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Family › Re: Irresponsible Fathers And What They Cause To The Society by bellong: 9:53am On Aug 01, 2014
aisha2: I know someone who holds so much anger against his dad and we have been trying to talk with him to let go but anytime he lets his guard down small the father will call with silly demands and resentment starts again.
Tell the guy to watch this movie by Eddie Murphy "A thousand words".
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 9:41am On Aug 01, 2014
charles316: Engineering Technologist
how about this? How do I know if the minimum requirement for Engineering Technologist is advanced diploma or bachelors?
You will need to check the Australia's skills and occupation website (ASRI) or something. It has all the details about qualifications and job specifications for all occupations.
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 9:37am On Aug 01, 2014
charles316: so what do u advice? I m confused .
This

bossladyMo: Look for another occupation your work exp can fit into, but requires a lesser qualification. Scan the CSOL to check
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 9:25am On Aug 01, 2014
charles316: I dont get this part. Kindly explain
Your qualifications must be assessed to at least equal to Australian Bachelor's degree before you can be assessed positive.
Family › Re: Why Does This Make Her Forgive Me? by bellong: 11:03pm On Jul 31, 2014
onegig: I thought i was the only one that noticed that. People go into marriage with this conditioning and not fix things,make extra effort and be happy believing it is according to the golden rule of marriage that "the first year and few years is always hard". Says who? Based on what stats?


If you don't enjoy marriage at the early stage when do you want to? When the teeth are falling off already?
Misconceptions and falsehood perpetrated as the truth over the years are part of the reasons why a lot of union experience turmoils and difficulties. The first few years and beyond can be without any difficulties and this is not downplaying minor agreements in the path of adjusting to each other.
Family › Re: Why Does This Make Her Forgive Me? by bellong: 10:25pm On Jul 31, 2014
adebayo201: moreover,[b] the first year of a marriage is always difficult. [/b]keep bearing.
You're blessed!
Is this a universal law? I always hear this but don't believe this falsehood.
Family › Re: Why Does This Make Her Forgive Me? by bellong: 9:51pm On Jul 31, 2014
Why ask question when you have the key that unlocks her heart? huh huh huh

Your arrangement of the room shows to her that you are concerned about her not only in words but in action. The reduction of the chores for her is enough to forgive you easily considering that you are always comfortable watching TV or playing games without minding domestic chores.
Family › Re: His 5 Years Old Son Wrote In His Play Book "I Don't Like My Mum And Dad" by bellong: 8:31pm On Jul 31, 2014
kreamidiva: .
How are you doing? I have been trying to get hold of you.
Family › Re: Help A Nairalander Achieve His Educational Dreams by bellong: 3:05pm On Jul 31, 2014
onegig: curiosity kills the black cat. cheesy
Sometimes, it doesn't kill but blinds the cat... tongue
Family › Re: Help A Nairalander Achieve His Educational Dreams by bellong: 2:57pm On Jul 31, 2014
onegig: abi na...080300000001.

Who dey use that number sef..Tried calling it but na smoke dey comot from my phone.
Why did you call the number when you are not authorised to? huh tongue
Family › Re: Help A Nairalander Achieve His Educational Dreams by bellong: 2:45pm On Jul 31, 2014
Ify,

I like your digit..... cheesy grin
Family › Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by bellong: 6:52pm On Jul 30, 2014
MizMyColi: ENFJ men are very rare, though unverified, they make up about 2.2% or less of our population smiley
Thank you. Now I understand myself better. smiley
Family › Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by bellong: 12:27pm On Jul 30, 2014
When she brings a "fiance", do well to tell the guy about her behaviour and personality traits before he enters a one chance market. cheesy grin
Family › Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by bellong: 12:19pm On Jul 30, 2014
zboyd: Not to my knowledge.

But if I find out...his azz is grass!

I don't tolerate cheating!
His azz is grass!!!... That is if he values you in the first place...... cool cool

Good that you have zero tolerance for cheating.
Family › Re: Pls I Need Your Opinion On This! My Fiancé Is Very Secretive by bellong: 11:28am On Jul 30, 2014
xtassie: Thanks for your contribution, our earlier stage of dating was challenging cos he was too attached and tells all to his mom, not necessarily reporting but asking for their advice or I see it as he gossips me but he is has changed not 100 percent sha and I see him trying to make the effort to be better ,that is the only challenge I have with him other than that he treats me like a queen and I can honestly say I am happy in the Relationship that was why I was quite shocked when I saw the sand and blocks used for the building. All I want to know is if I was not considerate to him telling him to abandon a land he has on a platter of gold to buy from a nearby community,(I feel that was what made him start the building behind my back) I wouldn't mind if he was not so attached to mama ( his mom is Ill with a terminal disease) so I try to understand why he wants to see her all the time, but I fear is that he may go back to his being a mama's boy wen he moves since mom would be always around.. And I need my privacy
I hereby withdraw my statement above. Your guy needs to build his house inside his mum's compound if possible.

Meanwhile, you can iron out the surprises he usually give you. Let him understand you are not comfortable with it but for his mum's part, please don't go there. The mum should enjoy her last days with her loved ones including your guy.
Family › Re: How Does One Deal With A Gossip Addict Wife? by bellong: 10:26pm On Jul 29, 2014
RedBenson: Hmmmm, some women deserve beatings at times.
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
Family › Re: Men/women Can We Really Love/submit Respectivelly As The Bible States? by bellong: 10:17pm On Jul 29, 2014
babygirlfl: My question is CAN you (a woman) submit to your husband like above and CAN you (a man ) love your wife like above?
YES
Family › Re: How Can Someone Cheat On You BUT Still Say They Love You? by bellong: 10:10pm On Jul 29, 2014
OP,

Does your boyfriend/husband cheats on you?
Family › Re: How Does One Deal With A Gossip Addict Wife? by bellong: 9:57pm On Jul 29, 2014
RedBenson: No insult to female folk but some women can really be annoying. Imagine having a wife who goes around gossiping like there will be no tomorrow. Mehn, so annoying! I've this closed person (wouldnt state my relationship with him) whose wife is a gossip addict. This woman can be so lost when it comes to gossiping. If she returns from work, she wont reach house when she would stop by road side to gossip. When going to church, market etc, all she does is stopping by the road side to gossip. [b]The husband has even beaten her severally over this [/b]but she seems relentless. How many times has she not put food on fire untill it gets burned while she was busy gossiping with neighbours? The other day, their entired apartment was flooded cos she opened tap to fetch water on a bucket, she left within the time expecting the bucket to get filled when she forgot herself gossiping with a neighbour untill the entired apartment was flooded. I think this woman really needs help. How can one help her or is it just a personal thing?
So you are a friend to a woman Wife beater?? huh huh huh shocked shocked shocked shocked
Family › Re: Pls I Need Your Opinion On This! My Fiancé Is Very Secretive by bellong: 9:53pm On Jul 29, 2014
Be prepared for a long walk that may be filled with "had I known".......


Your destiny is in your hands.
Family › Re: Mothers Can You Do This To Your Daughter(s)? PIC!!! by bellong: 9:44pm On Jul 29, 2014
missberrypop5: lol, you think? I was like that when i was in her age or more. But now i'm really slim.
Picture of it or................. cheesy cheesy
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 10:26am On Jul 29, 2014
[quote author=badenugba][/quote]Have you done a skill assessment?
Family › Re: Mothers Can You Do This To Your Daughter(s)? PIC!!! by bellong: 10:22am On Jul 29, 2014
She has potential to become obese in the future.
Family › Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! (part 2) by bellong: 8:16am On Jul 29, 2014
JuanDeDios: I know it will be a great relief for me if this life were to end this very minute - drowning, road crash, Ebola, stray bullet, poison, I won't care. I have made enquiries about getting a job in Iraq or Borno State but nothing yet. Anyway, I know I don't have whatever it is it takes to take that step and end it with my own hands - so no suicider I am.
If you wanna be a suicide bomber, there is a slot I can fill you in........ cheesy cheesy


The troubles you see today will become a story tomorrow... Hang in there and keep pushing on.
Family › Re: Re : Man Is Not The Head Of The Family by bellong: 5:20pm On Jul 27, 2014
ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?
What is the big deal about it?
Family › Re: Re : Man Is Not The Head Of The Family by bellong: 4:57pm On Jul 27, 2014
Ok
Christianity Etc › Re: Nigerian Pastors Really Need Bodyguards by bellong: 8:32am On Jul 27, 2014
Humans will always have something to defend their selfish and ungodly actions......
Family › Re: Help! by bellong: 8:19am On Jul 27, 2014
I wonder why people are always scared when it comes to marriage.

You don't get scared when to choose a friend or acquaintance, why should marriage be a thorn in the flesh.

I am sure of a thing, for everyone that is sincere with no filthy lucre or deep seated selfish intention and very diligent in looking for the right things will not be miserable in marriage. Not downplaying the "God-factor" that is very important.

So Lady, have an open mind, destroy the fear factor in you and have a realistic expectation which shouldn't be compromised. Most times, fear of what we nurture as humans have a way of working out in one's life. An ancient man once said, "What I fear most has befallen me".

May you find the right man you seek
Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by bellong: 1:05pm On Jul 25, 2014
[quote author=opeolukoya][/quote]It is well sis.. May your tomorrow be better than yester-years....
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 3:06pm On Jul 24, 2014
beautyuche: Thank you so much that was helpful.It seems institutions are quite expensive anything less than $5k fees in first year.Anyone with info in this?
That information is what you can do by visiting their sites. However, I don't think you can get a University where you pay 5k in first year. You should be looking at minimum of 15k (if there is a very cheap one).

Goodluck
Travel › Re: General Australian Visa Enquiries by bellong: 2:40pm On Jul 24, 2014
beautyuche: Goodday All,

I will need help here.For sumone who just have waec and neco result and will want to study nursing in australia what is the process where will she start from?will they accept her and her child into school ?will she be able to work to catter for their need?

Your kind response will be appreciated.
If you have O'level result, that can give you access to an undergraduate study in Nursing. It is left for you to search through schools you can afford the fees.

You will be admitted provided you meet the entry qualification (If you have good O'level result and functional English). The child will equally be admitted into school but I am not sure if it will be free or you have to pay.
Family › Re: Why Aren't Feminist Speaking Out Against The Massacre Of Women In Gaza? by bellong: 12:37pm On Jul 24, 2014
pickabeau1: It is really sad though global politics, christain powers and the Holocaust played a HUGE part
The extreme superiority complex of the Isreali is also a big factor. I only wish the Palestinians will respect the lives of their citizens. Over the years, they should have known that the Jews have superior fire power with the world powers clandestinely behind them. It is a lose-lose situation for the Palestinians.

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