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Holiness2100:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fA4COvkLFaw

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10172287/amp/Colorado-man-tossed-wall-angry-elk-ignoring-warning-bystander-stay-away.html

Newsmic:
A police officer has stabbed his colleague, Sergeant Yerin Sapele, to death in Yenagoa, the Bayelsa state capital, IgbereTV reports.

IgbereTV gathered that the two officers who are friends had engaged in a heated quarrel prior to the sad incident which occurred on Thursday, 4th November 2021.

According to a source, the duo were at a marriage reception when an argument ensued between them over an undisclosed issue.

"We tried to separate them during the argument, to prevent them from fighting, but they refused. I and my friends took the deceased in our car to his house just to stop them from fighting. We were called less than 30 minutes after dropping him off that he has been stabbed to death," a source said.

The deceased was immediately rushed to the hospital where he was confirmed dead on arrival. His body has since been deposited at a morgue in Yenagoa.

A media aide to the Bayelsa State Governor, Bodmas Kemepadei who confirmed the incident on Facebook, said both had a minor misunderstanding.

He wrote;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1687441201453009&id=100005614362365

https://igberetvnews.com/1405399/police-officer-stabs-colleague-death-bayelsa-photos/

CaptainAyub:
The terrorist zoo soldiers firing machine guns at my grandmother's hut in Enugu have been banned from visiting their villages by their colleague

joegigs:
Zip it!!!

Na your type worse pass!
Tiger for keypad, mumsy at home

Iyaebe:
Hmm,well its obvious that he's a frustrated man and I'm sure this will be the end of the road for him at Cubana

Iyaebe:
Almost all young men of these days are suffering from footbillsphophobia, it is the reason for all this epistles. It is well.

Rydermaverick:
He should face the law..

edmaraja:
They should roast his dick for three minutes

jesusjnr2020:
You're so right!

God is not seeking men that keep such dates, but those who keep His Word and were willing to give Him their all so He could make them to become all that He desires for them to be.

Thanks and God bless.

Tutu19:
Soludo will not be a good governor. He is a proud man that does not take advise. Anambra people will hear weeeeeeen.. Mark my words. I have outgrown seeing from man's perspective.

safarigirl:
If you're one who has stayed within the female hostel of any Nigerian University, you'll find that most of it's occupants share similar hopes and dreams- and no, it's not to excel in their chosen career paths.

One of the lecturers in my school aptly described women as 'a waste of education'...no, it wasn't an insult, it was just stating the obvious. You find a woman who has hustled through primary, secondary and University education. One who looked set to be a force to reckon with in the world of business or law or medicine, I mean a female with straight A's and you think Nigerian women may be getting things right, only to follow her back to her hostel and hear these heart-breaking words:

"Omo, after school na to find husband marry remain."

In the real sense of the word this is translated to:

"After school, I'll fling my degee inside one iron box in my dad's storeroom, find a perfect mugu that will put a ring on my finger, buy me a car, set up a boutique/beauty saloon for me and all I have to do to get this is spread my legs for him and push out little people with his DNA"

Nigerian women view marriage the same way hustling Nigerian men view the US Green Card- an avenue to escape life's troubles. So in the same way you find 23 year old Nigerian men marrying 56 year old American women, you find young, promising women relegated to some man's priority list.

I don't think most Nigerian women realise that nobody wants to get attached to a leech. If you allow some Nigerian women, they would even want their husbands to carry the babies and birth them as well. And when you ask why they don't want to build wealth with a man, you hear:

"I've already suffered in my father's house. I don't want to continue suffering in my husband's house"

Now unless you're getting married to a no-good leech like yourself, there is no reason why building wealth with a man should be termed 'suffering'

Even on Sun Newspaper's 'Beauty Of The Week' it's the same thing.

Future Ambition: Getting Married And Having Kids

If you think God put you on this earth to make a liability of yourself, you need to think again. There is more to life than being someone's baby mama. There is a purpose for getting an education that lies beyond being able to speak good english whenever you and your man attend social functions

Nigerian women need to sit down and re-evaluate their lives. God sent you to assist a man, not to add to his problems. Men appreciate women who can think for themselves, who want to contribute to the family (and I don't mean churning out kids). There is nothing more endearing than a smart woman who views men as companions rather than money bags.


Don't waste the education your parents worked so hard to provide for you. Break the stereotype, Nigerian women should be more than gold-digging leeches. If the likes of Oby Ezekwesili, Joke Silva, NOI can be successful career women as well as wives and mothers, then we all need to dust up our certificates and CVs and have proper future ambitions.


God Bless You...and don't take this the wrong way

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

wendyberry:
How to spice up your relationship, It's reassuring to have a stable love connection amid everything else that is always changing. However, as this constancy develops, we begin to combine our everyday routines with our once-in-a-lifetime relationship.


Because it's November, pass the pumpkin pie! This month's free tech backgrounds were inspired by the warmth and love that the holiday season offers.

It's challenging to keep the chemistry alive in a time when a short acknowledgement before work substitutes a goodbye kiss, and a marathon of movies has become the only form of date night. Since being stuck in this kind of rut can be seriously disheartening, here are seven ideas to help you spice up your relationship and rediscover the spark that made you appreciate your partner in the first place.



Leave notes around

Stay spontaneous by leaving your emotional words for your spouse to find as they go about their daily routine, whether it's slipping one into his or her pocket to read before a big presentation or posting one on the bathroom mirror to start his or her day. Spending the additional effort to handwrite the messages will impact your lover and spark your passion in today's technology-driven environment.



Put in the effort to understand each other's hobbies.

Supporting your spouse in their interests is admirable, but making an effort to understand more about their interests is crucial. Starting a dialogue about your partner's performance and strategy, in addition to witnessing their golf event, is the type of introduction that will have the two of you seeing each other in a new way. While you don't have to go out and research strange things about your partner's hobbies, even knowing enough about them to bond over is a gesture that will be appreciated.



Unplug from your devices

When communicating with our real-life best pals, our phones are both our best companions and our biggest distractions. Nothing is more impersonal than talking to your significant other about your day and having them answer by peeking up from their phone now and then.

To prevent this blunder, make it a priority to disconnect from technology while you're attempting to spend quality time with your partner. Even though it appears to be a minor deed, it will rekindle a significant connection that you may have believed was disappearing.



Create a new tradition

Creating customs that help you look forward to the future is a terrific approach to keep your relationship exciting. Holding your relationship accountable to the tradition(s) you choose is a foolproof solution to making time for each other — and looking forward to it. From trying a new coffee shop every month to participating in a scavenger hunt every fall, holding your relationship accountable to the tradition(s) you choose is a foolproof solution to making time for each other — and looking forward to it.



Also Read: Love Alone does not Guarantee The success of A Relationship or Marriage



Surprise one another

Sending a bouquet to your loved one is a classic romantic gesture for a reason: it's refined, thoughtful, and looks good on the dining room table. Along with flowers, you might also surprise your lover with concert tickets or a clean bathroom. Finally, you know what your partner enjoys the most, and now it's time to demonstrate it.





Revisit the places you both used to love

You may act as if you're living in the past, even though you can't live there. Dress up for supper and head to a restaurant as though you're on your first date together to turn back the clock. Take a trip on the route you used to run before life became crazy if you want a more informed choice. Returning to a location that has special meaning for you and your partner will bring back memories of the past and remind you that those sentiments are still there now.



Get intimate again

When we claim that deeds speak louder than words, we are correct. Make an effort to touch your significant other throughout the day if you want to relive the honeymoon phase with your



Continue Reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/how-to-spice-up-your-relationship.html

OppyM:
I had to create a new account to seek you guys opinion. I’m a lady in my mid 20s I have been dating my fiancé for a while and it has been great. I see a future with him and I’m thankful I met him.

The issue is I’m a warrior(SS) carrier , that’s what we call ourselves. I look absolutely normal unless I tell you, I doubt if you would notice this. I live normal like every other person, my looks is fine I’m even chubby a bit although I fall sick easily which is normal if you a carrier
Lala please can you help push to front page

My boyfriend genotype is AA which makes us compatible. The issue is we are planing to get married very soon (next year December) but I’m not comfortable the way this man treats me. He doesn’t allow me do anything anytime I visit, even my own meals and laundry is forbidden it makes me look so lazy.

Back at home I do chores as a normal being. I cook for the family wash my own clothes clean the house and all. I do normal Chores although they don’t let me overwork myself but I still work.

The issue now is my boyfriend is against me getting a job saying he is scared because of my health. I told him if I can make it through strenuous uni days why can’t I work. I know when he is serious and he is very skeptical about this. I told him if he doesn’t want me to work he can get a shop at least I won’t do much and he said he is fine with that.

The issue now is the money he budgeted for our wedding next December is what he plans to open a shop for me thereby further shifting the marriage plans to December 2023. I told him instead of doing that why don’t he let me take a job and we should continue with the wedding and all instead of wasting money he doesn’t have

NB: I have an offer waiting for me for a paramilitary job and his fear is that I’m not strong enough. He is even ready to sell his car to set me up. He is a good man but I want him to understand I can take care of myself . Why set me up for a business when I can easily work on my own

wendyberry:
How to know when its time to end a relationship is a skill that's just as important but far less studied than knowing how to start things off. We're typically appalling at it. We mumble we delay, we become strange, we hedge.



And there's a reason we've messed things up so badly. It's not as if we're stupid, unskilled, or unkind. It's because we're attempting to be kind. All of our ineptness, ignorance, and brutality stem from this.



Because we are emotional, we strive not to be cold and instead attempt to be polite. The core of sentimentality is the want to be loved, even by people you don't like and can't stand. It's a selfish desire to keep receiving love's emotion without having to pay for it.



But kindness has no role whatsoever to play at the charred end of relationships. Being sweet and understanding merely prolongs the torture for the other person. If we are being so tender, is it possible that we truly mean the dark things we are ostensibly saying? Could we be so loving and, at the same time, calling it a day?







Above all, we must extinguish hope. We, on the other hand, waffle much too often. 'At the end of a relationship, it is the one who is not in love which delivers the sweet speeches,' Marcel Proust accurately noted. Parting lovers may find themselves in the bizarre scenario of one person grieving because they are being abandoned and the other crying because the announcement of the left has caused them anguish - tears that the abandoned party misinterprets as shows of caring.



The kindest way to end a relationship is to make extremely brutal speeches – of a sort that will leave the other person in no doubt at all that you're not an especially nice person. The truly courageous way to leave is to allow yourself to be hated by someone who loves you.



There's no time to waste. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're doing someone a favour by extending the time they may remain under the pleasant notion that you desire them. Their main concern is to quit squandering their lives. Don't trust them when they say they won't find anybody else like you; they may believe it now and perhaps tell you so lovingly. But when they do figure out who you are, they won't believe you. True compassion entails getting out – even if the vacation has already been planned and informing everyone at this late stage would be extremely embarrassing.


Continue reading: https://www.lovebird.com.ng/2021/11/how-to-know-when-its-time-to-end-a-relationship.html

Anobella:
Good morning I am guy 25 years of age I am squatting with my parents now I am fucking tired of the place man needs to move out to gain respect and I dont really have much with me ..
I work on the island vi and squat on d mainland now I need a room just one room where I can stay pls it shouldn't be more than 70,000 any room on d island pls help a friend...... I am tired of staying with them I just want to be on my own let me think about my life without any opinion......

If I drop my number now all this mods will disable my account

WhatsApp +2349087882699

Preciousgirl:
What is Love Wantiti?

What is the meaning?

Kind I get it's English synonyms and sentences

Thanks a lot

Omicron007:
Fellows,

A quick one
One of my friends celebrated her birthday recently.
I was lost in thoughts over what to buy for her.
So I surfed the internet and I saw a lot of suggestions.

I ended up getting a flower for her. I ordered the flower on an online flower shop and it was delivered to me.

On her birthday, I took the flower and went to her place. I presented it to her during the little birthday bash she organised.

To my utmost surprise, she and her friends looked at me with contempt. She was not happy I got the flower. It was glaring on her face.

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I have seen a lot of movies where flowers are presented to girls and they are very happy.

Why is it that some Nigerian girls don't value the gift of flowers?

I spent NGN 7,500 to get the flower!

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am done with school ..
I wanna go to Lagos next week make some money before service in February...
But the issue is that my girlfriend is really unhappy...
She says if I leave...we might not see each other for more than a year...
But I need money more than federal government right now...
What do I do!??

FeliciaOja:
speak English or stfu

ChizzyBuna:
I'm thinking of bleeping some girls in my area
One is a POS agent she is short, the other is a tailor, she is tall

I dey vibe with them. both of them are down to fvck.
But my guy is telling me that sex with tall girls are not fun at all and not so easy to Bleep with different styles.
Guys, is this true?
From your experience which one is better in sex
Tall girls or short girls?

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.