₦airaland Forum

2goodbobo:
As I speak to you my 2 Brothers are doing just the same thing your brother is doing. From taking drugs to stealing and selling my Father’s properties to dropping out from School. My mum is late and had BP because of them. I have done my best to change them but to no avail. I have decided to since leave them to their fate.

I intend to get a place for my dad where he can stay away from them. He is no longer enjoying his stay in the house he build because of them and I am tired of complain here and there. I pray they change for good.

christejames:
You can move to Ababurg, Ibadaminsphire, JOSington and even Nsukkaburg ... Those places will take you for a far lesser amount and you don't need any immigration brouhaha to migrate



On a serious note, Nigeria is now a pariah state that an average citizen is always itching to leave in order to survive, what a sad event... The unfortunate, thing is that even the fools that foisted this rudderless regime on us are also jostling to leave.


Well, my wish for you is that you find the best place and country that will make your talent blossom 🌸. This wish will only come to pass if you didn't partake in foisting this govt on us.



Good luck!

advanceDNA:
She said she suffered with him...

Why do Women always think they are doing u are favour by marrying you and staying married to you ......
Saying they suffered when they technically can't pay their bills all alone .....and with you, probably eating free food, living rent & bills free, and never had a dangote or otedela option that wanted to marry them...

As in... I don't get it.... .. them too dey proud over nothing

NaMe4:
What's this rubbish about harassing and intimidating consumers who make reviews about products?

The owners of these small companies don dey mad?

The Consumer Protection Agency should make a strong example with these rogues!

No be only erisco.

Dexy4yah:
And you call it a weird encounter? When you refused helping someone in need of help.


We are gradually turning to animals in this country...

SUPERPACK:
If I am the one I will just tell her to follow me to a filling station, then buy for her as little as I can afford. She might genuinely need help and stranded. Makes me remember the song, Another day in Paradise" by Phil Collins.

wonder233:
One of the things that can save you when attacked by a mob over false accusation is your determination to physically fight back. Throw wild punches, grab anything to also harm anyone coming for you while yelling your innocence, muster all the anger you have inside of you, tell yourself your life is worth fighting for, they will stop and listen. Don't just curl up and wallow in self pity, FIGHT!
A mob interprets not fighting back as an admission of guilt. So fight!

Supremos:
well staged?.
This is staged?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8L-9L0fzCE?si=QLjZJPBRfS3iLe2n

QuotaSystem:
This is sad and unfortunate.

However to avoid this and possibly worse collateral damage in the future, the local residents should mobilize and expose the ipob terrorists among them and hiding in their backyards to help our security forces.

ThatCEO:
I don't have beef with Gbaja honestly but if I drop evidence, this mumu repair job of a thread go burst.

The sentencing is PUBLICLY available.

jamesversion:
But he is still the first son na.

No offence, but your father should have properties of his own. Tradition is on the side of your uncle.

If you like carry my old rusty car go mechanic and turn it brand new, it remains mine.

PrinzEleju:
When I remember how far I have gone searching for jobs and breakthrough, I just suspect being under curse or juju, despite being a master holder.

Na wa.

Danremmy:
I don't even know how to thank you sir.

Everything u do will prosper, ur children will never beg to feed, may almighty God continue to shower is blessings upon ur family, may the grace of God continue to cover you, has you have helped me today without even knowing who I am may u never lack, may the powers of heaven guide you and your family. Thank you so much sir. I really appreciate this.

Kumid:
I pity this Emefele

charles009:
Folks, in a few days I will be leaving for Lagos . I currently live in Enugu, amazing city. I can move my family, but Wify advised the kids stay back in Enugu for at least another year to enable me settle. For the first time since I got married 7 years ago, I will be leaving my relatively young family behind. I love my children to bits and immensely enjoy every second I share with them. Our bond is so strong. The feeling of staying a day without my babies is completely indescribable. Although I intend to visit Enugu at least once weekly.

Guys please encourage me.

PortHarcourtcit:
With 50 bags of cement on her face...

duro4chang:
When obaseki blocked the state house of Assembly gate with loads of sand, Shaibu did not see anything wrong in it. Let him enjoy his new office

Renderingbest:
These banks are not doing well lately.

All thanks to Opay, making transactions easy

Dogalmighty17:
You arrested and lucked up your husband for 2 days? No one is dumb here ma. No right thinking woman just suddenly locks up her husband. Was there food in the kitchen for him when he came home? Did you cook for yourself and just the children?

There are other crises resolution and mediation channels available to resolve issues within spouses. Did you explore any of them?

You most probably had nurtured this thought of locking your husband up for a while. You also most probably have mocked him in your actions and your words.

Madam, you don buy market o! I assure you of this, your husband will never forgive you. The day that man gets a job and finds his feet you will be the one begging for divorce.
I am not making excuses for him. Your husband is going through serious depression. No man wants to not be able to provide for his family. The present economy doesn't help at all. You could have handled the situation better.

Dogalmighty17:
You arrested and lucked up your husband for 2 days? No one is dumb here ma. No right thinking woman just suddenly locks up her husband. Was there food in the kitchen for him when he came home? Did you cook for yourself and just the children?

There are other crises resolution and mediation channels available to resolve issues within spouses. Did you explore any of them?

You most probably had nurtured this thought of locking your husband up for a while. You also most probably have mocked him in your actions and your words.

Madam, you don buy market o! I assure you of this, your husband will never forgive you. The day that man gets a job and finds his feet you will be the one begging for divorce.
But then, a man cannot keep wallowing in self-pity and depression in the name of job loss. In what ever you do in life, just have it in mind that you are a nobody and anything can happen to anyone at anytime. Job loss doesn't mean the end of the world, life must continue, you must look for any other thing to do and help your wife keep the family running. That a man works to keep the family running is how he has been raised and made to believe and perharps, how a man is built to function. The family must run whether you have a job or not, your children must feed, they don't take any excuses and bills must be paid. So, a man should not allow depression get hold of you because you lost your job, some men never had a 'job' in their life time and they have kept it going.
Locking up your husband for 2days is crazy! Really crazy!! I hope you guys resolve your issues. Women are not just too good at financing the house without adverse reactions.

I am not making excuses for him. Your husband is going through serious depression. No man wants to not be able to provide for his family. The present economy doesn't help at all. You could have handled the situation better.

dboY1123:
My previous post about a big school that called me for an Interview, Well I actually went there, did my test and when I was asked to come in for Micro Teaching where I was faced with Staff of the school and maybe the principal, I flopped and panicked heavily.

The fear was well written all over my face and I was just saying rubbish despite choosing to teach "Matter" as my topic. Immediately I came in and they asked for my name and few other questions before the micro teaching, my voice was already shaking as if I have never taught before in my life(they noticed and told me to calm down).

Although I am an introvert, I hardly face audience talk more of strangers and the quest to ensure that I performed, those things enveloped/swallowed me completely. I have never taught in such a big school before, I think my qualification was what made them approach me in the first place.

One of the staff kept throwing questions at me, I mean confusing questions just to know my depth of knowledge in the particular topic, and guess what? I flopped totally and became disorganized. But luckily, there was a man among the panel who gave me the option of coming back and prove myself that I am a qualified teacher as stated in my CV or I should take another topic I'm more comfortable with. So, I opted to leave and come back so I can regain my confidence.

Now, I have been given enough time to go and make research and convince them on Monday.
How do I conquer that fear and what are the things they look so I can prepare hard.
Thank you.

buygala:
This one has forgotten he is still human and isn't guaranteed tomorrow....


What if he is the one who goes down?



Abuja Masterplan, Abuja Masterplan.. Government should publish these Masterplans so that everyone can know it or even have a copy of it, in order to avoid violating it.. Not for any government in power to hide behind a shady and indeterminate "masterplan" to carry out vendetta and take over legitimate properties

This government will issue an approval for a building in line with the "masterplan".. The next government will come in and demolish the same building for not being in line with the "masterplan".. Playing politics with people's investments.

ElSudani:
Economic sabotage, some are working round the clock to fix the country while some are working hard to tear it down.
Fake money here, drugs dealing there, stealing components from bridges, railway and highways.
Ordinary Nigerians are far more destructive than their leaders.

Think9ja:
Am I the only one who doesn't fancy this idea of Japa?

My elder brother was suggesting to me that we should sell our uncompleted building and sponsor me to travel

I said no.

I swear I'm home sick

Just four months in Lagos and I just can't wait for an opportunity to move to Abuja.

I like to see my family and friends everyday. If not for the lack of opportunities in my place, I will not move an inch to anywhere.

I would like to go there for vacation or tourism but to Japa Asin comot for 9ja?
Mbanu

We die here
I want make them see my dead body if I die..

I must benefit from this flawed system

GO0DHardDick:
Believe the short midget at your own peril.

El Rufia is a deceiver and a very cunny man. He wishes to control the govt from within. Again believe the short man at your own peril

Creamcrest:
Which kind of wahala is this?

Now the saved subsidy removal funds will be used to finance this war.

It's probably going to be an endless war because of too many interest involved.