₦airaland Forum

IyaebeTheGreat:
You approached a Nigerian man first? Like seriously? I'll rather choke than try that. If I too like you and manage show you small green light and you are not smart, I simply ignore your existence . Don't ever try it again ooo

OfeAchi:
I started dating her 3 years ago. She is 25 and an upcoming actress based in Spain. We get to meet physically twice a year and plans are already in place for my relocation to Spain.

The challenge I currently face is my trust levels.
I've seen a couple of her movies. Some of them had intimate scenes in which she was almost naked, save for her panties.

When I complained to her about the movie scene, she assured me that it was just a stunt double not her actual body. But the strange thing about her excuse was that this stunt double has the same unique birth mark on her left breasts, similar to my fiance.

On another occasion, I watched a clip in which she was being "pounded" from behind by another actor. She moaned throughout the 5minute sex scene.

Although on this occasion she wasn't naked but her dress appeared to be raised.
Maybe I'm being paranoid and her excuses are valid.

On the other hand, she could be quite a homely and affectionate partner. She cooks well too. These were the qualities that made me propose to her in Benin, about a year ago.

Do you think I should proceed with the relationship?

turmacs:
you're not serious, stupid man. You just come online and start typing nonsense. It's you that is evil not me.

turmacs:
I can't feed that dog ohhh abeg. You need to see this thing. I've told him to kill the dog or sell it and I think I'll keep pestering him about it till he gives in... Make I no come end up as dog food one day.

merits:
I know he will still talk nonsense to make police to go after him again, uncultured human being.

opanco:
I am good in video editing boss

IRuinUrDay:
Good morning, Nlder's. Pls, I need your advice. I created this account just now to hide my identity.

Without wasting time on this, I need your advice as I want to take a blind step because i don't know what else to do.

I graduated since 2018 and since then, I don't have a good job till now. Just surviving that's what I am doing.

Currently, I asked my mom to help me secure loan of 100k while I source for another 100k from friends and relatives and repay in 6 months time. I have planned with my wife to secure a room apartment with at least 60k for 1 year and use the balance to hold ourselves till we get something better doing. This is because I want to relocate to Uyo to hustle with my woman and our only daughter. I can't leave my woman aside and travel to Uyo alone. I want her to join me either in 2 weeks time or 3. She is a stylist and can work as Chef. She is also educated with O'level and I have been taken her through computer lesson's.

Now, I don't have any job assurance in Uyo but I have made some contacts. The 2 person's I contacted said once I relocate, I should let them know to help me get job. Also, I don't mind dropping my certificate just to do any job till I get my dream job. I am also working to get myself a driving license certificate and ID in case, I get a driving job in Uyo.

Pls, I want to know if it's wise to relocate to Uyo without any job at sight?

Also, my current state is one of the worst ever as firms here don't pay there staff good money. Like some pay Accountants here 25k/month to work from Monday to Saturday.

Your ideas will be great. My other areas of relocating is Enugu, Port Harcourt, or Anambra. Pls, help a brother.

booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.

naptu2:
To mark the 30th anniversary of the Premier League, Supersports has created a shortlist of 30 African players that have played in the league and they are asking you to vote for the best. The shortlisted players are:

• Bruce Grobbelaar: Zimbabwe. Liverpool (1981-1994)

• Tony Yeboah: Ghana. Leeds United (1995-1997)

• Lucas Radebe: South Africa. Leeds United (1994-2005)

• Nwankwo Kanu: Nigeria. Arsenal (1999-2004), West Bromwich Albion (2004-2006), Portsmouth (2006-2012)

• Austin Jay Jay Okocha: Nigeria. Bolton Wanderers (2002-2006)

• Geremi Njitap: Cameroon. Chelsea (2003-2007), Newcastle United (2007-2009)

• Rigobert Song: Cameroon. Liverpool (1999-2000)

• Didier Drogba: Ivory Coast. Chelsea (2004-2012) (2014-2015)

• Steven Pienaar: South Africa. Everton (2007-2011) (2012-2016), Tottenham Hotspur (2011-2012)

• Yaya Toure: Ivory Coast. Manchester City (2010-2018)

• Kolo Toure: Ivory Coast. Arsenal (2002-2009), Manchester City (2009-2013), Liverpool (2013-2016)

• Yakubu Aiyegbeni: Nigeria. Portsmouth (2003-2005), Middlesbrough (2005-2007), Everton (2007-2011), Leicester City (2011), Blackburn Rovers (2011-2012)

• John Mikel Obi: Nigeria. Chelsea (2006-2017), Middlesbrough (2019)

• Lauren Etami Mayer: Cameroon. Arsenal (2000-2007), Portsmouth (2007-2009)

• Michael Essien: Ghana. Chelsea (2005-2014)

• Emmanuel Eboue: Ivory Coast. Arsenal (2004-2011)

• Sulley Muntari: Ghana. Portsmouth (2007-2008)

• Benni McCarthy: South Africa. Blackburn Rovers (2006-2010), West Ham (2010-2011)

• Salomon Kalou: Ivory Coast. Chelsea (2006-2012)

• Asamoah Gyan: Ghana. Sunderland (2010-2012)

• Riyad Mahrez: Algeria. Leicester City (2014-2018), Manchester City (2018-present)

• El Hadji Diouf: Senegal. Liverpool (2002-2005), Bolton Wanderers (2005-2008), Sunderland (2008-2009), Blackburn Rovers (2009-2011)

• Joseph Yobo: Nigeria. Everton (2002-2012)

• Emmanuel Adebayor: Togo. Arsenal (2006-2009), Manchester City (2009-2012), Tottenham (2011-2015)

• Pierre Emerick-Aubameyang: Gabon. Arsenal (2018-2022), Chelsea (2022-present)

• Edouard Mendy: Senegal. Chelsea (2020-present)

• Benjani Mwaruwari: Zimbabwe. Portsmouth (2006-2008), (2011-2012), Manchester Coty (2008-2010), Blackburn Rovers (2010-2011)

• Mohammed Salah: Egypt. Chelsea (2014-2016), Liverpool (2017-present)

• Victor Moses: Nigeria. Chelsea (2012-2021), Liverpool (2013-2014)

• Sadio Mane: Senegal. Liverpool (2016-2022)

You can vote here: https://supersport.com/africaxi#voting-iframe

damilola4162:
Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/super-eagles-23-man-squad-for-afcon-qualifiers-released/

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Opintiwa:
I don't think so .

They don't arrest citizens like that because a crime was not committed against Finland.

BATified2023:
Nigerians hope u can clearly see their Igbo agenda?
These are the people that will lord over u in your various states once u make d mistake of falling for their Igbo agenda

Imagine they filling ordinary control room with igbos n ordinary crew is filled up with igbos to the extent ifeanyi eze is the coordinator for sokoto

Do u think they will place u on the same level with all these igbos?
Use your head n understand that peter obi is ipob plan b n winning Igbo presidency is their own actualization of Biafra

These were the same people funding nnamdi kanu to cause chaos

Nigerians ronu before igbos use your head for u

Kimiso:
How do you cope which you have to submit your phone before resuming back to work,i currently worked where i had to submit my phone before resuming and I don't feel comfortable about it what if i had an emergency calls to attend to I think everybody has same experience to share on it here

julaion:
Peter Obi Meets Viral Young Boy Who Stood In Front Of His Car For A Legendary Endowment During Rally

Nemere2020:
https://twitter.com/akaworldwide/status/1624279411473240065?t=WggrhOeYGVfsIxIyMjOMZw&s=19[/quote]Nigerian celebrities, their fight no the pass social Media. We no d carry gun.

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are us*less......all of them

Obavoh:
Since I separated from my wife I am trying my best to prepare healthy meals for myself on a budget.

1 milk cup of rice - ₦ 120
Ponmo- ₦300
Tatashe (Red&Green) ₦100
Onions- ₦50
Maggi star- ₦50
Thyme&curry- ₦80

I had Groundnut oil and salt at home.

nwekeugochukwu:
Nigerian televangelist, Mike Bamiloye took to his Instagram page to ask men a question pertaining to running errands for their wives, IGBERETV reports.



https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm462Ihs_Kd/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

doggedfighter:
Why apologize when you didn't say anything that didn't happen



Brymo is an ofeke.



My mum will always use that word when angry.




What's the English word for ofeke ?

Because I don't know
I can't even explain it in Igbo

infoleak:
My in-laws brother was recently scammed.
He was told to pay 600k for a job in a company and that his salary will be paid in dollars every week.

He sold all he had and left for Lagos without consulting any family member. He was welcomed by his so called employers and ushered into a building that looks like an office. After paying the fees he was held hostage and striped off every belongings and kept in a room. There he saw other victims being used by these so called employers.

His line was not connecting, they give him the phone to communicate when they want to pass any information in their favour and after that no more phone call, the victim might even be forced to tell you that he is very busy that's y you he can't be reached anytime until he calls back.

They use these victims held hostage to convince family members or friends to come over and take the job/business offer.

As soon as you get there, they strip you off every belongings, seize you phone and collect the money you brought. Once you are there they threaten to kill you if you don't corporate with them. They will tell you call a family member or friend and tell them about the business/job and that you have started benefiting.

In my in-laws brother's case, his escape from where he was kept hostage was a miracle. He is back to zero.

Please share this information with your family and friends so that non will fall victim.

Thank you.

chiefolododo:
Messi's worshippers can't just listen to the truth

chiefolododo:
Mbappe is PSG's present and future, they should not jeopardize their future for someone who is almost done with his career