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It happened in Keps Hotel in Gbagi Ibadan

Now that the show has ended, let us begin our strike tomorrow and no salary for civil servants.

Edusouls:
hahahaha God called you on phone and told you he has forgiven you ? You are still under heavy curse from the sin of incense it’s still living with you till ur grave, when it occurs in ur future family don’t ask why, bro u don’t live life anyhow..you are a dirty and wreckless person

Why dont you leave that to God to deal with? Rather than placing curse on yourselve and family. You are obviously a stupid person. Curse shall follow you all the days of your life. What is your business with me? Did I place it on your wall. Sorry is your case

Many years ago, my cousin and I were living with our grandma. We were doing almost everything together and that translated into we falling in love with each other. In short, I started sleeping with my cousin.
I have sought for forgiveness and God has forgiven.

Who cares? Labour has compromised, why should Nigerians join them?

Oizee:
eyya, may God console you and your Mum continue to rest in peace, when I said he should forgive, people really misinterpreted it.
The luv can't be there again especially if you remember ur mom that didn't enjoy d fruit of her labour. I will forgive him, but when I'm eating Chicken, they will be eating starch and ponmo bcuz they don't deserve Rice and chicken. The pain is much but guy should just forgive.
I myself have someone I don't get along with, my maternal Uncle, my late Mum trained him and he was doing as if he was appreciating then, he later got married and life was ok, we lost my Mum.
Initially we were d one calling as per our Uncle not to ask of anything from him. He didn't reciprocate the same, he thought maybe my younger ones might be begging him for some stuff, I was lucky cuz I was working and married, so I seek for my hubby's consent if our last born could stay with us and he said no wahala. D boy finished sec school, and gained admission in Unillorin and finished school, my uncle wasn't aware.
He couldn't even pretend at all to call for once.
My little bro mark waec and neco exams, he went to submit papers in Lokoja and saw my Uncle in waec office, that was how he knew d boy is even a graduate. One thing in my life is this, if I discovered I don't matter to u, I will distance from u and keep my pain, failure and success all to myself. Now he's d one telling people to beg us.
He told someone one that he's own sister's Son snubbed him when they met somewhere. U see I have completely put a gap between us forever, but if na fada, u have to forgive but d luv can't be there again. People who were never in your shoes will be reminding u he's ur fada no matter what.

Thank you very much for your prayers. May the Lord continue to uplift and favour you on every side.
I agree with you when you said something about forgiveness. If one does not forgive, what can one do. I also agree with you when you said "if I am eating chicken, he will be eating ponmo". As a matter of fact, that is what I am doing. I gave him money but these are money for food. I feel he does not deserve more than that from me
Like you said, many people who do not know my story always admonished that i should asdist him big time after all he is my father, but I don't give in to their emotional blackmail. I always remember vividly what my late mum went through in order to put food on the table.
My dad left my mum when she was 35 years old with 4 children and she never married another man despite the fact that she was beautiful. According to her, she did not want to bear children for different men. Besides, those men might not like her children.
She sacrificed a lot for us; her happiness, health and freedom and my dad was busy marrying and remarrying other women.
It may interest you to know that my dad used his clout to get bursary for her step children in my state and these children are from another tribe while I couldn't secure a bursary.
Time and space will not permit me to narrate the whole episode. Thank you and God bless, it is nice to know that someone understands me.

Oizee:
Nawao, ur case is like that of someone I know, but his mum was there all tru, she sacrificed all she had. The dad was completely absent, he didn't even know when he finished pri/sec sch.
God bless d guy and he got a job, he lost his mum shortly after.
Now d dad is really in a bad condition and not that he remarried after the separation from deir mom, he wasted his life to alcohol.
He was a serious drunkard. He has 3 kids from d woman and my friend is d first born and only male. The younger ones are married, d man will be calling dem and be reporting dem to people as if he was there for them and the children are now neglecting him.
One woman told my friend that he should look at the whole thing as a challenge in life and as a test from God.
Your parent failed themselves and God, don't be like them, God will continue to protect and bless you more.
But do only what u are capable of doing and don't go extra mile for them, cuz they don't deserve it. But inorder to get total blessing from ur God, please take care of them in any little way you can but don't abandoned them, don't commit sin out of pain.

When I was reading your comment my heart skipped because initially I thought someone that knows me was relating my story. Bro, your friend's story is similar to mine.
My dad chased us (3 boys and one girl) out of his house in 1989 and brought in another woman with a child. I was barely 8 years old at that time. He abandoned us all and remarried scores of other women. He even assisted some of these women to build house. The irony of it all is that non of those women is with him.
He did not know how my siblings and i went to school.
Fast forward to the present time, he has lost everything, he now wanted his children back but the love is not there particularly from my end. The sad thing is that my mum who had been there all these while died shortly after i secured a job. It was really sad and still sad. She toiled so much for us her children.
Well I have since forgiven him but the love is not there and I cant do more than I can afford for him

I would have have suspended my subscription and stop watching big brother had the useless girl not been disqualified

I can relate to the guy's reason for choosing that route. Some dad are not their just like my dad .sometimes I feel like changing my surname.

[quote author=rawitools post=93520524]you forgot Public Administration.[/quote
What about Philosophy

deepwater:
Nothing

I am glad the resources were available to cater for all.

Nevertheless, I was so engaged the whole day I forgot to eat

Well, I did not spend unnecessarily during my wedding. It was a low key wedding. I only invited few friends and few family members. About 40 people were invited. A very modest wedding, looking back, I thank God that I listened to my wife. She is one of the best women a good man will pray to marry

Yeye people

You may not be fair to blame those demanding one favour or the other from those abroad. It is not easy to seek for assistance from another person particularly your mate. It is demeaning to be pest unto another. But the situation in the country can be the reason for incessant demand.

The demand is not only from those living abroad but also those working in Nigeria. As a result of the poverty situation in Nigeria, everybody has become pest to another particularly those whom they think can help them.

Please do not begrudge them especially if you can help but if you can't, no wahala.

Diplomacy of the highest order..... You can diplomatically tell someone to jump into the lagoon and the person will gladly jump into it. That was a wise way of telling the man from Kaduna that "we don't want to associate with you anymore until you do the needful, you are a bigot, go change your ways and put your house in order. We won't honour you again because you are belligerent and stupid". NBA even went as far as tendering apology though this is seen by some people as unnecessary but I think its okay, afterall, he is the governor of Kaduna State.

Mistakemaker:
Thanks bro.. I greatly appreciate your kind response.. You're a good man, I can see that

Thank you... I am honoured. I wish you all the best.

Mistakemaker:
Answers:
(1)I informed my organisation one month earlier
(2)there was no letter of approval to me

If there was no approval letter, it means you have not exited the institution. Therefore, go withdraw the letter.
Thanks.

Before I answer your question, I need to ask you some questions, 1. Did you pay one month salary or inform your organization one month earlier? 2. Was there a letter from your institution to acknowledge the receipt of your letter and approved your request.

Thank you

Erika is fake, she is useless. Who asked her to talk about Wathoni's son.

Ajebo na disease!!!

I can't fathom why Director Generals, Chief Executives, Executive Secretaries are not career civil servants who rise through the ranks instead of being nominees of the government or politicians.

Happy birthday sir

If all you painted are true, please run, run and run. If u decided to stay because of a child, sorry is your case. The child will prefer happy parents.

My 5k don enter voicemail for sportybet. Yepa

yesloaded:
No you didn't boss

Thank you

Thinking about it now, will I confidently say I broke her heart or she did not meet up to my expectation or maybe I should say we were not meant to be.
It all happened shortly I finished my NYSC and I returned to Ibadan at the behest of my mum who felt I should not stay back in Kano after NYSC. I returned to Ibadan and I was later invited for GLO interview. After series of interviews, I was shortlisted for the final interview with the Chairman of Globacom at Adeola Odeku but it turned out to be that I was the only one not employed by GLO. You can imagine how I felt at that time.
As a result of this, I was depressed with no friends and relative to console and keep me company( my mum has left for the east).
That was when Nkechi (not her real name) came into my life. She was very helpful, she was their for me and I loved her in return. We did virtually everything together. I assisted her in so many ways particularly in her academics, she passed her nursing school.
Since I could not secure job, I decided to apply for a master program at UI and i was given the admission, I decided to face my studies.
This affected my relationship with Nkechi greatly. Since I could no longer give her the attention I used to give her when I had not started the master program. Nkechi felt I had another woman on campus, I tried to explain to her about the drudgery of master program but all that fell on deaf ear.
Nkechi started fighting me, sometimes she will come to the school to embarrass me. There was a particular occasion she tore me shirt in Agbowo. There was another time she wanted to break my head with louvers. And there was another ocassion she wanted to stab me using kitchen knife.
As a result of all these, I decided to call it quit.
She was depressed but there was nothing I could do.
Permit me to say, she was a very good lady but apart from what I mentioned above. We have since departed but we still call each other. She is married with kids and I am also married.
That is why I am skeptical about saying I broke her heart.

My dad abandoned me at age 9 when I needed him.

To be sincere, I made my first 100k when I was an undergraduate at IMSU. I used to "do exam runs" for people. Be it WAEC, NECO GCE and sometimes JAMB. You know what? Those monies were spent on frivolities. Lol

This happened in 1985 shortly after IBB became the Head of State and commander in Chief of Supreme Military Council (SMC). I had gone out to Kuti Hall at the University of Ibadan to meet a fellow fresher. I saw this beautiful lady walking at the pedestrian lane of Queens Hall down to Kuti Hall, this lady was so beautiful that I was nearly hit by one of the taxis that ply that route. When I approached her, I said hello with my cocky voice and she replied ''hi" with her sonorous voice capable of extricating a kid goat from the mouth of the lion.
I started stuttering and stammering but she said "can you please take it cool and speak to me". That was how I summoned the courage to woo her. She would later become the mother of my 5 children

Well, I will not trade blame but I will say your husband is not obligated to do any of those demands of your family.

My advice, protect your husband and by extention, protect your immediate family.

Side to it: if your husband who earns 70k monthly could cough out such huge amount of money for your bride price while you are not working, I salute him, he loves you. I cannot do it.

Think about this: is your brother not a man, is he not suppose to look for money to marry or did he also contribute to your wedding. Even if he did, you are the one that should contribute and not your husband. He may willingly do that as an in-law.


Conclusion: Protect your husband.

I don't have much to say to Obasek or Obaseki but I will say kindly forget meeting with the dunce in Abuja. It will do u no good.
Lest I forget, does it mean Obaseki is not as smart as I thought him to be? Well carry your cross! EFCC is prowling.

Blackmoran:
Yea my ex..... She came all the way from benue to leave with me, every day she keeps bombarding me with pictures of people wedding, fantasising on babies and us having kid together... Though this girl was cool she is homely can cook clean and kind of intelligent to spice it up my family loves her so much especially my dad, she has this free spirit personality.. But my instinct wasn't good with the idea it was too good to be true.. And secondly I wasn't ready financially to take on the burden of marriage but this girl never mind.... During December she travelled with my junior sister to his home town, to cut the story short I followed my instinct and today am a surviver of what would have given me heart attack....... During the thick of the moment she started showing are true colour, that homely girl started showing arrogant trait, the change was fast that I thought this can't be true... I did the right thing I broke up with her... Though my dad was sad about it but I let him know I know her more Than Them and what she portray is not who she is... A week after we brokeup my junior sister gave me the shocking news of my life.... That my ex was pregnant. . I didn't believe her cause We haven't had sex up to 4 months meaning when she was with me she was banging another dick... I waited till eight month later to find out she gave birth to a baby boy...and here let me burst your brain the father of the baby was my best friend who I trust so much...na that one pain me pass ... Lesson when a girl is trying to rush you into marraige run for your life.... If you want to get married do it at your convenient time... All girls would be at there good behavior during courtship, this one even take it to the extreme she even dey cut grass for compound... Na after marriage woman go show you are real colour....

I thank God for your life, lemme me tell u did, do you know that about 75% of first born is bastard