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Safari29: If there is afterlife, I will kill myself right now.

Are tired of yourself? Are you being burdened by somethings and challenges?

You can unburden your mind here if you don't mind. There are many willing to give you listening ears here...

alutacontinua: @bellong, I can do the doh-reh-mih thingy, you get job offer?

Read my response to Sholay about the job offer. The package is mouth watering. do you mind?

zeemoore: No one taught me how to speak or write in yoruba
I learnt the language on my own
Mo try ju awon kan ti won ri eyan/tiisa ko won lo now
Give me some credit, please

That's superb. Never knew you were self taught. Now, I am giving you incomplete credit for half education...

zeemoore: I'm not good with the 'ami ohun oro'
I can't place the signs

We need to get a refund from your Yoruba teacher....

sholay2011: I know the question isn't directed at me but I can write well in Yoruba wiv d correct ami.
Any job vacancy for that?

Yes, there is... D.O Fagunwa is recruiting for an interpreter... Seems he is not understood where he is....

I hope I didn't cause the yawa here?

Abeg, embrace yourselves....

zeemoore: Mi o ma binu
Agba ti o binu l'omo e n po si/jo joo

Very few can write in Yoruba.... are you good with the sign (ami/do-re-mi)?

@bebek.... that's Turkish for baby.


Did she ask the prophetess why he is not right for her?

hispinkolo: @bellong
Dealing justly with the offender will likely cause more problems for you if you are a woman.Just treatment here is telling her look I don't like your attitude etc but when you check the character of the offender,it may just be best to ignore.
It is so painful cos even reporting to the hubby is pure waste of time since he will try to avoid any confrontation leaving you to bear the brunt.
In the end you are on your own.You can only do just treatment when you have a husband that will back you up.

Unfortunately this sort of scenario when you feel all alone only leads to unburdening to your people when you can't take it any more.
In my scenario,hubby is excellent,my family love him as well but he avoids confrontation like a plague.NEVER ever takes a stand..
I made the choice,have to live with it..I just will not sacrifice my happiness anymore for people who are undeserving.Im not JESUS.

But we are aspiring to become HIM daily...

If the just treatment involves you ignoring those that deserve it, go ahead and do it. I have learnt to always bear the consequences of my decisions, actions and inactions including relationship with others.

We have one life to live, live it right and damn whatever any will say. With time you would be left alone.

^^^AMEN

You got it right...

One day at a time. Time heals all wounds

pickabeau1: Deep and i agree
He that seeks friends must show himself friendly
U cant giv what you dont have

Yea..... Deep calleth unto the deep....


A good man, out of the goodness of his heart brings forth good fruits.........

May this new year bring you fulfillment, answered prayers and peace round-about.

Happy birthday to you....

Enjoy the day and be a blessing to your generation....

I have made friends here and still making.


The law of life unlike science says "Like attracts Like". If you are good, you will attract good people and vice-versa.

No matter how anonymous the forum is, a discerning mind can see through the good people here.


First question you should ask yourself is, "are you a friend.." (I do not mean an acquaintance)?

snazzylove: @bellong, if she were to be my blood sister, I will firmly put her where she belongs if she dared that, cos I know our parent will support me so long as they believe am doing the right thing as an elder sister. But because she isn't, whatever I do to her will be seen from 'in-laws' point of view, and most times its not favourable to the wife. In-laws are delicate part of a marriage and should be treated as such. As to knowing this part of my hubby, from experience[b] I have come to understand that when it comes to his people (men generally) you can never fully know what their reaction will be when family issues crops up. They are unpredictable.[/b] As a wife, you can only manage the ones you can and swallow others as a bitter pill.

Then put her where she belongs. If you deal justly with her, your conscience will be free from guilt and time will vindicate you. No one can please everybody but we can be just and fair to all.

The bolded, only men frail at heart sit on the fence when there is need to take a stand. Men generally are logical and not emotional with issues except those still tied to their mum's wrapper. If any member of my family misbehaves to my wife, he or she will be corrected as occasion demands and same to my wife. Equity, fairness and being just are keys to successful relationship. You may be resented at the initial phase but time will vindicate you for your just actions.

The ring is only an invention of the West to sell jewelleries at all cost. It means and signifies NOTHING.


The last time I wore it was one week after wedding. My finger is free from 'finger-cuff" that inconvenience the hand.

Any age that you can be convicted of offence.

Treat the lady same way you would have treated your sister if she were the one in this scenario.

Yes, your husband disrespected you by taking such a huge decision without your knowledge but I think you knew this part of him all along. In this situation, you will only learn to live with him or play your game to make him bend.

armyofone: Johnny's behavior no get race or ethnic now...
Johnny behaves same all over.

I agree with you and it is what I have been trying to tell females here who think infidelity is "exclusive right" of Nigerian men.

Infidelity, wickedness etc are not gender or race biased.......


The guy got what he wanted. He was rich enough that the 5 children wouldn't live in poverty after his death. I hope his promiscuous contemporaries take adequate precaution or remain faithful.

^^^ Is he a Nigerian man?

naijababe: AS : Mean cook, superbly nerdy, tolerant

AW : Tempestuous , getting better with age


Tag: coogar , bellong, Royal Roy, Nashville

AS: A superman

AW: Unpredictable

Tag: Pickabeau1, greatgod2012, theLORDreigns, Caracta, Onegig, adesuave, etc.....

Aipete2: see i cant laff oh hmm see i cant laff oh hmm. God will forgive you, though its nt his fault, u knw he studied in china. So?

Op,

Your prayers are already answered.... Aipete is she. A good wife defends her husband...

alutacontinua: Why can't I stop staring @ op's 2nd pic?
Bellong, please, tell me I ain't crushing

You are not but already in lurve

You were the first female to respond to his heart desire... He needs you, please consider...

Caracta: By the way, I knew you must be a familiar person when I saw the name. I saw the pictures and it clicked. All the best o. May you find the non-Nigerian girl

Are we missing something??

alutacontinua: Don't derail this beauriful thread

You initiated the derail....

I am actually helping the OP to woo you, he needs to understand difference between the two shits.

In a related development, you are the most qualified considering his criteria

Caracta: I live in Nigeria I'm not qualified.

You can relocate to Ghana

Aluta,

What is the "real life shits" you don't do and what is "e-shits"?

Idowuogbo: Ewo! Abeg abeg abeg alutacontinua delete my name sharp sharp! E no get Internet access e wan marry wife? Me resemble from garri to fufu babe? Abeeeeeeeg!

Haba, you don't look at the present but the bright future.... Despise not the day of little beginning

alutacontinua: Guy, packaging matters a lot!
this kain English will not help the ministry
and that rice pic, biko, take it down! That rice fit scare potential wife

Aluta ... and you had to quote him...

OP, she is already telling you what will kill her interest.

alutacontinua:
I'm a man

Yes, I am also a woman.....

alutacontinua: In response to your last sentence, I will like to call on:

Kulyie
Idowuogbo
Cdamsel
Ishilove
Banana bender
Caracta
Freecocoa

op, these are the hottest cakes on NL, thank me later.

In addition to the list, Alutacontinua is a good choice.

OP, chase her with all your might and you may conquer....

faakay: I need a wife

I am seriously looking for one.

Any lady who is interested can send me a private message

You can google: faakay if you want to know more about me via facebook, twitter etc

[b]She must be based abroad either UK, US [/b]etc - age 21 years above

Why is the bolded important? What of someone based in Sri Lanka or Lesotho, is she qualified?

When you keep discovering something new about yourself, you will also discover that you will keep discovering something new about your partner till death do you part.

That alone makes it lively, expecting something new daily. Meanwhile, you must have a strong reason why you want to marry your partner which will also help you not to be tired of him/her.

kreamidiva: The bolded in that post meant "away match" with any other female.

What's up you? Been searching for you all over.

Oh....Ok, thought she told him not to have any female friend.


I am fine and have been around but very scarce . How are you and yours?