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Nairaland / General / A Message To All The Atheist. by Barbiedollz(f): 1:51pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Hey guys, I've been a member of this forum for over 10 years now but this is the first time I'll be making a post. So I saw this article on "why so many people decided to turn atheist". A lot of people gave out their reasons which were very valid and I had nothing but empathy for them. One of them said she was assaulted in church and blamed for it and she was just 12. One other person said his girlfriend was raped by her uncle and the church blamed her citing that no person of "faith" can be raped. Meaning there was something in her that attracted rape. Meanwhile the uncle was not punished for his actions because he brought money to the church. Eventually he raped her again. You see one of the reasons why I do not judge atheists is because 90% of them turned that way as a result of misconceptions and misinterpretation about God and the bible. Many religioys bodies have succeeded in painting God to be an evil being. A stern man who is ready to wipe you with a cord on your neck when you disobey him, and has allowed all the evil things in the world to happen. How do you expect people to be friend's with such a person? They have succeeded in creating so many enemies for God. When you tell someone who just had one of the most heartbreaking experiences of his life that it was God that let it happen, you expect that same person to love a God who causes bad things to happen? A God who would cause him pain and sadness? Personally I stopped going to church this year because I wanted to understand the person of God raw from his word and not from what one preacher was saying. I can tell you it's being the most profound experience of my life. Words cannot describe it. I've built a relationship and a sensitivity to God that I never had. I hear him everytime and I feel like we just have conversations everyday. So on behalf of my father the Most High, I want to apologize to those who have been wronged by the church and have had a wrong misrepresentation of God and as a result have turned away to become atheists. I want to say that he loves you with the whole of his heart, he loves you to a fault. He loves you more than your mind can grasp and no, he is not the cause of your pain and troubles. The only plan he has for us is to prosper us. Any other thing you experience is the hand work of the devil. You are is prize, his jewel. And if it means coming again just to die for only you. Yes you. He would do it a thousand times because he loves you that much. I hope you reconcile your relationship with him. Happy Sunday and cheers. |
Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:31pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
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Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kindly drop your email address so I can reach you. quote author=newold post=116115475]I decided to create a new account to make these post. To make the long story short. I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke. Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely. I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction. Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child. i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends. since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed. on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster. even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days. I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me. I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do. PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE. ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING. IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME [/quote] |
Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:27pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Can you drop your email address so I can reach you? |
Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: |
Celebrities / Re: Victoria Peters Ngozi 'Vichiano' Celebrates Birthday With Brand New Car (Photos) by Barbiedollz(f): 12:15pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
OneCandleAway: I tire |
Politics / Re: Joe Igbokwe To Osinbajo: Show Respect And Withdraw From Presidential Race Now by Barbiedollz(f): 12:07pm On Apr 11, 2022 |
osinbanjoisaliar: Foolish man. Foolish comment. |
Celebrities / Re: Lady Accuses Timaya Of Hit And Run, Victim Seriously Injured (video) by Barbiedollz(f): 3:28pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
[quote author=Niece post=110701237]Nigerian dancehall musician Inetimi Timaya Odon, stage name ‘Timaya’ has been accused of almost killing a young lady with his car. According to an Instagram user, Osinubi Omowumi, who claimed to be the sister of the victim, the music star rammed his car into her sister after she challenged him for damaging her car. she wrote. Omownmi also shared videos of her bleeding sister who was undergoing treatment. The victim was injured on the head and leg. Watch the video below: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8WaQ_sXpLI https://www.instagram.com/p/CanZLs0odhV Most of all these so called celebrities are no longer normal. The things they've indulged themselves in all for fame make them behaved abnormal. Its quite hard to get to this stage of life in some industries such as entertainment and not lose your humanity. |
Romance / Re: I Asked My Girlfriend What Is Happening In Ukraine And This Is What She Told Me by Barbiedollz(f): 6:45pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
kyber: And this girl will be somewhere thinking you love her. You already laughed so hard at her so you brought the matter public for us to laugh too and shame her for not knowing Ukraine? I can't believe this. You brought your girlfriend to the public to ask people's opinion about her intelligence? My dear please just go home and break up with that girl. You don't love her. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. |
Romance / Re: See The Valentine Gifts I Bought For My Sugarpie by Barbiedollz(f): 1:01pm On Feb 13, 2022 |
[quote author=shilenji post=110177606]I didn't mean it that way tho, I'm saying try to do something for them too on that day. Thank you very much....awon I too know. |
Romance / Re: See The Valentine Gifts I Bought For My Sugarpie by Barbiedollz(f): 1:00pm On Feb 13, 2022 |
slawormiir: Doesn't matter....what matters is that it comes from the heart. Relationship shouldn't be about calculating every action your partner takes or does. That's a game and very immature. |
Travel / Re: I Have Finally Left Nigeria by Barbiedollz(f): 10:09pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Kriss216: What is the meaning of this? I just hope this hate on Nigerian girls on this forum is not real and just a light way of having fun cos if it is, I feel really pity for you guys. Honestly. |
Celebrities / Re: Eniola Badmus Shows Off New Curvy Body After Successfully Losing Weight (video) by Barbiedollz(f): 7:59pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
andysmith123:Don't you know her previous weight? If you know her previous weight you would see a lot of weight loss there. That's someone's effort and sacrifice you're undermining. Do you know what it is to lose weight? I'm not a fat person but I know how hard it is to delay gratification for something you want to achieve. Only the strong and disciplined can achieve this. |
Politics / Re: Soludo To Promote Made In Anambra & Igbo Products Nationally And Globally by Barbiedollz(f): 7:54pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
They have started. Talk, talk, talk. Promises they will never keep. |
Celebrities / Re: Jackie Appiah Greets Pete Edochie On Set (Video) by Barbiedollz(f): 7:51pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
Pete is a legend. He's like the grand patron of Nollywood. 4 Likes |
Agriculture / Re: Turkey Farmer Makes His Cow Wear VR Goggles To Increase Milk Production by Barbiedollz(f): 8:07pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Just imagine the amount of thought going into Cows just to make them more productive. Imagine taking into consideration the emotions of cows yet humans here are not treated with the least amount of regard in their work places. |
Politics / Re: Refineries Go Comatose Six Months After They Became Operational by Barbiedollz(f): 1:40pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
eleojo23:who is the country? or you mean to say you don tire for this people. All of us put together, including you. |
Religion / Re: Ozubulu Killing: Priest Who Officiated The Mass During The Attack Speaks by Barbiedollz(f): 1:18pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Aufbauh:This is just a notification that succession won't give you the peace and happiness you're looking for. whether you become Biafra or remain Nigerian, you'll still have a lot of reasons to be unhappy if you do not find it within yourselves. you can only find peace and happiness within your heart. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Widow Banished For Having Sex On Late Husband’s Bed In Ebonyi (Photo) by Barbiedollz(f): 6:16pm On Jul 21, 2017 |
cherr:maybe the grandmother was mean to her. you know we have some mean old ladies. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Barbiedollz(f): 4:55pm On Jul 21, 2017 |
Being the punch line of almost any joke even among friends because of lack of reply. Thinking too much and paying too much attention to everything. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: 10 People Who Died The Unluckiest Deaths by Barbiedollz(f): 10:17pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
Quelme:lolz. why na. God forgive me oo. its just funny sha. |
Celebrities / Re: Seyi Law Fires Back At Kemi Olunloyo Over Her Response To Him by Barbiedollz(f): 1:54pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
Jarizod:i'm not really in support of him introducing Yoruba people in this tread but outside this it is true, like very true. Yoruba's are heavy noise makers. I remember back then in the compound i stayed during my service year, my neighbours will be gisting on top of their voices and i'll try to peep through my window to see if their almost fighting only for me to realise it was a mere gist, not even an argument. I got used to though. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Beggars In Nigeria Will Start Paying Tax – FG by Barbiedollz(f): 1:35pm On Jul 15, 2017 |
Honestly women are meannnnnn |
Celebrities / Re: Lanre Gentry Shares His Kirikiri Prison Experience Hours After His Release by Barbiedollz(f): 3:49pm On May 18, 2017 |
Kenshinmunac:you sound so much like someone i know |
Family / Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Barbiedollz(f): 12:24pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
when will Nigerian people stop allowing their parents to make decisions for them. I mean yes we all love our parents but there's a limit to which you can let them interfere in your life. you're an adult for Christ sake. Don't forget these people left their parents house way way early in life. They already had kids at your age now yet they want to keep making decisions for you till when? you better stand up for yourself cos you're a man and most especially you believe in what you're fighting for. Always remember this: if it ain't worth it, it wldn't be a struggle. you shld be happy cos their fight about it shld make you realise you're not making a mistake. fight for your self. prepare for the worse man. they might threathen to not come for your wedding or nt even come. still stand your ground. they're your parents they can't hate you for long. |
Politics / Re: Name The Worst Three Performing Governors In Nigeria by Barbiedollz(f): 11:40am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Bayelsa state governor should definitely top the list. there can be nothing worse than him right now. |
Romance / Re: Guys, If She Possesses Any Of These Traits, Pls Take Her To Your Moma Asap. by Barbiedollz(f): 7:44pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
I think this best descrbes Samantha. the new Barcelonia sex doll. |
Romance / Re: Guys, If She Possesses Any Of These Traits, Pls Take Her To Your Moma Asap. by Barbiedollz(f): 7:43pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
I think this should be Samantha. the new Barcelonia sex doll |
Health / Re: Checkout My Body Work After Few Days In The Gym.. by Barbiedollz(f): 7:30pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
And you seriously thought nairaland was the best place for you to do your body progress assessment. lol. see the gym sef. why is it looking like that. lol |
Religion / Re: Dwarf RCCG Pastor & Barrister Weds In Abuja Today (Photos) by Barbiedollz(f): 6:57pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
is this girl even up to 18? she looks so young. anyways congrat. love is blind |
Romance / Re: Married Lady Exposes A Sexually Starved Man On Facebook Asking Her For Sex(pics) by Barbiedollz(f): 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
RoyalBlak007:lol same thing i almost said |
Romance / Re: Married Lady Exposes A Sexually Starved Man On Facebook Asking Her For Sex(pics) by Barbiedollz(f): 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
RoyalBlak007:same thing i almost said |
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