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FamilyRe: Wives And Mothers, I Need Your Input by backnbeta(f): 11:50am On Apr 22, 2022
NoToPile:
If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.

Most times our instincts is always right.
That's it. OP, can you cope with his cheating? Can you cope with the emotional and psychological trauma your suspicions may bring even as you work on salvaging your marriage? If your answer is yes, consider the reconciliation but don't expect too much unless you have been able to address the underlying factors which made him decide on separation in the first place. Whatever happens, prepare yourself mentally; your instincts are likely right undecided
EducationRe: Ngige: Suspension Of Strike ‘depends On ASUU by backnbeta(f): 8:34pm On Apr 21, 2022
It is not ASUU or lack of funds that is keeping Nigerian students at home but misplacement of priorities undecided
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson Explains Why She Was Absent At Rita Dominic’s Wedding by backnbeta(f): 8:03pm On Apr 20, 2022
TheOlusanjo:
Per reports on WithinNigeria, notable faces in the industry missed and failed to acknowledge the Rita Dominic on her big day. Actresses who were not at the occasion include: Genevieve Nnaji, Tonto Dikeh, Funke Akindele-Bello, Shola Sobowale, Mercy Johnson-Okojie, Moyo Lawal, Ada Ameh, Destiny Amaka, Ruth Ezeh, Ruth Kadiri, Omoni Oboli, Nkechi Blessing, Ufuoma McDermott, Lilian Esoro.
Attendance was probably based on invitation and I doubt she invited those on that list undecided
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson Explains Why She Was Absent At Rita Dominic’s Wedding by backnbeta(f): 7:57pm On Apr 20, 2022
undecided
PoliticsRe: LASG Shutdown Chrisland For Fake Rape But Didn't Shutdown BRT For Real Rape by backnbeta(f):
The OP has a valid point- both business owners have the duty of care of persons under their watch/care but the two authorities failed by not ensuring their safety either by hiring people with questionable character or not keeping watch over the children in their care. However, LASG is protecting her investment while punishing another for the same crime of negligence. Unfortunately, Chrisland has more children to protect, more children at risk, so they truly deserve the sanction...hopefully, they'll come out of this better. I suppose LASG is saying the adults on BRT are just going to have to protect themselves undecided
PoliticsRe: 2023: What Jonathan’s Return Means For Nigeria by backnbeta(f): 6:08am On Apr 19, 2022
GEJ should not allow APCheats to tarnish the gentleman image he's enjoying now...they are only calling him because they are desperate to win at all cost and they think GEJ may be their meal ticket. Unfortunately, he will not enjoy that popularity at the polls undecided
BusinessRe: Easter: APCON To Sanction Sterling Bank For ‘Provocative’ Agege Bread Advert by backnbeta(f): 9:15pm On Apr 18, 2022
Heads would've rolled, blood of baboons would have flowed freely if they had made this joke against Allah
EducationRe: Chrisland School Accused Of Covering Up Rape Of 10-Year Old Female Student by backnbeta(f): 7:48pm On Apr 18, 2022
mapet:
So you want Chaperones sacked for what exactly? For the children being corrupt or carrying out sexual acts? While the school was negligent in part though, this seemed to me like parent trying to cover their bad parenting and push it on the school.... and what was the use of the sensational lie that the girl was raped?
Yoruba will say: "won Fi e Joye awodi, oole gbe adiye" (they elected you as the hawk, you can't pick a chick). These people were there to ensure the children slept on time, in the right rooms, ate and did everything accordingly and timely. I won't be surprised if they were sunbathing at a beach, trying out a fancy Asian cuisine or taking pictures while the children were messing up undecided
EducationRe: Chrisland School Accused Of Covering Up Rape Of 10-Year Old Female Student by backnbeta(f):
I'm sure the children were chaperoned to ensure proper behavior- they couldn't have been sent to Dubai without a guardian! Thus, should start by sacking the chaperones for neglecting their primary duty of watching over the kids. I have nothing much to say, but like someone said earlier; when you hand over the care of your children to other people, you can't expect much.

BTW, I hope the matter has been reported at the appropriate quarters- Twitter police and social media trial crew can't handle the criminal aspect undecided
CrimeRe: On This Day, 2015: Muslims Murdered 12 Christians For Praying To God by backnbeta(f): 4:41pm On Apr 16, 2022
BetterHeadline:
Here, we only pray to Allah.



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3044584/Pray-Allah-ll-throw-overboard-Muslims-ordered-Christians-punctured-dinghy-African-migrants-sank-Mediterranean.html
Even as bloody immigrants fleeing to Christian communities...they still want to shed blood! Na their way undecided
PoliticsRe: Train Attack: Negotiations Stalled As FG Rejects Demand For Commanders Release by backnbeta(f): 6:37am On Apr 16, 2022
Unintelligent people thinking Nigerians are as dumb as they are grin
CrimeRe: Fact Check: Was Toyosi Kidnapped And Raped? by backnbeta(f): 8:03am On Apr 15, 2022
kaladoz:
Toyosi herself made a video confessing that she was not kidnapped or raped.
Possibly under duress! There's need for further investigation.
CrimeRe: Toyosi Was "Wrongfully Restrained" by the Suspects - Police Release Statement by backnbeta(f): 7:14am On Apr 15, 2022
If she was wrongfully restrained, how can her cry for help be false information?
CrimeRe: I Was Chasing Clout - Lady Who Tweeted That She Was Being Kidnapped, Raped by backnbeta(f): 10:30am On Apr 14, 2022
Let the police decide whether you were threatened or not undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Catholic Church Believes In Separation From Bed, Not Divorce - Father Oluoma by backnbeta(f): 9:45am On Apr 14, 2022
Nuttella:
the difference between divorce and separation is that when you are separated, you are still married to him and you can't remarry till he dies. When you divorce him, you can remarry and divorce is not allow in Christiandom. The only thing that can separate you and your husband is death.
On the contrary, divorce is allowed in Christiandom (Mathew 19:9). Why separate from a man only to live a lonely and miserable life while he catches his cruise? So, a 35-year-old christian man/woman is expected to remain separated(but married undecided) to a spouse who will probably live for 40 more years? Divorce is better than living a sinful IMO
Christianity EtcRe: Catholic Church Believes In Separation From Bed, Not Divorce - Father Oluoma by backnbeta(f): 6:28am On Apr 14, 2022
NickD:
There are grounds for nullification of marriage in the Catholic Church example if one spouse hides certain critical information (could be health status or having children without knowledge of the partner, anything enshrined with lies etc) that might make his or her partner decide against going into the union from the start. It is entirely different from divorce. You're not Catholic so you might not understand.
Thanks, I get your point. My point here is in relation to a wedding not based on lies. If you are in an abusive marriage, you will divorce and not nullify because you are terminating the contract. But from the Catholic point of view, I'm guessing a woman in an abusive marriage has to separate or endure. But a woman or man who was deceived into a marriage can call for nullification based on the lies. Like you said, I'm not a Catholic and it may be difficult for me to understand. Thanks all the same.
Christianity EtcRe: Catholic Church Believes In Separation From Bed, Not Divorce - Father Oluoma by backnbeta(f): 4:56am On Apr 14, 2022
Nullify: make legally null and void; invalidate.
Divorce the legal dissolution of a marriage by a court or other competent body.

Nullify, don't divorce ... what's the difference?
They are one and the same, dear Catholic brethrens!

Separation is okay for a while, but if their hearts don't grow fonder for each other, better to just make your marriage legally null and void or legally dissolve the marriage
RomanceRe: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by backnbeta(f): 4:51am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...
Who says men don't cry? Who says it's in men's nature to hit women? Your mindset is seriously flawed, young man, you need help seriously and fast!
While I agree with you that some women are mouthy and can be provocative, hitting a woman has never been and can never be the solution! It's better to go out in the heat of the moment rather than hit a woman. Men who hit their women also have the tendency to hit their children and other people weaker than them. Been married for over a decade and I can't even imagine my husband hitting me and naturally, I'm sure I've provoked him several times! I have brothers and relatives who will never even consider hitting a woman as part of the available punishments, so where did you get the idea that hitting a woman is part of a man's genetic makeup? Ha ba!
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Terrorists Strike Again, Abduct Many Students In Zamfara College by backnbeta(f): 1:02pm On Apr 13, 2022
A good way to steal money - stage sponsored abductions, get the states or FG to officially approve the payment of Ransom, they transfer a large chunk to their offshore account and they release the abductees or wife a few of them
EducationRe: Who Can Help Me In Translating This Pidgin English To Correct English? by backnbeta(f): 9:35am On Apr 13, 2022
airminem:
you see how many years english take senior you abi tongue
undecided
EducationRe: Who Can Help Me In Translating This Pidgin English To Correct English? by backnbeta(f): 9:27am On Apr 13, 2022
Znation:
She said i should help her with the the correct english to this sentence;

How Many Years I Take Senior You?
By how many years am I older than you?
I'm older than you by how many years?
How much older than you am I?

Choose one undecided
CelebritiesRe: 'she Is Not Who You Think She Is' - Funke Akindele's Stepson Spills Amid Marriag by backnbeta(f): 5:35am On Apr 13, 2022
Mr Bello should work harder at making his own money; it's not easy maintaining a man with grown up children from another woman undecided
PoliticsRe: VP Osinbajo And His Lies By Farooq A. Kperogi by backnbeta(f):
Forget your mumuric rccgenisation propaganda because it'll only work on the gullible! You never for once condemned Bubu's very obvious islamisation agenda, why is it paining you that a Christian wants to be the president of Nigeria?

While I think Osinbajo is just a bloody Fulani slave and may not make a good president, it is now established that what you hate is his religion and not his person!

Let's get real here; your hatred for the Christian religion is getting too obvious for a supposed academic of high repute! Enjoy the facilities your christian host country is providing for you in peace and stop condemning christians if you can't relocate to Afghanistan, Iraq or Saudi Arabia!
PoliticsRe: Farooq Kperogi: Lies May Bloom But Bears No Fruit By by backnbeta(f): 4:39pm On Apr 12, 2022
Guy is a closet Muslim fanatic and he can't stand christians undecided
PoliticsRe: IPOB To Start Enforcing Ban On Cow Meat, Open Grazing April 27th by backnbeta(f): 6:06am On Apr 12, 2022
This is actually necessary and long overdue! If you can't ranch your cows, keep them in your bushes and spare ours!
PoliticsRe: Kaduna: Arrested People In Viral Video Were Herders Mistaken For Bandits– Police by backnbeta(f): 6:02am On Apr 12, 2022
Whoever they arrest down South is the culprit- no investigation. Even if you'll be free, minimum of 7 months await you in kuje prison. But up North, they swing into action with immediate alacrity in order to free their people and vindicate them undecided
PoliticsRe: Osibanjo Is As Clueless As Buhari And Most Unqualified To Run For President by backnbeta(f): 5:58am On Apr 11, 2022
Zikojukwu:
Those trying to remove Osibanjo from the woeful failure of this administration are not only dishonest but dangerously irresponsible. If we want to save Nigeria, we must push cluelessness into the gutter and pick honest and clear-headed people. Osibanjo has no ground, no achievement to compaign for except his vote-buying fraud called trader money. Tell me otherwise. He and Buhari have brought untold hardship and avoidable deaths, he should be begging Nigerians for forgiveness not votes.
Your accusations may not be wrong sir- Osinbajo hasn't shown much action and little achievements as the vice president. However, while you drum your criticisms with one hand, reign in your preferred candidate with the other hand. Don't just condemn; present a noble candidate that is better qualified so we can make an informed decision undecided
PoliticsRe: The North Has Witnessed Peace Under APC, Buhari Gov’t – Rep by backnbeta(f): 5:46am On Apr 11, 2022
adenigga:
“Nigerians love APC, they love Buhari
Who are these Nigerians that love failure?
adenigga:
“If I should ask you which other political party exists in the country with that kind of credential certainly, you will reply that there’s non.”
Honestly, this is the only truth in the epistle! Yes, no other political party exists in the country with their shitty credentials! Which other party has allowed killings, terrorism, kidnapping and stealing on this scale? Surely there is none!
PoliticsRe: Sell Nigeria Instead Of Taking N6 Trillion Fresh Loan - Timi Frank Tells Buhari by backnbeta(f): 5:30am On Apr 11, 2022
Good sold already undecided
CrimeRe: Staff of Yinka Ayefele’s Fresh FM Radio Station Robbed During Live Broadcast by backnbeta(f): 3:32pm On Apr 10, 2022
Malory:
My Yoruba brothers pls let us stop stealing. We can't even respect the holy month of Ramadan and Easter. Is that how low we have descended as a tribe? Every bad news now in Nigeria is from us
Yes, all bad news now in Nigeria comes from you and your kin- you know who you are because you're not Yoruba undecided
PoliticsRe: Shiek Nura Khalid: They Were Happy When I Hit Jonathan Hard, Asked Him To Resign by backnbeta(f): 9:11am On Apr 10, 2022
Naturally, a killer won't want you to wield a sword near his head. Bunch of hypocrites they are

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