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Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 5:32pm On Sep 17, 2019
Hephzibah2018:
Hi thanks for responding. It is my primary NOC (2121), as I currently work as a microbiologist, and I've been doing so for the past two years. I'm also adding my NYSC work experience as a biology teacher, hence the enquiry on whether or not I should use the same NOC code, since it involves biology. What exact code do I use for the NYSC experience, please? I hope this isn't too confusing.
To avoid complicating your case..i advise you to use the Noc code for secondary school teachers for the 1 year NYSC experience as a biology teacher..let that be your primary application basis don't include the microbiologist stuff..
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 5:24pm On Sep 17, 2019
Jayne07:
Good evening house, I'm just about going into this. Hubby and I just sent our credentials to WES for evaluation and we are about booking for the ielts exams. He has a masters and he's 29, I have a bsc and I'm 27, we have one child. I've worked the longest but not under my field of study so I'm the primary applicant. I want to ask if I can go ahead and quit my job, does it affect the application?
Don't quit your job..you don't need to..Apply as you are..whether you were working or not at the time of application is irrelevant.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 5:20pm On Sep 17, 2019
frailbuzz:
Good morning NL FAM. Please my mum's name on my birth cert is written as Nkechi but on my brother's who I'm claiming points from, its written as Nkechinyere. Should we go make a one and same person affidavit for her or go ahead and use it like that.
If your Dad names is same on his document and yours
.then there may not be any issue
Sports › Re: Kanu Nwankwo Shares Throwback Photo, Says "Discipline Will Take You Far" by bezimo(m): 2:24am On Aug 30, 2019
chiboy1116:
Nigeria's best footballer ever .
na..okocha is the best ever..his name rings bell over the world.
Celebrities › Re: Daddy Freeze Storms 2019 Autofest In N120m 2018 Audi R8 V10 Spyder (photos) by bezimo(m): 2:22am On Aug 30, 2019
why don't you sell it and give to the poor if you are so concerned of the poor..but if na pastor..he should sell his own.
Romance › Re: What Is The Extent Of Financial Help You Can Offer A Platonic Friend? by bezimo(m): 11:52pm On Aug 23, 2019
If na guy..I will try my best, at least he won't ever forget that you helped him..but if na girl..I will try very little because from the book of experience chapter 1 vs 1..Girls forget in a hurry the help rendered to them.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 1:51am On Aug 20, 2019
Dinma27:
I thought they just need transcript
Transcript of the completed degree..You will also be required to send your degree..while your school is to send the transcript not you.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 2:19pm On Aug 19, 2019
Vousmevoyez:
If a married couple gets PPR and after they do the first landing, Can the Principal Applicant travel out to complete a degree he/she is undergoing outside of Canada while the partner who is not the PA remains back in Canada? the Principal Applicant will come to Canada during the vacations and stuff until the program is complete (in 1 year)
Very very possible.. but make sure you both get the PR card after landing(should take 3 weeks) before whichever of you go out to complete the degree.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 2:11pm On Aug 19, 2019
Thoyesh:
Hi guys, I am done with all my courses here in my masters degree in the USA and presently just on internship... can I send my transcript to WES for ECA or I have to wait till the end of my internship when I have my certificate? THANKS
No you can't.. you have to graduate first and actually have the degree before they will attend to your transcripts
Politics › Re: Osita Chidoka Reacts To Attack On Ekweremadu: Tells IPOB To Apologize by bezimo(m):
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I don't expect any politician; present or past, irrespective of political affiliations to endorse the humiliation Ekweremadu experienced.
Ike Ekweremadu is a fine gentleman, a resolute democrat, husband to the most humble wife-in-power and a veteran of Nigeria's semi-nascent democracy.

Ike Ekweremadu is not the type to watch in silence while his people are oppressed.
No matter how tied his arms may be, he always makes an effort to pull some strings for the well being of his kinsmen.

His attack is an ugly sign to the political class and even to the elites.
It goes to show that despite personal achievements, the people are revolting against anyone they see as "part of government". A government they believe has not given them security, power supply, housing, water and jobs.

Ekweremadu's only crime is belonging to a tribe that wouldn't lick the ass of failures or indulge in blind followership maka na Igbo enweghi Eze.

Government workers and public office holders should do the jobs they were elected to do.
The people didn't vote you all in to drive in a 10-car convoy, acquire stupendous wealth and set your children up abroad.
You were called to serve them.
So you shouldn't live better than the people you are serving.

Is it fair that you never experience power failure in your homes when your constituents live in perpetual darkness?
Please let's work the work,
Keep your head high so that you'd feel at ease anywhere you find yourself without your security guards.

But is this not the revolution Yele Sowore almost misled folks into supporting?
His people only held placards in the comfort of their rooms and shouted on the internet but it's the Igbos confronting their leaders they believe have failed them.

It must be nipped in the bud.

It was Rochas Okorocha's turn in London back in 2016 and now Ike Ekweremadu's turn in Nuremberg this 2019.
Sowore's chicken must not come home to roost in Ala Igbo.
We have a culture for elders.
Ike Ekweremadu does not deserve such public ridicule but maybe it was needed lest our leaders forget that the power belongs to the people.
I am not igbo but I share you sentiment's 100% and I was suprised to see the shameful and embarrassing way those igbo folks assaulted Sen Ike..A big shame indeed.
Family › Re: 1 Year After Marriage, I Am Already Tired by bezimo(m): 2:19pm On Aug 13, 2019
bukatyne:
What happened?
Good question..she excluded that part.. typical women.
Family › Re: 1 Year After Marriage, I Am Already Tired by bezimo(m): 2:18pm On Aug 13, 2019
goodgirl2409:
My husband has really changed. He is so unemotional and revengeful.
I will cook for him severally and he won’t eat. I will serve him food and he won’t eat. I will ask him what I have done and he won’t respond. Every time he gives me the silent treatment.

I feel so pained because I expected more from this marriage but barely 1 year after, he doesn’t seem to love me anymore. Sometimes 1 month will pass, no sex. He would go out and won’t bother to tell me where he is going.



He would come back very late and would just ignore me like I don’t exist.
Although he drops money for me to run the house and communicates strictly with me, it make no sense to me.
I am tired. Is this how marriage is? Is this how men are or am I just suffering?

I don’t have anyone to beg to talk to him,and I was told reporting him to any of his family members is not good. things are getting worse everyday. People who have married for many years and are succeeding please help me. What am I not doing right?

UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.

But when his mood start which is his mood most of the time, he won’t talk to you, he won’t eat. I will finish cooking, he will go outside and buy another food and come and cook. He won’t come back on time. I will ask him what is it, he would not respond. He always feels everything I do to annoy him, i do it on purpose. I am a peace loving person. Everyone around that knows the story
always say that he has a problem.
You mean your husband is acting this way.. just like that from nowhere...una no quarell..you didn't verbally abuse or disobey him...Why do I feel you are not telling us what transpired before his sudden abrupt change to another personality.

Better tell us the real truth of what happened as it's very unlikely for guys to behave that way just like that..
Travel › Re: What Do Nigerians Do For A Living When They Travel Abroad? by bezimo(m): 3:13am On Aug 13, 2019
afonjabreed:
Please I want to ask a question.

What do Nigerians who left the country and travelled abroad do (what's their sources of income), because some left Nigeria with no hope of getting a job abroad.

And judging by the desperation of the youth about getting out of this country I think they have the believe that once they leave this country the odds are in their favour. I really want to know what they do
Depends on a lot of factors and the abroad country..For instance in Canada..they do all kinds of jobs from menial jobs to professional jobs.
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Slams Bishop Oyedepo For Cursing Fulani Herdsmen Over Pastor Death by bezimo(m): 11:09pm On Aug 10, 2019
see rifrafs and idiotic folks like freeze and his satanic like minded folks reacting against Bishop cursing of those murderous Fulani devils..
oh is to kill innocent people good?
oh he should pray for them to keep killing.Not so

may the curses that papa unleashed on thoae fulani devils be visited on that bastard freeze and his useless daft followers..Nonsense
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 1:26pm On Aug 09, 2019
nomad26:
Congratulations! Don't forget to come and give us the full gist, we are waiting cheesy
Full gist as in.lol
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 5:45pm On Aug 08, 2019
whoknew:
let us hope for Friday draw.

Nothing is impossible.

Because for some of us with birthday in September, the break will not be good.
The draws are typically not done on Friday but Wednesday.
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 4:34pm On Aug 08, 2019
Philips49:
Wow no draw yesterday !! CIC should not pull May stunt again o . And I hope they are not intentionally trying to keep the score high, anyway let’s see what happens between now and next Wednesday.
off course the score will be high next week for next wednesday draw..Not sure why they are doing the 3 week interval instead of 2 weeks.but it is well.
Those with score of less than 450..will have to wait till much later maybe towards October/November..
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/federal Skilled Workers Program - Connect Here Part 8 by bezimo(m): 4:29pm On Aug 08, 2019
My PR has been approved.Though inland applicant.Hang in there.It will soon be your turn by Gods grace. Any folks coming to Winnipeg this fall.
Travel › Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by bezimo(m): 4:27pm On Aug 08, 2019
Anybody coming to Winnipeg this fall.
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by bezimo(m): 4:56pm On Aug 04, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I have relatives to married and relocated to the states and they are all still together.
They are in the remaining 60% Tthat have stable marragies
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by bezimo(m): 4:25pm On Aug 04, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
I don't understand. Do u think it's all ladies that will desert their husband when the d states?
Definitely not all..but I will think 40-45%...most likely if she is from the east..Based on confirmed facts in Atlanta
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by bezimo(m): 1:26am On Aug 04, 2019
Logobenz2:
Woman insult your family in your presence you no jam am till she collapse undecided
Bros you dey fall hand o
Please no one should advise this kind of weak man.spits!
Who wouldn't know what to do at this point?some people dey born sha undecided
Just look at someone's son.e be like na pap den use raise you.
Your mom comes to your own house and your wife not only mistreated her but tried to insult her in your presence?you know why?she knows you are a weak man.
That was your golden opportunity to teach her a bitter lesson that will be justified anywhere in Nigeria.
I wonder what she will do to you if you take her to the US.
Better cancel all plans of that visa,withdraw the application,divorce that woman whether the child is yours or Not,do not care!just be sending upkeep money for the child and get yourself another woman.
Jesus Christ!
OP. if you are not a stupid weak man.. you will do as this advise has stated.Over to you?
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by bezimo(m):
Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.
Guy don't do it..let her go.. she is no longer in Love with you..Dont bring her to the US..she will divorce you and strip you.i guarantee you..you know the system empowers women to do shiit to men.. so get ready to receive shiit if you bring her along ..i tell you as one having first hand experience of what obtains here in the USA/Canada

Let her go....you don't need all that B.S in your life..I strongly suspect her ex is the father of that child.Make sure you secretly do a DNA test before any further step..they say these hoes ain't loyal..irs more than the truth..
Car Talk › Re: 2007 Toyota Avalon or 2007 Toyota Corolla: Which Should I Buy? by bezimo(m): 12:55am On Aug 03, 2019
SoftP:
cost of maintenance- fuel or repairs, Corolla got the thumbs

though Avalon has more luxurious features, but I advice u go for corolla

please don't buy Canada used cars..
.
Any reason as to Why?
Romance › Re: Sanchi Shows Off Her Curvy Mother, Says ‘Got It From My Mama' by bezimo(m): 7:27pm On Aug 01, 2019
Elephant cannot born goat grin grin
Sports › Re: Andy Ruiz Jr Rules Out UK Rematch With Anthony Joshua; Says It's A Trap by bezimo(m): 1:30am On Jul 26, 2019
I thought they agreed those terms before the first fight..why the change of terms..Like WTF
Christianity Etc › Re: Nkechi Bianze: COZA Agent Offered Me Money To Defend Pastor Biodun by bezimo(m): 10:10pm On Jul 22, 2019
PrecisionFx:
U actually are
Just like your father..idiot goat
Christianity Etc › Re: Nkechi Bianze: COZA Agent Offered Me Money To Defend Pastor Biodun by bezimo(m): 4:29pm On Jul 21, 2019
Bastard lying liar..everybody wan use Coza shine..nonsense idiots..do we look gullible and stupid or what
Christianity Etc › Re: Reno Omokri Blasts Ikhide Ikheloa For Speaking Against The Bible by bezimo(m): 7:07pm On Jul 18, 2019
Reno is a sound guy..you cant dispute him when he presents his argument..Very apt and succinctly put together..
Romance › Re: She Shot Her Shot And It Ended In Marriage (photos) by bezimo(m): 6:43pm On Jul 13, 2019
shortgun:
Any girl that makes the first move on me will only get my d*ck.
If u want me so bad just give the green light and I will make the moves.
Girls should be reserved n desired....any guy who cannot woo a girl in this age needs to up his game.

Modified:
All of you deseased cows quoting me and insulting ur Ancestors.
May ur daughters,sisters nieces chase after men...
Only if u can say Amen.
I am a Man!, I decide the woman I want to be with..I select not to be selected.

All u girls planning to go n woo a boy...remember, one day when the going gets rough, he will tell u that u were d one who deceived him into marrying u, dat he never wanted u.
Allow a man to be a MAN....if he wants u he will do anything to get ur attention.
It's not our culture for women to woo men
It's an Abomination in Christianity.
I stand by my post, you cant live ur life n live mine.
Why we remain where we are is because everyone wants u to be like others...I am different.
Must you advertise your stupidity..what an archaic mentality...
Romance › Re: She Shot Her Shot And It Ended In Marriage (photos) by bezimo(m): 6:42pm On Jul 13, 2019
Straight conversation..and see were it ended unlike some dramatic bitches who will respond in a lame epileptic way.
Properties › Re: Cost Of Rent Around Kaduna Nigeria| Cotenant.com.ng by bezimo(m): 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2019
I don't see these areas..if you are a Christian relocating to KD.
These are the areas that you want to stay..

Barnawa
Narayi
High cost

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