Politics › Re: Nigeria's 45 Federal Ministers And Their Portfolios by BarrElChapo(m): 7:00am On Nov 10, 2023*. Modified: 7:34am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Ali-batbat and the 45 thieves 🤔 |
Politics › Re: Court Reinstates LP Candidate As Lagos Rep, Obanikoro Congratulates Winner by BarrElChapo(m): 7:00am On Nov 10, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: I Want To Be Like Harry Maguire — Super Eagles Defender, Calvin Bassey by BarrElChapo(m): 6:59am On Nov 10, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Messi Lauds Zinedine Zidane, Calls Him 'One Of The Greatest Players In History’ by BarrElChapo(m): 6:59am On Nov 10, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Soludo Demolishes Olulu Eke Deity In Ekwulobia, Anambra (Video) by BarrElChapo(m): 10:35pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Leaving Wife And Kids And Travel Abroad by BarrElChapo(m): 7:50pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Gwin007: Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes
Thanks All way is a way but ask yourself, can your wife make the sacrifice, I know someone who just came back after five years from the US had the same situation as yours cos he had 3 children too. The truth is that under BAT this country will NOT get better, so just have that in mind and it’s better than going to do juju cos that’s what BAT and the devil has signed. |
Travel › Re: Categories Of Nigerians Who Shouldn't JAPA Abroad (especially UK) by BarrElChapo(m): 4:34pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
ednut1: Remove senior chartered account. KPMG, PWC, EY,BDO, and the other audit firms are filled with Nigerian accountants who were hired directly from Nigeria. People wey dey collect 400 to 600k monthly in Nigerian audit firms enter Uk to collect 46k to 65k pounds per year. Which starting all over be that
You are earning well but you dont have peace of mind, your company or business is suffering from trial and error govt policies, health care is shitty. Why do you think they wont japa Thank you cos when I read that well paying job I laughed. |
Family › Re: NGO Withdraws Help After Woman Whose Husband Assaulted Her Cries For His Release by BarrElChapo(m): 4:30pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
[quote author=nlparrot post=126874902][/quote]Is this an excuse? |
Family › Re: NGO Withdraws Help After Woman Whose Husband Assaulted Her Cries For His Release by BarrElChapo(m): 4:28pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
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Family › Re: I Feel Like I'm Being Bullied In My Family by BarrElChapo(m): 2:44pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
HelpfulBro: I'm a young man and still living with my parents and sisters. I earn some good amount of money and I'm doing okay for myself, I try as much as I can to help my family out with food stuff for example I've helped with 100k for food stuff from now till December and did a little things too like support my mom and help my dad but I'm very unhappy with my sisters and mom.
My sisters always verbally abuse me by insulting me when I don't do something for them and try to make feel guilty for not giving them what they ask for, when I try to set boundaries like what I don't like they tell me to shut up that I'm the junior that I'm talking rubbish
Just this Morning while I was still getting up with sleep in my eyes and praying they started banging my door that light meter has finished and I should come and pay but I was confused so I just didn't respond till I finished praying and came out. Before I did she was already shouting that they should leave me since I don't want to answer and she'll put #200 naira own if that what I want.
She injured her leg from the door while she was going out side to do it and now she's blaming me that I'm the reason why it happened to her, saying I'm still her junior and I don't have sense that why would I not answer her. I'm shocked and I told her how I'm I the problem and I just literally woke up, I just told them that I hate them and now she's insulting me more
I don't respond but I'm getting very angry at this and I'm looking for a way to leave the house and relocate, they are my older sisters and they don't even work or do anything but I don't say it to their faces but I don't see why they don't give me mutual respect at all Entitlement, do not give, at least you’re setting boundaries which is a good step, she knows better than come banging on your door from now on. Allow them pay for the prepaid this time and maybe move out. |
Health › Re: Sanofi To Discontinue Direct Operations In Nigeria by BarrElChapo(m): 10:50am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Nawa oo |
Travel › Re: Ebonyi To Repair Airport Runway With 13.7 Billion Naira by BarrElChapo(m): 10:42am On Nov 08, 2023 |
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ebubu see your people |
Travel › Re: Japa: Nigerians Lament As Canada Suspends Visa Operations In Abuja by BarrElChapo(m): 8:45am On Nov 08, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: FG Has Saved ₦1.45 Trillion From Subsidy Removal - Mohammed Idris by BarrElChapo(m): 7:35am On Nov 08, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Mom Refused To Do Omugwo And She’s Causing Havoc by BarrElChapo(m): 10:48pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
OmugwoAunty: Nairaland, please what should I do?
I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.
I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.
My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.
Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.
Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.
My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.
My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.
My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.
The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.
What do I do? How do I approach this. Leave them all alone, you don’t owe anyone any explanation for your actions, you’re a new mom who needs all the help she can get now, focus on your family I.e. husband and child. |
Politics › Re: Man Accuses IPOB/ESN Of Killing His Friend In Owerri (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 6:32pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Killerofpigs: The fools plenty and we support them as they keep killing Fulani Herdsmen who tried to infiltrate our region...
As for you...keep loving FULANi Herdsmen as they kill you constantly in OYO State...after each killing go to He-badan and arrange a carnival for the support of HAMAS...
Y-PIGs are worthless.. I bu ezigbote anu ofia, so everyone who speaks against ipob isn’t Igbo. Ezi |
Politics › Re: Man Accuses IPOB/ESN Of Killing His Friend In Owerri (Photos) by BarrElChapo(m): 5:50pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Only a fool supports ipob and esn |
Politics › Re: Obi: ₦1.5Bn For First Lady Unconstitutional, Her Job Is To Care For Her Husband by BarrElChapo(m): 7:28am On Nov 07, 2023 |
Now this is what he be doing not whining also if he has spare cash he can buy a news outlet for maximum propaganda |
Politics › Re: Obi: Supreme Court Ignored Rigging, Forgery, That Isn't Part Of Our Constitution by BarrElChapo(m): 11:24pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
YouAreNobody: You're still a charge and bail lawyer, and an even bigger disgrace to the legal profession Keep crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
Politics › Re: Obi: Supreme Court Ignored Rigging, Forgery, That Isn't Part Of Our Constitution by BarrElChapo(m): 9:49pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
YouAreNobody: Charge and bail lawyer. You people are a disgrace to the judiciary Cry harder, let me make you cry again, I’m Igbo from anambra state. 😂😂😂 |
Celebrities › Re: Damson Idris And Lori Harvey Break Up, Unfollow Each Other On Instagram by BarrElChapo(m): 8:21pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Lori is for the streets 😂😂😂 |
Politics › Re: Obi: Supreme Court Ignored Rigging, Forgery, That Isn't Part Of Our Constitution by BarrElChapo(m): 8:19pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
YouAreNobody: Spew your jargon, as usual, but you know what he said is the truth Well, keep on complaining, unlike you that is sentimental I am a lawyer and this election cycle is over and I know that the next presidential election is in 2027. Obi can either keep leaving in a delusional bubble or he can play the opposition better and with that even help the people. |
Politics › Re: Obi: Supreme Court Ignored Rigging, Forgery, That Isn't Part Of Our Constitution by BarrElChapo(m): 6:57pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Irony1: Shut up abeg Well, keep on complaining, unlike you that is sentimental, I am a lawyer and I know that the election cycle is over and next presidential election is in 2027. Obi can either keep leaving in a delusional bubble or he can play the opposition better and with that even help the people. |
Politics › Re: Obi: Supreme Court Ignored Rigging, Forgery, That Isn't Part Of Our Constitution by BarrElChapo(m): 3:17pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
This man is crazy, he should quit these antics already. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's World Press Conference (Live Update) by BarrElChapo(m): 3:09pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Honestly Obi should go and rest. We’re getting bored with his antics.
Instead of calling for press conferences every month, he should play the role of an opposition party leader properly. |
Health › Re: Soldiers Rescue Woman From Committing Suicide In Lagos Lagoon by BarrElChapo(m): 11:30am On Nov 06, 2023 |
Sleekfingers: That's where the government will send her to. The article said the army handed her back to her husband. |
Health › Re: Soldiers Rescue Woman From Committing Suicide In Lagos Lagoon by BarrElChapo(m): 10:01am On Nov 06, 2023 |
She needs to see a psychologist, to want to commit suicide is the last straw and who knows what the problem was that drove her to this point. |
Sports › Re: Primate Elijah Ayodele Predicts EPL Results. Prediction Fails by BarrElChapo(m): 8:17am On Nov 06, 2023*. Modified: 9:27am On Nov 06, 2023 |
If people understood scriptures, God has exposed this fraudulent man again last weekend but foolish citizens would still find an excuse for him.
See what sacred scripture says in Deuteronomy;
{18:22} Thou shalt have this sign: Whatsoever that same prophet foretelleth in the name of the Lord, and it cometh not to pass: that thing the Lord hath not spoken, but the prophet hath forged it by the pride of his mind: and therefore thou shalt not fear him. |
Politics › Re: Soludo Condems "Idolatry" In The South-East by BarrElChapo(m): 7:22am On Nov 06, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: I Work From Home To Manage Cost Of Governance - Governor Alex Otti by BarrElChapo(m): 6:09am On Nov 06, 2023 |
fx45: Oga you're not from Abia so shut up and don't talk about things you don't know. There's a reason why the man doesn't use the Government House. It has zero to do with saving costs like he said. The man is fighting for his life. The moment he starts using that office, o ti lo. He's done for. I'm not sure Ikpeazu even used it for one day. The diabolism and witchcraft that has been installed in that place ehhhh, it would take a combination of Oyedepo, Adeboye, Kumuyi, etc to cleanse the place. Unfortunately those names you mentioned are all witch doctors. So there’s no hope |
Crime › Re: Worshiper Slumps, Dies During Prayer In Ogun Church by BarrElChapo(m): 11:44pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
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Nairaland General › Re: See Hilarious Wishes As Lady Posted Police Who Passed Away by BarrElChapo(m): 3:14pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
Nigerians have got no chills oo 😂😂😂 |