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J-girl, is the mail working or both, mail and msgr? Because I have tried like ten times and I am about to smash my laptop o.

You did what, Rhodalyn? Did I read right? Just messing with you.

I read somewhere, Seun said, he does not think his birthday will be great, cos he will be alone. So people, try na, make he no spend his quarter of a century birthday feeling lonely.

So far, it seems people in the states are the ones having this problem. I know next to nothing about network. Computer gurus, y'all have any take on this?

me too! can't get mail or msgr. everything else works. it definitely ain't the computers.

HELP!

Good one, 2fine.

Now the problem will be, where to find the virgin. Hmmm, I am thinking Moladun, . Nice idea.

People, don't tell me, you all don't have any idea or you simply don't like Seun?

Put your creative minds to work!

He will know about the ideas, but he'll not know what we'll pick.

We might have to organize a private chat or something, once we get enough ideas.

Ok. Ladies and gentlemen, open floor for ideas. I think his birthday is July 17th.

I know, sometimes, who am I kidding, a lot of times, Seun is annoying  , but once you look deep into all he is doing, you'll kind of understand where he is coming from. Though, I have noticed a lot of improvement since I joined this site and I hope that he learns more along the way. Managing people is never easy, believe me I know.

So people, let's have your idea (s)!!

My idea:
Find someone that knows him, get his (Seun's) phone number and organize such a way that there is someone calling him at every 30 mins interval. For peeps outside Nigeria.

For people in Nigeria, I really don't have any idea what can be done.

Young lady, Rhodalyn, (I address you like that, because I am at least five years older than you, ), you do understand English, just as you have proven over and over. So, kindly read my posts in the context it was meant to be read, and tell me what it sounds like. A command or a suggestion? I am sure, you can figure that out yourself.

If you don't mind, would you be kind to provide answers to my "curiousity" questions. You don't have to, tho.

Peace!

Rhodalyn, with comments like that, there is bound to be "name calling". What has she really done to you? I mean, she must have really done something bad or said something bad about you, that is so unforgiven. You just don't have anything good to say about her? Can you just try and ignore her, if she is that annoying? Do you really have to say something on her threads?

Those are just curiousity questions.

On her behave, forgive her or better still, don't post anything on her thread.

From reading some of the things you type in here, I can not help but sympathize with you. It is obvious that English is not your first language and you don't have a good command of it. After discovering that about you, your "posts", stopped annoying me. Yes, it used to really piss me off, but then, for someone that English is not their first language, expressing yourself becomes really difficult.

Young girl, you need to tone it down a little. Most times, you don't understand what the person is saying and then you jump to conclusion that the person is attacking you. Less is always more. You don't have to say or have a respond for everything. Take it easy. Life too short to be angry all the time. And it is the same with you. You probably typed something that is incomprehensible and then the responses are not what you have in mind. Patience is a virtue. Respect is very important too.

Solution to been "misunderstood"? Ask questions. If you are not sure what the person is trying to say, ask them for clarification. Don't jump to conclusions.

Apart from that, I think you are just a teenager, loving and living life!

Hmm, Dedun, F class, I was in E class. Ok, let me just throw some names out. The head-boi for the set, what's his name sef, Adenaike something, A or B class? I don forget names o.

Where you in the hostel or day student?

You don bring your clown self to the land. Anyways, I hope u find a salt mummy. The one that will put salt in your wound, then ori e pe!

COCO, from reading some of your posts, I believe you are grown and wise enough to make decisions for your life. Don't mind the haters. And like you rightly stated, only time will tell how great the love is.

Congratulations girl. I say go for it. There is the virtual world (internet) and there is real world. You know him in both worlds. I am sure, you'll take your time and get to know each other better.

Hopefully, soon, some day, I'll get to share my story with you (about loving a lander). I like keeping my life private.

ok, all, i would not give up. I would run this race to the end.

What happens at the end, if the prize is not worth it? Who do I take my complaints to?

2Can, I agree with you. We should all vote for T.

Make I go vote.

Genial, I have to know a little bit about you, before I can put my rubber stamp on you. But so far, you have shown respect, which as far as I am concerned, is the most important thing about being a husband.

Awww, I just won? Mehn, I have to go prepare my "speech".

I hereby nominate myself, yeah you read right, myself!

Reasons:
1. I don't reside anywhere close to Seun, so he can keep practising his "no marriage, no sex" belief.

2. I am some few years older than him, so I can say, I have seen a little more than he has.

3. I don't reside in Nigeria, so I don't care what he believes or don't believe. For all I care, we might never see each other.

4. He is from Ogun State and he is soon going to run for President and I won't mind being a "virtual" first lady.

These and many more, is why I nominate myself.

[s]Mehn, I am going to be in trouble. [/s]

Are u married, Genial?

Chinani, I have a response at the end of my post. And it says, I use direct deposit, so no need submitting any paycheck.

Alls I am saying is that I am in total agreement with the Bible, (on the roles of wives and husbands) and that is why I am not married yet. I know for a fact that, supposed there was a paycheck to give to a guy, I probably can't do that right now. And that is why I am not married yet. If I do get married tho, then I will give him the paycheck. Cos really, what is he going to do with it? Spend my money? Nah, not going to happen.

Chinani, hope I have made myself clear on the topic. How is Texas? Still hot as hell?

Posted by: chinani 
So Bhola, you don't plan to get married but you know what being a good wife entails Yea. . .that makes sense

Chinani, I do respect u a great deal, so I know you intended that as a question, so here is the answer.

If you go through my post really well, I said, I do know what the Bible says a good wife shld be and that is the reason why I do not want to get married now.

So, really Chinani, like I said, I have mad respect for you, at least from what I have read so far, no need "mis-reading" what I typed.

Much love!

Threads like this, always get to me. Mehn, lots and tons and tons of respect to Ono, Mikun and all that have the fear of the Lord in you.

Me for one, I don't want to get married, just for the fact that I can not do all that the Good Lord set as a guide line for a wife to be. I am totally in support of the submission part. It is a lot easy to be submissive to a loving husband. There is no point in getting married and just fulfilling a portion of the roles that God has strategically stated for women and men. I am highly educated, but I know when and if I get married, I will do all the roles that God wants for me to do.

Like someone already pointed out, the "kids" saying no and what not, they are like what, 17, 18 yrs old. They don't know crap about life and think they know it all. Just like someone rightfully pointed out, when u all get married and ur marriage is half as good as Ono and Mikun and all the virtuous women that posted here, then come back and let us know.

Once again, I really drop my hat for Mikun, Ono, Nawah, Gospelman!!! You guys rock! You make me believe that there are still people out there during the right things!!!!

To topic:
Submit my paycheck, I use direct deposit, so no need to submit paychecks!

very, very funny. love the hummer one, since i am thinking of gettin one. maybe, we'll just go back to ridin horses!

Went to Wesley. And spent lots of time with my great-aunt. mehn, Ib is cool tho. I resided in Lagos tho for about 20 smthg years, but Ib is cool. If i ever return to Nigeria, I'll definitely consider settling there.

I left Wesley in 96, yeah, i am old. If any body knows anyone that graduated from there, let me know. I might not remember names, tho.

Are there different kinds of love? If there are, which is the best kind of love?

When people say they are looking for 'true love', does it mean that there is false love? How is that possible?

Different kinds of love? Definitely. You can't tell me the kind of love u have for ur parents, is the same that u have for ur future wife. The best kind of love, is the love where u don't have to change anything about the person or about urself, in order to love the person.

Looking for true love. Yes there is false love. That is the one I term "Stupid love". True love looks out for the other person, false love, looks out for themself. It is all about me, me, me in false love. False love is when u have to attach somethg or a reason for loving the person e.g. money and things like that.

I hope I kinda answered your questions. I guess it is much more easier to say all these, than type them.

J-girl, Louisiana, what part are u? Got friends that attend LSU.

Hmmmm, I do appreciate good conversations. I definitely detest stupidity. Mode of payment, hmmm, thinking, I think that's abt it. Oh, i rememeber something, respect. That is a mode of payment, that I can take anytime, cos I do my share of respecting others.

Diddy, I might take some of ur rain. it is hot, hot, hot. mehn, i hate heat. i love the rain, but not like it has been hammering NY and u guys.

Definitely, Toy, ur age aint my business. You don't even have to reply my post.

Genial, like I said, I am too old for a whole lotta things.

P.S: Toy, I will never, ever do anything I dont want to do, all in the name of love. And yes, I happen to know what true love is and I am very loved.

Diddy, I am not in the game of insult. And what I typed is not insulting. It is just a question, cos like i said, true love is interpreted differently. Peace to u too.

Hope u ain't getting much rain in NJ, diddy?

My bad, Genial. Which of all ur questions? The getting paid, the age, the love part?

I can't be paid in love, cos I love greens,  

Age, I am btw 25-29, sorry, cant tell u the exact age. I am 28.

Love can not be bought, but it does help, if he got some money, lol. I ain't messing with no,

Sorry Toym, i hate to break it to u, that is not love. Living ur dream job? For what, who? Deep emotions Abort a baby


Ok, before I break out my counselling skills, how old are u, ToyM? I kinda like to know the age of who I am dealing with, cos that would help me in replying.