:13pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Preshy561: It's not a Nigerian women thing. Today's society has empowered women, such that they now have more of an abundance mindset than men. Thankfully many men are waking up to this. In the end, the men truly have the power, if only they will look within 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Am Done With Nigerian Girls by AussiePlayboy(f): 5:34am On Dec 23, 2019 |
Martinez39: Wise man.. I think we need to re educate man thinking foreign women are better. It's a whole different load of troubles 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Will You Marry The Girl You Are Currently Dating? If So, Why by AussiePlayboy(f): 3:55am On Dec 23, 2019 |
luminouz:Lol.. Whats stopping you from having one? |
Romance / Will You Marry The Girl You Are Currently Dating? If So, Why by AussiePlayboy(f): 9:21pm On Dec 21, 2019 |
As the title says, they say we men know who we ll marry eventually and sometimes you don't need 10 years dating to figure it out. So pls explain why you will or not marry your current girlfriend /partner or if you are just basically scared of the commitment |
Romance / Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by AussiePlayboy(f): 11:45pm On Dec 12, 2019 |
emmaodet:Ogbeni, is it a must to get married? If they all cheat, then so be it. You men need to place value on a woman dating you, else she won't also really value you. Many of them don't already bring much to the table, yet you re enabling it by giving free pass to cheating. Cheating is unforgettable |
Romance / Re: Is It So Impossible To Forgive A Girlfriend That Cheated? by AussiePlayboy(f): 12:44am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Katsuke:I don't think so.. Although not the best approach, but there's nothing really weak with how he ended it. Obviously his confidence and esteem would have been crushed at the beginning when he was still in it, if this helps him get over and get himself quicker, so be it. Although best way to end things like this, is to simply Ghost with no dramas. @Erums 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Forgiven A Cheating Partner Without Breaking Up? by AussiePlayboy(f): 6:58am On Nov 25, 2019 |
fireback:Did she beg, confront and did you take her back? |
Romance / Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by AussiePlayboy(f): 8:17pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:Man, please stop being too naive. Hypergamy is real, that's what's playing here. Only thing I ll advice is that you do not tolerate disrespect which you are already tolerating. Personally, I ll advice you put a prize and value on yourself. If she messes up again, kindly ghost her. No dramas or explanation, just tell her it is no longer working and move on 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: What Made You Mgtow? by AussiePlayboy(f): 7:15am On Oct 23, 2019 |
When I realized the clarity of how my life is much stress free without a woman. With few women now, but even don't want them again, as they are easy distractions. Women are fun, just your other fun activities you enjoy. Once the drama starts, please pull out 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by AussiePlayboy(f): 2:14am On Sep 22, 2019 |
CyberWolf: A woman can never love you "for you" - or the way you want to be loved, they only love how you make them feel, and it changes. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by AussiePlayboy(f): 10:34am On Sep 19, 2019 |
NACE13 Brah, I don't wanna sound like I'm dickriding but you are damn good. I feel like we are or rather we were dating the same girl. Bruv! You need to know that your physical looks are absolutely one of the lowest of what keeps a woman (unless used well) They are quite good for the initial attraction, however, you only need to meet her minimum looks requirement to get her. To keep a woman requires more than looks. You cannot act feminine with meaningless arguments and still expect her to stay in line. You got to lead, be confident and she's got to look up to you. Also, more importantly, she has to feel like you also have other options. I am sure, with a lot more education, you will never make the mistake of asking her what's wrong or trying to discuss when she is refusing sex. That is way too weak. You never negotiate sex with a woman. They have to be drawn to it. She is spinning you with the "If I truly love her line ... " because she definitely is all soft and dandy with someone else. Women break rules when the attraction is high. This is why we always ask men to watch how she acts when she is with you. That's all that matters. You already lowered her attraction beyond revival. Only a breakup 100% initiated by you could repair it. What truly baffled me till date is how she cried numerous times, asking me if it is a crime for her to love me( truly, when we started dating, I was strict, unapologetic even if i was at fault and was still in contact with my ex). That she's never felt like this for any guy. Would even update her WhatsApp profile picture with my own photo, told other chykers blatantly that I am her bf( I found out on my own), always talked about what our future, kids will be like, even begged me not to break her heart else she might do the unthinkable. I felt weak, and let my Alpha status down. I completely shut other girls out, even my ex who wanted us to just be FWB.The moment you understand that a woman can never love you, she only loves the way you make her feel. Then you will see why it was all good in the beginning. Being calm means being in frame; After a fight, she will be defensive and masculine around you and this you never want as she has to be feminine. So she will throw you all manner of her shit tests to pull you off-centre. This is why you have to always be on your purpose, it will remind you that all she is only bringing drama. Also gives you the frame to set the tone when she returns. A lot of guys are rather the emotional ones in these situations and end up being pussy-whooped trying to get her validation. . Let her see these girls interested in you, it increases your sexual value, also depending on how attractive the girls are. I never advocate for men to be truly monogamous. It only sets you up for disaster, because women will misuse it when they sense it. She always has options, so you have to keep looking for yourself. Of course, if she initiates sex, then that's all it is, but she won't even be willing unless she is feminine. You as a man have non-sexual attention(your time, money, resources, care etc) and it has a value in the eyes of a woman. This is what they trade in for ultimately when the get married. Giving it away easily, like taking her early on for trips to the Bahamas reduces the value faster than sipping orange juice from a straw. She's got to earn it. The same way women make men earn the sex, she's got to earn the dates, calls and time with you. You want to limit your non-sexual attention while showing more of your sexual attention. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by AussiePlayboy(f): 11:42pm On Sep 16, 2019 |
frank417: From my experience, every man must be focused on his purpose. Women are fun and drama. Period! If you see them as that, you will always know and catch yourself when slacking. You never want to get your foot off the gas. HOWEVER, ubunja let's us men understand that another billionaire will easily steal Regina from her husband, WITHOUT spending anything substantial. Infact, with proper game, he won't spend a dime directly on her. His money only becomes an assurance and security. But his game speaks. 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: The Only True Way To Regain Respect In Your Relationship - Men by AussiePlayboy(f): 12:58am On Jul 30, 2019 |
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Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Choosing A Girl. by AussiePlayboy(f): 12:43am On Jul 30, 2019 |
joeeee240:Brahh.. There are many ways to say sorry still without acting weak. You could tell her you ll make it up to her.. If she so mad, just calm quiet and give her time, when it settles, then speak calmly of how you understand what went wrong and how it will be fixed. If it's little, throw her a joke like... I ll get you ice cream.. Etc.. . Saying sorry baby sorry baby is just weak and does not in any way diffuse the situation better than handling it confidently . Make no mistake, you re human, so sometimes you ll catch yourself being weak abruptly, but realise and try to stop it . 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: The Only True Way To Regain Respect In Your Relationship - Men by AussiePlayboy(f): 12:35am On Jul 30, 2019 |
ubunja:True. However, I think there is a catch to this. There is what we call a breaking point in men. That point where we know nothing good can ever come out from the relationship especially after something really disrespectful like cheating or extreme disrespect. In such cases, you can't even lay much rules cos whatever you re doing is more like an exit strategy. It's only when she has a bit of value in your eyes that you even create rules. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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