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FamilyRe: What Is The Right Age To Get Married? by bigfather(m): 12:32am On Jan 22, 2009
persist:
Is there a right age to marry for men or women?if there is what? and why?
Nairalanders what do you say

My take is 24yrs for both men and women . What is yours
If you are financially and matured enough to handle things,then you can go ahead !
Marrige is no JOKE ! You really need to understand yourselves before indulging in it.
Music/RadioRe: Do U Think Our Fuji Music Brings Out Our Culture? by bigfather(m): 12:23am On Jan 22, 2009
~smurf:
Tani Said Oshupa?!!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked
AHHHH! shocked
Se wipe o mo Saidi Osupa ?! O ga gan o .
AdvertsRe: HURRY! Lagos Business School by bigfather(m): 11:59pm On Jan 21, 2009
Siena:
@ stankonia:

Do you know how bloody annoying it is to see the same lengthy crap posted on a public board?
Even worse when it has absolutely nothing to do with the sections it's posted in?
I'd say you're a very poor advert for any sort of educational write-up - is this what you learned in school?
Or you can't read / comprehend simple instruction - part of the agreement you made when signing up here was not to spam the board, or post in the wrong sections - it's also plainly stated BEFORE you post.

Idiot!
GBAM ! Please help us tel them ! I wonder what Obama has got to do with master's programme at LBS. Ever the pure water hawker will start selling Obama water. Na wa ! What a cheap advert!
AutosRe: 2004 Vw Passat 2.0 N950,000 Including Shipping by bigfather(m): 11:07pm On Jan 21, 2009
Busy_body:
Don't see anything preposterous about the price, Naijas and their if it ain't a million buck, its fake mentality undecided The bobo talk say hin dey UK and Poland, and it is possible to get such car for under £2000, so what gives undecided
And you believe in such ??! Na wa o ! When you can't even get a well maintained naija used for that kind of price ! undecided
AutosRe: 2009 Toyota Camry Le and XLE.... by bigfather(m): 8:49pm On Jan 21, 2009
Wey the remaining parts ?
AutosRe: 2004 Vw Passat 2.0 N950,000 Including Shipping by bigfather(m): 9:55pm On Jan 19, 2009
950k for this type of car ? undecided
Pls whats your secret ?
RomanceRe: Is This Weird? by bigfather(m): 12:21am On Jan 19, 2009
What you did was bad man ! Have you heard of the word NEMESIS ?
RomanceRe: Im A Fine Boy, But Feel Intimidated Seeing Finer Guys: by bigfather(m): 9:25pm On Jan 18, 2009
Inferiority complex . How you go see a fellow man come dey fear cause say him fine pass you ?
Pally, MONKEY NOR FINE O BUT HIM MAMA LIKE AM SO ! grin
AutosRe: Vw Bug For Urgent Sale.very Good Offer by bigfather(m): 8:12pm On Jan 18, 2009
Na auto drive ?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea(2) Vs Stoke City(1) On Saturday 17th January by bigfather(m): 1:37am On Jan 17, 2009
Can't rely on those boys any longer ! undecided
AutosRe: Boeing 747 For Sale by bigfather(m): 12:52am On Jan 17, 2009
Siena:
^^^ Paper ones?
Maybe plastic ones ! grin grin grin
AutosRe: Rolls Royce Phantom 2009 Coupe by bigfather(m): 12:46am On Jan 17, 2009
NA WA O ! shocked shocked shocked
70M just for one car ?!!! Will surely get there one day sha ! grin
RomanceRe: Check This Out? by bigfather(m): 11:08pm On Jan 14, 2009
A very hard lump to swallow ! lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Do I Give Her My House Key by bigfather(m): 11:00pm On Jan 14, 2009
Please keep your key bros. She dumped you just cause of your spare key ? Please let her be and that is if you don't have any bones in your closet .
FamilyRe: Attacked By Father- In -law For Catching My Wife Having An Affair. by bigfather(m): 10:32pm On Jan 14, 2009
Leave her for her father o !
CultureSusan Wenger,adunni Olorisa Is Dead ! by bigfather(op): 10:03pm On Jan 14, 2009
When the end drew near for the priestess of Osun, the elements combined and a sudden midday rain started and ended abruptly in Osogbo, Osun State capital, on Monday.


After the rain, Wenger, 93, passed on at the Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Hospital, Osogbo. Before she died, Wenger, who was surrounded at her sickbed by some of her 15 adopted children, asked, ”What day of the week is it? What time of the day is it?”

When answers were given to her inquiries, she replied, ”It‘s time to go. It‘s good. It‘s ok.” And with these words, she breathed her last in the presence of her first adopted son, Chief Sangodare Gbadegesin Ajala and her adopted daughter, Chief Doyin Faniyi.

Recalling how the culture matriach passed on, Ajala attributed her transition to old age. ”She died of old age. She was not particularly sick. She spent only a day in the hospital. A few minutes before her death, she took her bath and was served her tea, which she drank.

”In the last seven days to her demise, she called us (her children) together and talked about the philosophies of life; religion and culture with us. She engaged us for one and a half hours everyday on different topics. She said we should preserve our culture and religion.

”She was unhappy that the Osun grove was not being taken care of properly and that many of her artworks are in a state of neglect at the grove,” he said.

According to her adopted daughter, no part of Wenger was removed during the burial rites performed in the forest grove late Monday night by Oro and Osun worshippers. It was said that Wenger specifically requested not to be kept in the mortuary but to be buried immediately.

Faniyi said, ”She doesn‘t want any tomb to be erected for her. She doesn‘t want anyone to know where she‘s buried. She just wants to be buried without fanfare. But we are going on with all rites which will be in segments.

”We are commencing with a seven-day ritual and this will be followed by a 16-day ritual and another 21-day ritual.”

Before her death on Monday, she was seldom seen in public due to old age. Her last public outing was in 2005 when artists, who went through her tutelage in arts and craft, celebrated her 90th birthday in Lagos.

As expected, tributes have continued to trail her transition. Ambassador Segun Olusola thanked God for her fulfilled life while recalling the times in the 70s when they would carry her all the way from Osogbo to Victoria Island, Lagos, to participate in television programmes. “She was well versed in the Yoruba pantheon of the gods with which she was actively engaged,” he said. He also described her as a significant member of the Yoruba cultural leaders. “She left a very straight forward relationship of her devotion to the goddess. She also nurtured younger ones in the traditional way,” he said.

painful as her death is, it is consoling that she lived a fulfilled life and was celebrated severally in her life time with the biggest recognition – a national honour of Member of the Federal Republic – accorded her by President Umaru Yar‘Adua just two weeks ago. That was Osun State Governor, Olagunsoye Oyinlola, acknowledging the contributions of late Susanne Wenger, MFR, whose remarkable devotion to the worship of the Osun Osogbo boosted the annual festival, giving it an international status. The late artist saw the potential in the festival and employed artists that added essence to the celebration of the goddess.

Oyinlola described her death as the end of an era in the cultural world, and a loss to the entire world because she had become a bridge across cultures and continents. Her life, he said, ”was a lesson in being true to oneself and to whatever one is committed to.

”The late artist represented a bridge across continents and across cultures. She came from the western Europe in the early 1950s in search of what her partner, Ulli Beier, tagged, Ori Inu (her real essence), which she later discovered in the bosom of the spirituality of Osun.”

He noted that through her singular effort, Osun Grove has become world renown and preserved for posterity, adding that she would be greatly missed by all lovers of culture across the globe.

For Ambassador and Permanent Delegate of Nigeria to UNESCO, Prof. Michael Omolewa, ”Wenger left her mark and legacies indelibly on the cultural map of world, and she will always be remembered for her impressive works, love of Yoruba people, passion for the development of the African cultural heritage, and encouragement of truly global cultural village. Although she is dead, her name and her works will live for as long as culture lasts in the world.”

The governorship candidate, Osun Action Congress, Mr. Rauf Aregbesola, calls on the Federal Government to immortalise Wenger, whose death, he described as the end of an era.

A statement by the party‘s Director of Media, Mr. Gbenga Fayemiwo, on Tuesday, in Osogbo, said the ”indelible marks made by Wenger on African culture will last till the end of history.”

”We salute her deep insight, vision and perseverance to attain the stardom that her sojourn accomplished in Nigeria. If anybody deserves credit for the eventual recognition of the Osun Festival as a World Heritage Centre, Susanne Wenger‘s name stands tall as an Amazon of World Culture.”

As a young Austrian girl, the late Wenger began her sojourn in Nigeria in the 50s during a chance visit to the famous Osun grove and that became a defining point in her life.

She threw herself wholly into the worship of the Osun goddess and in that, her life took on a meaning. She succeeded in integrating her art into nature and the worship that is the essence of the Osun grove.

An artist and a sculptor, she studied art in Graz and Vienna. She was a part of the famous Vienna Art Club and after the Second World War; she took her art to Italy and Switzerland where she had exhibitions together with the famous artists at the time in the gallery, Des Eaux Vives in Zurich. In 1949, Susanne went to Paris, where she met Ulli Beier who was being posted to work in West Africa. They got married and in the 50s, both arrived in Nigeria.

They lived in Ibadan for a while and from there, they moved to Ede. She was quickly integrated into the culture of the people. It was in Ede that Susanne Wenger met a powerful Obantala priest, Ajagemo, who initiated her into the traditional Yoruba worship of Orisha. She would spend the next 50 plus years living as an ”Adunni Olorisha” among the Yoruba people in Nigeria in West Africa.

The name, Adunni Olorisha signified a bridge between two cultures – European and Yoruba. She became an important part of the rich traditional cult life in Osogbo, which annually climaxed in the festival of the river, the Osun Osogbo Festival. Her love for the Yoruba culture saw her leaving her husband to embrace the Yoruba traditional religion wholly. She was later remarried to a drummer, the late Ayansola Oniru.

Wenger was essentially a spiritual being. From a very early age, she had been strongly attracted to nature and specifically by trees - in which she was said to have recognised ”the images of sacredness”.

She was said to have specifically requested to be buried immediately and would not want her final resting place known for fear it could be turned into a tourist site. She was laid to rest in one of the sacred shrines in the groove.

To the uninitiated, late Wenger, known as Adunni Olorisa, was just a lover of nature. But she was more than that: she was a believer in that which is deeply etched in man- his essence. She searched and, her husband then, a German linguist, Ulli Beier, said, she found her real essence, which he called Ori-inu, in the worship of the Osun Osogbo. She became Adunni Olorisha which means ‘the loved one who worships the deity,‘ and was influential in the listing of the Osun Grove as a World Heritage Site by UNESCO in 2005.

The Punch.
Music/RadioRe: Do U Think Our Fuji Music Brings Out Our Culture? by bigfather(m): 9:59pm On Jan 14, 2009
In recent times, fuji music has turned into what every area boys uses as an avenue to pick up a fight with rivals, though used to be in vogue then but it's rather becoming something else now adays. Fuji music is really going tech and i think i love it .
bilms:
To me i think Saheed Osupa ( Saridon P) is trying,
What of Sefiu Alao ?
AutosRe: Tokumbo Mazda 626 99model For Best Price Ever. by bigfather(m): 8:58pm On Jan 14, 2009
Good car with a reasonable price !
AutosRe: Brand New 2008 Hp Laptops For N20,000 by bigfather(m): 8:10pm On Jan 14, 2009
Macvyno:
What if i cant find 5 persons who can afford that amount huh?
The your money don grow legs be that !
FamilyRe: My Wife Taking Me To Registry. by bigfather(m): 6:17am On Jan 14, 2009
Pally you get hidden agenda ? If not , then go ahead, them nor dey kill person for there ! cheesy
FamilyRe: Graduate Ladies, Can U Marry School Leaving Cert.holder Guy? by bigfather(m): 6:14am On Jan 14, 2009
Its not all about education !
AutosRe: Nigerian Used Cars And Other West African Used Cars by bigfather(m): 1:49am On Jan 14, 2009
Siena:
I'd say the maintenance factor of Nigerian used cars is a killer.
A lot of Nigerians like nice cars, and spend good money buying them.
But amazingly, most will skimp on service schedules:

1) Taking the car to Mr Bodge-It-And-Scarper down the road, because he's cheap.
2) Miss out on regular servicing, just because the car still drives.
3) Fit wrong / sub-standard parts, because they're cheap.
4) Use the wrong fluids in the car - most common is brake fluid in power steering systems, due to ignorance.
5) Running the engine at high rpm, even when cold.
6) Driving the car hard on unmade roads.

The list is endless.
That is naija for you sir ! grin
FamilyRe: How Do You Cope With Someone That Snores Aloud While Sleeping? by bigfather(m): 2:33am On Jan 12, 2009
Can be very annoying.
Car TalkRe: New Helmet Rule In Lagos by bigfather(m): 9:30pm On Jan 06, 2009
;d ;d ;d
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: FA Cup: Chelsea(1) Vs Southend United(1) Saturday 3rd January by bigfather(m): 7:24am On Jan 05, 2009
Don't know what the heck is wrong with this guys ! The bridge don fall patata !
Car TalkRe: New Helmet Rule In Lagos by bigfather(m): 4:28am On Jan 05, 2009
tosinaded@:
@big father
u see who u dey fight forhuh
My brother, you really need to read all Bronx's post.There's is no need to throw tantrums when discussing issues that affects every Nigerian. You can imagine the kind of degrading words used in describing Nigeria and Naijas in quote. Nairaland is not only for naijas but also for people from other countries too. Do we really need to wash our dirty pants outside for people to see? So whatever names you call your people,so will others regard your people. Staying abroad doesn't mean you ain't a Naija, if you like make you bleach come white pass WACO JACKO. Your home still remains your home irrespective of where you stay, that NAIJA BLOOD go everly dey flow ! I believe it's all about maturity.
GOD BLESS NAIJA !
Car TalkRe: New Helmet Rule In Lagos by bigfather(m): 3:27am On Jan 05, 2009
Seth Cohen:
@tosindada


P:S: You should learn to tone down your use of words to argue. Its not personal and all you need is to voice your opinion and split not go about callingg people whether they are literate or not!
Abi o ! I wonder the sentiments ! This is just a public forum and it's in your own interest to make good use of other people's advice if you so wish to. Is there really any need to get personal ? undecided Take a cue from SIENA !
FamilyRe: To Men: Will You Live In Your Father In-law's House? by bigfather(m): 2:25am On Jan 05, 2009
God forbidd bad thing ! Can't stay in his house,even while on holidays !
FamilyRe: I Beg Ur Suggesions: by bigfather(m): 2:01am On Jan 05, 2009
So who is fooling who ?! undecided
Car TalkRe: New Helmet Rule In Lagos by bigfather(m): 1:24am On Jan 05, 2009
bronx_dog:
^^^^^

What sort of stupid post you have posted?
Must you use such words ? HABA !
Car TalkRe: New Helmet Rule In Lagos by bigfather(m): 11:53pm On Jan 04, 2009
chyk91:
i think that this will work in lagos state, look at the way seat belt worked, already Fashola seems serious about making lagos a mega city, so this is one and i think it will wor
I pray so !
AutosRe: Cars For Sale!rover 75full Spec,(rhd)ford Explorer(rhd) F.spec,v-boot Lhd by bigfather(m): 11:51pm On Jan 04, 2009
Am out of here !

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