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Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

Wow! I like this topic.

Flangelo12:
They pay them double salary?

Not really, but enough stealing.

Racoon:
How did a Major General in the army came about the money to acquire all these assets or property going by his salary or renumeration in the army service?

Oh I see! He served as the director Nigerian Army Budget and Finance of the Corps of Finance hence most can most like be due to embezzlement and corruption. Do they fill the CCB asset deceleration form in the military especially @ entry and exiting points?

I remember the Major General Ahmed Otiki case where soldiers absconded with his #400M. The only way to eliminate corruption in Nigeria today is via a legislation of the death sentence either via the NASS( which will never come) or executive decision. Nigeria needs a Jerry Rawlings to sanitise this nation small.

Anyone working in that particular department of the Nigerian army is in money.

Jennyclay:
With that nonsense amount kindly stay away from anything called relationship so that you won’t put someone’s daughter in abject poverty Biko!

You’re not even qualified to have a girlfriend not to even talk of a wife. You broke men will just have little change and the next thing on your evil broke mind is marriage.

And the worst thing is you broke men know how to born like rats, by the time the money isn’t enough to catheter for your wife and 7 children, frustration will set in and you will start beating your wife.

Mr man you’re broke!!
Leave marriage alone!!

Jennyclay, the twin sister to Larrycork.

Jennyclay:
Yen yen yen!! Indeed you’re really stupid!! .

So women should keep tolerating and enduring physical abuse and rape in their marriage .

The men we have today in Nigeria are rapist and murderers!

So popsi raped momsi and she gave birth to Jennyclay.

Daddyseun1:
IconicR, try to be productive,
u are jobless,
Always on this forum. 24/7

That stray 🐕

Pakute:
Beautiful babe, f'okanbale. Anybody that Idan has appointed, no one born of a woman can remove him/her. Jagaban also appointed a 400L student into tax reforms and policy committee without much Ado. As a minister, i urge you to continue to dey press the neck of ipob wailers.

May God bless Idan,
May God bless Nigeria.

Choke Dem without water
Even when dem say abeg nyemiri, choke dem with more old yam

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

You sef woo his sister or his mother. Case close.

Labdi69:
I have noticed this more than once. Whenever i take a lady out to a fancy restaurant, she always looks for a way to talk down on the food and make it seem she’s been to better places.

This has happened more than once and with different ladies its not a cooncidence. Mind you, these are pricy restaurants.

For someone like me, even if the food is not good, i wont even say anything especially when im not paying.

Next time just allow her prepare the same food in your house so you can know if she's really worthy. Avoid runs girls una no go hear.

officialwdhtv:
Indian lady sings a Yoruba song perfectly during a live TV show.

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwZWKnfprWz/?igshid=NjIwNzIyMDk2Mg==


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uY4SyTjmJxY

She has a lovely voice. It begining to soften my hardened heart .

PussyGalore:
Broke Nairaland guys will congregate here to bash women which is their favourite past time.

No broke guy should quote me please, I have a headache

People are contributing meaningfully. For once please try.

b3llo:
Dangote is out to destroy Nigeria

It's not always the case. When you analyze the cost of production In Nigeria, particularly electricity, transportation, forex and multiple taxation, i believe you'll have a different opinion. The government should remove all these bottleneck in order to ease local manufacturers.

Jennyclay:
When a stingy man is looking for a wife, any woman that asked him for money is not a wife material.

The truth is, No relationship last without money.
No relationship leads to marriage without money.

A song writer said love is sweet but when money enter love is sweeter. Common sense should tell you stingy men that's how relationships works!!

Even relationship with God you must drop offerings and sacrifices.

So now tell me why can't you spend money and sacrifice things for your girlfriend

I told a stingy man that I urgently need 60k to sought out some things, one need to see his reaction, he began to show me records of how some costumer bought goods and are yet to balance up. Telling me different stories just because of common 60k , He said he can only send me 25k, I just told him I'm not suffering that he should keep his dirty 25k to himself.

I don't know why you men will just tight your hands kakaraka!! Na wa oo!! So disgusting . It's better to say you don't have then telling me nonsense stories!

You men want true love but you don't want to spend money. Shior!!!

I know that I am not stingy. However, I don't waste money on useless girls.

As a man just try get enough money. A friend once complained about his wife depriving him of enough sex. Meanwhile his wife had never being like that when they were dating. But i got to realize that my friend isn't doing well financially, but the story eventually changed when his financial status began to change for the better.

Favouret:
He should concentrate on working for the people, not looking tough and threatening every Tom, Dick, and Harry

If u live in Abuja you'll understand. Abuja has presently become a den of thieves and robbers. Hausa boys has turned something else.

IconicR:
I sleep early and wake early.
Early to bed, early to rise.

And you are jobless,.. always on nairaland like a stray 🐕.

kelspinall:
i wonder how a grown ass man will wake up and rush down to nairaland to type nonsense, seriously of what use is this thread?

MONEY MISS ROAD

Don't tell me you believe that delusional asshole.
Poverty has really messed up his mind. He is probably typing under Lagos bridge.

Bradford111:
Me and this lady has been in a relationship for a year now, on January we had a fight thought you was having an affair with a friend so I confronted her it got rowdy but we settled..

I would say after that day our relationship hasn’t been the same but have tried all my best to merge things up

My reason for making this post, yesterday we got talking and she told me she is yet to recover from the issue we had in January that it left a big gap in her

I’m quite tired frankly even though I love her deeply I’m not just sure of what to do right now

Please your suggestions are welcome

My opinion is that if she cannot learn to discuss issues or quarrel and move on, then you don't have any business being in a relationship with her. Talk things over with her. Make her understand the important of misunderstanding in every human relationship. Where there is no misunderstanding then there will be no understanding.

Lalami3232:
My only advise for you be say, try take your babe go jamb or waec lesson so that go sabi use punctuation. Your babe dey quarrel with commas and full stop/period?

They both finish from the same school.

This una chat dey give me headache. Don't u guys use punctuation marks

IconicR:
See the type of women he has sex with sef but will quickly rush to comment trash in anything that involves women

I can swear that's your ass

Saintinoo:
A man is never lonely, at 80 I can still have young girls flocking around me, hope you know that.

At 80 will you still be on the red pill

Saintinoo:
Happy Sunday gentlemen of this section.

I see almost everyday how men go about asking ladies for a date, burning date and airtime, trying to impress ladies which I find so disgusting.
I don't know if it is a problem with me, but, I find it absurd, time and resource wasting to go days asking a lady out, buy things to impress her, call her every morning and send gifts just to have a woman around me.

I have had some few girlfriend in the past and even my last ex, I only asked her out once and wait for her to make up her mind, never spent a dime on dates or gifts.

Guys tell us about yourselves, do you go about doing all those zee world and nollywood styles to get your woman.

Yes, I take my woman out sometimes. She also take me out and spends her money. It's exciting you know.

IconicR:
Hmmm sad to still see people doing these traditional stuff.
Thank God Emir of illorin chased them away

This 🐕 still don't want to get sense

IconicR:
I don't like it

Sad 🐕

IconicR:
🐶🐶🐶🐶

You just can't avoid troubles, can you?

IconicR:
that's what you are

Am i not your offspring

IconicR:
🐶

Yes

IconicR:
🐶

Are you one

siofra:
Some women are born with naturally wide vaginas.
The tiny, insignificant gbola of the male gender can't widen a vagina to the point where the woman will need to undergo surgery to tighten it back. Except she is forcefully gang raped and sustained tears.

You and bad mouthing. Same insignificant gbola that you were always speaking in tongues to when getting hammered.