Politics › Re: Chief Of Staff: Gbajabiamila Resigns As House Of Reps Member by BarrElChapo(m): 1:21pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Jaafar Condemns The Demolition Of Monument In Kano By Governor Abba Yusuf by BarrElChapo(m): 1:20pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
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The Kano state new governor first 100 days in office achievement will be a documentary of how he turned Kano state into a rubble  I’m sure he can trace his roots to the kremlin 😂 |
Business › Re: CBN Floats Naira - Allows Banks To Trade FOREX Freely At Any Rate by BarrElChapo(m): 1:05pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Redoil: sorry to ask you do you understand the basic economics of international trade in relation to FX? Please it seems you understand these economic jargons can you help me understand, especially the negative effects of this policy and it’s long term impact? |
Politics › Re: Ekiti Governor Oyebanji Donates Cash, Mattresses To Special Schools by BarrElChapo(m): 9:51am On Jun 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: List Of President Tinubu's Energy Reforms Committee Members by BarrElChapo(m): 9:30am On Jun 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Mamman Daura Falls Ill After Godwin Emefiele’s Arrest - Sahara Reporters by BarrElChapo(m): 8:18am On Jun 14, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by BarrElChapo(m): 3:09pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
Evestar200: Check What? Some people just want to die before their time.
You check, you do not check who wants to cheat will cheat. Happy birthday ma 🥂 |
Politics › Re: My advocacy for power balancing twisted by mischief makers - VP Shettima by BarrElChapo(m): 7:47pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Abusive Boss Broke My Head And Doesn't Want To Pay Me by BarrElChapo(m): 12:15pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Tryagain77: I saw a post on this forum which looks similar to mine and that inspired me into writing this to share with people how my boss (former) was abusing me.
I graduated from one of the courses in social science in one of the federal universities and have been job hunting to land a good job but to no avail.
Bills were piling up while I was going down economically. Out of hunger, lack and frustration, I settled to work as a barman in a hotel.
A week after resuming that work, the man that the hotel is leased out to started showing me his true colours. Nobody is above mistake in life. Even minor things that could have been settled without raising eyebrows, he would shout at me and abuse me right in front of customers. He would use derogatory words to describe me and say all sort of inhumane things to me, all to show that he's the boss.
Despite all that, I couldn't leave because I had no other job option at hand. For the 9 months I have worked in the place, these are the things I went through.
1. I have been verbally and physically abused by the said man. There is no kind of derogatory and inhumane word that man has not used on me and most times, right in the presence of customers and also when in the presence of the girls he brings to sleep with.
Note: this is how he behaves with all the staff, not only me.
2. He kicked me, slapped me, knocked my head, spat on me, yelled at me. Calling me a fool, an idiot, useless something etc, was no longer anything worrisome to me again because I got used to it.
3. Because of all these abuses, his friends who use to come there took advantage and started abusing me too. One slapped me the other day because I presented a bill he thought I surcharged him, which we later found out I didnt. I don't blame him actually.
4. You would work 2 months plus before you receive 1 month salary. For example, you would receive January salary between 10-15th of March.
5. Salary was N25,000 but I have never received that amount complete. He always look for something accuse me of in order to deduct our so called salary and pay less. There was a month I received N7000 as my salary.
6. Any customer that breaks a glass pays N1000 for it. When he first mentioned this in a meeting, we thought he was joking, but he was being serious. When he started deducting my salary for broken glasses, then I realized he was serious. I have never heard anything of such anywhere before. That a customer who breaks glass should pay N1000 for it.
What happened on the 23rd of May. 23rd of May was his birthday. He invited friends and celebrated. Right in his presence, one of the guests broke a glass. I'm the only one serving both the bar and guests in the room including food. So it was a very busy time for me. Just because I didn't sweep the broken glass immediately because I was busy serving people, as I wanted to pass, he shouted angrily at me, aimed me with the broken glass and broke my head. I was bleeding and I left the place to a pharmacy to treat the wound. Guess what? He was not even remorseful about it at all.
The following day I tendered a resignation letter with immediate effect. Obviously if I don't leave the place, the man may kill me or make me do something I will later regret.
Now pay me off, he's telling me I need to work again at least another one month for him to find a replacement, if I'm serious about receiving my outstanding salary or I should forget about it. Even at that, I know too well that he will pay me anything he likes, claiming glasses were broken, I did this and I did that. Presently he's looking for job seekers but nobody wants to work with such a crude person anymore. Even someone he sacked as usual over two months ago, he's not been able to replace till today.
Now I'm jobless, hungry and penniless.
I need advice on how to go about to collect my money from this man. I don't have strength for any fight with him. I just need my hard earned money but let it not be until another blood is spilled.
Story of a struggling Nigerian. Is this Lagos ? I will write him for free and see to it that he pays you or will will take up a criminal complaint against him for attempted murder (some may say it’s exaggerated but think of what that shard of broken bottle could have done) reach out 🤔 |
Car Talk › Re: New Chinese Traffic Light In Abuja To Be Avoided By All Means. by BarrElChapo(m): 7:15pm On Jun 11, 2023*. Modified: 8:45pm On Jun 11, 2023 |
Rubby1: Good Evening all. Thank God is Sunday, I was with a top FRSC officer yesterday, who told me that the new Chinese traffic lights in the FCT (Abuja) are not just to direct traffic but a means of generating IGR for the Government, any time you go against the traffic lights, it will record your PLATE NUMBER and it will show in their database and a fine will be attached, so when you are ready to renew your license or papers it will show your accumulated fine and if you are not ready to pay at that time your car will be impounded and start Demurrage from that day, pls let us respect the new Chinese traffic lights and know the type of people we give our cars to and advise everyone too. Respect the Chinese traffic light ? Not the traffic laws ? We're the worst 😏 |
Food › Re: Chef Tope Maggie Set To Gun For Guinness World Record By Cooking For 140hours by BarrElChapo(m): 7:06pm On Jun 11, 2023 |
Me na Sweden I wan go 😉😂 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Magnitude 5.0 Earthquake Hits Johannesburg, South Africa by BarrElChapo(m): 9:18am On Jun 11, 2023 |
Righteousness2: The signs of the coming of JESUS CHRIST is hitting every book and cranny of the earth.
At the same time , Hundreds, thousands, millions and billions of humans are departing the earth and heading to Eternity on daily basis.
Listen!! The worst thing that can happen to any man or woman is to Depart this earth without JESUS Christ.
JESUS Christ is coming! Make your ways right with JESUS. Live in the Conciousness of your Eternity. Everything on this earth is vanity ! You will not pick a dime to go with you to Eternity. Heaven and Hell are real. Choose wisely.
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Politics › Re: Video Of Godwin Emefiele In DSS Custody, Being Flown To Abuja by BarrElChapo(m): 5:10pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
This is not nice, how agencies of government is used to oppress person who does on top may have an axe to grind is sad. |
Investment › Re: SEC Bans Binance Nigeria Limited: It Is An Illegal Entity by BarrElChapo(m): 12:09pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lightorder: you are contradicting yourself. “ good one but…..” kilode? It's a good move to regulate the cypto space but those regulating i.e. the SEC are more less copying the US. |
Investment › Re: SEC Bans Binance Nigeria Limited: It Is An Illegal Entity by BarrElChapo(m): 11:39am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Good one but the problem is that the regulators themselves have little or no knowledge on what they're doing. |
Food › Re: Chef Damilola Adeparusi begins 120 hours cook-a-thon to break Guinness records by BarrElChapo(m): 5:00pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Why make a seemingly normal event about religion? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Lack Of Adequate Employment In Nigeria by BarrElChapo(m): 4:26pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Wife Has Not Allowed Me Touch Her by BarrElChapo(m): 4:25pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Cock and bull story. |
Family › Re: Urgent Advice Needed To Protect My Mum From Depression. by BarrElChapo(m): 4:19pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Nothing really can be done about it except you want her to see a shrink.
Try to create new memories for her as you can afford. Take care |
Celebrities › Re: "New Cat With Grammy”: Fans React After Davido Called Burna Boy 'New Cat' by BarrElChapo(m): 4:06pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
New cat, pussy cat ... How's it our concern seun 🙄🙄🙄 |
Business › Re: Customs Plans To Ban Second-Hand Clothes (Okrika) by BarrElChapo(m): 3:34pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
KingSatan: Please let the poor breath!
Used clothes are sold everywhere in the world. Stop making it look like Nigeria is the worse place on earth.
These strange and wicked policies are nauseating.
I repeat, let the poor breath. It's not even about the poor. The best quality are usually in second hand. All these poorly made clothing from china and Vietnam can't match. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage And Toke Makinwa Ignore Each Other At Lagos Party by BarrElChapo(m): 2:45am On Jun 08, 2023 |
HacheNoire: Why I hate Nigerian music industry. They don’t kill each other.
They need to be taking their beef to another level, thats what makes the industry interesting.
Wizkid’s crew should smoke Davido, and retaliation would take down Wizkid. From there, Mayorkun and Peruzzi would be smoked, and the retaliations and counter retaliation will keep going on.
We can’t just be listening to musics and beefs, without people dying.
They need step up the game. Lol 😂😂 |
Crime › Re: ZEFA Microfinance Bank Staff Pushed Vivian Omo To Death by BarrElChapo(m): 4:46pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Kobicove: It's likely the woman had an underlying health condition  Even if this were true, they ultimately caused her death. |
Politics › Re: MC Oluomo Celebrates Son On Graduation From MIT by BarrElChapo(m): 9:08am On Jun 07, 2023 |
GEEBITE: He is even a green card holder not a citizen. Many people find it hard to differentiate the two. Green card is similar to ILR in UK, it doesnt connote citizenship. A friend of mine on ILR found out last year when he was not allowed to board a KLM flight out of Heathrow. With Brexit he requires a transit visa as he is not seen as a British citizen. Thank you for further clarification. |
Politics › Re: MC Oluomo Celebrates Son On Graduation From MIT by BarrElChapo(m): 8:33am On Jun 07, 2023 |
DiscoverID: Can they ban a US citizen from entering US? Are you daft? Just asking. The US can revoke every other citizenship granted a person except if the said citizenship was acquired by birth, so he could have lost that citizenship you're harping on about. |
Politics › Re: Court Sacks Ezeokenwa As APGA Chairman, Voids Victor Oye's Actions by BarrElChapo(m): 8:29am On Jun 07, 2023 |
An inconsequential party, yet they can't be united ? |
Politics › Re: Stock Market Response To New Presidents Since 1999 by BarrElChapo(m): 8:28am On Jun 07, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Awoniyi Shares Testimony In Church After Helping Forest Escape Relegation(Video) by BarrElChapo(m): 8:25am On Jun 07, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: Over 200 Bodies Lay Along The Route To The Top Of Mountain Everest(Pics & Video) by BarrElChapo(m): 7:15pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
Samfloxin: Our ancestors that used stones are you happier today than they were? You might wanna kill yourself and join them there in being happy, I'm happier than they'll ever be. |
Phones › Re: Itel Launches S23 With 16GB RAM And Color Changing Technology by BarrElChapo(m): 5:02pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
ogugwa1992: I so much love this brand . You guys are doing well Tell us you don't have tastes without saying it 🤔 |
Family › Re: Leaving A Marriage Because He's Not Taking Responsibilities, Make Me Bad? by BarrElChapo(m): 5:01pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
Giftedhands45: I have to join this forum to post this tonight.
I'm in my early thirties, my husband is just two years older than me. My husband has always been neglecting his responsibilities even before we got married, but I was seeing it as he doesn't have a better job and a struggling guy whom we can both join hands together to build each other. I endured everything with him. I have always supported and provided without complain. Since last year my husband lost his job, since then, he has refused to look for any other source of income. Even when he had a job, he always have one story or the other to tell about his monthly salaries. So, he still doesn't provide. Once, there's nothing in the house, he will keep watching because I can't watch my two children Starve. I will try everything, even call friends, families and borrow. He doesn't care how I borrowed and how I paid.
Now, he wakes up every morning and still go back to sleep. Whatever I asked him, he don't always have. He's response always is ''I don't have money '' I am the only one sourcing out everything in this house, I don't have a job as well, just struggling up and down with a business I do.
There's no food, school fees, bill, everything, he will ignore. I can't watch my children suffer. So, I keep struggling without any help. But he eats food and uses everything in the house with us. He wouldn't provide, but he can use them once they're available. Our house rent will soon expire and he has no plan towards That. The previous one I paid, but presently, my business is down
Lately, I've been thinking. I've never cheated since I entered this marriage, but If I keep struggling all myself like this, my children will suffer. I feel, I need someone who loves me and willing to support me as well. My children are too used to their father, it borders me if I separate them from him.
Leaving a marriage because he's not taking responsibilities, does that make me a bad woman?
What could make a man to be very comfortable not providing for his family but wouldn't want to loss the said family?
Have you ever been in my shoes, what would you advise me? He doesn't have a family? Anyone that can talk sense into him ? Well you could explore temporary separation to see if his attitude. |
Politics › Re: Judge Dismisses FCT Residents Suit V Tinubu, threatens to de-robe lawyer by BarrElChapo(m): 2:22pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
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