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Outright desecration of the Holy sanctity of the gospel.. Its condemned in its whole entirety..

Madam do what your husband wants.. And u will notice he will stop all he's doing too simple.. U married a Muslim man to the core and u must abide by his rules under his roof.. But a year of malice is somehow.. That means no sex for a year Adjust madam

kannymoore:
Oga...

Rahab was a hoe!

By all intents and purposes, she isn't supposed to be one of the only three women mentioned in the genealogy of Jesus Christ.
But hey.. she's there.

Ditto Ruth... Who isn't an Israelite.. she's from Moab.. an unholy people. A people God himself abhorred his people from marrying.. yet surprise-surprise... She's also mentioned as one of Jesus's human ancestors.

These two people I mentioned both married Israelites. And if by going be your "holiness"
doctrine, had VERY faulty foundations yet God approved their marriages and even ALLOWED them become ancestors of our Lord Jesus Christ.

And yet, you still think virginity is a prime factor in holy matrimony?!

Omo.. you're still sitting on a long thing.

The reality is that if one accepts the Bible as a book of God, when it does not make perfect sense and contradictions threaten to confound, the reader has two choices: either God’s character or the reader’s understanding of God’s character is a little misguided. In line with the latter, my thoughts have led me to acknowledge that there are divers possibilities as to why Rahab the harlot may have stood out in Canaan.Note that sexual sin is not the only point of discrepancy in the story. If the story is read in the context of the Deuteronomistic history (as opposed to simply reading it as a portion of the Joshua story), then there is seemingly more at stake. In Deuteronomy the Israelites are given two specific commands in regard to seven great nations, including the Canaanites: “Thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them” (Deuteronomy 7:2). It is interesting then, that as soon as the spies get inside the walls of Jericho, they proceed to enter into an oath with a Canaanite (violating part two of the commandment). The irony, of course, is that it is an oath that essentially swears that they will not utterly destroy Canaan (violating part one of the commandment).But the essence of the story comes in the recognition that the text is significantly less interested in the harlot-ness of Rahab and far more concerned with what comes across as palpable faith. Both Paul and James refer to Rahab as an example of faith, giving her a place in their discourse among Hebrew men such as Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Paul writes, “By faith the harlot Rahab perished not with them that believed not, when she had received the spies with peace” (Hebrews 11:31; see also James 2:25... I will advise u to study the word well before using it to twist the minds of babes in Christianity...

chinchonglee:
True.. but am actually a selfish person wen it comes to certain tins. How much anoda person is earning before he got married isn't my concern. My own concern is my self, how much i am earning.

u are quite really funny its not bad thing to be hungry for more sucess.. Its certainly very good but it better if u seek the right one for u... I wish u well bro

ochibuogwu5:
Life partner is a gift from the Lord to those who *fear him* no matter your type of job or routine, *surrender your whole being(spirit, soul and body) absolutely to the Holy Spirit*
And He will *lead you to His manifestations designed for your life alone*
Great Grace!!!

God bless u.. Your marriage won't collapse suddenly...i learnt from u..

chinchonglee:
Choi!
See me dat promised mysef i wont get married until my earnings get to 300k monthly to avoid wife's embarrassment nd all dat issue..
Anyways u re very lucky as my routine wont make me see such girls, only slay mamas, idiots, empty heads and fish brains dat i normally meet.

Congrats bro say hi to dat queen of urs on my behalf, she is rare.

certainly very rare bro.. But its achievable..but the truth is if u make more than that amount in a month does it change your spouse attitude... I guess more reason u need to ask if Churchill... Femi branch and adeniyi Johnson make up to that in a month?

kannymoore:
Oga...

That Joseph still went ahead to marry Mary despite the backlash she would have faced from the society means that 1+1not always 2.


There are different foundational problems in marriages today however, premarital pregnancy in my opinion, isn't one of them.


Lack of trust ..
Incompatibility
Bad financial habits
Abuse (emotional,verbal and physical)
Deceit

Amongst others are symptoms of a faulty marital foundation.

Premarital sex and pregnancy just ain't as serious as the ones up there.

your theories here are really juicy... And looks quite well to read.. Claps but sorry to tell that the Bible is not a science.. It standard doesn't change and the Bible dint trivialize the issue of pregnancy and premarital sex that u mentioned here.. Hebrews 13 vs 4 is clear and cant be twisted.. If the marriage is not honorable i. e let the bed be undefiled....am sorry the foundation will be faulty

chinchonglee:
Bros lemme ask u my own too.

How do men get married without a job
How did u finance ur wedding
How did u finance family expenses
How do u cope knwing fully well u av a big task to take care of and u dnt av moni
Which house did u live in Who paid the rent??

that was why i mentioned.. Seeking God's face before marriage.. The devil has seen my future and he knew i wont be employed for the first 5 years of my marriage so he must have prepared a lady for me too if not for God's direction on the choice of wife.. Now back to all Questions she financed everything secretly without letting even her family members know and she's very respectful.. Tolerant and still bends alittle with her kneels to give me food for the whole of my trial years... As per family expenses.. She footed 80 percent of every bills as my parents too were supportive plus i wasnt lazy too... I did few errands for people and they paid peanuts... Abd lastly as for the rents she paid them with school fees of our children cos shes a medical personel.. Just leme now ask u one last question too... Where on earth can u find such a woman without Gods direction?now she doesnt touch her salaries anymore

kannymoore:
"Marrying a woman because she is pregnant is a bad Christian fouundation"
What sort of nonsense advice is that?

Wasn't Jesus himself born from this same kain foundation?!


Some of you holier than thou folks are just one kain...

At the OP.... talk to the most reasonable member of your girls family and make them hear you out. If you still can't see reason with them then just opt out of the wedding.

You will not die in the end.

Take care of your kid though.

if the foundation be bad... What can the righteous do? Be wise bro

Blackfriday:
Please how do one seek God's face in a marriage?..

Do God come down from heaven and give you the wife?

Not everyone will have a supportive wife like yours for 5 years without a job but want I don't understand is you asking him to quit now, even after they are legally married in the eyes of the LAW, so it's okay he leaves the lady while she's pregnant for him (4 months)...wow.

No life journey is easy, the young man has made some mistake already but he should have some balls and face his demons, that is what define successful men, you don't run at face of a any slight obstacle (you don't win that way), good things don't come easy, we all dream of so many beautiful things we want in life but Who says it's going to come like a fairly tale?.

You are married sir and I guess you have children now as well, so should understand how cranky so ladies can become when they are pregnant, coupled with a pressure of planning a marriage, baba... This man should be patient and pray to God for a better days... From his narrative the girls family have been nice to him, willing to support him and the lady herself have been good to him in the past, can't he give it his best instead of running away.... And the truth be told no woman will be happy a man who can't get things done, they don't leave with promises.

foundation in this so called marriage is a very faulty one.. It was based on that pregnancy solely.. I just gave an advice.. Its left for the op to follow his mind..

pappy2000:
I really dont want to brak her sister heart because she has spent her money n energy to make this realtionship work but now my wife is just irrational. I told her its a step at a time but she insisit i should do all, she is asking for phone i must her a new set of chair and do proper wedding all at once, she even suggested i should sell my car n buy okada

haba.. U need to slow down on thia engagement bro.. This lady is just destined to have a child for u
. Not your wife.. Even if u collect 70k in abuja.. Your wife willl understand wt u and belive u can be great... Don't let this woman send u back to village.. Reverse and ask God for a wife not a pest

pappy2000:
I used to think marriage should be full of bliss. I have begged and begged her. but its all falling on deaf ears

bros as a counsellor.. I married without a job for 5 years before God openwd a big way for me this year.. I married a nurse... So respectful... Highly tolerant and very understanding lady.. The question i need to ask u is dis... Are u a Christian? If yes then i dont feel u know about seeking God's face before u choose a woman... From inception this marriage is quite faulty.. U are going to this marriage because shes pregnant... That a bad foundation..that lady will frustrate you..beta accept her child and seek God's face for a life partner

Been married for 5years with 3kids now.. And my prophet told me same thing 6 years ago.. I took the same bold step.. It was very tough decision for cos i depended on my wife for everything for 5 years . Shes a medical personnel but very humble and tolerant to a fault ..until this year God opened a very big way for me.. If i had waited till now.. Just tell me where will i find that type of highly tolerant, disciplined andGod fearing lady now? Be wise

I just hope this guy's money is clean.. Cos i dont wanna hear hes been on fbi watch list since 2016 ooo.. I wish him a happy and successful marriage though

Oh am sorry about what you are passing through madam.. He is a good husband and a good father with what u have stated clearly here.. Just be patient hes just going through some tough patches now.. Dont worry u will laugh at at if u endure this phase with him.. And pls dont listen to all this slay girls who dont know anything in life.. Pls hold a bit.. Your husband help is coming

fyneguy:
ahahahah now I see where you are coming from - a Tolex fan.

FYI, Alex is back in the country. Tobi has nothing to do with her again. I guess she has learned her lesson. By the way, I hope she stopped fighting at events? ...so much for the one who is not bitter.

oh that's where u got it all wrong bro.. Am not a tolex fan at all.. I say things as it is.... I can tell u from a reliable source that alex and tobi are really cool and takin things to a next level next year according to an insider in bakares family.. And mind u as for the ruse that happened at the event... Alex is just like every other normal girl out there.. Simple down to earth and spontaneous.. Get your facts right

Read leviticus 18 verse 9..it actually condemn u to death.. But our God is a merciful God.. Seek spiritual deliverance and donet ever try it again.. But surely u shall suffer the consequence not matter what u do because u have done a forbidden thing bro..KING DAVID as much as God loved him committed a sexaul sin.. Was forgivern but he suffered the consequences.. He was forbidden by God to build Him a house.. Sword dint depart from his entire rulership... Think about this word bro..

fyneguy:
crap! you saw just one. You did not see the manipulative and deceptive moves of Tobi. You lots want ladies to fall cheaply to a playa's prank. Tobi eventually used Alex and dumped her. Ceec did not allow that.

dont be a novice.. Alex and tobi waxes strong as day passes.. Shes just out of the country to study.. Just wait and see... No matter how successful that ceec is,she will surely end up like linda ikeji.. Tonto dikeh and Yvonne jegede.. She is so egoistic.. Bitter.. Manner less and proud.. What kinda man stays with such woman... Just type who is the most bitter woman on your google.. U will be shocked ceec's name will pop up on your dirty and cracked screen.. Grow up and learn man

Ironman15:
God, why do you allow my mom sleeps in the room yesternight. why cant she sleep where she always sleep. I must kill myself

abeg send me card before u kill yourself

Pls should i send my acc so u can transfer the remaining cash in your account.. This goes to show that u are better off some people.. Man up

Welcome to umi family bro.. Very reliable and solid brand from the stables of umidigi... Enjoy your phone

My wife phonewas stolen few days ago.. I called her from morning till evening only to discover on her to return that her phone was stolen in the morning... I guess if it were u.. Alot must have run through your mind.. Just decided if u can trust her again.. But as for me i cant

fyneguy:
Ceec's hater, face your female siblings and leave her alone lol

talking about ceec... U know i watched one of her few moments wt tobi in the big brother and i wonder how on earth such a lady will stay in a relationship not to talk of marriage.. I just hope her management work on her honestly

GbadeTehmy:
Some ppl are just throwing stone at glass house,i pity them..you better watch your defiled tougue less you invite unforgivable genetrational penetrating curse upon yourself..

This prayer goes beyond words,English only try to capture the mind of the speaker..only spiritual man can understand.. I bear with una weakness

oh i can see why God shut his eyes towards Nigerian predicaments .. People no longer believe his powers again to do the unthinkable... Am not suprised anyways.. How will u have time to type blasphemy on adeboyes page If u have a good 9to 5job where u submit your phone before entering the working hall? Some of this bitter and nefarious reactions comes from pagan... Yahooo boys and slay mama...follow them at your own peril..

fyneguy:
typical Nigerian. All semantics, Zero substance.

ceec's sibling.. Grow up man

Guy.. Just buy umidigi a3 pro from any trusted agent and nairaland.. Trust me i dint regret buying it since January.. Its strong reliable and has high end phone feel.. Talkin from experience

fyneguy:
Some of you post rubbish online. What has his story got to do with Ceec? In any case, nothing stopped him from sitting with his babe. It's even strange he chose to not keep her company.

You need to elaborate your thinking to accommodate expansion. Don't be narrow minded.. Think like a man.

Ayodelejohn2018:
On what foundation was d relationship/marriage built?
U cannot marry d child of d devil n not expect satan as d father in law.
If forget about what she was b4, women r very cunny just like a serpent dat can live with u for several years bt attack u at a little provocation

hmmm.. Foundation! Foundation! That's what a marriage is built on... If the foundation is bad.. What can the righteous do? The bible dint answer though

Wow this is deep...an elderly's advice with a growing marriage of 15 years and above can only be accepted and reasonable here... But above all i guess the op is a gentleman man and good family man but not well informed about basis and reason for marriage before he married that toxic and highly lazy lady...if he had prayed very well he wouldn't have married such woman in the first place.. This man loves that lady and want the best for her but sadly she doesn't feel the same way.. Marriage is an institution of 2 matured people who are willing to make sacrifice for the union to work...i hope he gets the best of advice from elderly ones cos this is a very sensitive matter and needs to be handled as such..

I just Google searched his fendi shirt... Na just 350 dollars pere... That's enough for me to pay for my project management training in lagos and still feed for 3weeks..oga oo.. This guy make legitimate hustlers look lazy

One day her time to be mother in law will come.. And her daughter in law will be be like gbam.... It will be a nice idea if my mother in law joins davido's mum in heaven