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Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Named As Juventus' MVP Of The Year by Ayemileto(m): 5:03pm On Aug 10, 2020

obembet:
The team knows who's really the best not federation that pushes some certain agenda, if dybala was better than Ronaldo he would have performed better than him not just 11 goals and 6 assists to 37 goals and six assists

When the same Federation gave Ronaldo last year, despite not being the top scorer or top assist provider, you didn't say they were pushing some certain agenda ooo. grin

But because they didn't give him this time around, the federation is pushing "some agenda".

Literature › Re: His Neighbor's Wife by Ayemileto(m): 3:03pm On Aug 10, 2020

Great work Rosemary33.

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Literature › Re: Baggage Claim by Ayemileto(m): 2:48pm On Aug 10, 2020

Nice work damselposh.

Nice ending too.

Romance › Re: Mm by Ayemileto(m): 2:33pm On Aug 10, 2020

This is how foolish people kill their marriage. cool

Saying sorry or placing a call won't kill the man. Neither will the woman die if she apologize first.

But the "Ego" and "Pride" of each human always go before them, and this pride have made many loose a lot of things they regret losing, and many will still lose more.

By the time the divorce finally happen, even you, their family friend and all 3rd parties who advised them not to place that call, won't be there for them.

Even the wife's mother won't feel the brunt.

That's when you'll be hearing stuffs like "you want to break my marriage like you break yours?"

Or something like

"Did I force you to divorce your spouse?"

They won't say or remember they advised you not to call then.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
Genesis 2: 24.

He will "cleave" to his wife, not his wife's family, or 3rd parties.

If they like don't let them settle their differences ASAP.

Divorce is 50% completed already.

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Politics › Re: Gani Audu In Certificate Forgery Case - ADP Accuses Ize-Iyamu’s Running Mate by Ayemileto(m): 2:10pm On Aug 10, 2020

Indispensable85:
My point is that they have no case. They're grabbing on straws.

The court will decide that.

Romance › Re: Men! This Is Why You Should Never Marry A Non-virgin by Ayemileto(m): 2:01pm On Aug 10, 2020

Marrying as a virgin (for both sexes) has many advantages, and I have stated some on a thread here on NL before.

But what the OP put up there is just nonsense.

UPDATE:
This is a link to the post.
https://www.nairaland.com/5995971/what-advantages-disadvantages-wedding-two#91781992

Politics › Re: Gani Audu In Certificate Forgery Case - ADP Accuses Ize-Iyamu’s Running Mate by Ayemileto(m): 9:34am On Aug 10, 2020

Indispensable85:
There's no case here. Obtain confirmation from the various issuing bodies and backed with a simple affidavit of reconciliation of names.Tender them before the court, that will kill the case at the high court. That's what Degi failed to do because of arrogance and the inexperienced legal team that handled the case. I just did mine recently. I had three different names on my certificates before now. I had only my surname constant but the two other names were different in all the certificates.

I think Degi's case is difference. Plus they got Court affidavit too.

In that case, even the surname wasn't constant. All the names, including the surname, changed at one point or the other.

You might want to revisit the thread, and read up about the case again.

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Literature › Re: Baggage Claim by Ayemileto(m): 3:22pm On Aug 09, 2020

damselposh:
Be patient lovelies, we have just one more chapter to go. Thank you all.

Lol.

Hope Bari will give birth to twins in the remaining chapter. grin

Also, David must not have anything to do with Lina o.

And ensure Rowland's wife come back to mock him with big belle (pregnancy).

grin

You are actually doing a nice work.

Keep it up!

Romance › Re: Why You Should Get Married And Have Few Kids On A Low Income by Ayemileto(m): 3:08pm On Aug 09, 2020

Hideki:
You don't get it I was the last born. Living in the BQ was my choice. It was a game plan, a plan well executed. Till date some of my peers are still struggling with ACCA or FRM or CFA . Devaluation has killed the naira. some of them bought cars and lived in 2bedrooms. Today they are ABOs in banking. I am presently on a management grade. It takes sacrifice. Real sacrifice!

Although, I said I won't reply you on this thread again, seeing this, I just felt I should make an additional post.

Like I said in one of my previous post, I doubt the first born, second born or first son in your family will go around advising people to get married in poverty.

Many of this sacrifice you claim to make are possible because you are the last born of the family, and your older siblings already watered the ground for you.

Or whose house would you have been living in with your wife assuming you were the first born?

I'm 100% sure your older siblings, make much more sacrifices - which helped you, the junior siblings.

I'm also quite sure that many (if not all) of your older brothers got married at an age much older than the age you married.

Having 7 senior siblings make things easier for you, but this isn't applicable to everyone.

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Romance › Re: Why You Should Get Married And Have Few Kids On A Low Income by Ayemileto(m): 2:44pm On Aug 09, 2020

Hideki:
Like I said, we have to make different degrees of sacrifices to make it in life. If waiting until you have enough before starting a family then we need to anlayse your enough. You are like a politician stating that we should discontinue the importation of fairly used clothes but keep up with fairly used planes. Now it will not be fair to your kids if you send them to a FGC or a close by private high school. The standard should be British International School or Loyola Jesuit. It will be unfair if your kids don't have at least 5million each invested in a hedge fund for them at birth. Because that is the least most comfortable people I know do. If you can't do these don't bring ur kids to suffer. I agree with your philosophy

If you truly agree with me, then you have to revert your main post, and the advice you issued to that guy.

Also, you fail to state the currency that should be invested in hedge fund, is it 5 million Naira, US Dollars, Pound, Euros, Sefa or Zimbabwe dollars? grin

Also, you might want to read about "Rockefeller family" and how the man who started the dynasty saved a lot of money that will only mature after the death of all his fourth or fifth generation(I don't remember which one exactly), so you may want to tell me to save up for my 10th generation, instead of saving 5 million for my direct descendants alone. grin

Anyways, thank God you finally agreed, so we can close the curtain on this argument, as this will be my last reply to you on this thread.

But please, don't advise people to be giving birth in poverty o. Nigeria of today is very hard already and it's a very bad advise.

Thank you.

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Romance › Re: Why You Should Get Married And Have Few Kids On A Low Income by Ayemileto(m): 1:54pm On Aug 09, 2020

Hideki:
Hmmm so, because one is poor, one should not marry and reproduce? So you are suggesting that for us to have a saner Nigeria, about 40% of Nigerians that live in abject poverty with no hope of a breakthrough should stop existing?

Nobody said they should stop existing. Reproducing in poverty is the main point of contention here!

Dude wake up. I am the last born of my family and grew up around Alausa.

Lol. I get it now. You're the last born. I doubt the first or second born of your family will go around advising people to get married and start having children when not financially stable.

Some of my high school friends from the same neighborhood are doing good. I mean very good! (some not so good) and that is life. People can't stop living because they are poor.

Why many of them can be doing good, I'm 100% sure they wouldn't have needed to make as much sacrifice as they made to get to where they are today, if their parents were financially stable before bringing them to the world.

Also, I'm 100 percent sure they would have passed the current level they are financially, if their parents were financially comfortable before bringing them to the world.

I never said they won't do good. But they will have to struggle, go through untold hardship, miss many opportunities and sacrifice much more than they would have done, had their parents be financially comfortable!!!

When you marry at 45 because you were chasing money are you wise?

Yes. Like I said earlier, It's better not to get married and produce offsprings, than to bring them into this world to come and suffer.

Peace.

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Romance › Re: Why You Should Get Married And Have Few Kids On A Low Income by Ayemileto(m): 1:25pm On Aug 09, 2020

Lol.

I couldn't read the entire epistle, but with the little part I read.......

There's really no sense in starting early and bringing children into poverty and suffering.

In fact, it is even better not to have children, than to bring them around to come and suffer, all because "you want to start early".

This is because, the poorer you are, the more difficult it will be for your children to become financially comfortable.

This is why children of rich people are always rich while poor people keep breeding their kind.

The fact that it worked for your parent and you does not necessarily mean it will work for everyone.

Just the way it worked for your parents, we have lots of people it didn't work for, so advising him to start giving birth to children is really wrong.

Also, it appears you also suffered, because you have to start hustling early (At a time where you'll still be dependent on your parent assuming they were comfortable). There's also many things you got denied due to your parent's poverty.

You want his children to miss all this too? That's wickedness!!!

That said, I probably missed the earlier thread, but it doesn't make sense as well to be saving up to rent a bigger apartment.

One of the basic rules of becoming rich, which I read in the book, "The richest man in Babylon" is to OWN THE PLACE YOU LIVE.

The more rent you pay, the more difficult it'll be for you to invest in profit yielding businesses.

When you save, save up for a profit yielding investment, Not a liability!!!

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Romance › Re: I Just Don't Get It. by Ayemileto(m): 12:57pm On Aug 09, 2020

I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.

Ecclesiastes 9: 11.

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Career › Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Ayemileto(m): 12:38pm On Aug 09, 2020

Is he the owner of the business?

If you can get evidence of the threat to sack you for refusing his proposal, I think there are agencies you can report to.

With this, you can get a leverage, and be able to keep the job without dating him.

There's also 50% chance you will lose the job, and nothing will happen to him because of our messed up system.

Also, Men who mix business with pleasure always learn the hard way, while their teachers always benefit greatly.

You can be the one to teach him that important lesson. grin

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UEFA Champions League Quarter Final Fixtures by Ayemileto(m): 8:46am On Aug 09, 2020

NORSIYK:
Bayern vs Man city
Winner Man city.

Psg vs Athletico Madrid
Winner Atletico Madrid

Final Atletico Madrid vs Man city.

Winner Atletico Madrid

It's QF1 vs QF3
QF2 vs QF4.

So, there's no way Bayern and Man city will meet in SF.

Likewise, PSG can't meet ATM in SF.

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Romance › Re: Nigerian University Girls Are The Most Stupid People On Earth! by Ayemileto(m): 12:49pm On Aug 08, 2020

when they tell you to avoid drug abuse, you won't listen.

See your life outside now. grin

Your parent sent you to school to go and study, you went there to study "University girls" and ended up dropping out.

If you go abroad, the same thing will happen again, because your destiny is to study "girls", which is not been offered in school.

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Romance › Re: No Wonder Why My Parent Insisted I Must Marry From Village by Ayemileto(m): 12:47pm On Aug 08, 2020

Mywd:
Bros calm down..... Ask ur pastor the real meaning of that bible verse u just dey misuse am......when yawa happen now u go carry face run comot from him matter.... Marry one wife make u dey alright without wahala.....

Lol.

I think it's sacarsm. To mock the OP.

Romance › Re: No Wonder Why My Parent Insisted I Must Marry From Village by Ayemileto(m): 12:45pm On Aug 08, 2020

TkhGuy:
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I was worried cos I am too selective when trying to find a date, it's not just about attitude, all attributes must meet my specs,

@OP, better go and meet your Daddy to select a lady for you.

Because if with all your "choosy" or "selective" attribute, the kind of lady that ended up meeting your "specs" have all those bad characters, then it simply means you're a very poor decision maker when it comes to choosing a partner.

I will be moving on, and this time, my strictness is my stronghold, if you don't like it, get the Bleep out of my life let me find someone who do.

Not minding how strict you become, you will always end up with someone that fits your "specs".

And once your "spec" is bad, then it will always be someone bad.

Literature › Re: Don't Fall Into The Trap Of Okadabooks! by Ayemileto(m): 7:33am On Aug 08, 2020*

eyekay:
I think you're being unfair.

What okadabooks promises is a platform.
Okadabooks did not promise that they will force people to buy your book.
Create a sellable product, and it will move by itself.

If the Content you put on the platform is not selling, or you do not know how to market what you're selling, you have no one to blame but yourself.

At this point, what we should ask is why, if you are a writer, and you have poured out from your mind enough to fill the pages of a book, and then you put the said book on Okadabooks, and after five months, your so-called wonderful stories have not made up to ten thousand naira.

What did you write in your book?
What did you say, and how did you say it?
If it is not catchy, if it is not selling, the fault is from you.

I enjoy okadabooks, and I buy books there on a regular basis. So why did I not see your own and buy?
Is your book well written, well edited, and well packaged?
I know authors, some of whom are my friends, who make good sums of money off the stuff they put on okadabooks.

Guy, wetin you dey write?

Have you spent up to 10k on OkadaBooks? Because if you purchase books regularly on OkadaBooks and haven't spent up to that, you just confirmed one of OPs point.

Also, not making a sale does not necessarily mean he's not writing good contents. Rather, many people prefer to read a good portion of a books content before purchasing.

All the books I have purchased on OkadaBooks so far were half read somewhere else.

Like, some authors share a good portion of their story here, get you hooked, then stop posting and ask you to go get the rest on OkadaBooks, Or they post too slowly that you just have to go get the rest.

So, it's not necessarily about OP's content but probably his marketing strategy.

Also, while it might be easier for some people to reach the withdrawal limit of 10k, probably because they are already a well known author or have good marketing strategy, there's nothing bad if the minimum withdrawal is far lesser. Like say 500 or 1k.

Even fiverr that the minimum you can charge for a project is $5 allows you to withdraw as little as $1.

Putting minimum withdrawal at 10k is just a means to get authors to keep posting and marketing (driving people to the website). Many people will never reach that point before quitting.

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Politics › Re: Ondo 2020: PDP's Chances Boosted As Six Aspirants Team Up With Jegede by Ayemileto(m): 7:27am On Aug 08, 2020

joa2013:
Jegede outspent them to emerge as the candidate of the party. Remember that they spent huge amount of money on obtaining forms, they're only looking for ways of getting back their money. They won't contribute anything to Jegede's campaign because they knee that since Agboola Ajayi left, all hope of a Jegede governorship is gone.

And who is Agboola Ajayi that Jegede's governorship ambition will be based on him?

The best Agboola Ajayi can ever get in the upcoming election is 3rd position, except you're talking about him splitting votes.

And in that case, Aketi will be affected too.

Politics › Re: Ondo 2020: PDP's Chances Boosted As Six Aspirants Team Up With Jegede by Ayemileto(m): 7:21am On Aug 08, 2020

Even me, I want Jegede to win grin

But I think APC will spend lots of money during the election sha, but I hope our people can turn down the offer.

Sports › Re: Chukwueze To Join Osimhen At Napoli by Ayemileto(m): 12:33pm On Aug 07, 2020

Wow. That will be beautiful!!!

Business › Re: Why Did Lindaikeji Social Fail? by Ayemileto(m): 12:33pm On Aug 07, 2020

Uchenaija:
I think I get your angle.

For a tech savvy person there was no innovation.

I clearly remembered going to the website, I even had an account there. I was clearly dissapointed with the design & functionality considering the noise it has pulled.

However, as a lady she might not have in-depth tech knowledge, for a lady that came from a foundation.

The tech guy that handled the work must have bobo her into siphoning lots of money from her due her inexperience.

That said, she must have felt she was the best thing after sliced bread, that is why it carried the noise that came with it. In her eyes it must have been the greatest innovation.

Nonetheless, I believe success in business is not always about the innovation. A lot of internet business started with a wack launched idea but once the users key in, the story changed.

So personally I'll fault the business model.

The marketing strategy worked, at least we saw crowd of users in a day, more than Instagram can boast of in its first day. The retention didn't flow afterwards.

Talking about her model, she based retention based on giving things out to her users.

So I'd say it was her business model that failed. That's my humble opinion. It cannot stand the test of things. How many advertisers can pay enough to feed the hungry mass of Nigerian users?

I might be wrong anyway.

I agree with you bro.

The business model is faulty.

Business › Re: Why Did Lindaikeji Social Fail? by Ayemileto(m): 9:50am On Aug 07, 2020

Uchenaija:
But she innovated and failed. Why did she fail in her innovation?

Which innovation did she make?

Did you visit the website then?

Which social media network out there will be asking you to login through Facebook, Twitter, or other SMs?

Also, If I remember correctly, the website is based on Blogger or WordPress. Not custom code.

If you ask me, I think she don't really have any business plan to make the social network succeed, she probably thought her influence and name is enough to build up the SM brand.

Later, she started offering people 1k to be the first to submit a gist on the website.

There's nothing innovative about what she did.

Assuming you visited the website then, you'll understand better.

Literature › Re: Don't Fall Into The Trap Of Okadabooks! by Ayemileto(m): 9:00am On Aug 07, 2020

I think the main issue with OkadaBooks is that there's no competition.

If someone like me, who's just starting out launch a competition to correct many of this anomalies, will publishers use it?

Most people only go for the big brands. They don't want to use smaller brands - even if it is better.

You see, personally, I have money stucked in many places over the internet because I couldn't reach the payout before quitting. So, nowadays, that is one of the criterias I check before joining any platform.

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Romance › Re: My Church Member Works In A Brothel. I'm Shocked!!!!!! by Ayemileto(m): 3:03am On Aug 07, 2020

Lol.

Just imagine OP saying "God is bringing food to his table".

So God already gave you approval for fornication, such that he's now sending ladies to you himself? shocked

Also, I want to believe the story is either fiction, or OP lied in some parts, because some aspects do not conform with each other.

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Romance › Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Ayemileto(m): 9:51pm On Aug 06, 2020

chinchonglee:
U said many fallacies.

That she is the giy's girlfriend and not financee.

The guy used "Girlfriend" in his write up. He never used the word Fiancee all through. Go and check for yourself.

That the guy had not introduced himself to yhe family etc...

Go and read my post again. I said 50 percent chances. Or you don't know what 50 percent chance is anymore?

It's one thing to read, it's another thing to pay attention to the details.

Peace be unto you bro!!!

Romance › Re: I Loved Her But Broke Up With Her Cause Of Her Character by Ayemileto(m): 9:43pm On Aug 06, 2020*

Cyphrr:
Some people get married without practically any hope or any source of income my uncle is a testimony he suffered so with his wife even to feed was an issue but today they are in South Africa living large and driving the best cars.. this life no balance that’s one thing some people should know

Lol, that it work for your uncle does not mean it will work for everyone ooo.

There are many people who jumped into marriage with nothing, and end up dying in poverty.

To avoid bringing unnecessary hardship to your children, please don't get married if you're not financially stable o.

Meanwhile, I will still update my original post once I read through your post well.

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Romance › Re: I Loved Her But Broke Up With Her Cause Of Her Character by Ayemileto(m): 9:17pm On Aug 06, 2020

I have not read your full post ooo.

But from the part I read, why should someone earning 35k be getting married?

I will come back later to read the full gist grin

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Romance › Re: Should He Take Back His Girlfriend After Abusing His Niece? by Ayemileto(m): 9:02pm On Aug 06, 2020

chinchonglee:
Stay in ur village and be making useless assumptions to make u look intelligent.

How did u come up with all ur useless conclusions. Big mouthed fool

I'm actually intelligent, and I'm not a fool as well.

Go and read the first thread created by the original author, then come here to dispute my points constructively.

Romance › Re: STORY: LUCIFER’S BRIDE … (18+) by Ayemileto(m): 8:56pm On Aug 06, 2020

Hope you took permission from the original writer before posting it here?

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