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engrrichie92:
they say girls/ladies/women really loved to be licked

sincerely yours, it disgusts me really and i feel it's unhealthy

am i being abnormal?

Guys, anyone share thesame opinion

Ladies,what do you think of a guy like me?

PS: Mouth Action aint my thing either, except if you really want to do it, i never ask for it
and it has never made me cum

I am not married but even if I do get married, I have made up my mind to never take part in such.Not only do I find it absolutely disgusting but , I also think about other health consequences.I mean, if I can't drink my own urine or menstrual flow,why would I let someone do it on me & then kiss me with that same mouth?I wouldn't want someone to do it on me & I wouldn't do it on anyone either.Think of people with herpes who could easily transfer their virus to one's genitals or still , stuff like ecoli transferred through bowel movement.Think of the anatomy of a woman & how it would be so easy to transfer such stuff.It's a big NO for me.

Tioluwa:
What are some of the issues you discussed when you were in courtship or now you are in courtship or when you think you will be in courtship?

If you
Are a Christian, get a book called "Before you do" by Bishop T.D.Jakes.You'll learn so much that needs to be discussed before marriage e.g. Health,Finances,Goals,Number of kids,How do you handle disagreements,Do you have a will & would you like us to talk about it,How much role will in-laws play on our marriage,Do you have a criminal history?etc.

nnamdibig:
Not funny sometimes

Sorry oh, I understand physical intimacy is a basic need for men. .Not married myself but I keep praying for twins when that time comes.Well,I'd suggest you get each of the babies a pacifier & a rocking swing chair with some music.The pacifier will trick them to think they are being breast fed.The rocking swing chair will keep rocking them.You deserve to have some fun with your wife.

NwaAmaikpe:
Sell the baby.

Wicked comment

nnamdibig:
This is seriously serious. Am in same condition bro.....mine sef na twins.

LOL

Brooke60:
Talk to madam or

give little dude sleeping pills

I do hope the sleeping pills part is a joke though because the baby is obviously too young for that.

So the man can't receive healing if he doesn't expose himself in the church?SMH.

Danpersie31:
I seem to have this issue bothering me about baptism. After receiving Christ into your life its always expected that you undergo some training in order to keep you firm in the faith. But that's not the case here, I was baptized in 2012 at ECWA goodnews church in jos, and yesterday at our church team training at RCCG in Abuja, we were told that it was necessary that we all be baptized if we wanted to become a full member of the team.Despite the fact that I made it known that I was already baptized before, but due to the fact that it wasn't in RCCG I was told that I must be baptized again in RCCG, as it is the church's tradition. I have being disturbed ever since. Is that to say that the first baptism by the other church is being undermined?
Is baptism twice okay?

You see, I was raised in the Presbyterian church which allows infant baptism & also sprinkles water over the forehead.I however wasn't baptized as a baby.I was of age & went through the teachings of the church & all.I was capable of making decisions about my faith because I was 19 years old then.Soon after, I had to relocate & the church closest to me is an Assemlies of God Church, which I attend now.They started teaching me about being baptized through immersion, because it wasn't "done right" the first time.One day to the baptism, I asked the pastor for some time to think about it.Till today, I never went for baptism.Just wanna use my example to say that sometimes churches lay so much emphasis on works & forget to focus on Christ.Is the R.C.C.G water any better than the water used in your previous church for your baptism through immersion?In my case I asked myself, what of those who live in places that have no water and then come to faith?They don't have the luxury of being immersed.Does that make them any less Christian?As for me, believing in Christ & choosing to follow Him fully , is the most important.Water Cannot change the inner man.It's just an outward confession of your inner faith.

Militude:
Oboy the pimples no be here oh

I have been suffering from this skin disease from the past 5 years now I have tried all kinds of skin Care product but seems not to work.

I even tried using bleaching cream but oboy skin no gree turn yellow ohhh.

So please if you have any good skin Care product you can comment below.

I have sleepless nights because of this. It itches me so badly. Note I don't pluck it.

Please help me

See a doctor and you will be referred to a dermatologist.You've self-medicated for a long time.Nairaland is full of advisers who will give u all kinds of advise.Time to see the doc.

IamSINZ:
JEHOVAH

You just called His name in vain!

Proud of my President Uhuru Muigai Kenyatta!

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

Better return to your home and figure out next accommodation while there at home.Otherwise, there's no telling what's coming your way should you insist on staying.

Bantino:
Yeah, we are doing pretty good, u?

Very well,thanks

Bantino:
Fellow forum gamers, let's hit it...

Harlos, Deiok, Odunharry, Jbluv55, Elantracey, etc

Obinoscopy, plz help me out here with the list of our forum gamers

I see y'all still going strong.Wow, am impressed!

bamidelee:
you're an hypocrite
seun continue to make yah money let this hypocrite dey corner dey weep cos of Islam

And what exactly makes me a hypocrite for speaking my mind?

disco82:
today is friday !!!, how many muslim post did u count on sunday ?

And how many Christian posts did you see on the front page on Sunday?

@Seun,Ishilove,lalasticala.Has Nairaland now turned to an Islamic website or is one of you a practicing Muslim.Not that I have anything against the Muslims.Just that the rate at which their posts make front page as well as the numbers of those posts,is interesting.Never have I seen that many Christian posts make front page on the same day.Look at all the Islamic posts on front page today.They ask you to adhere to their faith before commenting but anyone can come on a Christian post and say trash.Just an observation.

NwaObinkita:
Okay
Good for you

It was in your best interest
because I heard that you became very sexually active at a very young age and extremely promiscuous back then in Asata, Enugu in the early 70s.

You heard? And what source did you hear from?Were you there or you are just spreading rumors on the web.If you don't have anything good to say, then say nothing.Character assassin!

coolestchris:
[color=Red]at least she better pass our girls weh deh run from marriage or child and are now 30 years above [/color]

[color=Red]watch out for my new song titled "cucumber"[/color]

Really? Are you saying girls in their 30s who aren't married are less human beings? Na wa for some comments.

NwaObinkita:

Wow nice one, she's already hiding her face in shame.

She must be a babymama too in future just like her mother Insha Allah.

Really, you are already wishing an innocent baby some funny wishes.I lack a comment but, she's just a baby.Remember that!

jonhemma11:
Read more. http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/05/mercy-johnsonrmdpatience-ozokworjuliet.html

Mercy Johnson looks beautiful but a little alteration of her pants length would have perfected the look.

siie:
I'm pretty sure it's those Kenyans..

Leave us alone Biko.Kenyans are too proud, they don't have mass weddings.This was at one Pastor Kayanja's church in Uganda.You can even hear the word ban anger which is a Luganda word, you can google the meaning.

Revolva:
look whether 1st date or not a woman is suppose to show her cooking skills..that the best way to be loved by a man ..that is the secrect of we men ok..the idiot girl cant cook

I still maintain that no man should ask the girl to cook on a first date.There's plenty of other times she could do the cooking but absolutely not on 1st date & to make matters worse, this man even brings his friends over.At the risk of sounding arrogant, am gonna say that I too wouldn't do any cooking on a 1st date.If he can't buy dinner, then he is just cheap & most likely stingy.Period!

NextGovernor:
What money can do in this life ehhhh.

Just imagine a beautiful young girl like this married a moving cadaver just because of money...

Too harsh.

Revolva:
that lady is an idoit n a big problem in d future nonsense

I beg to differ with you on this one.How do you invite someone on a 1st date when it should be all about knowing one another, then bring friends over and then tell her to cook?That should be a time for just the two and if the guy isn't cheap he should have at least taken her to dinner for a 1st date.

bullabong:
How can a male pastor(Ibiyomie of salvation ministries PH) lock up a female(Kemi Olunloyo) he should view as vulnerable in a cell for all this while without taking compassion on her all for a mere slander. What was her crime? She spread false information against him. Was he the first person she slandered? No. Will he be the last person she will slander? No.
Does he have a wife? Is this the kind of authoritarian man he is? Charity they say begins at home,so I guess he must be an autocratic head at home. Its a shame on Salvation ministries and its a shame on christians. Where is the love your Jesus preached? Turn the other cheek Jesus said. Bless those who curse and slander you. Well I guess pastor Ibiyomies cheeks are too royal to turn.

Actually I read sometime back that Pastor Ibiyomie is not to blame.After he had her released,Iyabo Ojo had her sent back to jail.But then I remember reading that she was released on bond though hearing is still pending.Use google & check.