Celebrities › Re: SolidStar Is Seriously Sick - Singer's Brother Cries Out As He Shares Sad Video by BigBen23(m): 8:55pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
Neddstark: Can you name at least 10 Nigerian musicians that is not into drugs? Portable. |
Romance › Re: New Marriage About To Crash. by BigBen23(m): 3:39pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
Ehinjuola: My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they ask him for
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
I am tired, I don't know what to do. Carry this your matter go meet Agba Jon Deo |
Politics › Re: Governor Adeleke, Senator Melaye & Dele Momodu In US (Pictures) by BigBen23(m): 9:55pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
TruthsFM: Throwback pictures of Osun State Governor Ademola Adeleke, Senator Dino Melaye and Chief Dele Momodu in US . And today Senator Dino Melaye is vying for the Kogi State governorship seat . Chief Dele Momodu is the Director of Media, Atiku Abubakar presidential campaign Council. Really what God can’t do doesn’t exist. I’m congratulating Senator Dino Melaye in advance. November 11th governorship poll must Obey. Senator Dino Melaye is a goal. Pdp is the party . Op na the new Airforce1 that year wey be carry Emoney matter for head that year for nairaland . |
Health › Re: Please How Do I Get Rid Of This Stubborn Infection??? by BigBen23(m): 10:21pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
SosoTakemypain: Good afternoon nairalanders, I have been diagnosed with staphylococcus aureus for the second time, This is making it the second time I have been diagnosed with staph,the first time I took the injection that was sensitive to the infection but it didn't work,I even took herbal drug it didn't work.
I am still wondering how I got this infection cos I'm still a virgin, people say the infection is contacted through sex.
Guys please help me out, should I take the drugs recommended in the lab results??I am having a feeling it won't work cos the previous one didn't work. Please anyone with a solution should come to my aid. Frequent urination is the only symptom I am having.
Thanks. Since all you do, is use your penis to wee, that means what you have there is not staphylococcus. During my final year in school back in 2019, I once contacted one bad infection I didn't know how it came about. I had little, little inches all over my hand, from my wrist to all the fingers. Then my laps finished. My penis was something else. All through my school day, I didn't pot. Then I noticed many guys in MALABOR had it. At first, I and my family started the treatment with injections and all other English meds which didn't work but only subsided and, after 2weeks, it kicked up again It was the intervention of my dad and a native herbal doctor at home, that saw me through. Within 2weeks, I regained my life back So brother, Stop wasting money going to hospital. I spent over 50k taking injection. Look for ways and get a native man that is rooted in herbs. You will get well. |
Health › Re: Tembu Ebere 'Goes Blind' During Bizarre Attempt To Break 'GWR' Crying For 7 Days by BigBen23(m): 10:43pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
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Career › Re: Is It Unprofessional To Use Whatsapp For Official/business Calls? by BigBen23(m): 3:24pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
TOBILOBA2023: I noticed that some people sees use of WhatsApp for calls as unprofessional.
I prefer WhatsApp calls to normal voice calls because it's more cheaper and also helps save normal call airtime for lines that are not registered on WhatsApp.
A woman refused to engage me in business discussion because I called her via WhatsApp. She feels I'm not serious or professional enough.
Do you have any issues with WhatsApp calls for business/official purposes? Well, I think it's unprofessional. But that call cheap die. Imagine 20mins call costing just 2mb |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Jackie Chan Pays Ejike Victor For Graphic Design by BigBen23(m): 3:19pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
calabaman: Nice poster.
However your response to Jackie wasn't professional! Daniel Regha. Weldon sir |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: My Chat With An Online Job Scammer by BigBen23(m): 2:41pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Absuchat:
 I see no evidence to conclude that he is a scammer. It could be one of your friends that just wanted to catch cruise knowing fully well that you need a job Lol we did this to one of my guys years ago. We used our man catch better cruise. The funny part of it was that day, his pastor prophesied to him that immediately he lives church, he will receive a miracle call. So every format blended. |
Crime › Re: "We Were To Kill Apostle Suleman During The Attack"- Suspect Confesses by BigBen23(m): 10:42am On Jul 14, 2023 |
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Sports › Re: Kanu Nwankwo Appointed As Enyimba Chairman by BigBen23(m): 11:26pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
zeusdgrt: Oya tell me what was wrong with my observation?a man ran that club bringing it titles to cap their latest international triumph now u remove him why didn't they do it wen the club was failing Chelsea ones sacked Jose, who gave them 3Epl titles plus other domestic cups |
Sports › Re: Kanu Nwankwo Appointed As Enyimba Chairman by BigBen23(m): 7:35pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
zeusdgrt: Because Dem don go global to play real Madrid and the rest e eye don go there, what happened to the last chairman that pushed enyimba to this position? just want to reap where e nor sow You go just jump to comment without reading. At your age, you still the struggle for first to comment. |
Romance › Re: Man & His Friends Seize All He Bought For His Girlfriend After She Dumped Him by BigBen23(m): 7:56pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Lady Discovers Her Boyfriend Used Her Picture & Panties For Fetish Purpose (Pics by BigBen23(m): 1:29pm On Jul 05, 2023 |
TemplarLandry: May God keep exposing occultic people in our societies. You no go gree suffer with me na so make Franklin use your pussy take care of you. |
Romance › Re: "My Wife Is Not My Family"- by BigBen23(m): 8:03pm On Jul 03, 2023 |
Animegirl: If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.
If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.
Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.
Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.
Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity  If you are given the opportunity to speak in a summit, this really how your speech would sound like? To give you what you gave, I will start by saying you no get sense first. I mean, can't you make a speech without showing vulgarity? Queen of feminists, I hail you ma. In all, your wife is your family peepz. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Reacts To President Tinubu 124-Car Convoy (Video) by BigBen23(m): 4:14pm On Jun 29, 2023 |
richmond500: All of them can't be presidential convoy, 123 convoys breakdown.
Presidential convoy____about 15 cars Sanwo-Olu convoy_____about 7 cars Commissioners________20 cars Political associates_____20 cars Business associates____8cars Press and media houses____8cars Those looking for appointment__17 Family members________8cars Security_________________10cars
That's more than 115 cars already. When Tinubu celebrated his birthday 2yrs ago, people came with private jets to Lagos too, forget presidency, Tinubu has too much connections and I will be shocked if his convoy didn't reach 100 now that people are looking for appointment and will even walk with him to the bathroom if they had the chance. If you want to check Tinubu convoy, go and count it after all appointments has been given out I used to think you have sense but peuu you no get sense at all Puaa!! |
Crime › Re: BOLUWATIFE Mary, Missing Girl In OYO, Found. by BigBen23(m): 6:52am On Jun 28, 2023 |
adventisty: Dear Nairalanders,
BOLUWATIFE Mary earlier reported missing has been found.
She is with us the parents now.
We thank God and also thank you ALL for your concern, advise and prayers which gave us the right direction.
We pray that God will continue to guide, guard and bless you all in all your endeavors of life.
We thank the moderators too.
Again, many thanks to everyone... Lol. I have laff Missing girl indeed |
Romance › Re: "A Woman Isn't Supposed To Bring Anything To The Table" - American Man (Video) by BigBen23(m): 10:43pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Jazmine10: na only money dem fit dey put for dat una yeye table sef? When she dey rub your head dey tell you all dem sweet nothings to help you tackle your day no be better contribution for your life be that? Bros, na online una dey do all dis things as i tell your comrade before las las na woman go still chop una money. Lol Na your own table yeye. But seriously bro, women should have financial contributions in the family. This issue has sent many men to grave. How can you be the only one making all effort in the family? Like I said, if she's not making any effort, our marriage ends |
Romance › Re: "A Woman Isn't Supposed To Bring Anything To The Table" - American Man (Video) by BigBen23(m): 5:16pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Jazmine10: in times of crisis to cushion the man, saving/investng for the future of her children as plan B/ financial independence in case the man head knock as only a few men are really family oriented etc. Lol So, in all this, women are actually as good as nothing in time when the husband is alive? Make una get better thing to talk. When I marry, make my wife talk say she don't have any financial contributions to make in the family fess |
Romance › Re: Newlywed Bride Advises Single Women To Avoid Men (Video) by BigBen23(m): 12:39pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Indeed men are white stainers, look at how banky W stained Adesua’s white despite having the perfect wedding. Shame!!!
But on a serious note, Nigerian men are wicked, evil and heartless. Honestly, I have nothing good to write about Nigerian men.
Nigerian men are randy, stingy, rape apologist, women beater, murderer etc. I can’t even list them all, the list is long 
But every week, you are having sex
Just avoid them! Shikena!! |
Romance › Re: "A Woman Isn't Supposed To Bring Anything To The Table" - American Man (Video) by BigBen23(m): 12:34pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
But wait o! The money women make, what's it really for? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Should I Stop My Job Or Continue? by BigBen23(m): 11:20am On Jun 25, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: MARY BOLUWATIFE: Missing Girl In Oyo by BigBen23(m): 4:22pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
adventisty: Dear Nairalanders, The attached picture is my daughter and currently missing.
She was last seen at OYO town in OYO state about one week ago. She is 22 year old.
Please, if you have any information on it, kindly visit the nearest police station or call : 08062205597.
When she's done, she will come back
Thank you ALL...
Please, moderator kindly help move this to the front page. |
Celebrities › Re: Obsessed Fan Decorates His Room With Photos Of Nengi by BigBen23(m): 7:30am On Jun 24, 2023 |
ExclusiveBet: photo of the fan was shared by a lady identified with the Twitter handle, @munjilisa, who reveal that the guy is a friend of hers.
A die-hard fan of reality star, Nengi has decorated his room with her photos.
This was revealed by a Twitter user with the handle, @munjilisa, who explained that the guy is a friend of hers.
She revealed that her friend is a diehard fan of the ex beauty queen and had arranged photos of her in his room.
According to her, despite the fact that Nengi had participated in the fifth edition of the show which aired three years ago, her friend is still very much obsessed with her.
@munjilisa wrote:
“It’s been 3 years and my friend is still obsessed with❤🤩 @nengiofficial This is his room guys 👌😂🤩 Hope Nengi sees this ❤🤗“ Simp |
Romance › Re: How Do I Know My Fianceé's Ring Size Without Her Notice by BigBen23(m): 7:23am On Jun 24, 2023 |
WilsonBright935: Hello everyone,
What steps do I need to take to know the size of my fiancée's finger size without letting her get involved (I'm planning a surprise proposal on her birthday).
N/B: she lives in outside my county All contributions are welcome. Her picture can do. Take her pic to the vendor. They will capture her size immediately |
Family › Re: 18-Year-Old Christianah Dania Ologun Is Missing In Abuja (Photo) by BigBen23(m): 8:38am On Jun 16, 2023 |
When she's done, she will return |
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Star Don Brymo Is Dead by BigBen23(m): 12:04am On Jun 16, 2023 |
EdiskyHarry: Sad. One of the greatest Nollywood actors that time. Rest in peace. How? |
Politics › Re: Senate President Akpabio Pays Thank You Visit To Wike (Photos) by BigBen23(m): 3:50pm On Jun 13, 2023 |
First pic tho |
Education › Re: Steps For Nigerian Students To Access Loan Scheme by BigBen23(m): 9:30pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
No be so Palmpay use the survive us na. This one dy too expensive na |
Education › Re: We Were Abandoned In Cyprus & Dropped Out Of School - Dancing Security Guards by BigBen23(m): 9:22pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
They have used every penny given to them make hair, buy clothing and open ear. Person wey church the train they fry hair and open ear? |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Signs Student Loan Bill Into Law (Pictures) by BigBen23(m): 6:34pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
I hope this is not abused. |
Business › Re: Binance Dissociates Self From Binance Nigeria Limited by BigBen23(m): 6:28pm On Jun 12, 2023 |
Otilo! |
Sports › Re: 9-time Winners: Enyimba FC is Nigeria's most successful club side by BigBen23(m): 11:15am On Jun 12, 2023 |
chisomkachy: One of NPFL's most illustrious sons, Victor Ezeji brought out the trophy. He is a two-time Champions League winner with Enyimba FC. I be Blues for life, I dy support Enyimba.  |