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Men forget that it is us that determines the sex of a child.

ColdHunter:
I have a cousin who has been in an abusive marriage for the past 12years. Not necessarily physical but emotional and verbal abuse. She is totally fed up as her mental health has been deteriorating due to constant fear. Her husband happens to be a rich but mischievous man and she is worried about what the man could do should she file for legal seperation.

Her concern is that he may go after her if she files for seperation. Secondly, is it the court that determines custody of their 3 children(12, 11, 9). She have already found accommodation but hasnt informed him of her plans to separate. She doesnt want anything from him as she has a successful business.

Are there steps she must take to forestall any bullying?

Experienced people should please contribute.

She should lawyer up.

Timoleon:
Just Negodu!

If he pled guilty, he’ll be sentenced immediately. What he is doing wouldn’t get him anywhere but it’s what he should do.

Tombrown3:
I've had countless girls send me their nudes on WhatsApp, and some of these girls are considered "good girls" outside social media, which brings me to this question.

Is it advisable to have a serious commitment as marriage with any of these girls?

Silly question. When you were guilt tripping her to send you the nudes you didn’t think she was a bad person. Your hypocrisy stinks

Kobojunkie:
Start by going for professional anger management counseling to at least deal with your anger and trust issues. You don't sound at all like a man in love but a man who has anger issues and trying to keep up an image at the same time but that hasn't been working well for you has it?

Give your wife and her family time to marinade in what has taken place and maybe decide on what could come next. You will only be a liar showing up to beg for her back at this point this since there is no way these problems only started back with the December 26th story you fed you here. Start asap by getting yourself help for your anger problems, and then when you go see her at her folk's place — when you receive permission to— [b]you can at least show her you have made progress and will likely not panel beat her again.

/b]

Try reading very before commenting. Did you read anywhere in the OP’s post that he beats his wife ?

CHIDINMALOVE:
1. She is an adult
2. He is her STEPdad

Don’t change nothing cos she bears his last name.

Lori is for the streets, yet her dad is always dishing out relationship/lifestyle advice

Moh247:




Colorado

You use your own hard earned money to hurt your self

Na only marijuana normal weed Baba Fela smoke and he got messed up performing in pants almost naked marrying multiple women in a day

Now this guys are smoking stronger strains of marijuana


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Pls is loud and Colorado strains of marijuana cos I remember back then it was only Igbo and SK ? It confuses me

Fabulozz:
My wife gave birth 2 months ago. She had resumed her duty in the bedroom 3 weeks ago but she doesn't want me to suck her breast saying that I should wait after she stopped exclusively breastfeeding the baby she will be 6 months. I love to suck breast and I can't wait until the baby is 6 months she said I am overeating which I am not.

Tell me if she is exaggerating or am overeating? Would love to hear from married women and men in the house ?

You are overeacting please. You're lucky she even resumed at the earliest convenience.

Tannhauser:

So this small girl sef dey do that thing?
Woman with sense, some will be forming career woman, boss bitch until menopause enter

25+ is a small girl?

Lee99:
Very unfortunate event, I always tell guys, don't listen to the words of a woman that is pissed off lest you want to kill her, always ignore, had he walked away she'd still be alive and they'd have continued with their dysfunctional marriage, tough titties for the man, if he gets a good lawyer tho he can bag manslaughter and be out with 2-3 years

Manslaughter is not two or years in the criminal code though

Mum

Shutupthere:
Your brain cell can’t distinguish between Selman and Sulieman

I'm sure she mistook selman for Suleiman was what I was trying to say

The reputation of Johnson Suleiman precedes him

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

You must really think you love this girl with this kind of baggage to want to wife her.

A leopard doesn't change its spots, that's all I can say.

So IMO is a joke to you ?

RomolaJ:
A friend wants to sell an Iphone 7 to me for 40k
He got it around december,I'm still skeptical about buying the fone because i think its already old
But then i need the fone
Pls what advice can u give me regarding iphone 7??

Good buy bro. It's very cheap

Later Yahoo boys/girls would say it's god that's blessing them. Fools

I will never use a Tecno if it likes let it stay top ten for the next 30 years

chidirobert:
Good morning guys, am planning on getting myself a new phone. I ve been using Samsung galaxy for the past 3 years and I like it as am nt a phone flik, please someone should recommend a good phone of 150k or less. Thanks.

Iphone X and above, Samsung Galaxy s20 and above.

Dapagun:
This hard working woman is doing a lot for her party and is an integral part of the presidential campaign council

While her father in the lord oyedepo is cussing the govt, this his daughter whom he's stated in several occasions he's proud of, is part of the so called "wicked government"

The article didn't end well but it was a good read

obinna58:
Suck your own dick and speak in tongues

You posted nonsense and expect sensible comments abi

obinna58:
Suck your own dick and speak in tongues

Abi1985:
Since the time I was born, I have never seen a pastor carry gun and force person to give offerings or tithe.

So why are churches getting bad rep? No be by force to give, if you do not want to give, then do not give. After all, na your own money, so it is up to you to give or not to give. If you feel pressure or you are reluctant to give, please do not give at all.

If they talk sow a seed of 10,0000 naira or 50 naira, and you do not have or you do not want to give, do not stress yourself at all. Give what you can give easily and cheerful and if you do not want to, then don't.

Pastor can use words to persuade someone to give. At the end of the day, it is up to individuals to decide to give or not. So leave the Pastors and let them be.

If Pastor fly private jet, well good for him. If he use body guards, good for him. The body guards are getting paid and the private jet is not free.

Tell that those who tie whatever you receive in life to tithes and offerings especially that one who said he was sent by god to make people rich.

Dailyhappenings:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtKR0e9528M

Pastor EA Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian church of God has discarded prophecies made by several prophets on the upcoming presidential election. According to him, God has not spoken yet and everyone giving a candidate is lying.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7513996/god-hasnt-spoken-nigerias-next

As per the mouth piece of God. Clownish fool

meobizy:
Picture two and three show edema. Was the pregnancy normal? The last picture shows weight gain from stuffing herself during pregnancy. If she hits a gym, she won’t snap back, but she’ll look a thousand times better. I will never understand why African women let themselves go after childbirth.

Better than whites who are mostly obese from adulthood. Don't let Hollywood decieve you

Yet the fools would be saying it's God that's blessing them

Davizee:
My father woke up this morning to start censuring me and my bro.

I ran out of the house yesterday to watch Chelsea match against Man City just to reduce depression. I woke up this morning and my father attacked me saying that we his children are not prayerful enough that is why we are still suffering.

He does not know when we pray or the intensity of our prayer but he made that statement.

He also asked me what I want to do with my life if it's to rewrite jamb or play football. I was very enthusiastic to play football but he couldn't even sponsor it. I used to be very intelligent but now I am an ignoramus in everything due to my poor education background.

Some guys I know that don't even go to church are progressing as their parents are catering for them but my situation is different.

The pressure is becoming too much and I am thinking of carrying out any diabolic act to raise funds. I haven't been into fraud or stealing but now I am anticipating to do it. Is it not better not be born than to come to this world to suffer

You dad is stupid. Why didn't he pray his way out in the first place.

My dear he is the cause of the problem your family is experiencing cos head of family is not shouting for your food

The Aso Rock pig is at it again

Nice one your Lordship. The governor cannot now claim ignorance