₦airaland Forum

KingAzubuike:
An average northerner will prefer keeping 50m in his wardrobe to keeping it in a bank.

Well, can you blame them. If you've noticed the rot in the financial system you'll also loose confidence.

Wisereborn:
I hope it's not fund for terrorism

A passenger carried N18M cash in a cashless country hmmm

Northerners prefer dealings in cash. They don't like the stress and bottlenecks associated with the banking sector.

ThiefnubuBandit:
Useless agbado analysis. Kwara State wey dem still dey pay 150k for 2 bedroom flat

Don't mind the mumu. Where Dem keep Abuja

stanlink:
Hello I'm just think if I will get salvation if I indulge in sexual activities early on a Sunday morning before going for service, the thought of guilt is all over my head although I'm married someone please advise

I don't know when it has become a sin for married couples to have sex any day. The exception is only
during fasting.

Fugazy2023:
Na Samy Larry kill that guy. Nothing wet anyone fit tell me and you will hear the death of Sany Larry soon

But sorry to ask. How did he die?

Still no light 🕯️

Skyview01:
While thinking and reminiscing, I am thinking of my childhood and growing up, as kids, whenever our fatger would come back from work, we would allwys all run out of the house through the backdoor at the sound of his car horn.

The biggest reason is immediately he is stepping in, he would start complaining about things not being in their right places.
Chores not being done or improperly done, house not clean enough and he would always have something to complain about in an angry tone of voice.

I came to believe it was his own way of dealing with a stressful day at work and over time, it kinda created some tensions between us.

I told myself, no matter what, if I had my own family, no matter the stress I pass through during the day, i would never take it out on the kids or wife.

So whenever i come back from work and i see chores not done properly, my father's reaction would flash in my mind and i would take a deep breath and go the opposite directio , ask the kids and wife how their day went.
and generaly chit chat about them without making them uncomfortable around me.

At the end, I might ask my son, "sweetheart, when are you going to wash the dishes? Even at the peak of a very stressful day, I would find a way to smile and go to my room in solitude.

Secondly, shouting at the children while correcting the. My dad as a true Nigerian man would yell at a high octave while correcting us and it frequently drives me crazy as a teenager.

With my kids and family, I practice a low even tone of voice while i am angry or making neccessary corrections. I find this to be very effective as it made the kids receptive and willing to change.

The results, kids are free with me and can discuss virtually everything in their lives with me.

So, what did you see your father do while growing up you were unhappy with and wanted to change in your own family.

I've seen my dad sometimes got drunk and reek of alcohol. I really like to change that in me. I've learnt to drink in moderation.

Habanero05:
Tbh, we men are an embarrassment to this world. I’m sad to be a man. Our roles are just to provide and protect women and we’ve failed 😞 at that even. See grown men litter on this forum spewing hatred against women. Why all these hatred? Some men are so dumb that they can’t think on their own. I had to block a friend of mine who think he’s smart. This my friend is always bitter. I told him my babe cheated on me by sleeping with a married man she just met and this guy had to tell me to leave her. Imagine that. I mean if I was doing the right thing, will she cheat? It’s my fucking fault she cheated and I just have to be there for her and man up to my responsibility

Now i believe some OPs are non humans

Karen2024:
This is common to every Nigerian guy I have dated. I have dated guys from Ghana, Niger, Cameroon and South Africa as well but only Nigerian guys leave their boxers and innerweears like singlets unwashed.
I once deprived one guy, my ex, sex for spamming cum on his shorts and didn't wash it. And the worse things with Nigerian guys is that they are authoritative, boring and stingy too. I don't know how it came to be like this.
I have stopped dating Nigerian guys a long time ago and I am imploring my fellow Nigerian ladies to take same step for their good.

Tell me how many boxers you've sampled so far. Omo ale!

IconicR:
Is this the only thing they are good at?
😂 This is an insult

Her description fits the red pillers definition of simp. Kenya men are the real Red pillers.

Taylor87:
No be your fault my guy

Na Yakubu run am for una so make una flex

A founder of Boko haram coming out in public to yan dust and go free

Evil wey everybody dey support will surely go round

Stale

"politics is a game of nerves and not of emotions. In politics, you have to throw jibes".

If you no get boobs or nyansh for it.. you go explain tire because no evidence.

The only reason she came back to beg it's because men wey wan nack her dem gbola no dey stand. Ashawo. Let her try using cucumber.

AcuraZDX:
Heavy traffic at Karu/Kugbo axis on Abuja-Keffi Expressway because Nigerian Army mounted overnight check point at Kurgbo towards Abacha Barracks because of #PEPTJudgement today.

No jokes mehn!
I just managed to get over that traffic after more than 2 hours. I am exhausted 😩

aQUINandmore:

Why are y'all thinking I'm a guy
Because I'm being real
Nigerians and pretense.
For your info, I'm one of the most beautiful lady from South south Nigeria.

I love helinues

Na helinues Dem send you to murder abi. helinues no kill person na, na only APC supporter the guy be.

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

Wow! I like this topic.

Flangelo12:
They pay them double salary?

Not really, but enough stealing.

Racoon:
How did a Major General in the army came about the money to acquire all these assets or property going by his salary or renumeration in the army service?

Oh I see! He served as the director Nigerian Army Budget and Finance of the Corps of Finance hence most can most like be due to embezzlement and corruption. Do they fill the CCB asset deceleration form in the military especially @ entry and exiting points?

I remember the Major General Ahmed Otiki case where soldiers absconded with his #400M. The only way to eliminate corruption in Nigeria today is via a legislation of the death sentence either via the NASS( which will never come) or executive decision. Nigeria needs a Jerry Rawlings to sanitise this nation small.

Anyone working in that particular department of the Nigerian army is in money.

Jennyclay:
With that nonsense amount kindly stay away from anything called relationship so that you won’t put someone’s daughter in abject poverty Biko!

You’re not even qualified to have a girlfriend not to even talk of a wife. You broke men will just have little change and the next thing on your evil broke mind is marriage.

And the worst thing is you broke men know how to born like rats, by the time the money isn’t enough to catheter for your wife and 7 children, frustration will set in and you will start beating your wife.

Mr man you’re broke!!
Leave marriage alone!!

Jennyclay, the twin sister to Larrycork.

Jennyclay:
Yen yen yen!! Indeed you’re really stupid!! .

So women should keep tolerating and enduring physical abuse and rape in their marriage .

The men we have today in Nigeria are rapist and murderers!

So popsi raped momsi and she gave birth to Jennyclay.

Daddyseun1:
IconicR, try to be productive,
u are jobless,
Always on this forum. 24/7

That stray 🐕

Pakute:
Beautiful babe, f'okanbale. Anybody that Idan has appointed, no one born of a woman can remove him/her. Jagaban also appointed a 400L student into tax reforms and policy committee without much Ado. As a minister, i urge you to continue to dey press the neck of ipob wailers.

May God bless Idan,
May God bless Nigeria.

Choke Dem without water
Even when dem say abeg nyemiri, choke dem with more old yam

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

You sef woo his sister or his mother. Case close.

Labdi69:
I have noticed this more than once. Whenever i take a lady out to a fancy restaurant, she always looks for a way to talk down on the food and make it seem she’s been to better places.

This has happened more than once and with different ladies its not a cooncidence. Mind you, these are pricy restaurants.

For someone like me, even if the food is not good, i wont even say anything especially when im not paying.

Next time just allow her prepare the same food in your house so you can know if she's really worthy. Avoid runs girls una no go hear.

officialwdhtv:
Indian lady sings a Yoruba song perfectly during a live TV show.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwZWKnfprWz/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uY4SyTjmJxY

She has a lovely voice. It begining to soften my hardened heart .

PussyGalore:
Broke Nairaland guys will congregate here to bash women which is their favourite past time.

No broke guy should quote me please, I have a headache

People are contributing meaningfully. For once please try.

b3llo:
Dangote is out to destroy Nigeria

It's not always the case. When you analyze the cost of production In Nigeria, particularly electricity, transportation, forex and multiple taxation, i believe you'll have a different opinion. The government should remove all these bottleneck in order to ease local manufacturers.

Jennyclay:
When a stingy man is looking for a wife, any woman that asked him for money is not a wife material.

The truth is, No relationship last without money.
No relationship leads to marriage without money.

A song writer said love is sweet but when money enter love is sweeter. Common sense should tell you stingy men that's how relationships works!!

Even relationship with God you must drop offerings and sacrifices.

So now tell me why can't you spend money and sacrifice things for your girlfriend

I told a stingy man that I urgently need 60k to sought out some things, one need to see his reaction, he began to show me records of how some costumer bought goods and are yet to balance up. Telling me different stories just because of common 60k , He said he can only send me 25k, I just told him I'm not suffering that he should keep his dirty 25k to himself.

I don't know why you men will just tight your hands kakaraka!! Na wa oo!! So disgusting . It's better to say you don't have then telling me nonsense stories!

You men want true love but you don't want to spend money. Shior!!!

I know that I am not stingy. However, I don't waste money on useless girls.