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DevilishMan:
Actors that didn't do rituals roles are dying early.

This is distasteful, know where to draw the line 😒

Mama Africa 😒

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

Keep giving her the opportunity for her two minutes of fame, If you don’t want be rude by walking out in her

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

Since you’re not with her cos of her virginity, then let this issue go. Virginity doesn’t equal virtue these days .

TemplarLandry:
Well, it's a possibility.

SMH you APC lots are irredeemable 🤦‍♂️

Stupid talk………

Emekaonline:
You meant the way Obi covered the issue of dead bodies dumped at Akwuzu river?

Yeah.

Sanwo Olu is always shocked why ? Soon they'll start covering up as usual.

Britishcoins:
Actually, the native doctors used have not used the white foul to prepare the charm but if Buhari insist why is Elufai still angry with Christian leaders.
This country self, anyway she is good wife.

Reading the picture attached in 2023 and realized you were prophesying back then 😅

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poseto9142:
My

SCAMMER

Do it for a year and within that year find out if you can be posted to the audit section of the firm or after then you can move to another Big 4 as a more experienced hire.
Every kind of experience is welcomed on the journey.
Good luck

Juniors no dey come dinner abi 😏

Yet some fool would rather not paint Nigeria black in the international scene, than see real change.

Lagos na wa.

Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?

If he knew and hid it, it's a good grounds for annulment of the marriage. Why would he hide such material fact?

blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?

Who said cheating is normal for men?

People misconstrue the word "bride price" in many cultures the amount is as low as N5 naira sometimes N100 or N1k as many would say their daughter is not for sale.

I see many clashing over nothing.

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DevilishMan:
If there's no camera in the room, move some sensitive items and raise a theft alarm.

Trust me, the first suspects will be those who have no business being there plus you will bring the incompetency of the security staff on full display.

Now, we are not just talking about them leaving the room but leaving the company totally.


Never give your foes room to recover and retaliate.

Let this wise counsel prevail 😅

Una no want uranium again ndi ala

Saved or didn't not borrow to spend 🤔

You can only save what you have not what you not a futuristic expenses.

Calitoscassius:
No, i didn't, Who? Mr musk or Kanye west?

Musk.

Calitoscassius:
He doesn't want to monetize it, he has enogh money to last him another 100 years to come.

You didn't read the post, he is barred from monitizing it by X.

😏😏 why can't he monetize it, hold your account abeg.

Church and you carve your eyebrows 🤔

I believe you, it's dangote and his cronies at work.

Aladeintl:
There was this popular MoG from Ibadan who do early morning prayer on Ajilete FM that I adamantly forbid my wife from listening to.

I told her, 'I am not saying you shouldn't listen to him but not under my own roof.'

I didn't banned her because the man was fake. I didn't think the MoG is fake, but I find some of his modus operandi unbiblical.

Likewise, some songs like Daddy wey dey pamper is not fit my own family. While I am around, she mustn't.

I will soon delete that song from her phone sef.

Read tales of a Nursing Dad here www.joelalade.home.blog

I once collected her purse and gave her only transport fare when she was going for a crusade organized by one prophet olororo.

What is my drift? I have no qualm with Pastor Jerry Eze and his YouTube early morning prayer ministry but it is a disgrace and dishonour to you, the man of the house, if your woman can wake up to listen to other man before you.

It's a disgrace to my fatherhood if my kids are doing morning devotion via internet led by another man and wife and kids aren't to be blamed.

Therefore, we men, should truly man up and be the leader God made us.

The likes of Pastor Jerry Eze and co come into equation because many men are not spiritual leader. He is filling the gaps created by spiritually-absent fathers.

Your wife jumping from one prayer mountain to another is because you haven't ascertain your spiritual headship in the head.

And for those joining Pastor Jerry from their boyfriend's room, just dey play ooo, dey play ooo.

May God helps us to discharge our duties accordingly.

Ire oooooooo

Well said ! Nothing to add.

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okoroemeka:
sometimes I wonder how some men can relax so much and reach such years with nothing,is it laziness,lack of seeing opportunities,lack of proactive thinking,procrastination ,or simply accepting mediocre living standards?before I was 25 yrs I already have a car,wife,two children and a small two bedroom bungalow,it is sad that not everyone can pull him or herself out of poverty and that reinforced my belief that success is tied to state of mind,there is a proverb in igboland that says,e ejigi mkpacha nsi egbe agba adaka ozo,which means you cannot use scrap leftover gunpowder to shot a gorilla.

"Onye ona galu ga-eche na ndi ozo na-ezuzu"

Be grateful for where you are but don't ever castigate another you don't know their story.

Can't relate lol 😂

Polymath56:
I kind of like what he's doing; revamping the whole structure, but the question is, is he putting the right persons? Let it not be the case of putting square pegs in round holes...

But meanwhile,
You all are invited to our Sunday service at Living Faith Church (Winners Chapel), for our covenant day of settlement, where you become settled in every area of your life in Jesus' Name.

For those outside Lagos and Ogun State, you can visit any of our local churches or stream online via YouTube (Living Faith Church Worldwide), Facebook (Winners chapel Int'l) etc. For sure, your life will never remain the same for good. Jesus is Lord!

As an aside*- where did you worship before you started attending LFC ?