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Nairaland / General / A Message To All The Atheist. by Barbiedollz(f): 1:51pm On Nov 13, 2022
Hey guys,

I've been a member of this forum for over 10 years now but this is the first time I'll be making a post.

So I saw this article on "why so many people decided to turn atheist". A lot of people gave out their reasons which were very valid and I had nothing but empathy for them. One of them said she was assaulted in church and blamed for it and she was just 12. One other person said his girlfriend was raped by her uncle and the church blamed her citing that no person of "faith" can be raped. Meaning there was something in her that attracted rape. Meanwhile the uncle was not punished for his actions because he brought money to the church. Eventually he raped her again.

You see one of the reasons why I do not judge atheists is because 90% of them turned that way as a result of misconceptions and misinterpretation about God and the bible. Many religioys bodies have succeeded in painting God to be an evil being. A stern man who is ready to wipe you with a cord on your neck when you disobey him, and has allowed all the evil things in the world to happen. How do you expect people to be friend's with such a person? They have succeeded in creating so many enemies for God. When you tell someone who just had one of the most heartbreaking experiences of his life that it was God that let it happen, you expect that same person to love a God who causes bad things to happen? A God who would cause him pain and sadness?

Personally I stopped going to church this year because I wanted to understand the person of God raw from his word and not from what one preacher was saying. I can tell you it's being the most profound experience of my life. Words cannot describe it. I've built a relationship and a sensitivity to God that I never had. I hear him everytime and I feel like we just have conversations everyday.

So on behalf of my father the Most High, I want to apologize to those who have been wronged by the church and have had a wrong misrepresentation of God and as a result have turned away to become atheists. I want to say that he loves you with the whole of his heart, he loves you to a fault. He loves you more than your mind can grasp and no, he is not the cause of your pain and troubles. The only plan he has for us is to prosper us. Any other thing you experience is the hand work of the devil.

You are is prize, his jewel. And if it means coming again just to die for only you. Yes you. He would do it a thousand times because he loves you that much. I hope you reconcile your relationship with him.

Happy Sunday and cheers.
Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:31pm On Aug 28, 2022
newold:
I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME



Kindly drop your email address so I can reach you.
Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kindly drop your email address so I can reach you.

quote author=newold post=116115475]I decided to create a new account to make these post.

To make the long story short.

I never realised what i was getting myself into until i started googling and then discovered what i had gotten myself into. This has rendered me hopeless, almost useless, and broke.

Since 2020 until now, i have only laboured in vain. i became unable to take proper care and provide for my family not because i don't get paid from work (i do have a work which i do) though the pay does not come every time. Greed, wanting more i would say has lead me to these part that is about to break and destroy me completely.

I have a very loving and hardworking wife, who has saved me countless number of times. i have broken her hearts by these singular addiction. i have tried several ways to stop. but once money gets into my hand the first thing that comes to my mind is to feed my addiction.

Most times i cry alone in the house and wished i could turn back the hand of time. I have felt depressed, lost weights, and my confidence, and the suicidal thoughts as deep down i know i should be better, i should do better for my wife and child.

i lost everything to these monster, my car, my peace, my respects, even some friends.

since 2020 now, i have no savings, infact i empty my account in less than 24 hours because of my greed.

on several occasions i have used the money meant for purchasing another car since after i sold the other one. i spent the money to feed these my monster.

even when i WIN i lose it all back. just 3 months ago. i had lost almost #2m. these happen within 2 days.

I am slowly dyeing inside. when i look at my child and my wife and what my actions have put them through. and for the fact that i keep going back. i then feel there might be something else wrong with me.


I have followed some forums for help but i keep going back. please and please if you know how or what to say to me that will help my situation please do.


PLEASE FOR ANYONE WHO WILL BE READING THESE.

ALWAYS SAY NO TO GAMBLING.

IF YOU HAVE NEVER GAMBLED BEFORE. BPLEASE IS BETTER YOU DON'T TRY SO AS NOT TO EXPERIENCE WHAT MILLIONS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE GOING THROUGH, INCLUDING ME



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Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:27pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589


Can you drop your email address so I can reach you?
Family / Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Barbiedollz(f): 3:26pm On Aug 28, 2022
Kobojunkie:
First thing first, if you haven't already informed your wife and family about your problem, I suggest you do so immediately as they are the only ones who can provide you with the necessary support you may need to help you quit from this point on. Your wife needs to realize what it is that is going on with you.... it is her right as your partner in marriage to know these things. Hopefully, from there you both can work towards a solution together as a couple. undecided

Second, addiction is most likely the problem here and it is a mental illness that requires treatment. Consider seriously seeking help from a professional mental health therapist or a psychiatrist as soon as possible. With the help of family members, you can beat addiction or at least take the reigns back from it in order to manage your life better. undecided

Third, look into finding a local clinic or any mental health facility with a good track record that offers Ibogaine therapy for addiction, and try to get yourself the treatment as soon as you can afford it . https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-17666589

Can you drop your email so I can reach you?

Celebrities / Re: Victoria Peters Ngozi 'Vichiano' Celebrates Birthday With Brand New Car (Photos) by Barbiedollz(f): 12:15pm On Apr 11, 2022
OneCandleAway:
Must she be introduced with the size of her boobs?

Alex dear, well done.

You're doing amazing sweetie.

I tire
Politics / Re: Joe Igbokwe To Osinbajo: Show Respect And Withdraw From Presidential Race Now by Barbiedollz(f): 12:07pm On Apr 11, 2022
Celebrities / Re: Lady Accuses Timaya Of Hit And Run, Victim Seriously Injured (video) by Barbiedollz(f): 3:28pm On Mar 03, 2022
[quote author=Niece post=110701237]Nigerian dancehall musician Inetimi Timaya Odon, stage name ‘Timaya’ has been accused of almost killing a young lady with his car.

According to an Instagram user, Osinubi Omowumi, who claimed to be the sister of the victim, the music star rammed his car into her sister after she challenged him for damaging her car.

she wrote.



Omownmi also shared videos of her bleeding sister who was undergoing treatment. The victim was injured on the head and leg.
Watch the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8WaQ_sXpLI

https://www.instagram.com/p/CanZLs0odhV
Most of all these so called celebrities are no longer normal. The things they've indulged themselves in all for fame make them behaved abnormal. Its quite hard to get to this stage of life in some industries such as entertainment and not lose your humanity.
Romance / Re: I Asked My Girlfriend What Is Happening In Ukraine And This Is What She Told Me by Barbiedollz(f): 6:45pm On Feb 27, 2022
kyber:
I asked my girlfriend what is happening in Ukraine and this is what she told me (pictures)

She told me she doesn’t know and
what is the meaning of Ukraine ?

I laughed so hard ehn and I was like really?

Was she just playing dumb or what?

What do you think?

And this girl will be somewhere thinking you love her. You already laughed so hard at her so you brought the matter public for us to laugh too and shame her for not knowing Ukraine? I can't believe this. You brought your girlfriend to the public to ask people's opinion about her intelligence? My dear please just go home and break up with that girl. You don't love her. You ought to be ashamed of yourself.
Romance / Re: See The Valentine Gifts I Bought For My Sugarpie by Barbiedollz(f): 1:01pm On Feb 13, 2022
[quote author=shilenji post=110177606]I didn't mean it that way tho, I'm saying try to do something for them too on that day.

Thank you very much....awon I too know.
Romance / Re: See The Valentine Gifts I Bought For My Sugarpie by Barbiedollz(f): 1:00pm On Feb 13, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
For your mind

Nor worry

Na 500 hundred naira boxers and singlets she go give you in return.....that na if she go even buy you anything

Doesn't matter....what matters is that it comes from the heart. Relationship shouldn't be about calculating every action your partner takes or does. That's a game and very immature.
Travel / Re: I Have Finally Left Nigeria by Barbiedollz(f): 10:09pm On Feb 02, 2022
Kriss216:
Anywhere but Nigeria is a welcome development.

God bless you TogoBroz.


NB; please stay away from Nigerian girls over there.

What is the meaning of this? I just hope this hate on Nigerian girls on this forum is not real and just a light way of having fun cos if it is, I feel really pity for you guys. Honestly.
Celebrities / Re: Eniola Badmus Shows Off New Curvy Body After Successfully Losing Weight (video) by Barbiedollz(f): 7:59pm On Jan 26, 2022
andysmith123:
where is the loss of weight now?
Don't you know her previous weight? If you know her previous weight you would see a lot of weight loss there. That's someone's effort and sacrifice you're undermining. Do you know what it is to lose weight? I'm not a fat person but I know how hard it is to delay gratification for something you want to achieve. Only the strong and disciplined can achieve this.
Politics / Re: Soludo To Promote Made In Anambra & Igbo Products Nationally And Globally by Barbiedollz(f): 7:54pm On Jan 26, 2022
They have started. Talk, talk, talk. Promises they will never keep.
Celebrities / Re: Jackie Appiah Greets Pete Edochie On Set (Video) by Barbiedollz(f): 7:51pm On Jan 26, 2022
Pete is a legend. He's like the grand patron of Nollywood.

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Agriculture / Re: Turkey Farmer Makes His Cow Wear VR Goggles To Increase Milk Production by Barbiedollz(f): 8:07pm On Jan 21, 2022
Just imagine the amount of thought going into Cows just to make them more productive. Imagine taking into consideration the emotions of cows yet humans here are not treated with the least amount of regard in their work places.
Politics / Re: Refineries Go Comatose Six Months After They Became Operational by Barbiedollz(f): 1:40pm On Aug 08, 2017
eleojo23:
I don tire for this country.
who is the country? or you mean to say you don tire for this people. All of us put together, including you.
Religion / Re: Ozubulu Killing: Priest Who Officiated The Mass During The Attack Speaks by Barbiedollz(f): 1:18pm On Aug 08, 2017
Aufbauh:
Igbo Christains in Biafraland need all our prayers in this trying time of brutalism from the hands of drug-infested Jewish Igbos aka Ipob warmongers.

This strange mishap is unheard of in Igboland before and unacceptable in the African society.
But deep they said calls for deep, hence it can be deduced that Nnamdi Kanu hate speech and brainwashing has transcend mere agitation for secession to bitterness for brotherliness & disregard for sacredness of human life.

My heart is with all the family of the diseased and the entire Christian Igbos.
This is just a notification that succession won't give you the peace and happiness you're looking for. whether you become Biafra or remain Nigerian, you'll still have a lot of reasons to be unhappy if you do not find it within yourselves. you can only find peace and happiness within your heart.

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Family / Re: Widow Banished For Having Sex On Late Husband’s Bed In Ebonyi (Photo) by Barbiedollz(f): 6:16pm On Jul 21, 2017
cherr:
Rubbish! But a man would do the same and they'll hail him.


The old woman has every right to move on.


The Grand daughter is a mega snitch. How can you snitch on your own blood? She needs to be banished too
maybe the grandmother was mean to her. you know we have some mean old ladies.
Nairaland / General / Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Barbiedollz(f): 4:55pm On Jul 21, 2017
Being the punch line of almost any joke even among friends because of lack of reply. Thinking too much and paying too much attention to everything.

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Nairaland / General / Re: 10 People Who Died The Unluckiest Deaths by Barbiedollz(f): 10:17pm On Jul 15, 2017
Quelme:
3. A Thai woman accidentally slipped on mud, grabbed a live wire and was electrocuted to death. The same day, her sister was showing her neighbors how it happened, slipped in the mud, grabbed the same live wire and was also electrocuted death.
In April 1991, in a rural area located 60 miles north of Bangkok, 57-year-old Yooket Paen was walking in the farmyard when the accident happened. Her 52-year- old sister, Yooket Pan, was showing her neighbors later in the day, how the accident happened, and she herself underwent the same set of events which led to her death the same way.
lolz. why na. God forgive me oo. its just funny sha.
Celebrities / Re: Seyi Law Fires Back At Kemi Olunloyo Over Her Response To Him by Barbiedollz(f): 1:54pm On Jul 15, 2017
Jarizod:
Bro na yansh u dey use think ni

You were making sense until you introduced the Yoruba thing..If u ain't tribalistic will u die?

And if person yab ur tribe now u go dey cry say u want ur own country cry
i'm not really in support of him introducing Yoruba people in this tread but outside this it is true, like very true. Yoruba's are heavy noise makers. I remember back then in the compound i stayed during my service year, my neighbours will be gisting on top of their voices and i'll try to peep through my window to see if their almost fighting only for me to realise it was a mere gist, not even an argument. I got used to though.
Nairaland / General / Re: Beggars In Nigeria Will Start Paying Tax – FG by Barbiedollz(f): 1:35pm On Jul 15, 2017
Honestly women are meannnnnn
Celebrities / Re: Lanre Gentry Shares His Kirikiri Prison Experience Hours After His Release by Barbiedollz(f): 3:49pm On May 18, 2017
Kenshinmunac:
Never beat a woman. They are trying, only them go clean house for you,
only them go menstruate,
only them go carry pregnancy with pain.
Only them go give the child breast milk
They will only go through the pain of a torn pussy.
They will also bear the hard Bleep you give them.

Abeg make we use our mind

If she pisses you so bad and you want to hit her, punch a wall or your door like what I do.

Or simply walk away.

Ladies respect your man, man respect your woman.

I give my woman 100% respect, I treat her like a goddess, and she treats me like a God with so much honour.

That's how it's supposed to be


#SayNoToDomesticViolence

you sound so much like someone i know
Family / Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Barbiedollz(f): 12:24pm On Mar 26, 2017
when will Nigerian people stop allowing their parents to make decisions for them. I mean yes we all love our parents but there's a limit to which you can let them interfere in your life. you're an adult for Christ sake. Don't forget these people left their parents house way way early in life. They already had kids at your age now yet they want to keep making decisions for you till when? you better stand up for yourself cos you're a man and most especially you believe in what you're fighting for. Always remember this: if it ain't worth it, it wldn't be a struggle. you shld be happy cos their fight about it shld make you realise you're not making a mistake. fight for your self. prepare for the worse man. they might threathen to not come for your wedding or nt even come. still stand your ground. they're your parents they can't hate you for long.
Politics / Re: Name The Worst Three Performing Governors In Nigeria by Barbiedollz(f): 11:40am On Mar 26, 2017
Bayelsa state governor should definitely top the list. there can be nothing worse than him right now.
Romance / Re: Guys, If She Possesses Any Of These Traits, Pls Take Her To Your Moma Asap. by Barbiedollz(f): 7:44pm On Mar 18, 2017
I think this best descrbes Samantha. the new Barcelonia sex doll.
Romance / Re: Guys, If She Possesses Any Of These Traits, Pls Take Her To Your Moma Asap. by Barbiedollz(f): 7:43pm On Mar 18, 2017
I think this should be Samantha. the new Barcelonia sex doll
Health / Re: Checkout My Body Work After Few Days In The Gym.. by Barbiedollz(f): 7:30pm On Mar 18, 2017
And you seriously thought nairaland was the best place for you to do your body progress assessment. lol. see the gym sef. why is it looking like that. lol
Religion / Re: Dwarf RCCG Pastor & Barrister Weds In Abuja Today (Photos) by Barbiedollz(f): 6:57pm On Mar 18, 2017
is this girl even up to 18? she looks so young. anyways congrat. love is blind
Romance / Re: Married Lady Exposes A Sexually Starved Man On Facebook Asking Her For Sex(pics) by Barbiedollz(f): 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2017
RoyalBlak007:

♤Some Ladies and pretence. ...

♤You can't "do it" yet you are still replying his messages undecided
lol
same thing i almost said
Romance / Re: Married Lady Exposes A Sexually Starved Man On Facebook Asking Her For Sex(pics) by Barbiedollz(f): 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2017
RoyalBlak007:

♤Some Ladies and pretence. ...

♤You can't "do it" yet you are still replying his messages undecided
same thing i almost said

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