What would caused the children to interfere in the affairs of husband and wife

There are so many factors that could caused strife among siblings. Yes jealousy and envy may be part of it but I think it is human nature particularly those that do not have the spirit of God to wanting to cause unnecessary acrimony.
Using my own as an example, I love my sister and brother so well that I can sacrifice anything for them but I found out that they don't like me like that. Initially I thought it was due to the pressure of life particularly economic reason that makes everyone wants to hurtle but I later discovered that it was not that.
I could recall that it all started when I impregnated a lady who later became my wife, there was nothing for me and my siblings were like throwing jibes at me. all manner of jibes that are coded that will make you know that you were being dragged. Anyway, it is a long story, time will not permit me.
Be it as it may, it is not healthy for siblings to engage in unhealthy relationship. As a matter of fact, they are suppose to be one.

Nigerians lokan

Iyabo Obasanjo is not better that her father. Monkey will always beget a monkey. She waled simply because she lost the election. She had thought her father would support her, but she never got any. Reason for her ranting and waling. Well... that is their family affairs. They should not bring us into it.
As for Peter Obi, on his mandate we stand. We want a better Nigeria, not emilokan's type. We want a country where corruption will be minimized and suffering will be reduced. I am not saying Peter Obi will change everything abruptly, but it is expected that his government will be better than Atiku and Tinubu.
As Nigerians, many of us do not have anywhere to go, no money to Japa, as such, we should make do with what we have. We should take our destinies in our hands. We should not allow those politicians to sway us with chick feed on the day of the election and batter the economy further. If they must pay you to collect their money in order to vote for them, collect their money and vote wisely. Vote for your generation yet unborn. For once, do the right thing. Make the country habitable.
APC government has destroyed this country more than what PDP did when they were in government. Food is expensive, no job opportunity, tribalism everywhere, nepotism on the front burner in government institutions. The country is in disarray. Only a foolish man will vote for APC again.

Coming from a Book Haram kingpin

What is wrong with LP, did they not do their background check on Osuntokun? This may make the oppositions to find hole in his presidential bid

It will not be well for Gumi

Do you love her? If you do, you may need to know her better. If you don't, Japa!

Messy on the Argentines

CheapHomes1:


Sorry I don't understand what you mean

Best of luck

CheapHomes1:


According to the constitution, is it buharis job to teach nigerians appreciation and contentment?

No..... But you understood what I meant.

Happy birthday to the best president. God blessed Nigerians with Buhari to teach us a lesson of appreciation and contentment. I hope we have learnt our lesson. May the Lord continue to bless you with long life in good health and sound mind. Keep glowing on every side. Amin

Seyi did not give to the poor many years ago. He did not do it because he did not care but now, he wanted to feather the nest of his father. He is just being philanthropic now that his father is justling for president. All na wash! Bola Ahmed Tinubu's head is not good. He seems to be suffering from schezophrania. Let us pray for his quick recovery. If his mental health remains the same, I am afraid, he is unfit to rule Nigeria.

Buuuuuuuuuuuuhaaaaaaaaaaarriiiiiiiiiiiiii

You are dancing to the drum your mother is beating. Your father gave you 50k for school fee, you did not kneel to thank him profusely. You came here on nairaland to ask if u should forgive him or not .
Besides, who told you that he is spending his money on his concubine if not your mother. Na WA o.
You informed the house that while in school, he used to send you money. It was until when you got home that u discovered that he did not used to drop money at home. Who told u? Your mum, of course. Truly, our mummies are jewels, rare gems but then, you have to use your head. Daddies too are our strenght. Please, use your brain. Do not mingle into the affairs of your parents. You were not there when they met. You won't be there when they settle. You are their child, stay neutral. Best of luck

Anyone that votes for this man is either a fool or doesn't know what he is doing

i dont believe one would be willing to infect your partner, as in your spouse. One might be tempted to infect his or her friend. either male or female cos you prolly believe that he or she infected you

CyynthiaKiss:
MURIC insisted that the removal of Arabic Ajami from naira notes in the past provoked Muslims and caused division within the country, adding that only its return to all denominations can heal the wound.

I think this man is a lunatic

He is actually a lunatic

No

Original and fake kwa? I think a specie of markerel tastes better than the other specie. A above tastes better than B

Stone03:



Peter Obi is not an economist but has economically proven to be too far better than sanusi even in all his degrees. Sanusi can't make the mistake of engaging Obi in economic debate, he knows that.

What business institution has Sanusi established and it's growing? None.
Obi is greatly versatile, not on papers but practical.

For your mind

I go to church to listen to the word of God.

fredoooooo:

Obidients are Bush babies ... crying and wailing is all they do .. they cry to achieve goals and they never achieve these goals simply because their foundations are based on lies....

Really? How come you knew all these?

[quote author=Generalwoodz post=116915254] Babe, forget about your dirt past because I'm ready to build a sparkling clean future with you. A future so beautiful that the people you did stuffs in the past would marvel when they see how lite and prosperous and awesome your future is.
But there's price o.
You must handover $900,000 to me.
I'd use the funds to make Large purchases for detergents, hypo, Jik, soap and iron sponge.
I'd gladly take you no matter the level of decay.

In God we trust.[/quote

For free

Ehya.... Since Reno does not know the difference between Bubu' Nepa bill and the in- coming President Peter Obi's first degree certificate in Philosophy, who will enlighten him on the difference now? I can't waste my time schooling a supposedly educated man like Reno. Let someone else, who has the time to tutor him. Lol!

It is disdainful.

Eeyah.... I am sorry for u. The mood of the North ko, the mood of the East ni. You have already lost. You will be in the state of political adumbration for awhile, at least for 4 years. God with you, your time is still intact. Well, it is well.
I have no grouse with you. As a matter of fact, I have no problem with any northerner becoming the president, so far he will rule well and make Nigeria better. For now, let us go for Peter Obi. Let's see if he would paddle the canoe of leadership of this country better.

Realist12:
I said it, Shettima is a very intelligent person and he was presented to showcase his intellectual qualities to the south . I weep for the social media youths who ignored all the important points he made and started trending his outfit, yet those are the ones supporting Obi saying Obi is intelligent. You can't compare this speech with Obi.
One important point I'd pick from his speech is Tinubu understands the Nigerian psychology , and we all can see how he used this knowledge to turn around Lagos and make political progress.
Tinubu scored a good political point with Shettima today . Coz Shettima flawed both Obi and Atiku.

FFK writes


WHO ARE THESE OBIDIENTS?

Let me make this clear from the outset. I am a member of the APC and a supporter of Asiwaju Bola Tinubu.

This contribution does not in any way derogate from that and my analysis is more of an academic and intellectual exercise than anything else.

I am NOT a supporter of Peter Obi and I have NO intention of becoming one. I am however interested on what his supporters represent and stand for and that is the subject of this essay.

They are worthy of my attention only because their rise and relevance in the political configuration of our nation, just in a matter of weeks, is meteoric and phenomenal.

In order to counter and defeat them or to keep them in their place we must at least attempt to understand them and figure out how their minds work.

The following are my findings.



Those that are the supporters of Peter Obi, the Labour Party presidential candidate, are known as 'Obidients' and they are EVERYWHERE.

Those of us in the larger political parties like the ruling APC and the opposition PDP, treat them with contempt and ignore them at our own peril.

The truth is that they are far more dangerous to our collective cause as a ruling class than many of us can possibly conceive or appreciate.

Only the discerning can appreciate this and know precisely where this whole thing may be heading.

They may not have structures or elected representatives in the legislative and executive arms of Government but they have IDEAS and VISION coupled with a clear ideological and philosophical bent which can and will endure for far longer than mere political platforms and structures.

Unknown to them as well as virtually everyone else, therein lies their power. As they say, an idea whose time has come cannot be stopped.

Long after we are all gone they will still be here because structures and political alliances rarely endure but IDEAS and VISION last forever.

Again they will outlive and outlast us all because they are not a political party in the true sense of the word but rather a growing national movement which scales and spreads across ethnic, religious, political and regional lines and traditional boundaries.

They also represent a generational and paradigm shift which is increasingly attractive to many and they are bound tightly together by a common purpose, common cause and common objective: namely to rid Nigeria of the old order and usher in the new.

That is really what they want to do and that is the primary and strongest source of their inspiration and motivation.

They are far more dangerous to what the French describe as the 'Ancien Regime', the old political class and the entire system itself than anything we have ever seen before because most of them, bar their leader and a small handful of political tried and tested veterans and old war horses around him, are NOT politicians and have never ventured anywhere near the political arena or the circles of power.

In the main they are an innovatively aggressive and frightful array and association of angry and determined young men and women who clearly have the courage of their convictions coupled with the audacity, fury, daring, rage and firm resolve of those that were involved in the Endsars protesters and the fiery footsoldiers that effected the 1917 Russian Bolshevik revolution led by Vladimir Iliyich Lenin.

There is also something Rawlingesque and intimidating about them.

That is to say they are like the late, great and mighty son of Africa and leader of Ghana, President Jerry Rawlings, who also led a successful revolution in his country in 1979 and who, on his second coming in 1981 when he toppled yet another Government said, "if there is no justice there can be no peace!"

That is the spirit that is in the Obidients and that is what moves them.

Yet though they do not like to hear it their chances of winning the presidential election next year, short of a miracle, are very slim and deep down they all know it even if they refuse to publicly acknowledge it.

Despite that they are determined to fight to the end, hope for the best, work hard and give it their best shot and, of course, therein lies their victory.

In this game courage is the key. As they say, 'he who dares wins'. Again as they say, 'fortune favours the bold' and these young people are both daring and bold.

That they can challenge the status quo and vie for the sacred and awesome power that has been shared by the two major political parties or their ancestral variants over the last 62 years is commendable in itself. I am not part of them but I certainly commend and applaud their efforts.

They too have a right to fight for their rights and future and to be heard. They too have a dream and a story to tell and we must never begrudge them that.

Yet if the truth be told they are not only interested in winning an election but, perhaps even more importantly, they are interested in making a profound and defiant statement, registering their protest against the status qou and the powers that be and triggering and engendering a full scale, comprehensive and all-embracing social, cultural and political revolution.

They want a real and fundamental change and not a fake one. They want to pull the whole house and system down with everyone in it and rebuild a new one in their own image, with their own values and on their own terms.

Most important of all they want to see the back of those of us that are in any way associated with the old order or that have been in Government or the corridors of power at ANY point in time over the last 62 years.

That desire and sentiment is the force that is driving and propelling them and that is kindling their fire and swelling their ranks.

They are like the Robspiers and the Marats of the bloody French revolution between 1789 and 1799 whose battle cry was "liberty, equality and fraternity", who brought an end to the French monarchy, Royal family and nobility, chopped off their heads and established a proud and strong new order and proud Republic.

Like Robspier's tiny cabal of French revolutionaries they are led by a small cell of intellectual and idealistic hardliners and are bolstered, girded and supported by a volatile, massive and increasingly dangerous support group and power base who threaten violence and hurl insults at their perceived detractors at the drop of a hat and as a consequence of years of pent up anger and frustration.

If they ever get power many heads will role and many of today's and yesterday's leaders will run into exile or go into hiding.

This is especially so of those who have something to hide or who have skeletons in their cupboards.

That is what makes them so threatening and I repeat, those of us that are in the larger political parties or that are members of the existing and ancient ruling class underestimate them, ignore them and display disdain for their firm resolve and rising anger at our own peril.

Most of my political associates, friends and colleagues across party lines tend to dismiss them with contempt.

They regard them as being inconsequential and argue that they only exist on social media. I beg to differ. I see them in the streets and I see them in the Churches.

I see them amongst my staff and amongst those that regard themselves as being amongst the oppressed and downtrodden.i see them amongst the professionals and those thst are bankers, lawyers, doctors and artists.

I see them in the North, West, East and South. I see them everywhere and not only on social media.

I see them as being a very powerful and potent rising force which, if properly managed, will develop into a major political power over the next few years with a strong ideological and electoral foundation and massive structures.

That is the potential that they have and that is how dangerous they can be.

The sooner those of us that are in the larger political parties get off our high horses, display a little humility, try and understand their mindset, reach out to them, take them more seriously, appreciate their anger, restore their hope, make the necessary concessions and try and abate their rage and rising angst the better it will be for us all.

They may not have today but if we do not play our cards right they may end up having tomorrow.

May God help us all.

Laughable!!! Ori Sowore yi kope sha. Nigerians need to live in a better country. We need to draw fresh breath. We are tired and we shall not relax our oarsis. Buhari has destroyed this nation under the auspices of APC. Tinubu is also coming to destroy the country the more if given the chance. And yeye Sowore is talking rub'bish. Nigerians should be wise now, as a matter of fact, why should they not be wise? No one should fool us and go scotfree: Sowore said the man caught at Dei Dei market was a plumber, yes, he might be a plumber but he was part of the "unknown men of god" that attended the unveiling of Shettima as the vice presidential candidate of Baba Bouldillon. So what is he saying? The pictures were there and the video pointed to the fact that the masses caught him and knew who they caught. They have to do what needed to be done. I am not saying jungle Justice is cool, but I am saying identifying the impostor was not a bad idea afterall. I don't condemn the act but I urge Nigerians to stand by their rights to choose their leaders without pandering to fear, harassment and threats by anyone, including Buhari/Tinubu people. What Tinubu and co could only do is to besmirch the person of Obi but it will not work. Obi might not be a saint, but he is the best of them all.

Kollins11:
In otherwords, your wife is cheating on you with a vibrator.

You're not hitting the right spot reason she prefer a vibrator. You better start performing your sexual duties and start hitting the right spot or else na ME, your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

If your wife jam me, she go throway that her vibrator inside well... I swear to God Almighty. As it stands now, she's ready to cheat on you with any guy that has 9 inches dick and can also perform like a vibrator.

I've noticed most married men can't satisfy their wives sexual urge. They just spread their wives legs, knack for 5 seconds then cum. They don't care if their wives cum or not.

No just allow me cross path with your wife, Infact I'm even tired of satisfying married women sexual urge. I swear.. I don tire.

Married men abeg, make una dey knack una wife well, I don tire to dey help una.. I take God beg all married men.

Fumble

It is well.

It is not about being able to place bet on a candidate. We know he will win.