₦airaland Forum

dingbang:
that's what you think.... All I see is a woman who is supportive... Get that

If you say so.

devour129:
you are so wise !

Aaah. No be wisdom ooooo. I no wise kobo. Na experience.

dingbang:
Wives of the old days are far better than new age wives

If one should delve deep into that comment it basically means they were more slave-like and submissive.

paiz:
Real men don't beat a lady in public
you take her inside

Modified

All of you that is mentioning me...

I mean a real man don't beat a lady in public he should take her inside and fucck the hell out of her
Believe me after the fucck she will appologies

So, they should beaten indoors? Abi na enlish de worry you?

chineduemmao:
Its true that a very public opinion about someone has a greater potential to shape how people will treat the person than his or her own perception of self, but its way too outta line to say "you are what they say you are". Not true! and this is where we are contradicting. since people are bound to fault whatever you do why depend on their opinion?

You are confusing faults with character. A fault is an error that happens occasionally and is seen as that which is then corrected. How can you say a policeman standing in the middle of traffic confidently collecting bribe in full view of everyone a fault? And let's say for argument sake it is a fault; why has it not been corrected? It is what it is. That Nigerians are predominantly corrupt. If it were not so, that scenario would have been corrected a long time ago. You can only be comfortable with what you are. You will never see that in America. Not saying that there is no corruption or crime in America but you know damn sure a policeman does not have the guts to stand in public to collect bribe.

akinade28:
A dinner to "honor his anointing". I swear this just weak me.
Jesus was anointed with holy ghost and power went about doing good and healing those that were oppressed his so called CHILD is going about partying and deceiving gullible people.
I wonder if its d same Holy Ghost

I don't see anything wrong here. They did nothing wrong. They are actually quite sexy. There is no god so you cannot offend something that does not exist.

chineduemmao:
no! what does it mean?

Simply put; it means you are what people think you are. It does not matter what you think of yourself, it does matter however how people see you. I do not mean a select group but the generality of people. This is important because of the fact that us as individual depend on others. A good example is a situation where policemen stand in the middle of traffic demanding bribe with no consequences. What do you think someone from switzerland would think of Nigerians since a policeman can do that confidently and no one arrests him/her? Meanwhile the same Nigerians who claim to be good people, do nothing about it but cry foul when the outside world call them corrupt. Bill clinton is one of the most successful presidents in America's history but the first thing people think of when his name is brought up is a womanizing philanderer. His successes are an after thought. This is why one has to be very careful about one's image and how we portray ourselves.

Kobicove:
Can he honestly say he did not know that before engaging her for marriage?

He was probably blinded by lust

People don't change after marriage!

What you see is what you get!

Actually, people do. You know why? Because you and your spouse will not be stagnant. Things will continue to change around you which will affect your emotions and character. For example; When you get a promotion at work may mean less time spent at home. This may infuriate your spouse. You'll start seeing mood swings from her and not understand that she may be missing you or have suspicions that you are cheating. It can be easily solved if the line of communication between spouses is solid but in African marriages it usually is not. Another example is when she starts having babies. A woman's sex drive reduces once she starts having children. Most men do not understand this and complain when their wives deny them sex and start to believe their wives have changed. And she has changed because it is not easy staying up late night after night to nurse, wake up early to feed and dress the kids for school and still go to work. How sexy do you think she'll feel when she comes back from work? Spouses change all the time. They just have to be aware of it and compensate for the changes.

Jaqenhghar:
They are angry at what Americans think
You need to read the hateful conments they spit at each other in the name of tribe

You de mind dem?

chineduemmao:
i don't totally agree with you i don't dress or do things to impress anybody. And why would a just man search to know what others think about him if he is truly just? The much you think about yourself is enogh and most reliably true unless you waiting for someone to confirm and that is low self esteem.

Again, have you ever heard the term "perception is reality"?

dollytino4real:
u must be an ingrate 4 u to type dat rubblish, d way people are suffering, sucide rate na, are u aware of it.

And yet you are rooting for incompetent corrupt individuals to lead you. You are no better than a child.

dollytino4real:
see me o! abeg pass

I can't. You need to be woken up. You cannot think nor take care of yourself hence the need to do both for you. That you can say GEJ is a good man considering all the evidence to the contrary points to this fact. I am here to help.

FSBoperator:
Arrant nonsense.

You are promoting narcissism in place of self confidence.

Self confidence comes with self assurance and you don't need anybody's compliment since you know you are on the right. How do you know you are on the right? Because of good home training and a disciplined outlook on life.

A narcissistic idiot on the other hand needs to be complimented and assured by others - this is not the hallmark of a self confident being.

And they wonder why they are in the predicament they are in. They won't think nor act the way normal people in normal countries do then turn around and complain when they tag them as phucked up people. Worse is, instead of them to learn and correct their mistakes, they stubbornly dig their heels in, bury their heads in the sand and ignore normalcy. Make una continue. You think it's bad now. Lol. You have no idea what's in store for you all as a people. Smh.

dollytino4real:
it is useless talk from a good man with good intention 4 nigeria with bad cabals

It is just baffling how you people think and assess things in your lives. It is as if you are deliberately sabotaging your own progress as a people. Why?

wristbangle:
I am pleased to read hopeful words from some patriotic Nigerians.

I have friends in overseas that tells me about how some white friends of theirs view africa generally aside South Africa, Egypt, Morocco as a typical village without power supply, GSM services, hut mud houses and other basic amenities hence give more derogatory views about Nigeria except for those who have travelled to the country.

Nigerians are good people but the fact that we are plagued with bad government since independence has changed the mentality of the few good ones to compromised and manipulate their way to the top.

You might wanna rethink the bold comment. If Nigerians were good people, your government would not be bad. Bad citizens=Bad government=bad country. This is a fact. Is this not the same country were it's citizens can execute suspects in the streets and nothing will happen? These are the things other countries see that make them to tag you as phucked up people.

breakeven:
Buhari is the one destroying this country with religious and tribal bigotry. The day we will vote a person who can rise up above this sentiments Nigeria will be great

Buhari is not the problem.

FSBoperator:
The most annoying thing about Nigerians is that they tend to want to know how others feel about them.

It only takes a highly inferiority complexed being to want to know how other people view him or her.

And thats what this thread is all about.

Guy, you should care what others think about you. Do you know why? Ever heard the term "perception is reality"? No man is an island. If Nigeria was self sufficient and did not need any other country in the world to survive then it wouldn't and shouldn't care what others countries think about her. But we all know that is not the case. Even America and Americans care about what other countries think about them talk less of Nigeria. Even you as an individual do it all the time. Every time you dress up to go out you are doing it so as to impress others and to project a good image. If you were alone in the world you wouldn't give a phuck and probably walk around n.aked.

Made spaghetti and shrimp last night. Freaking delicious.

Paperwhite:
Sorry man! You just introduced colossal badluck and failure to your country.Return the image fast and help us carry the real thing.

Buhari is not the problem.

Reference:
So what do you know is happening here. What certainty surrounds your conclusion about this unfortunate, hapless policeman.

You talk as if you don't live in Nigeria. It is the norm that policemen dress any which way they want and walk about the streets. In The U.S or Germany, you will know if a plain clothed person is a policeman or not. He will be wearing a badge on the outfit he has on. Or at the very least, be in the midst of other policemen in Uniform. Don't take my word for it. You have access to google.

Reference:
If you ran into your doctor at a children's party dressed like a clown that makes him what.... and when you have a chicken bone stuck diwn your throat tell him to get dressed properly before bringing it out.

Know the circumstance first.

You do realize you've not made any kind of sense right? There is a reason people wear uniforms for their profession. It inspires confidence and it does not create room from inconsistencies and cofusion. Why are you supporting what is obviously abnormal to everyone? Show me where in a normal society this kind of thing is done. And if i met a doctor at a children's party dressed as a clown i'd know we are at a party which means it is either a costume party or he just performing for the children for that day. Now if he's dressed as a clown in a hospital on a business day with no event happening i would have to scratch my head and wonder what the phuck is going on.

Josephjnr:
Naxo,he is the police and not the uniform.

I'm sure you won't say that if you had met your doctor for the first time dressed like an area boy.

tosyne2much:
Here ends the journey of a promiscuous lady


I hope she survives and learn her lesson

And how do you know how she's promiscuous?

chatinent:
All right reserved.
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Dear prettiest,
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It is a good thing to decipher that prince charming if really he is husband material to avoid stumbling upon. There is this rampant saying that 'real men are difficult to find.' How true is this? Well, let's harness few things to check while choosing a male life partner, not just a male lover!
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1. Am I a side-chick? Yes, dear ladies, you should ascertain your stance in the relationship so as to discover what really he sees you as.
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2. What does he take me as? My dear, you might be an alternative to his boredom. Do check, check and check.
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3. Is he ready? Is he, really? Does his readiness register in your IQ? Is he financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually ready? Or is he just trying to fulfil all righteousness, from maybe his family or likewise?
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4. Are you ready? Suppose he is ready, are you, also? Are you looking up to married Amaka and also wants to be classified among the married? Are you jumping into marriage because of pressure? Maybe, because everyone is? Or perhaps, because you are of age? Don't compromise your future with mere thoughts.
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5. What does he do to earn a living? Dear dear, don't let expensive gifts blind you as it may turn expensive shit. Check what he does for a living? Many ladies feel reluctant in this area. But I tell you dear, you are feeling reluctant for your future.
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6. Where is he from? Does his people approve you? Do yours approve him? Do they? Check all these minors things to fuel your happiness, loveliest.
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7. Does he love you? If you think it doesn't matter, sooner or later, you will know it does.
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8. Do you love him? Please, always marry who you love and who could catch a grenade for you.
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9. Does he have what I call 'marriage maturity?' I mean, does he know what he is jumping into? Will he tomorrow turn you into a punching sack? Will he tomorrow throw you out of his house? Study him.
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10. Is he a drunk? Does he flirt? What are his bad characters? Figure these out! A drunk will make a bad companion. A flirt will still look outside for other skirts.
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Dear beautiful, dating failures are usually marriage failures. - Richie.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=372&st=0&#entry712
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11. Check how long he's lived in Nigeria and if he's gone for psychological evaluation.

cococandy:

No be lie na. I really feel sorry for these people.

GavelSlam:
He doesn't own Lagos.

Lagos has grown astronomically since he assumed an instructive position.

Don't hate the player man, hate the game.

And they wonder why they are not moving forward. Make una continue. In 2090 you all will still be asking what the problem is with Nigeria even though it is glaringly obvious. Smh.

fuckingAyaya:
Ember month we have to be careful

In this phucking day and age people are actually talking about things like this. Smh. What's the point of going to school if you all will continue thinking like cavemen? Why is it in only poverty stricken countries this kind of thing supposedly happens. Why are you people like this? So many questions. What a people.

adisabarber:
Stop blaming the victim you idiot

And why not? If you are s.tupid enough to believe in native doctors in the first place, you deserve to be duped.

Nostradamu:
Really? Jokers. How are we so sure when we pay our taxes it won't suffer the same fate like funds from the Paris Club Refund or the monthly FAAC? Until when proper accountability or a judicious record of how public funds are spent is adhered to, this gospel according to VAIDS na wash.

And this is why Nigeria will never move forward. You can never trust it's leaders to do the right thing which in turn means it's citizens will never do the right thing.

BigBelleControl:
At this point, I finally endorse Fayose for president in 2019. Our biggest problem in this country is hunger and food is the only solution. The way people eat anything meat in this country is ALARMING!!!

And it makes sense to choose someone who will keep you all in perpetual poverty. Makes sense. Smh.

Nutase:
Wow. The grass is not always greener on the other side. These Arabs are perverts

Nigerians are worse.

cococandy:
I'm telling you
So stupid they are

Holy crap!!! Where've you been?