if i were a guy i would date a girl with brown skin, a bit tall and body must be full not fat. i dont like skinny babes and i dnt like obese either. I love busty valoptious meaty girls. big ass, big bossom and small waist plus a flat tummy. Must be kind, polite, intelligent but take no nosense from anyone.

You own that body and dont ever let anyone force you to do something you dont wana. Even if you are not a virgin. its none of their bzns

Everyone seems to make sex as if it's a guy's right in a relationship. Girl your body belongs to you and you alone and you do not need to please anyone with it. If a guy cant handle your terms let him go. You will eventualy find someone who will understand you.Not being a virgin has nothing to do with it. To abstain is your personal choice. Even if you were a hooker for 20 years and decided to abstain , no one should make you feel bad

Sometimes guys even use a girl once they realise that she is not materialistic or they just relax and get lazy. Most woman want true love but love from a guy who does not even try to be there financialy a little realy sucks

at first we lie to each other and tell ourselves it will get better with time since we truely love each other deeply and we both know that money can't buy love but after sometime reality kicks in and we realise that should we end up marrying this person we will be broke for the rest of ourlives, or we actualy realise that one can't eat love. simply put > a relationship with money suffers

He must just chase that girl out because girls like that are no good

Marriage does not belong only to the husband. It belongs to both parties so i dont see the reason why the financial resonsibilities should be given only to one person. It's just being selfish and greedy not to assist. Obviously both parties have individual financial goals but they should also share a common household financial goal without disturbing their individual plans. Once you are married remember that whats yours is his and whats his is yours

Its fine for a male ex to help a femail ex with money and please do not explect it back but its not fine for a female ex to assist a male ex financialy unless he realy begs and swears to pay and if he dont pay wahala be there

i still bite my nails regardless of my moods. I even do this to artificial nails and i end up hurting myself so i do not use fake nail anymore because of this childhood habit

Fisrtly allow me to call u a dog because you were busy getting your groove on with some chick fully knowing that you are getting married. You are such a bastard. Okay now coming to the advice part. Marry your fiance because there is a reason you felt she was worth the ring. You might not be inlove with the other one ( the pregy). Just make sure that you explain it well to the fiance and maintain and supposrt the baby once born, There are plenty of kids born out of wedlock. If you marry the preg one, it might be just bcoz of the baby and you dont love her ( maybe). you can have the baby over for weekends and be there financialy

Dude this chick is married and pregnant. Just forget her. There are plenty of fish in the sea

I would get back with my ex because he was a cool guy. I just pushed him away because i crzy. I kiss him everythime i c him.

Cry for days, tell anyone who cares how terrible i feel ( well even if they dont care i will still tel them).Get drunk for the whole weekend.Eat junk food then. Be in denial, feel bad and still cry.Go to church and realise how much God and my family love me.Convince myself of my self love and worth.Hit the gym for a few weeks, go shopping and get a make over. Do the hair, nails etc. Then start dinning with my friend ( girls) at classy restuarants and start dating again coz i will be damn hot looking and make sure i scrutinize the next dates until i find thee one. Treat him well and trick him in to an engagement which can lead to a real marriage this time. Then introduce my new husband ( make sure he is richer and cuter than the bastard who hurt me before). Throw a small intimate party with a few close friends and make sure the ex is there so that he can meet the new catch. lol

shaybe baby: 1) They possess this misplaced sense of "it is a man's world". When really it belongs to both sexes. Both have their roles to play.
2) He would never see you as an equal regardless of your achievements. Their sole aim is to dominate and have you subservient.
3)Fidelity is a word which is totally foreign to them.
4)Majority have the personlity of a wet dish rag hence the reason why they feel they need to have money before girls will look at them.
5) Totally unimaginative- the art of romance is lost on them and also its subtleties.
6) They are often loud and aggressive. Wherever there is a group of Nigerian men, you can hear them from miles away.
7)They are just crap
They are full of s-h-i-t
9) Most are potential abusers
10) They are generally ugly

They broke your heart and now you are bitter, my friend fo sleep

Get a job

forget that player

just end it with him and if he wants the reasons or tries to soften you up just tell him that you do not trust him and just say '' i found out what you were hiding from me and if you do not know what i am talking about, keep searching yours ways then you will understand because there is no way i am going to tell you since you know what you have been upto'' . keep the whole break up reason mysterious and do not allow him to touch you or convince you otherwise. Be very dramatic and tell him '' i found out okay, and i dont think i will ever trust you in my life''. He will feel guilty and keep trying to come after you. Now this would mean you have control and the upper hand. So you can manupilating him into feeling guilty and working hard to win your trust.Be very dramatic and fake tears if you can. It depends on you whether you wana walk away with pain or have some fun manupilating his emotions. If he does not play into your manipulation it means he never gave a damn about you from the word go. If a guy loves you and want you no amount of anger or whatever for that matter can keep him away and if he does not want you nothing you say or do will make him stay.

I think i know the guy the poster is talking about

if both parties are employed i do not see the reason why they should not assist each other in running the household financial matters. otherwise why are the others emplo yed

Hey poster. I think its bad for you to have such a negative body image of yourself. I think you must love yourself and do something about the parts that are making you unhappy. I think i can assist you as you sound like most of my client. I have assisted many people to change their lives and images and i can dfntly help you. Please email me your contacts so that we can arrange further. my email is aza.montana@gmail.com. looking forward to helping you.

Its not good for people to cohibit. Whether you wana marry or not. Its like eating the choclate before paying for it in the shop. Na crime

There is a difference between curvy valoptous and fat. Naija man like a woman who looks like a woman not a baloon and not a broomstick

Where the hell have you been poster. Are your eyes blind? havnt u seen that nigerian men date everything that comes their way

You do not give your number just to any one first and foremost and if you do not exchange your details with other people how do you intend on growing your bzns, socialise etc. There is nothing wrong with giving numbers ( only if the person asked / approched in a good way) and as long as you also do not do it in a way that makes u look cheap, slutty or idiotic.

Its clear that she respects you as an ''ADULT'' . Do not ruin your the respect she has by trying to hook uo with her coz you will wish you hadnt blv me. Uncle

someone an call u a million times only to lie to you. Just check her heart not the number of received calls from your phone

Chill. its just how other people do things. A call does not mean love.

The problem is with you not with her. There is nothing wrong with kissing your sweetheart. Maybe you do not understand what a '' relationship'' and you also do not understand what is a sin and what is not. Where in the bible does it say kissing is a sin?. I would suggest you break up with her and stop dating girls completly

Say u are mentally sick and you gona have to under go therapy but the medical practitioners adviced you not to be in relationships until you are healed

I would stay away from this Oga because it means he is full of wahala

What would you do if you caught your fiance cheating on you 2 days before your wedding.

Marriage is not age. You can marry someone way younger than you but if chemistry is not its just not there. It not about age my dear. It about feeling.
Is it age you are marrying or is it the human being.