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KingSatan:
In the 21st century when other nations are investing heavily in Science, Tech, Artificial Intelligence, The Metaverse, Robotics etc.

My Africa is still actively engaged in Mutinies and Coup d'état.

Dark Continent Indeed.

Says an inferiority complex brainwashed olodo.

Since 1960 France has carried out over 50 illegal military interventions in Africa with many without the approval of the UN security Council....

The independence gained by African states in 1960 was NOMINAL.

Western Europeans = the black man's burden.

Western Europe is the dark continent. Till today they are always plotting one thing or the other on the African continent because they are poor without Africa. ..

I hope this inferiority complex and colonial brainwashing clears from your eyes soon.

DonroxyII:
... Demand Pass Supply na so Price Cheap. Market Condition is Favorable until Products start bitting Your A.ss

How?

Kollins11:
I went to cut my hair yesterday, I saw a lady that brought 2 of her kids to cut their hair too. So one guy approached her and started toasting her inside the barbing salon.

The woman said do you realize I'm married with kids. The idiots guy openly and shamefully said "it does not mean, we can be secret lovers"

The woman vex, she almost landed him a dirty slap, no be small matter play yesterday. Why are some guys like that??

many nigerian men dont know how to behave and they somehow think it is okay!

[quote author= post=109620362]Update From . COM

A young man was shot and killed by a trigger-happy policeman after a quarrel over a sachet of water at Odo-Afin in Kabba town in Kabba/Bunu Local Government Area of Kogi State, Reports.

It was gathered By , that the incident which happened on Saturday, January 22, elicited wide protests in the town, forcing business activities to a standstill.

Angry mob comprising of mostly youths of the community invaded the old Police barracks and set it ablaze following the killing of the young man, Learnt.

According to an eyewitness, Who Quickly Notified , the youth said to be a commercial motorcycle rider, had allegedly taken a sachet of ‘pure water’ from the Policeman’s car to drink without his permission.

It was learnt that the boy’s behaviour angered the policeman and the melee that followed led the policeman to pull his trigger against the victim and killed him instantly.

In a swift reaction, the Kogi State Commissioner of Police, CP Edward Egbuka, stated that the information from the Area Commander of the Police in the area was different from the claims being spread.

CP Egbuka added that the Policeman had tried to defend himself from the victim, promising to investigate the matter further and get the true position of things.

While confirming the killing, the CP said the true situation could only be known after the investigation.

Meanwhile, a team of Mobile Policemen and men of the Nigerian Army have been deployed to Kabba town.

See Graphic Photos And Video As Obtained By Below:

https://m.facebook.com/seun.jajah/videos/989811885303996/[/quote]Toxic masculinity is at it again. Violent gender SMH.

Females should take over the police

Jennyclay:
I'm 100% sure your sisters that your parents trained well are collecting different types and sizes of dicks as we speak now.

If women refused to have sex with you men dogs na problem, if chose to have sex na still problem.

Hypocrites!!!

I agree with u joor men are dogs.....

Obaide12345:
Ladies should stop sleeping wait a guy that have not married to you,must you sleep with him,that is why he take you as a prostitute.

And why is the guy trying to induce her to sleep with him prolly with false marriage promises??

emapeteum:
The PTDF scholars who went to China and came back with regret:were they influenced by the western media?How about the prosecution of the Christians and the Muslims?how about having problem with her neighbors?For me,the Chinese are worst off.

ur one of those that just argues for argument sake. you have won. im done. thanks.

Oshodipikin:
Trained you well? How? You be original olosho.

Train you well , yet you de do olosho 4 hotel..... Any fvck outside marriage na olosho tinz.

Pikin wey dem train well go wait till marriage. You are just one of the children born in the evening of life.


Guard your boob well b4 it becomes slippers for Mr. Right wey never know say Mrs right don enter market since 1900.

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What of the boyfriend of the girl, why isn't he keeping his d*ck for his future wife??

herbert2017:
First of all my sister,why did u engaged in premarital sex?
The way u present itself to a man,that's how he will see. He sees u like a prostitute, I am very sorry.
I will advice that,u talk over it,give urselves time, because time will heal ur pains. Before u reconcile with him,make sure u are ready to marry,and he is also ready to marry,and u are his dream wife.
Reconcile and settle down,ok.

I am Evangelist Uzo Herbert Ekene, from Imo State, based in Jos, Plateau State Whatsapp me on 09067314685,let's talk better

In my opinion pre-marital sex is fine as long as both of them are sincere about their intentions and hv a verbal commitment to themselves or they did an informal wedding in their dining room

nnenwa5:
The people insulting the OP are just frustrated, either by hardship they are facing or heartbreaks from ladies. But do I blame them? No, I blame the mods that are not moderating these sections maturely.

I doubt the moderators are even doing their jobs sha... i guess too many posts and too little time to moderate. I think they should set up rules and also increase permanent bans on accounts.

emapeteum:
The countries you called friends of Africa are worst than what the west did to Africa.The period you mentioned was a period when human were hostile to one another.It wasn't only the west that exploited Africans but we
Africans were engaged on internal slavery and human sacrifice.That period, no Igboman could stay in Yoruba land and vis-a-vis.Human evolve with time and embrace peace and tolerance.China and those countries you mentioned are known to be hostile to their citizen.I asked: would you prefer Chinese or American company to work for?

As someone pointed out earlier on this thread, Americans are actually Western Europeans = Irish, Italians, Scottish, Germans and French people mostly. Same as Canadians; Canadians are actually mostly Western Europeans = Irish, Germans, Scottish, Germans and French people mostly.

I have worked for a chinese boss before and I actually quite enjoyed it. I have been to china before - the chinese believe in speed. Ive also had a chinese girlfriend.

The negative image you have in your head about asia/ china was implanted in your head by western media and also complains of nigerian workers in nigeria who do not take work seriously and hence believe they are being "maltreated". the average nigerian worker expects to do the minimal and get paid the maximum. Having worked for chinese boss before, I will always choose the chinese company. British and Americans have a racial superiority complex that is worrying them (and this is the primary reason I wont work for them) yet they pretend it doesnt exist.

But chinese just do your work and you are good. Chinese respect you if you work hard and fast. They dont claim to be superior to you. When I went to china, they were quite hospitable.

I have had a chinese woman cut my hair before and she did a better job than most nigerian male barbers- hence they have a well deserved reputation for HARD WORK.

Ese4u:
She came for advice and she expect ur honest opinion. Dis way u r judging isn't helping. U know if we had psychotherapist in dis country she won't need ur advice. Pls do well to put ur advice in a well composed and non insultive way

The forum has become toxic! The moderators need to act urgently....

nnenwa5:
Many of you men can never be truthful to yourselves and start the change you guys are clamoring for. The husband that is collecting leftovers also dumped leftovers for others. The day men tame their manhood may probably be the day Nigeria will be morally upright. Most women live to please some men and this is what is instituting nuisance all over Nigeria. This is why I don’t pity some ladies because they live their life around men, begging for crumps up and down.

And many of you are hypocritical, if you have slept with different girls then you are have dumped leftovers to your follow men.

I agree with you actually. Men are a big part of the problem and yet keep blaming thr girls.

Also it's not good/fair how they insulting the op. This means nairaland isn't the best place to ask for advice as ppl seldom give candid/caring compassionate advice.

Why can't Nigerians give advice in a candid non insultive way?? Nigerians need a reorientation....

Thegoodone13:
If I may understand you very well. You sell yourself cheap to him by disobey your parents. Don't ever following him to hotel again. I can't say you should stop having sex together because you have started it and if you stop it now, both of you will have it else where but try to be controlling yourself anytime you are with him and if you can stop it, do it. Give yourself respect. If you have make up your mind to marry him, take him to your parents as friend but tell your parents that he want to marry you. If he is not serious with you, he will not follows you.

Well said. Men hv encouraged this boyfriend/girlfriend bullshit for too long and I'm blaming men here.... there's nothing like boyfriend and girlfriend if you both like urselves get married.... u can get married in the dining table no need for elaborate events.


I take issues with husbands collecting left overs of boyfriends yet expected to be men and cater to the women financially life long as they often demand.

A woman's bf should marry them. Husbands shouldn't be collecting left overs and still be expected to cater to the ladies as husbands financially and in all other ways.

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

I just want to make sure u see my comment. He doesn't think ur an ashewo. He just wants privacy and doesn't want his neighbours to know if and when he has sex with u. It can even get him evicted from thr flat sef (this is naija). Just make sure he marries you and isn't just using u.

Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

But why bf go dey f**k you. After that some unfortunate husband will come and marry you after your bf don intimacy u finish. Not fair to ur future husband spending millions on a wedding not knowing u don catch ur fun finish.

Anyway ur life ur choices.

Rachel98:
Pls stop it. I'm not a prostitute. My parents trained me well.

Your boyfriend values your and his privacy and doesn't want his neighbours to know when he is having sex with you.... that's why he takes you to hotels.... he doesn't think ur a prostitute. Girls and their funny thinking.

Idiko1:
My people shall never fail to disappoint. Why such a high-powered engine for a short distance?

I agree with you.

vickyfrancis1:
Great news...TBH, Sanwo Olu is really performing. I hope he will be considered for the top position in the future. I respect him.

Who ordered the lekki massacre?

Mrbenny001:
oh... You mean Buhari has developed Nigeria because he wasn't pro West and he has built rails...hmmmm what a stunning comment ... don't worry you made my day ....hahaha

Buhari has ensured food security. Book garam insurgency comes from neighboring countries.... he is a great president....

rayjox:
You people don't know what is happening.
Russia knows very well that the day Ukraine is absorbed into NATO, Russia is finished.
So Russia is critically afraid of this and they are doing all to prevent that
Actually, the bone of contention is Ukraine/NATO relationship

How exactly is Russia finished when Ukraine joins nato??

Mrbenny001:
you haven't told me how Britain is holding you from developing your country after 60 years of Independence, so how will Britain oppose Nigeria if Lagos state choose to rename VI, haven't heard of such before...if you have heard one tell me or remain silent. University of Ibadan today use to be university college Ibadan under university Oxford university but today it's university of Ibadan

Goodluck Jonathan was pro west that's why he was removed. Tinubu or a Muslim will win the next election. Hope this answers ur question. And btw Nigeria is actuay developed I can now take trains around nigeria

Mrbenny001:
how much do you want them to leave...oh they should stop buying our oil?, because that's only thing we export, after independent, [b]Nigeria has gone through several political changes, regional federalism, military rule, civil war, back to democracy to military and back again...oga we have very well independent..we only refuse to grow...we don't know how to rule ourselves, [/b]we don't trust each other ,we don't invest in tomorrow..and if we continue like this our children will still continue to blame Britain

@ the bolded, western European countries experienced all that too for hundreds of years....go and read thr history of England, king Henry etc. the fact that you quickly conclude based on the bolded shows u hv inferiority complex and believe white man is semi of demi God

Mrbenny001:
how much do you want them to leave...oh they should stop buying our oil?, because that's only thing we export, after independent, Nigeria has gone through several political changes, regional federalism, military rule, civil war, back to democracy to military and back again...oga we have very well independent..we only refuse to grow...we don't know how to rule ourselves, we don't trust each other ,we don't invest in tomorrow..and if we continue like this our children will still continue to blame Britain

Let me tell u why our children should continue to blame Britain...

Victoria Island, Lagos is named after queen Victoria of England. Try to rename it and you will encounter opposition from Britain.

Second is the inferiority complex installed in Africans via colonial education: Mungo Park discovered river niger, Mary sclessor stopped killing of twins, Wilberforce stopped slave trade. These are all lies the colonial administration said must be taught. Our children will and should blame Britain because this generation is still not free from inferiority complex.

emapeteum:
My brother,if you don't have the technology to even exploit,its useless.The world economy is knowledge based not necessarily having natural resources.In natural resources Saudi Arabia is far richer than Israel but Israeli economy is far more solid.

You are my brother and I won't lie to you. It took me so many years to figure out what you are about to hear.

Western Europe embarked on a dehumanization project (calling us monkeys, low iq etc).... simultaemously, they tried to exterminate Africans using ebola and hiv and enriched themselves with fake anti-retroviral drugs....

It's a popular colonial lie that: 1. Africa would not have known they had resources unless western Europeans told us. 2. We lack the technology to refine and process the resources.

The above are colonial white supremacist lies.

In 1857, British soldiers invaded Benin kingdom in Nigeria and when they saw cast bronze, they had never seen it before so they stole it.... this very act and scenario shows Nigerians, malians etc had been refining bronze and metals even before the colonial thieves had a clue about how to process earth metals....

The colonial brainwashing of Africans into feeling inferior is so complete that it makes me so sad.

So know it that we don't need western European technology.

Africa now has new technology partners: China, Russia, turkey etc so to hell with western Europe.

emapeteum:
Interesting response.however I disagree on some of your points.The Chinese are more exploitative than the west.If you were offer a job opportunities by these two countries:which one would you go for.The Chinese are here with the support of our evil leaders to exploit the future generations and to enslave Africans.You said UK has closed to nothing in terms of natural resources:how about the oil in the north sea?As a PTDF scholar,I would always go against the evil country like China who are so desperate to establish their footholds as a superpower.If not the US,the Japanese would have continually enslaved that godless nation

British oil found in the north is limited.....I'm talking gold, diamonds in addition to oil...

emapeteum:
Interesting response.however I disagree on some of your points.The Chinese are more exploitative than the west.If you were offer a job opportunities by these two countries:which one would you go for.The Chinese are here with the support of our evil leaders to exploit the future generations and to enslave Africans.You said UK has closed to nothing in terms of natural resources:how about the oil in the north sea?As a PTDF scholar,I would always go against the evil country like China who are so desperate to establish their footholds as a superpower.If not the US,the Japanese would have continually enslaved that godless nation

Chinese are not here to exploit anyone. EU sets high tariff to block African Imports and keep africa poor. As of last year trade volume between Africa and China stands at $150billion