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Stop blaming Oando , blame the man who single handedly brought recession

When I have money to buy, I will seek advice.

As beautiful as this initiative is , they should put in place a structure to maintain this programme else it ends up like every other good initiative. Hope they also research to enable them produce the tools to sustain continuity.

The world still doesnt know that Islam wants to overtake the world and make all subject to their sick religion or die in thuer Jihadists battles.
Prophesy indeed reveals that they will trouble us and it's happening now but we must stand up and resist this madness.

Bros, there is really no hard and fast rule to marriage just go ahead with whatever rocks your boat and ensure you don't regret any action you take now like you have a bit of regret of what happened at 27.
But if I am to give you a bit of advice, then consider the following.
1. People rarely change, so don't expect any change from her and don't expect too much.
2. If you divorce or separate, what atmosphere will your kids grow in?. This leads to generational reoccurring errors and it's in your power to avoid that now.
3. Never talk like a woman to a woman, by accusing without evidence even when you are 100% sure your instincts are right.
4. If you can't get yourself to relax this situation, then just act normal and don't talk about this again except she brings it up in which case you will have to say that the situation is behind you.
5. Don't make her leave the home but if she decides to leave , allow her.
6. Remember you are not also flawless and you probably also do your outside runs. This is the reality of the world we live in now. Forget some male gra gra wey we dey do and consider the kids.
7. Most sweet homes/ couple wey you dey see, have conquered infidelity and moved on.
8. This is the point your marriage will either break or be better. Make the choice to make it better. The next woman may probably be worse.

Whatever decision you take , it's still you who will enjoy the outcome or regret it.
I have had similar situations in the past but I can boldly say now that my marriage is the best coz I forget the past and press on to what is ahead. Life is too short to carry a burden that a positive attitude can knock out.
Cheers.

I just love this country.
I keep telling people that what we are experiencing now in this country is what Charles Darwin called evolution.
The Evolution of PDP and APC, The Evolution of fighting , snitching, whistle blowing etc will eventually turn into good for the masses when these idiots would have finished shooting themselves not in the foot this time but inn the head.

Until you show the layman on the street that his salary can now comfortably pay for fuel for his generator, tanker water, disco abi PHCN bills, garri and rice , house rent and school fees to say the least them I will believe the Country is out of recession.

If I mistakenly leave this country, it's bye forever

OP, it's Buhari that is mysteriously hated and not every president

Stop spoiling the Image of a spoilt country

germainediva:
This is how most Nigerian marriages are......

It's actually a phase. We don't live in heaven. It's at this juncture that the marriage is either made alive again or dead forever.

pocohantas:
Will you be asking this question if it were your mum?
If no? Then the question is unwarranted.


On Jan 23rd, your wife was about putting to bed
https://www.nairaland.com/3588885/tb-joshua-undoubtedly-one-gods#53065688


Jan 24th, you were already sucking your helps' boobs?
https://www.nairaland.com/3589656/wonder-why-women-hard

Troll.

You are indeed a dangerous stalker. Hmmm

hardywaltz:
Nigeria is a den of Thieves.
No matter who Buhari chooses to pick as long as that Perm Sec is a product of Nigerian Civil Service I leave the rest to ur imaginations.

The reason wisdom is in parentheses. It shouldn't have taken him all the bragado in appointing from pigs in the same pen as you have left imagination open

Though this sounds like fairy tale, it actually does happen. OP I blame you for allowing such under your supervision. I had once had a little cousin of a family friend who just became close to me. I had thought it was just a brother church thing until the hugging increased whenever I came and I saw something else in her eyes. I had to scold her terribly and she stopped it.
This didn't solve the problem as she once got missing only to reappear a week later with stories of a kidnap and ritualists trying to kill her and she shouted Jesus and they left her. I got very suspicious about her story but others believed her.
When she was 13 she got missing again, that was when such stories couldn't hold water anymore.
OP you are the father figure and you have messed up so far, now take the bull by the horn and take her to a disciplinarian and psychiatric who will reset her hard disc while you repent and pray for her and urself.

How did this just make FP?

chy4luv:
These arguments are usually around my period. I suffer from pre menstrual syndrome. He knows that. I really dont wanna be on medication for that. don't look for my trouble two to one week before my period, I feel very irritable. My period came this morning. I came back to work this afternoon and told him. He said waoo and no arguments well done. That i don't take nonsense when I am on my period . Little did I know we will be quarrelling in less than 2 hrs.

look at the beautiful name you just gave a very deep psychological disorder......PRE MENSTRUAL SYNDROME.

Hear the hard truth, its a combination of OCD and other deep rooted psychological disorders. the fact that your husband knows actually means he is helpful.... from your comment, when you told him "it started today, he was like ahh, so no arguments today" look inwards before you kill that sweet man..... you are gradually drifting into a full blown contentious wife. the truth is that you are not far from help coz the chronic ones don't even admit their wrongs. since you know you got PMS and you give him your own share of trouble, pls, pls and pls again prayerfully adjust. as per your husbands voice, he has always been like that, so how has it become an issue now.

Until the philosophy which hold one tribe superior and another inferior is abolished.
Until the basic human rights are guaranteed to all without regards to tribe,
Until the ignoble and unhappy regime that holds Nnamdi Kalu in Kuje is toppled and totally destroyed, every where is war.
we know we shall win, for we are confident in the victory of good over evil.

A mans life is nothing if not lived in freedom.

After some people will start rallying, I stand with a man who can withhold the entire allocation of a state simply because he doesn't want to hear the truth.
Zombi na Zombi.

If you are still alive, come back and change what you changed like the little girl said before trying to run again.

airminem:
Dont Say That Okay? Its He's Opinion. Do You Realy Understand When You Read Anything?

Ofcourse people are entitled to their opinions but the opinions should make sense.
As for you madam. I understand when I read . I checked your posts and discovered you complain a lot.

I just love this contraption called Zoo. when will a good seasonal movie be out to showcase APC and its mega lies?
As for me, i am watching from Biafra.

Only microphone? he should have used a radio. Nonsense.

This theory makes alot of sense but in Naija, proper investigations are not carried out coz its propaganda that sells.
If whistle blowing is now a lucrative business, lets see how many whistles will be blown by those who hid funds for other thieves.
Besides, Naija doesn't need loans anymore since these monies are now available. abi no be true say Diezani don return money wey pass our budget?

Empty heads just wake up and talk.
what are the key indices that he has outlined to get Naija out of recession? is the body odor abi language going to change? have the Fulanis stopped the killing of farmers to ensure food security? is power now stable? have foreign investors returned?

useless leaders who will soon be extinct.

princejamestech:
There’s nothing wrong with her complaining . That’s true. There’s a sh*t-ton wrong with people like you, but of not everybody here is psycho.
So yes, she may feel like the complaining lurking freak on NL, but she is not alone. There’s a sh*tload of them out here
Just wanted to let you know.

Who said everybody on NL is a psycho? it pained you coz you are one. you think there is nothing wrong with her complaining? there is a whole lot wrong with her always complaining. she got OCD and more.
Ohh you said she is not alone? i know. that's why i said she comes to look for others like her. psychos usually defend their type.

Eketem:
Everything is a freaking issue with you haba.
Your mother in law loves your baby :Problem

Your husband earns money: Problem

Now your son loves his own father: Problem.

I honestly pity your husband but again I don't he should have married a grown sane woman but no he had to marry a clingy " wife material " for cooking and cleaning purposes who believes every mother in law is Patience Ozowokor with a hidden motive. A man's money is their money while hers is to hide and siphon, a child must have " special hormonal bond" with the mother load of crap.

A child likes who they like abeg. A child freaking likes his father it is not a competition, unlearn all the crap you have filled your head with and start learning sense abeg

You nailed it. This woman needs help but will refuse to get one. She would rather seek for other psychopaths on NL who will fan the burning coal of her numerous disorders.
I pity men married to contentious women----- restraining her is like grasping oil or wind with bare hands. Better to live on roof tops or in the wilderness than to live with such women.

The more reason I think PMB May not continue governance.
1. When he is around, protesters are shot at. Now not a single shot was fired.
2. The acting president has sent the name of the acting CJN for confirmation.
3. Now military leaves Aso rock.

Many more things will confirm this assertion as time passes.
My thought though, just checking with facts.

Unmarried women are always fasting and praying for a husband while the married one's want to kill the husband they have. Kudos to all the good and virtuous women - you are priceless.
Shame to all troublesome feminist golddiggers.
Sorry to all the men who live with contentious women.

Did these people duly inform the police? Why were they not invited to tell Nigerians the very policy they are supporting. Did security report not tell the IGP that hoodlums are about to hijack the rally/ protest or whatever it's called?.
Fulanis will never cease to amaze me, zombies will always be zombies, even in intense hunger, they still remain zombies.
While Chinua Achebe said " There was a Country"
I say " There is a Country".

A Game of Clones.
Copied.

Part 1: The Great Deception.

And so Muhammadu the Incorrupt of House Buhari, first of his name, Elected King of the Six Geopolitical Kingdoms under the Banner of Change and Lord of the Fulani, went abroad on vacation in the very time winter came- knowing full well that Winter had come.

He turned a deaf ear to the advice of Lord Lamido of House Sanusi the former Master of Coin and now present Warden of the North Central. He followed the ways of the Mad King Sani of House Abacha and put his family members as principalities, while he broke the laws of the land at will to punish and imprison his personal enemies. He proclaimed that the Mad King Sani was never mad and sent ravens throughout the realm telling the people that King Sani never milked the Treasury. He broke faith and allegiance with his Kingmaker, the Lord Bola of House Tinubu, Warden of the West.

To his immense credit, he waged a good war against the The Boko Hararmy of the Undead- a war still ongoing, but he also authorized the Kinslayer Nasiramsey of House El Rufai to treat and sup with and pay off the Whitewalker Herdsmen even after they had murdered men women and children just because they served The Lord Of Light.
But when the Eastlanders who desired a King in the East rose and protested peacefully, he came down on them hard killing many.

In his time all meals doubled in price, and trading with other realms became as hard as getting an interest-free loan from the Iron Bank of GTBravos. The kingdom of Naijaros's coins traded for five hundred and five Buhari pieces to one Trump coin- almost three times the going fare when Goodluck of House Jonathan was Lord and Ruler of the Six Kingdoms.

And as winter got even colder, King Buhari dug in, ordered even more warm fur and extended his stay in the more yet less United Kingdom of Brexit, several thousand leagues away, on account of failing health and the presence of Maesters more suited to treat his condition- despite spending a fortune fit for four princes on making his castle equipped enough to raise the dead.

Every promise he made to the people he did the exact opposite of...and everything he derided the King that came before him for, he did the same on a far greater scale.

And that was when the Naijarosis who had screamed Change finally realized that just maybe they were way too hasty in dubbing their erstwhile King Goodluck the Clueless. For it seemed evident to all that not only was Buhari the Incorrupt not truly Incorrupt, but he was even far more Clueless than any of the Elect Kings that came before before him.

They expected His Second Coming to be The Rapture but instead it was The Great Tribulation. And though they cried and even those who hailed now wailed and gnashed their teeth, they knew they had only themselves to blame. For the Prophet Anikulapo had warned them severally before he died, but they ran back to their own vomit.

End of Part 1.

Part2: The Wildlings of the South South

An excellent post , haters will never understand, you don't need to be a Biafran to know the truth or have empathy for oppressed persons. The posters above me just spewed trash without reason.
This post May never make FP coz of the say no to Biafra policy on nairaland but like the story of the chicken goes, it's not your business today - "e no concern me". Tomorrow it may be your turn to be oppressed and " e go concern you".

The truth is that you may never come out of this, dont feel bad i will explain.
Though your wife is a nursing mother who needs help, she is also bossy and will never be submissive. if you cross this stage, you will enter another phase, what i mean is that if you get stewards and maids to the the chores, she will still invent ways of manipulating/ controlling you.
Never hit her- Such unsubmissive feminists will make life a living hell for you.

suggestions as to how to handle the situation.

Man up and do whatever you can in your house- after all, its your house, i mean your own house.
Never ignore her food- after all it was paid with your hard earned money.
If she wants to go hungry just fix what you can eat and if she wants to eat from it, just tell her you didn't make for two since she wasn't hungry.
Never allow her to manipulate you even with sex.

She will withdraw to herself for a while and know you have become a hard nut, if she also becomes a hard nut then its time to make a very hard decision- the spirit will guide you in what hard decision it is to make to meeting your ancestors at a young age.

seunmsg:
I am a lover of peace and I want peace to reign in Gambia. Anybody telling Jammeh to hold on and refuse to handover under any legal jargons at this point in time is an enemy of peace. Election was conducted and a winner emerged. The only path to peace is for all parties to respect the decision of the Gambian people until the supreme court rules otherwise.

While I understand your argument, the truth is that the world doesn't work like that. The makes of law make it to suit them everywhere in the world. That constitution was ammended under Jammeh. It's like the 1999 Nigerian constitution who till date we don't know those that are the we in " We the people.........." and they even made Sharia law above the constitution itself.
I for one want Jammeh out as the seat is not his birth right but in law, you don't commit illegality in fighting illegality.