₦airaland Forum

DesChyko:
Interesting.

iammo:




Who and who did MohBad go to fight that he got his hands fractured, why are they fighting him

Who was the auxiliary nurse that administered an injection on him at home instead of an hospital

How can a 27 be hypertensive with such heart beat rate, pulse

Why was he hurriedly buried without proper autopsy

I trust police to scatter all they are trying to hide, his father isn't speaking up all needs to be known, he is covering up some details



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NwaNimo1:
If you believe this you have 'Colo Mentality'

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Emancipate your mind and free yourself from mental bondage!

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k

DaddyCoool:
What good has producing almost all the heads of state since independence done Hausa people??

Racoon:
Of course Farooq can only continue to grandstand deceiving himself and his gullible followers that all the issues raised @ the PEPT are non-issues. He fully knows that all of them will be serious issues of multiple litigations in his adopted country of the United States that have strong institutions.

We can continue to downplay and rationalise all manners of illegalities and unconstitutionality because we have primordial ethno-religio-regional supremacist sentiments or to be politically correct.

Kingcalls:
U sef use ur head... how can a person be raped 400 times ...was she kidnapped for ages ??

Tracka:
I am not the one calling for nonsense justice. At least, I could not do anything then, and I don't have anything to do now. It's better this way than being a hypocrite like you guys. If you people had applied the energy you are applying now, there would have been a 90% chance that Mohbad would still be alive. Of what use it is now that he's dead??

Yujin:
Must you guys turn everything to tribalism? You should wait to hear the full story before allowing tribalism take the better of you. Did you see anyone tribalise Mohbad's death? Why are you sons of Oduduwa so attached to tribalism? Tufiakwa!

Tracka:
Where were you people when the young man was calling for intervention up and down Now that he's dead, everybody is Justice advocate

Meanwhile.... it's a season of sex tapes, another celebrity, Mhiz Gold accused, watch here>>>>>> https://trendygists.com/2023/09/15/its-melanie-choco-netizens-reacts-to-mhiz-gold-alleged-leak-sex-tape-video/

“The community has been so nice to him, but unfortunately, this is how he rewarded us. He had been presenting himself as a qualified medical doctor to the people, but he is not. Police investigation revealed that he has a BSc and a Master’s degree in Economics. We were told that he went to a nursing school but abandoned his programme along the way. He has done a lot of damage to our people.”

gift2xl:
The whole community should go for scan and those that has visited there should equally go for scan. Most Nigerians are wicked.

Righthussle:
Oga you go talk tire. Shishi una no go see from me and my family again.

Any god that needs money should use his power to collect it from CBN or IMF or better still sit down and create money for himself. I don't have shishi to give to any god through anybody.


Money is nonsense but you accept tithe and offering from ritualists, scammers and yahoo boys.

Old pulpit bandits.

isan:
This guy is not a 419 he's 41,10

Tetrisbiz:
I never wanted to do this and this is a very embarrassing situation but I need help from nairaland users.

I have an older brother in his early 40s. Since I was a child till this very moment, this person has been a torn on the flesh of my parents and the family in general.

Sometime in 2020, with the help of my elder sister's husband ( the HR) we were able to find a job for him as a supervisor in a factory and then I and my immediate elder brother (another sibling of mine) contributed money and rented an apartment for him in Lagos and then bought some property to furnish the apartment. To our surprise, my elder brother starting forcing his sexual advances on junior female workers and if any of these girls reject his advances he would start threatening the girls that he would get them fired with the help of the HR (My sister's husband). Forunately my sister's husband found out what was going on and rejected my brother's request for the female workers to be sacked. This started a war between my elder brother and my sister and her husband.

My elder brother eventually left that company (note he wasn't fired he LEFT by himself) and went back to the village. When my father heard this he almost collapsed as he knew the trouble that was coming his way.

Since he returned to the village he started assaulting my parents and I had to send money (about 400,000) back to Nigeria for him to rent a flat just so he could leave my parents alone. My brother stayed in that apartment for 3 months then started fighting his landlord and then told his landlord he couldn't stay for the year and demanded some part of his rent back,he took his rent, returned to the village and picked up from where he left by fighting my father ( a very old man). Its so bad that my father sometimes leaves the house (The house that he built as a family house) and stays outside for hours before returning home.

Please do we have restraining order laws in Nigeria and is there a particular police division in the Nigerian police or legal system that can be used to address an issue such as this?

I'm tired and I'm considering taking a drastic and extremely aggressive decision to resolve this situation once and for all.

Sirchiboy:
...
I have a brother like that before.
Now he is doing fine.
Don't blame your brother.
Your brother is mentally and emotionally traumatised.
Police torture won't solve it..
I believe your brother is a cultist, who smoke and do drug.
Your brother is a potential great man...
Let him learn handwork or if you have money send him out of the country

Acekidc4:
Who be Emir 🤨🤔 Emir wey Ganduje a Governor Sack Comot for Throne 🤔 dey Play!!

MercyStan:
Good people die everyday but yet everyone keeps quiet.

Yet one street tug and drug addict dies and social media will not rest.

Abeg free this story. The Mohbad wasn't a saint. You all should stop talking like he was a good person.

He was part of the people misleading our youths.

Livelystone01:
Is it the toilet that stopped them from playing better? Be honest with your analysis and you will discover that the same Glazers have bought the players you all (fans) cried for every season and at exorbitant prizes at that due to fans pressure.

Fans asked for Sancho, Fernandes, Casemiro, Anthony, and now Amrabat, etc? If Amrabat plays badly, y'all will still call for the heads of the Glazers even when they gave you what you guys asked for.

These same Glazers have delivered by giving y'all the cash and players needed but they are still called names. It is obvious that the problem is not them anymore because they can't provide what you want and still manage these same players.

Other smaller teams have same facilities or worse, yet, they are not complaining about off field issues to cover up their onfield problems.

The manager is bad with tactics and adaptations, the Glazers are not football managers, please cut them some slack.

ispreloaded:
Until ten hag leave this team nothing like progress.... coach is zero tactics n bai's....

victorazyvictor:
Arabambi! aragbagi there

tete7000:
When is Joke Silva getting an appointment with all her support for Tinubu's presidency?

JAMO84:
Hakeem Muri Okunola might be next governor of Lagos State

Kingcalls:
400 times ..as per sex slave... lies...

stanlink:
Until you started going back for more your self
Maybe you where enjoying it

Paul1212:
God bless this woman. One of the best appointments from Tinubu.

KiNg0G:
I'm not here to criticize anyone, but as a music lover and a pro analyst, we all know opportunities come in different forms.


Here is my top 5 countdown to musicians who couldn't seize that moment when it was needed the most!!

5) Ice Prince Zamani

It's okay to say you don't want to rap any more. It's okay to tell a girl you like her waste in particular, but what happens from there? We all thought this is it, zamani is back when he did that song with nasty c, jidenna and co, but dude just couldn't seize that moment and revive his career. Instead, he went down the more.

4) PSQUARE

The duo broke up due to a family dispute and later reunited to make a comeback in the Nigerian entertainment industry. We all thought they were coming back, harder due to the hype of their shows and reunion fans were happy waiting for their next banger. But like I said, 2021 on a topic that made fp that it was too late for them which I got criticized by so many people calling me names I'm not Gos but it turns out I was right. Psquare couldn't seize the moment of their reunion to make a huge comeback and now we can hardly hear of them.

3) Victor Ad

If you nor get money wetin you gain o! The Wetin you gain crooner who came out with that single few years ago was an inspiration to the youth especially yahoo boys who wants to drive benz and live lavida loca lifestyle. The song blew all over Africa that he was featured by obo davido the next week. Victor ad really didn't take his chances as much as I thought he would. I mean, come on take a look at Asake, he came with just a song and started bombarding the entertainment industry with several new songs topping chart's here and there and now he has made an imprint and wont be easily forgotten.

2) Duncan mighty

The port Harcourt first son did messed up his chances of reviving his career when he featured wizkid on fake love. That was a huge opportunity to make it back to the entertainment industry. Everyone was happy he was back.. weneee mighty don show hoping to hear more vibes with his melodious voice and, matured tunes, but he disappointed so many fans.

1) Black face

If I was black face all this years of convincing people that my friend stole my song and made it his. I would have written another song and make a huge comeback. Black face was one musician that had Nigerian sympathy for what 2face did to him till today, all he needed was just ONE GOOD SONG to make it to the mainstream and he's back on track grabbing awards and accolades.

007kjb:
The put psquare arguably the most successful musicians in this country and what is Duncan mighty doing in the list

jmoore:
Why can't the mumu reno mockery tell that to Atiku he claims to support?

Atiku posted many things against Tinubu's certificate.

The coward should be brave for once in his iifetime.