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RomanceRe: Lady Tracks Down Husband's Sidechick & Retrieves The Benz He Bought For Her (vid by BigBen23(m): 7:41am On May 24, 2023
Badb0y4lyf:
Even if it’s in her name in Nigeria the man can claim breach of contract claiming the lady agreed to pay subsequently but failed.
Prove it by providing evidence where it was signed and sealed.
RomanceRe: 12 Differences Between A Husband And A Boyfriend by BigBen23(m): 7:17am On May 24, 2023
divinehand2003:
Here are 12 differences between a husband and a boyfriend:

1. Commitment:
A husband is committed to a long-term, legally recognized partnership, while a boyfriend may have a less formal commitment.

2. Legal and Financial Obligations:
A husband has legal responsibilities and financial obligations to his spouse, such as joint property
ownership, shared finances, and potential alimony or child support. A boyfriend typically does not have these legal and financial obligations.

3. Future Planning:
A husband and wife often make long-term plans together, such as buying a house, having children, or building a life together. Boyfriends may have less concrete or definitive plans for the future.

4. Emotional Support:
A husband typically provides consistent emotional support to his spouse, while a boyfriend's level of emotional support may vary.

5. Household Responsibilities:
Husbands often share household responsibilities and decision-making with their wives, while boyfriends may have less involvement or shared responsibilities in managing a household.

6. Social Status:
Being a husband implies a higher level of commitment and social recognition compared to being a boyfriend, who is generally seen as less committed or in a less serious relationship.

7. Legal Rights:
Husbands have specific legal rights and protections, such as inheritance rights, medical decision-making authority, and spousal privilege in legal matters. Boyfriends do not have these legal rights.

8. Partnership:
Husbands and wives typically view their relationship as a partnership, working together to achieve common goals. Boyfriends may have a more individualistic approach to the relationship.

9. Depth of Intimacy:
The level of emotional and physical intimacy often deepens in a marital relationship compared to a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

10. Shared Responsibility:
Husbands often take on shared responsibilities in raising children, managing finances, and supporting the family, while boyfriends may have less involvement in these areas.

11. Mutual Trust:
Trust is crucial in both relationships, but the level of trust and reliance tends to be higher between spouses compared to a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

12. Longevity:
Marriage is intended to be a lifelong commitment, while a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship may have less certainty about its duration and future.

It's important to note that relationships can vary greatly, and these differences may not apply universally to all husbands and boyfriends.
So, I have been playing a husband figure all the while


I quit!!!
CrimeRe: Charles Chinedu Ezeh: Lekki Mansion Sealed Drug Baron Smashed With N567m Drugs by BigBen23(m): 10:02am On May 22, 2023
SportsRe: I am not your friend: Tebas, Vinicius Jnr Clash over racism claims by BigBen23(m): 9:49am On May 22, 2023
fergie001:
The Brazil international was targeted by chants from sections of the crowd at the Mestalla stadium during Real Madrid's 1-0 loss to Valencia.

He was later sent off after an altercation with Valencia players and took to twitter to call out the Federation.



Vini Jnr

However, la liga President Javier Tebas replied Vini via twitter.


Javier Tebas Medrano, la liga President

Mr. Tebas also retweeted the Federation's Statement on the game in Mestalla.



la liga

Not taking any of it, the Brazilian hit back at Tebas.



Vini Jnr


Earlier, Real Madrid boss was quick to back his 'star boy.'



Carlo Ancelotti

Vini Jnr also had the backing of his boyhood club:



Flamengo
It's like saying morning will not come. It can never be wiped away
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me by BigBen23(m): 6:56pm On May 21, 2023
ChinemeremFidel:
My girlfriend always disturb me to visit her and I do avoid it because I really don't want sex for now..
She is the first I will ever have.

So today I decided to visit her,we made out mouth pleasure but I did not have sex because first she was a virgin and secondly she was on her period.

After satisfying each other ,she started crying to squashing one of her principles.
Then me on the other hand have never had sex before so I was really ashamed of what I did...

She called me on the phone and was crying in guilt that I broke her laws and principles...I took the whole blame...

She then broke up with me...
And I really love this girl.

She is beautiful,never asked me for money, smart, intelligent and brave.

I am just confused right now
A teen's speech
PoliticsRe: Adamu Garba Meets With Senator Abaribe (Photos) by BigBen23(m): 6:52pm On May 21, 2023
onthehill:
A chieftain of the All Progressives Congress, APC, Adamu Garba shared photos from his meeting with former Senate Minority Leader, Senator Enyinnaya Abaribe, IGBERETV reports.

Adamu captioned the photos on Twitter;



https://twitter.com/adamugarba/status/1660231478708428802?s=19[/quote]You discussed in 30mins. Why APC members like to lie on everything
Science/TechnologyRe: Titanic: Full-Sized Scans Shows What Happened The Night The Ship Sank (Pictures) by BigBen23(m): 11:33am On May 20, 2023
Only if they builders never dared God...
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Girlfriend On An Airplane After 7 Years (video) by BigBen23(m): 4:33pm On May 19, 2023
Reminderz:
smh! why is it that those people who didn't do even half of all these showoffs and PDA didn't experience divorce and cheating cases unlike people of today? it only shows that people are marrying for the wrong reasons and not because they are truly ready to commit to their partners...

what most people see as genuine in this modern times is nothing more than fantasy and satisfaction of illusions which we created for ourselves... if you like go moon make una go do honeymoon, when shits hit the fan, you'll regret ever doing this and your so called soulmate might actually end up taking your soul if you choose wrong..
I only saw a man shaking head like Lizard

Please where's the girl?
RomanceRe: Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me Says I'm Wasting Her Time by BigBen23(m): 4:28pm On May 19, 2023
Zonefree:
In reality, she's the one wasting your time.


You're the trophy. A Nigerian girl got nothing to offer you aside her over stretched smelly kpekus.

Dust your slippers and move on to the next hoe. There are plenty of them in this part of the world. Your gain.
I think he should put this on his WhatsApp status
CrimeRe: Kano Woman Stabs 6-Yr-Old Daughter Of Man Who Advised Husband To Marry 2nd Wife by BigBen23(m): 11:50am On May 19, 2023
As Hausa man what's your hobby, he will say stabbing
FamilyRe: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by BigBen23(m): 4:28pm On May 18, 2023
thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.

I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.

There could have been a better way

This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Begins Constitution Of Cabinet, Economic Management Team by BigBen23(m): 4:26pm On May 18, 2023
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Begins Constitution Of Cabinet, Economic Management Team by BigBen23(m): 4:21pm On May 18, 2023
CrimeRe: Woman Arrested For Sneaking Into Neighbor's Room & Grabbing His Manhood by BigBen23(m): 4:20pm On May 18, 2023
2mercy:
https://pmexpressng.com/woman-30-docked-for-sneaking-into-neighbours-room-grabbing-his-dck/
Whenever I'm ready to login to my nairaland.com daily these are my expected news:
Political issues
Stabbing from the Northern part
Herdsman and their whahala
News from celebrities
Snake related
Japa cases

But you see this news, I never expected it
AutosRe: Honda CR-V 1999 Vs KIA Cerato 2011, Which Should He Buy? (pics) by BigBen23(m): 3:12pm On May 16, 2023
They play
E be like Honda Tyre never keep you for road before
FamilyRe: My Rent Was Increased Because I Bought A Car. by BigBen23(m): 3:10pm On May 16, 2023
[quote author=CarNaWife post=123137507]My rent was increased 60% I think because i recently bought a car.

What I noticed about some landlord are 3 behaviours.

The first one is they will increase your rent if you achieve Anything or seems to be progressing. This one is common among the Igbos.

The second one is they will give you quit notice to pack out. This could be out of jealousy. They want to be apha and omega and don't want tenants to raise shoulder with them.

The third one is they will be happy that you are achieving things in their house and want people to see that their house had no problem. They can even reduce your rent or not bothered to ask you to pay urgently so you can pay at your convenient time.

After reading this content and most importantly getting to number three, I saw you have nothing to say after seeing you constantly make use of the word "they"
Nairalanders, he bought a car, let's hold Thanksgiving. He has tried
CareerRe: Five (5) Simple Career Lessons I Learnt From Hilda - Odewale Adesoye (Green Man) by BigBen23(m): 3:05pm On May 16, 2023
RomanceRe: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by BigBen23(m): 12:54pm On May 15, 2023
lovediehatelive:
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.
Where you wan see virgin?
CrimeRe: Man Stabs His Friend To Death Over Phone In Yobe (Photo) by BigBen23(m): 12:45pm On May 15, 2023
EBMedia:
A young man identified as Auwal Mohammed Mustapha (a.k.a. Baushe) was allegedly stabbed to death by his friend in Unguwar Gabarin village in Pokistum town, Yobe State, IGBERETV reports.

Facebook user, Khalid Yusuf Tebo, who shared the news said that the suspect stabbed Baushe in his stomach with a knife during a fight over a phone. The incident happened on Friday, May 12, 2023.

He wrote;



https://www.facebook.com/100002150269064/posts/pfbid02LuigFgC92dL4nxc3RyVG8jmVRbD73NwC99wp1dmWzmfUPe9PyUxA8uoHGKBZEzmyl/?app=fbl
Stabbing is a hobby in the North
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo Calls Hilda Baci On Phone (Photos) by BigBen23(m): 11:54pm On May 14, 2023
[quote author=References1 post=123134697] there.

I pray she never pass out.

I pray the heat from the oven doesn't affect her womb on future.
PoliticsRe: Governor Sanwo-Olu Meets Hilda Baci (Photos) by BigBen23(m): 6:54pm On May 14, 2023
seunmsg:
Tinubu joined online to show support and Sanwo-Olu went to the venue to physically show support. Leadership!

They both showed support without making it about politics. The tiny voice and opportunistic mandate thief will soon appear on Twitter to link Hilda Baci’s attempt to break the Guinness World Record to his dead presidential ambition.
If anything takes Obi to that venue, people there will leave Hilda the celebrate Obi like say na him wan set the record. So for good, let him let the sleeping dog lie.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by BigBen23(m): 1:26pm On May 14, 2023
joeargy:
The problem is he is answering that name, we live close to them hence the frequent visits...if u call him Daniel, he will say ehh!!
grin grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Your Dad Built No Hospital: Falz Knocks El-Rufai Who Mocked Him For UK Surgery by BigBen23(m): 5:46pm On May 13, 2023
onthehill:
Your Dad Built No Hospital: Falz Knocks El-Rufai Who Mocked Him For His UK Surgery

Nigerian singer, Falz has hit back at Governor Nasir El-Rufai's son, Bashir El-Rufai and others who criticized him for undergoing a knee surgery in UK instead of Nigeria, IGBERETV reports.

Some supporters of the ruling All Progressives Congress including Bashir had accused Falz of hypocrisy for taking medical treatment abroad after he (Falz) criticized Nigerian leaders that did same.

Reacting to this, Falz said they are being audacious with stupidity, adding that they are so desperate for “ammunition” which is why they are latching on to his knee surgery gist.

https://twitter.com/falzthebahdguy/status/1656979354117713920?t=QMg8xSmOhGCGGazZfhHICA&s=19

The singer also retweeted a follower's tweet accusing Bashir's father and others of failing to build good hospitals that'll cater for the health needs of citizens.

The tweet read;



https://twitter.com/DrVic_Exotic/status/1656669506033573892?s=19

https://igberetvnews.com/1444880/dad-built-hospital-falz-knocks-el-rufai-mocked-uk-surgery/
Falz, this lyrics suppose carry beat na.
FamilyRe: Danish Aid Worker, Anja Ringgren Lovén Shares Photos Of Girl Rescued 9 Years Ago by BigBen23(m): 11:42am On May 13, 2023
saintbillion:
This one done ripe.
Maybe for one Alhaji. It's time you Northerners learn that the female gender are not slaves.
RomanceRe: Heartbroken Nigerian Man, Who Returned From UK To Propose To His Girlfriend by BigBen23(m): 11:38am On May 13, 2023
Within this one year, have you two not been on video calls that you couldn't dictate pregnancy?

Lies everywhere
CelebritiesRe: Davido Puts Up His Banana Island House For Rent by BigBen23(m): 11:35am On May 13, 2023
ExclusiveBet:
Afrobeat singer, Davido has reportedly put up his new Banana Island house for rent, 7 months after Ifeanyi’s death

Afrobeat singer, David Adeleke better known as Davido has reportedly put up his Banana Island house for rent.

According to reports making rounds, the award-winning singer is renting the house for $150,000 per year following the death of his son, who drowned in the house pool.

“I No Get Time for Wahala, I Dey IBIZA” – Davido Replies Sophia Momodu’s Indirect Shades

Nigerian superstar, Davido seemingly has reacted to his baby mama, Sophia Momodu’s rant of some men financially bullying women into staying with them.

Recall that Sophia went off on a rant earlier today. In her tweet, she said it is disgusting for men to financially bully a woman into staying with them especially when children are involved. Sophia who stated that there is a special place in hell for such people, added that laws in Nigeria do not protect women or children.

The businesswoman didn’t disclose who the tweet was addressed to, but stated that “it’s been over a year and enough is enough”.

Davido has now seemingly responded to the rant in tweets which has no direct recipient. He shared a screenshot of him doing his “unavailable” dance, while adding that he’s got no time for “wahala”. The singer also pleaded with the intended recipient not to be angry.



https://newtelegraphng.com/netizens-react-as-davido-puts-up-his-mansion-for-rent/
Can someone actually pay $150k for just rent?
CrimeRe: Oba Adewale Sunday Boboye Jailed For 10 Years For Damaging Church Properties by BigBen23(m): 10:56am On May 12, 2023
Music/RadioRe: Does Tiwa Savage Deserves All The criticism? by BigBen23(m): 4:14pm On May 11, 2023
DyshApp:
Tiwa Savage, a renowned singer, songwriter, and actress, is one of Africa's biggest music exports. With multiple awards and nominations to her name, she is undoubtedly one of the most sought-after African musicians in the world.

This would mark Tiwa Savage as the first Nigerian musician to Perform at the Coronation of a British Monarch.

Tiwa Savage's song choice has been met with criticism, as many people believe it celebrates British imperialism and the looting of Africa. The lyrics, specifically "You're the Key to the Kingdom," have received particular dislike for suggesting that King Charles has access to the continent's resources to use as he wishes, similar to his ancestors.

The criticism, largely from African-Americans on Twitter, appears to stem from a direct anger towards Tiwa Savage's decision to accept the invitation to perform, rather than solely towards the song itself.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOe0vsU_vzw

Did her performance call for such criticism huh

Rate Tiwa Savage performance of Keys to the Kingdom in king Charles's Coronation.
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CelebritiesRe: Falz Undergoes Knee Surgery In UK (Photos, Video) by BigBen23(m): 1:38pm On May 11, 2023
4Humanity4All:
Do you know them in and out enough to make that conclusion?
He has taken an action already. There's nothing much to know again.
Thank you, no mention again. Thanks for the little time my brother.
CelebritiesRe: Falz Undergoes Knee Surgery In UK (Photos, Video) by BigBen23(m): 12:43pm On May 11, 2023
4Humanity4All:
Yes, he can afford it with his own money not the citizens. What's the issue with that?
Obviously no issue like I said above just that him and most advocates, their patriotic ends on Twitter
CelebritiesRe: Falz Undergoes Knee Surgery In UK (Photos, Video) by BigBen23(m): 11:42am On May 11, 2023
4Humanity4All:
In this context, NO
We have had kidney transplants that were successful, few months a go, Akproko Doctor had a successful brain tumor operation...we can count as many as who have successfully undergo surgeries here, then you came to tell me that a leg surgery is so delicate that he had to go abroad.
Naaa! He lack the trust in our practitioners.
I seriously don't blame him oo. He could afford it, so why not... sad
CelebritiesRe: Falz Undergoes Knee Surgery In UK (Photos, Video) by BigBen23(m): 11:32am On May 11, 2023
4Humanity4All:
Tell me your point exactly.
Everybody is a moda4car hypocrite

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