₦airaland Forum

Unfortunately, the race is tending towards him or Atiku and I'd rather have this "drug lord" than an Atiku who will use our money to develop Cameroon like bubu did with Niger while using the rest of the fund to continue islamisation where Bubu left it

Solution is to send all Abokey mai-guard away because registration of foreigners doesn't mean they can't harm the people they are guarding! Sadly, they are the only people readily available for the job...but then, we can strengthen our local vigilante

I wonder how any sane person can still have the mind to support or defend this epic failure!
I just pray that the Lord will restore to us the years the cankerworm and moth has destroyed

Cuppycat:
Why wait to protest when you could have prevented his death by separating him and the Italian when they were fighting? I'm sure they were busy taking pictures and videos then. What you could have prevented easily, now you're protesting for nothing, as if protest will bring him back.

Obviously they are just protesting as Nigerians, they were not there when it happened...I doubt Nigerians will watch an Italian beat a fellow Nigerian to death in their presence

Nozino:
How is she selfish Biko? Did she impregnate herself? Most of you don’t understand the condition this child has. It isn’t easy to manage alone. The mother most likely had to stay with her 24/7 without any form of support, not even financial support from the child’s father. She did this for 7years. She dn try. Let the father continue.

While we are not absolving the man of any blame, you and I know that a man can't easily take care of a special child! In most cases, the mother becomes the caregiver unless there's a home willing to accept the child. Now she feels burdened by her own child but she dumps the child on another woman! Yes, she needs to live her life too, but she should equally be concerned about the well-being of the innocent child.

As a mother, she should put her child in the best place available and affordable...not using her as a pawn to get back at an irresponsible man! Even if the man has not been responsible for her upkeep - she owes that child the duty of care! She can go to court, child welfare centers etc to ensure that the man plays his part! But believe me, she's in the best position to decide on the best caregiver or home for that child! A motherless child is a lot more vulnerable than a fatherless child; that is why we have motherless babies homes and orphanages and not fatherless babies homes! The mother is a natural caregiver!!

advanceDNA:
The solution is that the wicked mother should come and carry her child....

U parted ways with a man

U still don't want another woman to enjoy him

shes mád

Very selfish woman indeed! I just pity the new wife and the poor girl who is in the middle of this. May God help her

advanceDNA:
It's not abroad ooo...there is no free NGO in Nigeria that will collect kids from you for free without agreement of monthly upkeep..
If you dont come back they will just use the child for ritual for the highest bidder

The lady has said the man doesnt have the money...meaning he will still come and tell the poor wife to be packing shít and carrying the child to bathroom to bathe for the rest of her marriage......

. the mother of the child should come and carry her baby....she did the dumping out of jealousy to chase the woman out because the man didn't marry her....some women dey crazeeee

The man is insincere and selfish if he expects her to take care of another woman's special needs kid- even if she's not pregnant. However, leaving the marriage still leaves the kid stranded. What I think she could do to help the kid and her marriage (if it's worth salvaging):
1. Get her husband to return the kid to the birth mum same way she brought her to him
2. Take the kid to a home - I carried out s study on PWD and I know there are some homes where they take them in. Though like you said, it may not be totally free but I believe it's nothing near 200k. They even have some abandoned kids there
3. Even if she'll leave him, she can help that child get some stability before leaving. I'm just about the child

We are in an "Iran-like" situation in Nigeria now! Very soon, things we take for granted will be taken from us if we are not careful and prayerful

H0711:
Unfortunately he can't afford to take the child anywhere. his younger sister has refused to come and help and I can't do it too. Being a single mother is not a death sentence I rather leave than carrying a burden which I didn't agreed for.first of all he didn't tell me anything about the child and her condition and why would I have to stay and suffer taking care of her including my own baby who will be born in 2 months time. If another woman would be happy to come and take care of the child is not my problem I wish her all the best.

There are some NGOs taking care of PWD, you and your husband should shop for one around you. If you live in Ibadan, I know of Jesus Kids Academy for children with Autism. I understand it's not your problem, really...but you can still help her find a home. Best of luck.

He wants his military goons to continue - that plan will fail...

I'm sure I would have converted to Christianity or Buddhism even if I was born a Muslim! I hate the force and bloodshed! Thank God for His mercies!

InsideLove:
Like in murder cases in hotel room.

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Not necessary inside the rooms! It's serious invasion of privacy. Hallway cameras are enough, plus the ones at the reception/lounge

The guy should have mentioned the name of the hotel

Only the evil ones will understand and rationalize killing another person for not wearing hijab or not believing in their prophet! Live and let others live!

Mass defection is part of the plan to install Atiku. Our Fulani brothers are already boasting of continuity. This one will come and use the remaining resources to develop Cameroon the way bubu developed Niger

Wow! The first few pages are quite something!

The whole thing is tiring, even for us

VeryWickedMan:
Since I can't determine her tribe, I will attack her gender.


Nigerian women are useless... All of them!!

It's about time you replace the "wicked" in your moniker with "dumb"! You are not wicked sir, just plain dumb

Northerners' ploy to impose Atiku on us

She has stayed long on 12 years...I hope she finally moves on to another age by her next birthday

The whole of ps 91

You didn't tell your fiancee you were sick?
Your "helper" slept on the bed with you?
Your "helper" had unrestricted access to your phone because she needed to buy somethings?
You mean you were so sick that you needed someone to sleepover, yet your fiancee didn't have an idea?
Anyways, that doesn't excuse the cheap blackmailer and even if she's your side chick, she has no right to blackmail you. You should involve the police asap.

Wow! I was really rooting for Peter Obi until I started seeing the hatred his supporters are displaying online! It's preposterous to assume that everyone MUST vote for your candidate! Live and let others live!

Juanmike:
First to comment.
Anyway, anybody considering voting Tilumbu or Atiaku El Cameron, it will never be well with their unborn shildren.

What happened to freedom to vote and be voted for? I'm definitely not voting for any polithiefcian but cursing people for exercising their voting rights is just too low and shameful! Hopefully, Peter Obi is not like you!

Release the man, let him continue his fight in peace! Anything and anyone that'll bring peaceful separation is welcome

That's not feminism! Feminism is about gender equality. A true feminist wants to be treated like her male colleagues; she doesn't want you to open/hold the door for her, she doesn't want to be treated specially because of her gender. A true feminist will not cheat a man! It's all about being treated equally and not specially!

The room is actually in bad taste- no space at all plus sharing toilet and all. That said, a more desperate job seeker will manage it. Also, she should have "put yam on fire while using sense to look for knife"

I hope they pay her for the one month she endured in that "accommodation"

Thankfully, we don't need to kill or maim people for our own God. Buncha weaklings insulting Christianity because you all think the powers that be are behind you...you will meet your Waterloo soon

"He bombed Owo, he bombed Synagogue"... He wants to drag the stage with the jihadists? He has given the real terrorists and their elite sponsors more free hand to operate because now they'll connect him with every terrorist attacks on Churches in Nigeria while the real terrorists will be cooling off in the private lounges of their sponsors' fancy apartments, planning another attack! Stupid man

nijaomegacode:
May more of you pass away untimely inshallah.

Ha! But why?

Yoruba Christians are not weak or stupid- everyone will vote after careful considerations!

Some Yoruba Christians will vote for Tinubu because he is a Yoruba man
Some Yoruba Christians will vote for Peter Obi because he is a Christian and a whiff of fresh air (Our fear is that Obi will likely be denied his mandate even if he wins...)

Atiku will definitely step in Bubu's shoes 100% if he is mistakingly elected -Fulani herders are already saying Atiku is also their father; another Sai baba loading and it'll be bloodier and more dangerous because they'll be bolder! He is definitely the worst choice for Southerners for now.

Ngige is a lousy mo'fo...he dragged it this far