₦airaland Forum

JOemmy:
China fake products never lasts.

more like lazy blacks with ingrained laziness who never manage anything they are given well. The blacks cant even build rail tracks and hv to call the chinese to build it for them...even after building it, you are still not grateful and too lazy to manage it....

Islie:
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What can the black man manage successfully? Nothing. Thats the reason they are called BLACKS. Very lazy people.

Shawenzy:
All the stolen money is now in waste continue depriving the masses their right you will all pay with your children’s life while you are alive

The masses are no better than the politicians....all Nigerians are the same....a backward ppl in general.

Jennyclay:
Nigerian men are always quick to raise their filthy hands on women at any slightest provocation . Bunch of Animals!!

The stupid man should be sentenced to death immediately! He should serve as a scape goat to other woman beater out there! Nonsense!!

Disgusting and irritating men!

I agree with you. he should be sentenced to death to serve as a scapegoat to others...

Berrityga:
I'm sure you where having an affair with her thats why you didn't pay attention to your accounts and books. Serves you and your company right. If I was her I will japa

And it was the affair thatask gave her the GUTS to perform the theft....

The album should be banned and the author charged to court.

Eyinju112:
Call it selfishness yeah that’s it... I’m selfish when it comes to my man and he is selfish when it comes to me.. That’s it, and about the money, if his money was important to me I won’t be able to take that bold step of disengagement after infidelity

If you disengage who cares? You go dey on ur own and he will be with his new gf na.... simple replacement therapy...the more girls the merrier....

Eyinju112:
Oga whether na rubbish or not please leave my mention alone if you gonna be sounding bitter. I never dated king Solomon or a traditional king, I’m dating and marrying a normal man like Enoch, Noah and the rest... when you count the cheats in the Bible please remember to count the loyal ones too

There's nothing like "cheats"....you just want it to be only you chopping his money.....you don't want his exclusivity for just him alone....you want his exclusivity so other women won't get their hands in his pocket...

oneMalik:
Na una pastors dey cause am .

They brainwashed you to marry just one wife while king Solomon has many .

And 99% of men are polygamous in nature thereby causing deadly secrets in marriage.

NB.
Marry one
Marry two
Marry three
Marry four
Provided you can be just among them .

Islam permitted you to live a clear and real life if you chose it .

I will hv 1000 wives and 750 girlfriends....I ain't subscribing to monogamy!

Eyinju112:
I do tell my man every blessed day. You can talk to girls, flirt with them because I know talking to me alone might be boring, as some time I might be busy but the day i catch him fucking any of his so called friends, I’m done with the relationship, and if it’s marriage I won’t divorce him as I fear for my children growing up in a broken home, I’m just gon give him his total space, that day anything like emotions will be dead within me. I’ll just see him as the father of my children and not a husband. If he can’t deal with it he’s damn free to move out to his bitch, then I’ll have an explanation to give to our children that their father left. I can’t deal with an undisciplined man. I love loyalty and the day he breaks our loyalty, the betrayal will definitely kill my emotions.

You hv just typed nonsense....did Solomon not hv many wives?? Today do traditional rulers in Nigeria not hv many wives?? If he bleeps his girlfriends how will you know??

But I'm glad you admit talking to only you can and is boring....that's the first step in progress...

Gadafii:
if a man can marry two wives [b]and take care of them [/b]he should, but having a secret romantic affair behind your wife is what me I don’t understand, you are the man, if you feel the need to get a second wife tell your wife about it, maybe she may talk you off it or agree to it

@bolded...who then takes care of the man??

Obidientyoruba:
Laziness you say ? I wonder how you urchins think. 🤮

Blacks are soooo lazy

Obidientyoruba:
It’s a pity a government owned hospital doesn’t have a backup generator Incase of emergency, if you can’t afford a good specialist hospital in Nigeria (cedarcrest, Kelina and the rest ) or funds to travel abroad for medical then you will know how fvcked our government hospitals are . May Nigeria not happen to us but we can change this prayer point By voting in Obidatti . May his soul rest in peace

When we say "may Nigeria not happen to us", what we really mean is may the laziness of the black man not happen to is.

It's laziness on the part of the hospital or negligence for not planning adequately in power outage situations as it concerns emergencies....

The black man has no business running countries.

oka4ugoo:
Two employees abi na appointees of Mr. President fights dirty and Mr. President is mute.

Na after May 29, 2023, we shall all know whether the man parading himself as Buhari is actually Buhari or Jubrin from South Sudan as that is the only prediction of mazi Nnamdi Kanu that is yet to come to pass.

Everything is not a joke a meme. A bit of seriousness will help Nigeria.

streamsofjoy:
Kk, I get u now. But funny enough, these older guys go for small girls. That's by the way.
One of the reasons I would want to be a Lil established is not to be a financial liability. So, if I, on my own I have money I wouldn't be looking so much for a guy with plenty money-cos I have the money already. I'd rather go for a hardworking, intelligent and any guy I knw I can do life with. And not someone who will bear all my liabilities. That's my idea.

men are biologically programmed to go for the youngest girl they can find....its nature...no amount of man shaming can change nature....you can be financially established in your husbands house na....you dont hv to be established before getting married....thats a common mistake...

but wait o! our girls starts slaying from age 15, sleeps with assorted teachers n headmasters through secondary school, area boys get their full share, university empties the brezst, BBnaija takes its cut, Nysc frenzy fvcking bastardizes the kpekus more, Facebook/social media hoeing takes its toll....and so on, so at 35 or +, the unfortunate husband is actually buying tokunbo or better still, 'a vandalised pipeline.' (evening newspaper)

And is paying bride price and dancing down the alter...

streamsofjoy:
Most of them aren't. Just the few are and for that few if God does not help, the ambition will either die or be delayed.
And if the husband does not support. Let's be frank sir, most men who go for small girls are made and busy men who need to settle down and have their own kids, so they dnt need another busy or ambitious person in the house. They only need a WIFE not PARTNER

marriage and career are not mutually exclusive...

LordBaelish:
Reason why I used that analogy is because you don't want someone who's just "settling" for you. because if her spec comes, bye bye.

The idea of people being young and immature is just a generalisation. Maturity comes from exposure and life experiences

The problem young girls hv most get carried away by the attention and keep expecting a better person will come....

LordBaelish:
You think marriage ain't a big deal in Tier 1 countries? guess again.

The idea that African values are backwards is just shameful. What made American values useful? Do Asians give a Fvck about those? SMH

Great response...I wont even call those tier 1 countries....

charain:
I just pity some guys who thinks, the younger the better. Most ladies below 27 arenot fit for
marriage because they are still "exploring". They give nothing but drama.

You are right.... they feel they still have time...its not until they hit 27/28 and realize they are running out of time that they get "serious" and want to get married...

cococandy:
What a load of crock

have you not left your boyfriend/ husband tell me the truth...

sqlPAIN:
This mentality is mostly common among Nigerian guys and honesty it's disgusting mentality to me...

I was watching a prank video on YouTube where a guy pretended to be an ice cream selling and tried to asked some girls out to see if anyone would give him a chance. Only about 2 girls out if like 12 he approached gave him their number. What I noticed in the comments section were comments of guys saying the two girls who gave him their number were real women and that the others were fake. I've seen a lot of guys even on nairaland here with such stuupidd mentality. Ask yourself this question, if you were an ice cream seller or a broke or poor man, Shey you go date yourself if you be woman ni?

If I find myself in such situations as a guy man, going into a relationship would not even cross my mind, not to talk of being the last thing on my mind. My biggest priority would be to hussle. Hussle and more hussle till I make enough to get myself a better life...

Abeg make una stop dey castigate women for wanting the best, it's human to want the best things and it's logical.

Wanting the best is fine...but what does the rich man get in return?

cococandy:
That doesn’t answer the question though. She chose him. Does that mean she shouldn’t leave? Yes or no

She shouldn't leave....see bah....if everyone starts leaving ooonce it doesn't suit them then there will be no marriage again....that's the truth....

Those that tend to leave once it no longer suits them are WOMEN!! There are bad guys too....but on average guys can stay in a marriage even if they are not happy. The same cannot be said of females... on average of course....there are exceptions both ways...

cococandy:
so since she chose him and he turned out to be an abuser, she has no choice but to die there in that marriage? She can’t leave because she already chose him in the first place?

I’m imploring you to think before you respond

Have you not heard that women love abusive men and are attracted to abusive men.... so in many instances they themselves do not want to leave the abusive men... its only after their attraction to them fails that they decide to leave.....

Beautiful94:
What did i say that you are not agreeing to my love?

the woman saying "have mercy on me"....its the women themselves that choose those types of men that beat them up often because they are attracted to them....

elonize:
1 tin DAT is still keeping Asia, Russia n sm part of Africa is dat dey still hold on to sm norms,values they have left..
We can't see queers ,stealing, prostitution,divorce,disrespect for elders ,indecent dressing ,indecent hair cuts as d way of life..
Or d society crumbles..
Look at d west who claims their brains functions more.their society is finished

Well said!

Kobojunkie:
So because they do that they shouldn't be allowed to leave when they have have finally had enough of the abuse?,

Anyway it's men I blame. They are not using their head....

Kobojunkie:
Let's pretend what you have here even begins to make sense.

1. So?

2. So?

2. So?

So? Why should you play patriarchy when a woman can wake up one day and say she is not doing again?? The point is if a woman can easily initiate divorce then men should not play patriarchy so it's not afte the man finish suffering himself next thing the woman will say she is leaving....

Beautiful94:
I cannot agree less to what she is saying. Just this morning around four o'clock i heard a woman's voice pleading and begging her abuser whom i guess is her husband, her voice was pleading " have mercy on me". This woman shouted for not less than two minutes. In this case, divorce should be accepted.

No. Because the females choose guys that beat them up in the first place....

Kobojunkie:
What you said makes no sense at all. Marriage comes before divorce. In many cases, the reason divorce happens has to do with a one failing to succeed where it concerns working on the marriage.

And no, divorce is not an easy end to marriage as unlike marriage abandonment which was practiced by your ancestors --- an easy unofficial divorce that society seemed more ok with, official divorce forces couples to face each other in deciding how to end the marriage together.

The problem you have is 1. you just like talking 2. You don't understand the female gender...

Let me tell you some realities:

1. 95% of females will leave a marriage if their comfort is affected e.g. the man no longer has money.
2. 95% of females will leave a marriage if they feel they are more spiritually advanced than him e.g. "they have a special relationship with Christ"
3. Females are the ones that leave most marriages- they are self serving....

Dammyseyon:
I'm in a very toxic work environment right now, the organization is a lovely place to work but the team lead I work with is as toxic as God knows what. Funny thing is, I can't leave cos I dont wanna be idle. Omo I'm drained mentally and physically...

Chances are you lazy and hence call the leadership toxic.... Nigerian workers hate any boss that makes them work hard....