₦airaland Forum

spyder880:
Oba, Anambra state. A new housing estate. ........

Are you planning a housing estate in Oba?

Why was he wearing 2 different shoes?

Buhari that cannot lead Nigeria..smh

So he love his wife dearly but wont let Peter drink and keep cup abi? Peter also love his wife lola

Who does oshiomole think he is Last time he was giving directives or was it ultimatum to minister and now this, what will he do next?

The guy man for finish him show first.

€75m on Higuain was the waste of money.

Although I don't like the spending too much money for one player but the Ronaldo deal is a somewhat good business move for Juventus. But Juventus need to market the hec out of Ronaldo in his first 2 years.

Good development.

But when are they going to quiz Tinubu and Amaechi? Just asking for a friend.

DEEKAH7:
Thanks alot Bro..
Yes, ryt now to d best of my knowledge is d onli barrier she's holding on to. And its owing to d fact dat most marriages around her are of couples frm difft Languages and d worse is 2 of dem are broken marriages,,evn if I've tried to giv her examples of those stil in d marriage da are of difft languages,she stil remains adamant,, tellin me she has said her own..
I knw i need or i am to make decisions of my own,, but Broda dis mumsy mehn,, Am all she has today, dnt knw hw to make dis work.... Neva knew language ws gonna b a barrier cos i once discussd it wit her, she dint object, mayb tinkin i ws joking....
I want my woman to b happy comin into d family,wnt my mum to b happy wit d woman I'm bringing.. Not forcing dem on each oda....

My brother, I feel your pain.

Just ask your mom what if your lady is learning igbo and trying to perfect her language skills? Would that make it better? Tell her she is trying to learn and she is very anxious to be fluent so she can communicate well with her mother in law and your family members. You need to try to sell it.

Then teach your lady as long as she is understanding and willing to learn.. she could watch igbo movies on youtube, listen to igbo radio stations and plus you doing your bit to teach her. She will learn.

But again, this is all assuming that this was her only reason.

Brother, in as much as this is a difficult moment in your life.. don't give up, stay strong. You gotta give it your all, try what you can within your reach to ensure everyone is happy.

Think about this, what if you live in Germany or Spain or Italy? Would your mother insist the lady learn igbo before you marry her? Most likely you would have married the lady and tell your mom afterwards. Again I understand the differences in the society but one thing is the same, your happiness and that of your family.

Always remember and do not forget this, never marry anyone out of pity and do not marry to please anyone.

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Babyforever:
Don't take it personal was just asking for a friend

Oh I see. No harm no foul. Tell your friend I said hello.

Babyforever:
So you're married

Hmmmm... why the question? I don't think we have met

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DEEKAH7:
Wow... Dats nice..i am in similar situation ryt now.. Introduced my Girl to my mum,, although mum likes her,, she's hardworking and all...but mum just said No..
Her reason??
She's from Kogi and we are frm d East.. D language barrier... Mum said she wnt Me to marry a girl if she comes to d House, she can speak d language to and relate well.... Plz i need ur advice....i need u guys advice....

P. S. Am her only Son....
#no harsh words plz.. Passin tru alot alredi

Oh! That's a concern but not a huge concern.but are we sure this was her real reason? ( just saying)
Mine, was even bigger headache.

But,

Is your girl willing to learn igbo? Try to teach her and gradually she will learn.then when you visit your mom she can communicate a little and gradually she will pick up the language. Your mom will also appreciate that the lady was able to adapt.

My number one concern self is if the language barrier was your mother's only reason.

Calm down my guy, I know it is tough. Remember marriage is not friendship. You deserve to be happy and enjoy the rest of your life . Don't marry anyone out of pity and as well do not marry just to please anyone.

Cheers my oga

LilSfc:
There is this girl I met at my working place in the mid last year, we exchanged contact that day, and one thing led to the other and we started dating. We are really into each other and I can sense how much she care about me compared to other relationships I have been in the past.

But when my mum got to know about her, she said she's not in support with our relationship and she has never said such in my past relationship.

Please I want to seek advice from nairalanders on how I can peacefully end the relationship without hurting her feelings.

And how can I justify myself so that she won't have a bad impression about me (and men in general) that I just use her and dump her.

Before thinking about breakup... First ask your mother why she is against your relationship and then put 2 and 2 together.

I had similar experiences my self, I asked my mom and the response I got was not satisfactory , I proceeded with the marriage, she did come around after a while. As I type this message, she is here in my house talking to my wife and carrying our child just right now at this moment.

Always remember this, we all love our mothers but the bottom line is, we are the ones to stay married with our wives/husbands and not them.

Cheers!

KingLennon:
The day Aliko Dangote declares his intention to run for the president or the senate. I will vote him...

He won't and that is smart. If he joins politics it will negatively affect his business

With all this defection left and right.

I bet many Nigerians want to defect to Australia, Canada, U.S or somewhere in Europe.

In Michigan, Ford usually cover their vehicles completely, the only things you could see are the windscreen and the headlamps

The plot thickens..

2019 will be interesting.

EgunMogaji:
I am currently processing one of my CAC with the OP.

Watch out for a review on Monday once I am in possession of my completed documentation. I am pretty satisfied so far and with a renewed faith that there are still good and honest hard working people in Nigeria.

Patiently waiting for your review.

I have neither used any of the airlines so not sure of their services. But I am proud of Ethiopia airlines, it looks like a well run organization ( considering African and their mostly mismanagement attitudes).

Qatar is not bad either.

But what I find interesting tho is how Nigerian Air is not even fully operational and companies are fighting to be the majority shareholder.

Why was she grabbing the other girls boobs nah

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That was very unprofessional from someone of Oliseh's calibre.

We all need to know for everyone, there should be a professional side of you and personal side of you. Making such a statement that French people will find offensive will not help him in his professional pursuit and depicits a right/wrong image about his character.

He could have just said congrats France and in his living room watching with his friends he can say whatever he wants to say.

[quote author=4601CE post=69427033][/quote]Yep.. One guy from my school that time was locked up because the girlfriends dad did not like him...yep

This dey happen...

Not sure if this story is true or false.

But Some people are in jail because they didn't greet their land lady and she found it disrespectful and supposedly knows the DPO.. Yep true story.

Nothing surprises me anymore

midolian:


That sweet feeling you get when you watch your son score in a final match..

How many of you have noticed this, ..any team that wins Nigeria at any stage of the world cup does not get to lift the trophy in the end.

Nothing beats badbelle from Nigerians

Nigeria village people strong gan..

princejenks:
what's this one saying? Two kids can't keep playing for 20 years,they actually do grow up and pursue their separate destinies,just cos they are twins doesn't tie them to the same destiny. You should be smart enough to realize this happens everyday in reality,deal with it and stop blaming him for their breakup

I don't lose any sleep over Psquare saga. Whether they are together or not is none of my business.

The issue i raised which you failed to understand is that , change begins with us as individuals. Also, we should remove the log in our eyes before pointing out to others to remove the logs in thier eyes.

Jude Fücked up big time with the way he handled the Psquare issue, if the boys want to be men.. Just let them be and as an elder try to make the transition smoothly. I know the inside stories but i will keep it to myself and only discuss what the public knows about the incident.

Have you watched the video Jude was threatening Peter? Is that how to be a leader? As a big brother you ensure unity in the family and make some sacrifices to ensure togetherness. Jude woefully failed on that aspect and here he is calling out presidents of hundreds of millions of people while he could not lead 2 people.