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This is a very sensitive issue and should be dealt with as such,your marriage is still very Young and i can see that the foundation is quite fault,i think one should think of mental and spiritual maturity before getting involved in any marriage,i can see that u and your wife built this institution on either bodily attraction or bad reasons for a Union, hence this serious early altercation.anyway your wife has 80bpercent fault and the rest 20 percent fault is yours..she lacks maturity and her reckless irresponsibly can cost her this marriage..but your blame is the fact that u forsee all this selfish character in her and u decided to be blind to it because you were beclouded by your emotions..the solution is this,get a respected man whom she fears and respect alot to talk to her and educate her properly about marriage and its responsibilities...i married and lost my job immediately afterwards,my wife catered for the family for close to 4 years,paid houserent,paid rhe children's school fees,and still feed us with little or no assistance from me and can i shock u?she still respect me and she still bend her knees alittle when giving me placing my food on the table for me...do you know the reason?solid foundation and proper education on what she will face in marriage ...pls just forgive her ,write off her past and give her a chance to correct her mistakes of hiding her finances from u...she doesn't know shes placing her children's future in danger by being so secretive and selfish as well..be wise

davonlee:
https://www.nairaland.com/6521047/ive-been-diagnosed-stage-1

I went to a private hospital today for a more comprehensive diagnosis. I was told that from the symptoms I'm exhibiting and test results as well, it's best I undergo partial colectomy, because the cancer has grown deep into the layers of my colon wall, but not outside the colon wall yet. My family, as well as you guys have been of immense help, and I really appreciate all your advice. I'll be updating y'all on my progress. Never in my life did I ever think that this would happen to me. Sincerely, it feels like a dream to me. Thanks everyone.

before the consider going for this operation,wont you Rather first visit one man of God in akure, prophet samson oluwamodede..who knows?Hod might use him for you

aidameoryou:
yes we have heard you [color=#000000]god personal assistant [/color]

be wise

AllenSpencer:
Nigeria's self acclaimed men of God always believe their insanity sell outside Africa

Where you can tell someone to go bring his first month salary as first fruit Or be slapping someone in the name of deliverance.

That was how the Sango Otta dwarf was abusing and assaulting a girl the other day, in the name of deliverance,


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XfvOUUYf-8

the curse you have received from the pit of hell shall manifest quickly..

Oh am so sorry about this bro,i had experience with a married lady back a couple of years back,i suffered for 3good years,i almost reduced to nothing and after several consultation,was made to know that sleeping with that married woman was the cause of my misfortune.its an abomination.. repent first and i pray that you see help soon bro

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Kasco:
Osaro dpo of Benin, now we have the new oba of Lagos.... Power really belong to the people. OBA don tuama.

Next year will make me 10years on this forum and I never smell FP before. I dedicate this one to those people who wants to give up in life, delay is not denial...

I congratulate u heartily and I felicitate with you on your new feat..I wish u long life to celebrate many more greater feats in good health and great success in life.. Happy ftc bro

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The friend looks like cubana chief priest na..abi na my eye

How come don jazzy now leave himself to be this big...I think going 2 to 3 days without food would have helped him trim down alittle...he's just 37..he should watch it..

I don't respond to people opinion but the part that got me thinking was the fact that she acknowledged herself to be part of the privileged few...that part got me thinking that this sars brutality end with the low and the defenseless people...so I need to pray hard to get to that top where there are no mess

Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

Really alot of Nigerian girls lack tolerance to be honest. Marriage has never been a bed of roses and will never be. Congratulations cha cha you have successfully registered to nollywood single mothers association. You're now free to do anything you want. Soon you'll start snapping nude independent day pictures like mercy toyin lawani and buying range rovers and houses all over lekki like Toke makinwa.

u really offend me today..haba why would u forget to mention iyabo Ojo...I no like am oo

Righteousness89:
They Looked Happy in their Social media postings all these while..
They Looked Fulfilled with their Social media Postings all these while..
So all these Social media postings Have been all for the Grams..

It's so Clear The Home unit is being Terribly attacked!
It is a Spiritual thing..
Exposing your Home is one of the ways to attract wars and Unnecessary things to your Home..

As we Pray For our Homes , Refuse that Spirit that pushes u to Expose your Home in the Name of showing out.....

You End up attracting Strange Forces and Unnecessary Enemies into your Home..

Wife Submit to your Husband
Husband Love your Wife
Pray and Study the Word of God together. ( Do not Joke with this)
Also have your Seprate times with God..

The More closer your Home is to God! The More Love you Have for each other..
The More Closer your Home is with God, The More Secured your Home is..

whenever u comment on a post,I always do not feel The need to comment anymore... thanks for using your wealth of knowledge to depopulate the kingdom of hell amongst nairalanders.. welldone

Dear op, u already know that muscle camry..corrola 03,04,07 ...Lexus rx350 are all Yahoo boys motor...so try something matured like rav4 06,07 or highlander 2011,2012 or get a used 2.7 litre engine white hilux.,.honda pilot 03,04,05 too are strong cars with less recognition

Am sorry about your situation my bro..in my own opinion,u ask a lady u have been supporting with 40k per month to send screenshots of her statement to u and she turned it to be lack of trust?this is absolutely red flag and u don't need a soothsayer to tell u that this woman is quite secretive and manipulative... God is actually showing u something ..pls listen..we that are married..these are simple things we noticed before going ahead..

GreatResearcher:
Someone his dad wasted Billions of naira to purchase helicopter few months ago is giving out 10k and even have the guts to post it for the world to see.

u are a fool..can your great grandfather stand before his father..his father oversees churches in 192 nations...what has your generation achieved..this man here is encouraging those of us that pray..u are here criticizing a man u can never and will never be up to him even if u come to life 1000 times..u parents failed to have brought such a shame of a child to the world who has nothing to offer than a 10mb data which u tink u can use to criticize those that impacted their generation More than you..my prayer for u is to repent..

Anyiiii:
I had to open another account to conceal my identity. Please I need help. I have gone to several pastors and churches for deliverance, yet, no solution. I'm 35years old lady and I'm not yet married. My elder sister is 37years old, still not married. My female younger cousins are in their early 30s too but not yet married. They said it's forces from the family but we have carried out all sorts of deliverance but no way. We are all graduates, doing well and very beautiful. I'm almost giving up hope on this marriage matter. Please I need a solution to this problem��

run quickly to contact a man of God in akure ..his name is prophet Samson oluwamodede..u can first watch him online at pccgtv on youtube..just pray u see him one on one cos it won't be easy but it's worth it.u will come back and give your testimony here..he is a prophet of prophets..the Lord has given him authority and power to deliver such a stubborn battles like yours in the past..don't listen to all these atheist and pagan here advising people wrong..it's your battle..face it alone

Pls sir..what just happened is just way too much on your side..I understand that women have their excesses but u could have humbly pick the call to show her what u are doing at that moment and end the call thereafter...even though I know u aren't a saint but having know that your wife has trust issues,u could have show her what u were doing and that u were gonna call her back after u are done...women too are not fools..pls just unblock your wife and settle with her..this happens normally in marriages but pls a week of blocking her is way too much..embrace your wife bro

AhmedEmeka:
What's the point from that homophobic comment.

he has said the exact mind of God on that issue..it's now left for u to adhere..

Richdad50:


I have long imagined the mental state of homosexuals. It is perhaps the most disgusting engagement or practice in the history of man.

There is no greater excitement for a man than the feeling of being inside a Vagina. How do you sacrifice such gift for the Anus? Why would you allow a fellow male humiliate you by dominating you.

What homosexuality does is replacing your dominion as a male. It takes away your confidence and shortens your life. You will fade quickly and your dying days will be full of shame and regret.

I have never seen a Gay who lived long and happy. They are more suicidal and depressed than any group.

Richdad

u Neva disappoint me with your detailed comment on issues and u r just always on point..God bless u

When u saw bobrisky in expensive white lace,a white Benz customized in his name, different birthday gifts and u start thinking how useless u are...stop comparing yourself to other people..keep on doing what u are doing legitimately.one day u will make it

orphan11:
Prayers don't work I have been praying for a job for a year now no way now am a begger
I have been begging and praying since 3 days now to get help and see what to eat but no hope
Please help me with something to eat please
Bless me with 1k let me buy food and eat please

I prayed for job for 5 years without a single answer..I dint relent..but God dint give me job..he made me an employer.. sometimes wen u ask for something..u ask awrong...God still answers prayers

You both have flaws as human..but trust me..this guy won't give u the peace that comes with marriage..pls don't let the fear of loneliness and physical attraction soil your future..sister.... there's a man out that who will give u the disired peace and value u...the fact that u toasted him gave birth to all these and u should know he will never respect u at all...just pretend u don't have any money to spend on him and bring up a very big false problems before him...see as he will run away from u without looking back..his association with u is called parasitic in biology

iyke926:
Saw that yesterday.

Now imagine, if Buhari was there in such a situation...

he will send a condolence letter through Femi adesina and Garba shehu

God has thrown you success..a good home ..good kids and you just prefer wahala..pls be wise..the future of the kids you have should be your priority not the number of kids..besides put yourself in that woman's shoes before u take any action

Those that use psychological reasoning to get married like u will end up in a ditch..have u consulted The originator of this marriage institution at all..stay there

LarryBee1k:
I think that's not always true. But it does Happen.


I can confidently state here that extremely gorgeous women are never half-worth the trouble they put men through. There is always something fatally wrong with them. Actually, many men are often painfully aware of this fact, the reason even players and seemingly handsome men will go for the most average woman when it comes to serious dating or marriage.

The unspoken code among men is that average women are better in all aspects of life because of what we call ‘compensatory factors’. They (average looking women) are aware that they lack something vital and always strive to compensate for it in all fronts, from cooking, to manners and better still to where it matters most: bedroom.

For me beautiful women are only good as trophy girlfriends; to flaunt to our male peers and make other women especially those who rejected us feel jealous. But just like all men, past a certain age, you know beauty should rank the lowest when selecting a suitable life-long partner.


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your last sentence is the answer to the question

Before I married..any girl I see in White garment, I always pick race ..they are always demon possed ,their major skill is oloshoism and ,hairdressing

LadySarah:
He isn't serious

are u married?if yes , don't be too quick to judge pls..