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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 5:04pm On Nov 23, 2023
Yorubafonja:

How many wife's does David has and why does god love him so much for having many women

The Bible mentioned 8 wives.

My submission to you:
No Bible character was the perfect expression of God's intent for mankind except for Jesus.
Every Other person had flaws. Therefore, these flaws cannot be a standard to follow for us today.

Why did then God love him despite his polygamous nature?
Christ had not yet come to re-establish makind to the way it was before the fall...there was a progressive series of action as shown in the Bible..

All these actions proved that polygamy wasn't God's original intention for mankind.

For example, Abraham taking a concubine to father Ishmael was due to the pressure from Sarah and eagerness to just get a child by all means.
What was the eventual outcome? Negative in all ways.

Solomon who took several wives, what happened at the end? It ended badly for him as well.

How about Solomon's father, David....didn't you read of the negatives that happened between his children as well as his child Vs him...

God loved David because he was a man who genuinely loved God and considered God's correction whenever it came
Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 3:14pm On Nov 23, 2023
Praktikals:

I didnt claim to be a blble scholar but if God loves Abraham, David, Solomon, etc then polygamy is not a sin. God doesnt change. God has no favouritism for any man. Praise God.

You need to understand that because God loved Abraham, David, Solomon etc who all practiced polygamy, that it is NOT a standard to follow.

Is that saying God had a double standard? NO

Genesis 2: 18-24
Matthew 19: 4-6
These two scripture sum the mind of God concerning polygamy as concerning man.

Recall that when man fell through Adam...a lot of things went wrong...the planned structure for man got polluted. It was so messy that God had to eventually give the 10 commandments and 613 commandments through Moses to guide the fallen man.

Also, God indeed shows no favouritism.

The coming of Christ reinstated man's relationship with God.

Why then did God love Abraham and those folks who despite practicing polygamy, he still accepted them?

They were in the fallen state and Christ had not yet come. There was a progressive plan towards man's redemption and he permitted it AT THE TIME. It was never meant to be a STANDARD.
Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 3:02pm On Nov 23, 2023
Iamzik:


Quote scripture that says a man with two wives will go to hell

There are many things not expressly stated in the scripture but by examining scriptures upon scriptures on a particular subject, you can see established pattern according to the mind of God.

Is there scripture that if you wear legging or tank top you will go to hell?

How about smoking?

Drinking nko?

How about gambling?

What about celebrating Halloween?
Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 2:47pm On Nov 23, 2023
Globad:


I usually choose my words

I wrote that the Bible is not against polygamy

You wrote that I should tell you where the Bible is in support of polygamy

Bible isn't against polygamy= Bible supporting it
No middle grounds. It's not politics and diplomacy.

You are either 'not against'(Supports) or 'against' (oppose).


Show me verses that support your claim that Bible isn't against polygamy.
Religion / Re: Pope Francis Hosts Trans-Women & Eats Lunch With Them At The Vatican (Photos) by BennyDGreat: 6:11am On Nov 23, 2023
Dybala11:

Matthew 9:10-17

Now, the context of this scripture you quoted suggest that Jesus used Matthew who was a known tax collector to reach out to his former colleagues and sinners in general. The tax collectors at the time were vicious folks.

Jesus used this dinning to show them that God truly loves them and they should come to repentance. He used the dinning to show they were not totally lost.
They knew he was different from them. They had heard about him. Hence, the statement of the Pharisees who questioned his motive for eating with sinners.

Now contrast that with what the pope did.
He dined with them and not only that, the news did write that these transgender folks will have certain benefits to champion their inclusivity in the scheme of things.

Now, how did Jesus champion the sin of the sinners?

The love of God is available for sinners but doesn't champion their sin.

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Religion / Re: Pope Francis Hosts Trans-Women & Eats Lunch With Them At The Vatican (Photos) by BennyDGreat: 5:21pm On Nov 22, 2023
magoo10:
Even Jesus played host to the prostitute, if we were all perfect we wont be asking for forgiveness.

Where did he do this in the scripture?

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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 5:03pm On Nov 22, 2023
Globad:


Do your own research

I'm not ready for any argument

For example, you've already wrongly quoted me

I don't have time for any back and forth

I didn't quote you wrongly. This isn't arguement.
Your position of the scriptures was not accurate.
If you post scriptures that back your claim, we would engage and we both get to learn.

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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 5:00pm On Nov 22, 2023
Flame333:


I don't know where the Bible spoke against it but GOD was never against Solomon for marrying many wives.. He only worries they would cause him to worship other gods..

Was it God's plan for Solomon to have multiple wives?

If the Bible never spoke against multiple wives during Solomon's time except that they could mislead him, can we say Christians are allowed to take multiple wives today if the wives won't mislead them?

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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 4:57pm On Nov 22, 2023
Godfullsam:


The Bible didn't say you should not marry two wives.
It is your pastor that is deceiving you

You can't defend this claim

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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 4:56pm On Nov 22, 2023
Globad:


The Bible is not against polygamy

Where did the Bible support polygamy?

Quote them

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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 4:54pm On Nov 22, 2023
Praktikals:

The Holy bible is not against it. Your pastors are the ones who dont want it. You know polygamy means more responsibilities and you will have less tithes and offerings to spare

Quote scriptures from the Bible that support polygamy for a born again Christian?

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Family / Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by BennyDGreat: 4:53pm On Nov 22, 2023
ValarDoharis:
How many wives has Abraham, Isaac, David, Solomon, etc?

To look but not to see!

How many wives did Aquila the tentmaker have, how about Joseph the father of Jesus or Zechariah's the priest or even Joseph who became prime minister?

Let me ask you only two questions:
1. What was God's original plan for marriage for man?

2. What's God will for all believers in today's world?

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Celebrities / Re: Story Of Kola Olawuyi, The Investigative Journalist Who Exposed Many Evil People by BennyDGreat: 4:18pm On Nov 22, 2023
ednut1:
nothing o, i just had preconceived notion say she got get some kind spiritual powers

Well...you could be right.

I believe his wife became a stronger Christian after his death...his children would have been raised to stand strong cos the man stepped on the toes of many dark power folks

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Celebrities / Re: Story Of Kola Olawuyi, The Investigative Journalist Who Exposed Many Evil People by BennyDGreat: 3:04pm On Nov 22, 2023
ednut1:
His daughter did intership where i was working. When i saw the babe fear catch me i no go lie

Lol..his wife is a lecturer sef...
What was wrong with her?
Politics / Re: Laolu Akande Debuts As Channels TV Analyst, Calls For Revisiting Of Uwais Report by BennyDGreat: 4:32pm On Nov 21, 2023
MasterTeeUSA:
It is the most ridiculous idea...try to force others to do what you did not do. Idiotic people





Honestly, the institution of government in Nigeria is too weak to power the change the country desires.
Politics / Re: Laolu Akande Debuts As Channels TV Analyst, Calls For Revisiting Of Uwais Report by BennyDGreat: 4:30pm On Nov 21, 2023
post=127089262:
Compare Nigeria to a place like Kenya where you have about 50-60% turnout during elections.

What you had even in the Presidential/National Assembly election is about 20% of turn-outs,
the just concluded governorship election is even below that, for us that is what one of the major things that we should be looking out for.

They will be complaining of bad governance but will refuse to come out en-masse to vote for the right candidates.

Nigeria citizens are oke of a kind.
God help Nigeria 🇳🇬

Dealing with the root cause of low participation in elections would be spear headed by the government.

They would need to ensure: voters registration and collection of pvcs is made seamless. Guarantee the safety of lives of those who go out to vote, ensure that measures are put in place to reduce violence during voting, ensuring that election rigging is practically impossible. These are the issues that haven't been dealt with. You don't expect people with negative experiences to troop out to vote in the next election.
Politics / Re: Sanwo-olu Approved N73.1m For Tinubu’s Portrait, N44m For Vegetables by BennyDGreat: 10:51pm On Nov 20, 2023
francotunsco:


Portrait not picture!

Still doesn't justify the amount spent.

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Politics / Re: Photos Of Olusegun Obasanjo: Now And Then by BennyDGreat: 1:34pm On Nov 19, 2023
rollywise:




Me I no fit argue. Sha live your life to the fullest. God wants that for you cuz if you die, you no know wetin dey the other side

I know wetin dey other side for me. Do you?
Religion / Re: Is It Right For Pastors To Confirm The Right Marriage Partner For A Person? by BennyDGreat: 1:23pm On Nov 19, 2023
icedbreez:


You wrote a lot and yet I was hoping you'd never stop cos i was learning a lot.

Problem is this generation would not take the time to read nor will they listen if someone speaks from experience.

What we don't see in this world and yet controls this world is far more than the things we see. Unfortunately we think it's the things we see that controls this world...lol, I laugh.

Marriage is a destiny decision and should never be taken lightly...you need to be properly guided by a prophet, a Pastor or whatever you believe in that sees far beyond the breast and yansh you see or the tall handsome and Mercedes Benz you see.

I'm recently divorced and not feeling inclined to share my story just yet cos I'm still healing (someday I might) and I have the scars to prove you need guidance or else u ll become a mark for some male or female spiritual agents.

A word they say is enough for the wise.

You have spoken well
Religion / Re: Man Shot Dead While Preaching On The Streets Of Peoria (photo) by BennyDGreat: 1:10pm On Nov 19, 2023
naijapikin2:
There are more gun shops in south africa, than there are akara joints in nigeria. Violent con3. With ugly set of men. Their men have fleshless heads.

Ugly set of lazy scumbags... Milking our country dry and rubbing it on our noses because of the vision less leaders we have.

South Africa?
This incident happened in Illinois...nothing concerns S/A with this story

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Religion / Re: Bible Scholars Should Explain Psalms 23:5 For Me by BennyDGreat: 12:44pm On Nov 19, 2023
VEHINTOLAR:


What's "current realities in this 21st century" if you care to explain ?! Look,the words of God cannot be given your own interpretations or twisted to suiit whatever you may want it to mean ! No sir,the word of God is divine and as such can't be interpreted just on a face value ! The word of God is beyond any "current realities in this 21st century;it is relevant to all seasons and time !

Trust me,you don't have to be a graduate of any theological seminary or college before you can understand that passage;any true believer knows what it means. It is that simple. If you're not a believer however,you'll never know or have an understanding of what it means ! So, the question is : are you a believer ?


He was referring to relatable examples or stories in present day to explain the scriptures
Religion / Re: Bible Scholars Should Explain Psalms 23:5 For Me by BennyDGreat: 12:34pm On Nov 19, 2023
Dennisochampa:
This is easy...
For the records, I'm not a Bible scholar...
I just believe in God and depend on the holy spirit for guidance daily...
Na common sense I take know say werin this mean be say....
God will prosper you even in the midst of the bad plans the evil ones have for you.....
U can be in an office where people don't like you but God still finds a way to bless you, prosper you and make you relevant even more than those who seek to destroy you....
This is all made possible because of the grace of God upon your life which is known as anointing in the spiritual realm....

Great submission
Politics / Re: Photos Of Olusegun Obasanjo: Now And Then by BennyDGreat: 12:28pm On Nov 19, 2023
rollywise:


You can never live long enough in this earth. It's all temporary.

There's such a thing as living long enough on the earth even if it's temporary.

Living long isn't living forever.
It's simply being in the right shape to achieve all that God has destined you to.

If you live carelessly that may never happen.
Crime / Re: How A Native Doctor Killed A Pastor Who Came For Occult Power To Grow His Church by BennyDGreat: 12:26pm On Nov 19, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


The point is the devil can never have a pattern.

If you can tell me the region you stay...I will be able to relate some of his patterns to you in relatable examples
Food / Re: Cheapest Substitute For Rice by BennyDGreat: 6:04am On Nov 19, 2023
ycat:
Good ol Gari of course.

If in Nigeria where you have access to fresh gari, na only Eba I go dey chop. Na lack of clean gari dey make people eat rice for outside Nigeria. Insects now reside inside gari that you can't cook like rice before eating.

How about this processed garri they export?
Politics / Re: Photos Of Olusegun Obasanjo: Now And Then by BennyDGreat: 5:56am On Nov 19, 2023
rollywise:



Your mind no pure. You can have all these fun with just one partner.

Being moderate in all your dealings is part of the journey to a long life.

Moderate sex, moderate food...

What you call fun today without moderation could cause pains in the future whether within marriage or outside. Our goal is to stay here long in good health not to rush out of life in sickness.
Politics / Re: Buhari’s Aides, Ex-govs, APC Bigwigs Intensify Lobby For Ambassadorial Appointme by BennyDGreat: 5:35pm On Nov 18, 2023
planetx:
109 missions is too much for a country like Nigeria to maintain. You can appoint an ambassador for example to Ghana and he will oversee Togo,Benin, and Burkina Faso together. This our cost of governance is too expensive.

They won't agree to this cos they want to settle many people.
Crime / Re: How A Native Doctor Killed A Pastor Who Came For Occult Power To Grow His Church by BennyDGreat: 5:30pm On Nov 18, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


Which pattern?

How can the devil have a pattern?

Lol where do you stay?
Crime / Re: How A Native Doctor Killed A Pastor Who Came For Occult Power To Grow His Church by BennyDGreat: 4:58pm On Nov 18, 2023
iHateFraudsters:


And how do you know the devil so well?

Look all around carefully, you will see the patterns he operates with.
Business / Re: Access Bank Is Offline For 3 Straight Days Imagine If It Was Opay/moniepoint by BennyDGreat: 4:42pm On Nov 18, 2023
DKM123:
With all the money they make as profit collecting bank charges every second from millions of customers, they still had to shut down the entire network for three days and counting. They cannot get the best hands to wade off cyber attacks or at least gain back control within a few hours.

There will always be competition for top talents cos the field isn't that easy. So, available talents may never be more than enough. Unless they are ready to spend so much, they can never have enough talents.
Family / Re: My Sister Abroad Doesn't Reply My Messages Anymore. by BennyDGreat: 4:30pm On Nov 18, 2023
She may be going through the most challenging period of her life. Pray for her

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Music/Radio / Re: Nigerians Have Bought The American Market - Ghanaian Music Executive (video) by BennyDGreat: 4:17pm On Nov 18, 2023
streetsoldier1:


How come only Yoruba singers are the only ones nominated

Yorubas form majority of Nigeria's biggest music talents. The rest who aren't Yoruba either live in a Yoruba state or under a label owned and controlled by a Yoruba.

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