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Some gal is bound to use this as a set-up, definitely

LOLLLLL, did you really need Nairaland to tell you do the right thing, this must be jokes section or something.

Like someone said, common sense would have done the trick just fine, sleeping with the housemaid who will only agree cos you pay her salary reeks of bullying and lack of a good thinking process!!

skyndyp:
I'm proudly female, but i wouldn't take 75% of my guy's savings. Abasi akan idiok mkpo!

Well said, it speaks volumes of a gal who wont care or be able to advise a guy on how to spend his money, IT SPEAKS VOLUMES!

Is there any point answerin this, from the way the poster has placed this question,it's obvious that he knows he is embarking on a money spending spree that lacks any sense

Meanwhile,U have not finished school, u r thinking about engagement and marriage, Think like a real man, you think getting married is 'beans', what a child. Career,money,marriage,

scam alert, refundable deposit my a**

I dont think you should be snacking on it though, i know it is well exposed before being packaged and you never know what might have settled on it. It is usually even washed before cooked along with food

Sometimes it really get worse JUST before it gets better, take heart, we all have our hurdles

Ujujoan:
What's the big deal about a visist?

Na wa oh, these are some of the things that scare me about marriage. So if I get married now, my male friends won't visit me anymore    
" Poster:

If your sife is not comfortable with it, no need to cause any trouble! Just tell her how your wife feels about her visit and I'm sure she won't want to come anymore!

, Talk of d lady wearing the trousers and telling him what one to wear.

Just fisnished watching Spartacus (i know,late as usual), It is an effing SICKKK show, cant forgive myself for snubbing it cos i thot it was a "300" spin-off,

As for me,i can never go backwards, i advise to keep looking for better opportunities, everybody loves to say stuff they will never do, after how many years experience,u want to start earning less than 100K a month!!

U can only hustle now that you are young, the time or oppurtunity will come when you can start choosing locations n things!!

^^ correct!!!

Why should another woman be following you to your house to sort out trust issues, like she has nothing better to do. Report her and tell your wife that you did nothing of such n the matter must die immediately!!

ok,the guy wanted to make a quick buck by selling the info, there are several ppl on ebay selling pdf copies of textbooks when u can get it free, but that doesnt change the fact that he was not lying, i'm afraid an apology is not out of place

filani:
@ sexy leamon
seriously girl ,what were you thinking when you started this thread? Oh Thats right you weren't really thinking were you? ^{admit it!} . you were like '' am in a bad mood right now so i'll log on to nairaland and dump this two-bit drivel online just for a cheap thrill " . Can you say IMMATURE

P.S if your current guy falls into the '' Mr Right" group as you claim , doesn't it make sense that you would be too busy having the time of your life with him to dump this trashy post on NL ? i think your spending too much time in La La Land , wake up !!!

@ Tranngirls
Tell me about it !!! everty time i turn around more of this childish crap[/b]turns up on NL but you know what don't waste your energy being mad at her rather you might even want to shed a tear for her since she has told us that being a pampered bleep BUDDY on a private yacht is her idea of a perfect relationship !

*Filani dancing to the Lyrics of the song [b]Golddigger by Kanye West*

WOW, someone seems to have a real sense of humor here, NL is something else,

I dont why some peeps on here are living in denial and borderline stupidity, THEY ARE FCUKIN broke.there is no argument about this. I can only laugh when some people say they dont want to be flashy, flashy with what!

The OP is very right and is echoing the thoughts of several fans who wish them the best and wish they were up there with the best cos they are one of the best.Some people on here think like poverty stricken people, Whatever endeavour you do for years and you are acclaimed but still have nothing to show for it is worth re-assessing - Business,Music,Job even Theft!! People talk as if it is a crime for them to drive new cars and buy houses. They need to hustle harder!!!!!

LOL @ movingcoil, this sounds like a scene straight outta SAW 3,

Kinda hard to believe ayettymama went that far in full view of everyone and not get the cops called on her, C'mon an evaluation of the state of mind will definitely be proposed!!!

Moyola:
Oh! I didnt even knw such abt Basildon! I bet some think it to b the height of life!
I was never in Leigh-on-sea btw! hehe!
Hang on! didnt I c a documentary on tv where Basildon was referred to as Hollywood or something?

Hollywood ko,Hollywood ni, abegi, Basildon is alright ,if you are looking to SETTLE DOWN! Still twas way better than Leigh-on-sea, i coulda sworn i saw your location saying Leigh-on-sea one time tho', oh well, there goes my link to getting info about this ends, back to jammin with fam in good ol' dirty Grays, Long thins still, x

Moyola:
Oh yu actually
Well, wat is it abt dhiz 3one dhat bringz yu to tears? Basildon makes me weep by d way!

Bbz,I left Basildon for time now, now stay close to Leigh-on-sea. I'm not going to lie about Basildon, it cld be the pits but at least i was 15 mins from balling in Grays/Barking. The clubs here r s**,the barbers r s**, the ONLY gym is s**, this cant be life

Moyola:
hehe! yeh ryt yu knew! uhmn!

#For the upteenth time. . .such guyz r rare! lalalala#

I giv up, never was goin to win that one but hey,i thot i'd giv it a shot , nywaiz, you need to gist me about leigh-on-sea ,  this zones brings me to tears!!!

Moyola:
. . .dhatz wotam talkin about! didchu tel her yu got frndly wiv oda babes?!

'll sayyit again. . .such guyz r rare!

I knew you would pick on that, lol. Am I the Pope's cousin or wat? It's a different kettle of fish if you have never done stuff, you dont crave stuff you have no idea of so i guess i would be perfectly happy to chase gals without anything involved (like those foundation boys in school )

I dont know it is just me or other people feel this way but AGATHAMARI, you have said your piece with many more words than one, forget the fact that your posts are spiteful, i just wonder what joy you derive from laying down thousands of words -u might as well trace his IP and go tell his wife!

Back to the topic, the confession thing is defintely not going to work out at least for now. I may not be knowledgable about these things but you definitely have to practice self-control (nothing is impossible).

you also have to be ingenious, she can make you 'happy' without you humpin her head off, you also have to chill a little more with guys or do something to take your mind off like going to the gym in the evenings, a new physique may even help, arrange family outings too, anything to fill in the gap in non-hurtful way

Moyola:
Such guyz are rare!

Not that rare, more like the gals we can sacrifice intimacy for are as rare as butter in hell, I dated mi current gal for 2yrs without hittin it, was a little 'friendly' with other babes tho, u no nau

In a better country where human lives are valued, this is enough to bring the country to a standstill, no cost is too much to bring these senseless cowardly killers to justice. I swear i'd even donate if there is a fund dedicated to finding these killers!!

This is not armed robbery, this is the work of some psychopaths!!!

Gimme the hottie,pls pls n pls, there is still hope of her being unmaterialistic, (I dont care if the hope is faint ), but c'mon you cant do anything more for a gal that's not fine, Reminds me of the joke of the genie & Camilla Parker Bowles, three wishes couldnt get her to look hot,

phemmy88:
I think i'm startin 2 despise dis dog called tosindada or watever, How dare u insult people like dat? I think everybody has got da rait 2 expres his mind-who d hell do u fink u 're? wat I expected u 2 do ws 2 give out your real name n see wat 'll happen 2 u in d next 30mins, Bt not 2 worry i'll deal wif u in ma own simple way, Distance isn't a barrier!

LOL, wonders shall never end on NL, I bet tosinaded@ is quaking in his boots now,
@ tosinaded@ - i can understand your pain, Owo ati Swagger remix - It will take Lord of Ajasa another lifetime to spit bars on a track like that!!!

Without a doubt, the poster goofed the minute she dared say that nigerian men told her they preferred other races over their nigerian women,
BUT for these 2 guys to go on and on at it with a female really smacks of the absurd,

lindabells:
hi basildon,hope you had a great day.well i saw your reply to my post.i do not really understand what you meant by your reply,but i would like to say that its more civil for you to do your findings about the post and incase you think its a scam,there are relevant authorities in nigeria that you can let in on this.life is a learning process.pls endeavour to do so.happy days ahead

apparently the moderator has deleted your previous post with directions to your scam site, i feel really sad for you!

lindabells:
I also share the belief that there are jobs everywhere, but most of us fail to be alert because we are too stero type.we are so used to one way that we dont want to look for another if that one is not working

   dont you flipping nuisances get tired, it's your type that is better of as a litter picker in the streets of Hackney

Ujujoan:
Why are you having a baby for your BF

If he loves you so much why cant he just make an honest woman out of you. I suppose you think having an illegitimate child is somehow ok if it's for your BF. Well that's just wrong!

Well said, Proper Wrong!!!

I dont get this bit though,

Yes his ex is still best friends with his sister and has been around the family for a few yrs but ya

( she has tried stabbing him and has cheated on him and has slept with 2 of his brothers)

?

r231:
of cus i will read read read and read then question whatever i see that is fishy

CORRECT, I will even copy and paste to notepad for further reference!!