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rukz:
were u able to sleep that day?

Sleep ke? I could not sleep at all. I didn't tell my wife either, you know women with their nagging. For weeks, I was not myself. For months i blamed myself particularly during the period of repayment. It was not funny but all that are now things of the past.

Lemme me offer you a piece of advice for free. Quit betting!!! I know the addiction may be ingrained in you but the best bet for you in betting is to quit it. The pain of losing the over 100k meant for house rent to betting should be the driving force to quit it.
I once lost over 1million naira to betting in a day. It happened that I got a loan of 1million naira from my parastatal's cooperative to pay back in 18 months. Though it was 1.8million naira that I applied for but cos of my contribution, I could not secure the desired amount. So I was loaned 1million naira. In an attempt to augument the money after having tried to get the remaining from friends and family members but as it was at that time, they couldn't help as a result of one reason or the other.
Going forward, a friend introduced me to betting, as my friend analysed it, it sounded convincing. Manchester City was to play Wolverhampton that year. Man City was on top of the league, I think the odd given to Man City was 1.36 while Wolves was given 7.68 odd (if I am not mistaken). The other game was between Celtic and one other team I could not recall its name now. Celtic was at home and from analyses, that team had not won Celtic before let alone winning Celtic at home. I cant remember the odd given to Celtic again but I know that I was to win 1.87 million naira.
So I staked for Man City and Celtic to win at home. The most annoying thing is that the team that won Celtic (from analyses had never won Celtic before) had red card and was 1 goal down at the end of first half. In second half, the team scored and drew the match while wolves won Man City with I think one goal.
It was sad, painful and wicked to me but I learnt my lesson. Though I did not quit sport betting but I never staked more than 100naira.
I wish to stop it totally which I know I am on its path.

Who is this Adamu Garba. Low born

We should thank God always, whether good or bad. It is in thanking God that He would do more for you.

[/color]Devoted Muslim whom Bobirisky informed that Tonto accused him of being stingy and he donated 300k to her foundation. Yet he claimed he doesnt associate with gay people. Yeye people! Hushpuppi goons everywhere[color=#000099]

In those days when we used to go to the village, it was fun. But I cants try it now. Bad people everywhere,

Islam will not save us neither will Christianity save us too. All religious bigot will rot in hell.

Read your bible please!

I appreciate the writer of the article for the piece of information. I seem to agree with him particularly where he stated that snakes can't crawl or move on smooth surface particularly for those living in upstair houses.I think an opening in the chamber could be the channel through which snakes could enter into the WC. That does not mean one should be lackadaisical or complacent about it. May God keep protecting us

Try to impregnate her before telling her, with that she would have no choice than to stay. Good luck!

You better don't think of extramarital affairs.

I stumbled on your story, I used the word stumbled because I was reading another story and one of the contributors refered to your story. What I see in your case is that God loves you and He does not want you to go astray.
Permit me to share my story, I have a similar experience and I conquered it. I have been married for over 12 years. When we started, our sex life was fantastic, though we were younger and vibrant, but all of a sudden, my wife began to lose interest in sex. I was not enjoying sex anymore because she will just open her legs for me to go in simply because she did not want to refuse me. I started complaining but she was not yielding. I started thinking of having another mistress. As a Christian and due to my background, I did not want to consider extramarital affairs with another woman.
I threatened her but all to no avail. I read up on her case and I was informed that as some women give birth and are aging, they begin to have low libido.
Despite all these revelations, my desire for good sex never dwindled. So I employed another strategy which was high level romance and it worked. Though not always, but most often. I enjoy my sex though not as I would have wanted it.
Afteall, what do I need after 12 years of marriage and kids have litred everywhere. I cant think of extramarital affairs particularly in this biting economy.
Take an advise and don't look elsewhere. If you did, you will regret it. In other words, you are the one to take the bull by the horn and solve your challenge

This is a shout out to my SS 1 goverment teacher, Mr. Olasehinde and one bros who was studying Political Science at the University of Ibadan at that time, he taught me English Language and Government, his name is Jayeoba. This man changed my life academically. There was no contact at that time because GSM was not in vogue at that time. The only known address, I knew at that time was Independent Hall, University of Ibadan
I will not forget our Literature in English teacher, Mr. Ogunlana. These are men that changed my life and history.

Nothing to celebrate about Nigeria, rather I would say Happy New Month. We thank God for another blissful month. I than Him for the gift of life

It is no big deal. Besides, the topic is educative. You can bury the placenta in the bush or on your compound provided people did not see you when you do that. It should be done clandestinely.

Too numerous to mention! God has sent many people to me, I cannot tell it all. But for this purpose, permit me to mention this particular episode.

Shortly after I finished my Master degree from the University of Ibadan without a job. I was scared to apply for job because of the experiences I had before I started the master program.

Sammy called me to enquire about the master's result and I told him the result was out and I was ready to proceed to PhD but there was no cash on me. He asked me the cost of the form and I told him. Immediately he wired the money into my account. But I did not obtain the form again because i secured an appoitment few days after.

What makes that episode a milestone was because of the swiftness God answers prayers through men.

The fact is that the baby is deformed and the man did not want to engage in any fruitless effort by looking for solution especially in this era of economic crunch.
The man should have have agreed with his wife on how to terminate the deformed child.

1Sharon:
You didn't know what he was doing for 2 years ?

I couldn't have known earlier than that neither could it have come to my imagination because he is from a well to do family. How on earth will I think of such not until a friend hinted me and I confronted him. The rest is history now

[quote author=Omoluabiii post=104806159][/quote]It was not that the guy was not good. He was everything you want in a man but that side of 17 was what did not gel with me

I once dated a yahoo boy while in school. Though, I did not know at first,but he later revealed himself about two years into the relationship. He cared for me and showered me with all the gift I cared for but since he confessed to me, I was very careful with him. He saw how withdrawn I was to him,that was how the relationship hit the rock.

Boy, if you had sex with her 8 weeks ago and the test revealed that her pregnancy is 12 weeks. It is not yours QED.

If she likes, let her swear with Amadioha or Sango Olukoso, na her wahala be that.

Why start a building you are not sure of completing. I will advise rigorous saving

Emeka71:
But I thought that you are a female.

You are right

lkillbrokehoes:
You just exposed yourself, you are a male using a female account.

You are correct

Congratulations to them! God bless the twins

JMK backside is bad. I just dey pour sperm out ni

Rozcol:
I was playful and unserious but still made over 4point in a more harder science course,I don't think he's brilliant and academically smart he's just a serious student.

That is not a good thing to say. Learn to appreciate people. You could have said "oh, that is nice, keep it up". You don't even know him, so telling us about yourself is out of this world. God bless you

I see no need to do so! Testing them on quantitative reasoning is not even reasonable. If you must test at all, it should be on the course of study.

Lie lie

I have fact of Abba's dealings. Inbox me and I will detail you.

My wife is 17 years older than me

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