₦airaland Forum

iluvkpetus:
My heart grieve of utmost sadness as I type this. My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me about 3 months ago.Throughout our relationship I never touched her being that she's a virgin.
Until she broke up few months ago, dated another guy who ended up deflowering her, tho she claimed he's just a friend and i stupidity believed her
She claimed she went out with friends and had no where to sleep than his place, then that night the dude smashed her and she lost her virginity
Called me few days ago to apologize, she wants us back because she missed the old us
She claimed to be sad and unable to face me after the incident reason she broke up out of shame
Now she claimed she's ready for sex and all.
What should I do?
Should I forgive and accept her back?
It's quite difficult to but i love this girl
Insults is allowed but please i need your take on this

same old lines.... pls don't accept her I would ve given reasons but were I am now isn't comfortable

NwaOhafia:
I'm Igbo and still tell my ibibio brothers that if we like hausas, nobody will be speaking ibibio now. This guys are on a mission that the northern Christians don't know

d worst part is d northern Christians re forming ignorant of dat fact u stated. dry luv n care for their oppressors even Wen dey keep turning suya in their hands....

NwaOhafia:
In 20years time their wont be anything like southern Kaduna if care is not taken.

What pains me most is how most jaba youth can't even speak the language again

I have a friend from Jos who I ve never heard him speaking his own dialect with his family except from Hausa... I had to ask him one day who re u? were re u from? do u even no how to speak ur language? I still don't understand how u will drop ur language n speak those of ur killers n oppressors....

SolutionMee:

To be honest, there's little the government can do here. The workers should learn one or two skills and start living an independent life. A work-intensive job that doesn't rely on the government before they earn. Many of them are suffering today because they relied too much on their state government. They should forget about previous salaries, concentrate on the present and fight for the future. They need some serious work-off to work-on their present predicament. Being a civil servant shouldn't be used as an excuse for laziness. Hardworking pays!!!

Bros it would ve b better u didn't say anything dan to say wat u said.... did d governor n his appointees forget about theirs? do u no it's a crime to b in civil service n b doing it business? why re u guys dis wicked? way did d idiot of a governor use all d money for? it saddens my heart to c dat we re becoming too heartless in dis part of d world

ChrisMafian:
Oga Atiku is corrupt. You and I know that.

Ozuor go n say dat in court n c if u will win a single case

u can imagine..... at d end of d day one illiterate from a particular section of d country with secondary school certificate which he can not defend will be her president.... way a wrong country for dis brainiac to b born

ChrisMafian:
Kano states indigenes have spoken, now we all know their stance. Atiku the biggest thief won't get 50k votes there unless rigging.

are those children not supposed to be in school at this time of d day? u guys ve so thrown everything away all for d 30k.... if he has ntn to fear let him face d court Jux like Fayose....

ChrisMafian:
Even kids can decipher a video which is doctored. I knew something was wrong cause the Governor I know is a disciplined and honest man.
These are the real voters and come 2019, we will win with a landslide.

So those children below 18 re the real voters? by d way don't u think he should go to court to clear himself? Mr discipline indeed.

Olohunjedalo:
How the hell did this clown become a senator?
Money can buy anything in this world mehn!

the same way Buhari became the president... such a lifeless uninspiring, dumb, president possibly suffering from amnesia....

AdesegunSanni89:
But you don't mind spending 6 million Naira for one-year masters program in a third-tier university in England abi? hypocrite

wat has he even done to stop people seeking education in oversea? Don't u think if he should borrow a leaf from Weah our educational system might b better? it's not always about fight n politics but about how Nigeria will be better.

buhariguy:
I can't believe, except the video show the giver of the bribe,
All the givers will be jail,
The governor will be impeach and jail.

imagine it was Fayose u would ve b shouting to high heaven for him to b arrested but it's one of ur change agent a supposed progressive agent hence it can never b tru.... why do we select d crime to condemn

Ventura1:
In Nigerian, gullible citizen will be the one to defend their leaders when they increase school fees.

which one has Buhari established? yet he want to increase wat he met to 500k.... Cow n almajiri

sarrki:
Mynd44 And lalasticlala

Please I will like my thread I created 2 year ago to make front page once it becomes reality

I said Pmb will get the greatest support from southeast and south south

Ekweremadu is gunning for senate president

Dats if he's able to win in another party.... he will become irrelevant d moment he decamp

PHILipu1:
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Are you not ashame that after all the noise your are now supporting a fulani and a Muslim too like those from Kano.

Why will your Jesus and Igbo party call PDP pick a Muslim and a fulani?

Go and have your head check.

Ozuor..... why bringing Jesus into ur politics of hate? we already no u guys still want Buhari cuz he's a Sharia apologist. go to d north n c dat u aren't different from igbo in their eyes....

PHILipu1:
Lol.
We control Edo state.

All dis Auchi Muslim who aren't different from those in Kano.... I bet u Buhari won't win Edo state not even with d current in-house fight within d evil party

abc115:

all this ur write-up won't change anything so y not save ur energy no-go get a job

ChrisMafian:
The judge shouldn't be lenient with this thief. God won't even forgive the criminal for how he looted Ekiti dry.
All PDP corrupt politicians will be jailed once baba wins in 2019

You have already judged him from ur mind.... How about those accused from APC? How about d person who gave him d money? why is he walking free? how about grasscutter and d rest? why do we choose the crime we condemn?

amodu:
Amodu said so

Probable cuz u don't think for ursef yet

PHILipu1:
I don't think so. He may lose your part of south south but he will not lose our own part

if I may ask which part of SS re u from let me no we're he's going to win....

Benyfil:
Greetings Nairalanders

I will go straight to my point.

My salary is 59k and after monthly deductions (loans) I get N39k and it remains just a month to finish paying up my loans and I go back to receiving 59k. I have a wife and 2 kids (5years and 2 years).

I already have 3 hectares of cassava and another 1 hectare which I intend planting tomatoes. Most things have been put in place for the tomatoes after going through a lot of threads and other peoples experience on tomatoes farming (especially Jethro). I have prepared the land, water is close by, I have made beds for the tomatoes and they have germinated and waiting transplant in 2-3 weeks.

A part of me says, if I leave my paid employment, things might not work out and its better that I continue to received the 59k (fear of the unknown). Another part of me says, to leave the job and channel all efforts towards the tomatoes farming that things would get better gradually. I have already made adequate plans for my family feeding for the next 12months, but I am still scared of quieting the job.

My ultimate question is this:Is tomatoes farming on an hectare of land sustainable?. I know it wont be that easy and it would require hard word. But can it sustain me better than a paid job. Should I quit and face farming?

Looking forward to advice mostly from tomatoes farmers and others as well.
Thank you

where is ur location? do u ve d idea? cuz am thinking of going dat way

post=72296510:
RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE......

Dem no dey tell lame man say war dey come!

shame on u, ur Buhari and Elrufai.... they should run for their life cuz no one will protect dem

olujastro:
As it stands, Atiku is only guaranteed to win the SE alone in 2019. The ruling party has made good in-roads in the SS and I expect them to perform much better there, particularly in Edo, Rivers, AkwaIbom, Delta and perhaps Crossriver. Atiku is going to lose big time in the NW and NE. If you doubt, check the results of the recent bye-elections and wait for the upcoming ones in the same Bauchi and Katsina.
The SW and NC are usually battle grounds with roughly split votes and looks good for the ruling party. The boycott only makes PMB's victory easier.

It's high time the SE got ready to play inclusive national politics. Nobody gives you anything in life. You have to work for it, earn it and eventually take it (Ask Tinubu). That has been my mentality right from my childhood, so I strive for whatever I desire in life and demand less from people or nothing at all.
Having a victim mentality only makes you feel marginalised. No region in Nigeria has it better than the others. Bad roads, poor electricity, no water, etc. abound in all 6 zones. Lagos and Abuja are simply ex and current capitals and must naturally get better govt attention.

Ignore the preaching of hatred and focus on good governance. Else, you'll end up being bitter and hateful if the candidate you voted against wins an election.
Stay open minded and peaceful.

you just stay in ur Ibadan n no Buhari has constructed roads in d whole of SS.... my brother am from SS n tell u whole heart Buhari will loose SS woefully

amodu:
A 5th and 3rd timer, Gbajabiala should be given his mandate joor

we should Jux give him the house make e carry am go house... who says dey will b majority next year

deepwater:
Lol

Why the defence?

Tradition and culture all over the world was barbaric ab initio

Time changes things, human just keep upgrading, that's all.

50 years from now same would be repeated with the new bride to the king. But maybe, the osun used today may not be in physical form perhaps something made from a hologram (who knows,).

Afterall, them moses that year been use stone and tablet take carry word of God, today Samsung they produce our own digital tablet to carry same word.


Human just keep evolving with time �

Tradition and customs doesn't change.... the life u re trying to live now is people's culture n tradition... ur white wedding n d likes re people's culture n tradition

seunmsg:
All men of good conscience can only demand for the resignation of Ganduje on moral ground if the Kano state house of assembly refuse to impeach him. EFCC, police or any other security agency cannot arrest and prosecute him because of the immunity he currently enjoy. The same reason why Fayose couldn't be prosecuted while in office is the same reason the president can do nothing about Ganduje.

But EFCC should at least release statement for us to no dat dey re waiting for d day he'll step down as the governor Jux like dey did in case of Fayose.... what do u think?

quickberry2:
Obanikoro was arrested and he agreed to pay back, which he has been doing......get ur facts right

what if Fayose agrees to pay back also

Trouble1:
Wailers will hold on to anything to stay in the news .
They never said the pictures are from their achievements.
But they’re only using the picture to illustrate.
Well, who am I to argue with a wailer .
Before anyone quote me . Please see my signature

just hear ur shameless self.... why using another man's sweat to illustrate ur achievements?

Divay22:
Omo I'll like mine domesticated o
But not to make her feel inferior or less of herself, I think you should balance it. She should go to the kitchen with you even if you wouldn't want her to help she can at least talk about her day while you do the cooking.

So know when to balance it. Even if she won't do anything just let her be close to you (that's the fun of a relationship)
You chop onions i fry the meat
The slice the plantain, I fry it
You sweep, i mop (or the reverse )
Make the bed, I scatter it (Shebi you like work)
You wash the clothes, i hang them
Even if you don't want her to work, always involve her, make her feel her presence around is necessary.
Even if you fry thr meat and she start eating (all na work).
This is the time you guys bond, rare moments money can never buy, and fun time that involves no cash but filled with happiness, smiling face and love...

Awww

to much of telemoundo or nollywood is bad....

post=72186594:
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GOOD WAY TO GO....
Technology is bae.

Are u not ashamed dat dey re Jux 10 years older dan is? wat do we ve here? we people who ve decided to sell their conscience for a pot of porridge shouting sai baba upandan. We re were we re today cuz we re all visionless from the leaders to the citizens all we care about is wat comes to our pocket..... u guys should b ashamed of urself still trying to sell a dullard who won't even hear wat China has jux achieved cuz he's still living in d stone age

GoTV:
why is it so hard for people to denounce Christianity and be free? If i were in Sharibu's shoe, i will have pretended to join Islam and return home safely. Fanaticsm is what is holding her captive not Boko Haram.

why is it hard for u to denounce ur Islam upon all atrocities dey re committing against humanity

KenOne:
Igbos are all over the place now Atikulate this Atikulate that. They didn't learn any lesson from 2015 no more Biafra again, they've being making noise of voting Atiku massively.

By 2019 if Buhari wins they'll start crying oh we didn't get this position or that, infact they'll start demanding like black South Africans where they did not work but want to reap.

Hear then we demand SGF, chief of staff to the president be zoned to South-East, we also demand chief of army staff, IGP, NSA, minister of petroleum, finance, health, transportation, works and housing and aviation should also be zoned to us.

Another slogan if they fail to get those demands will be blackmailing the president and other tribes. Give us Biafra or zoo will fall.

They have won and sworn in Atiku as president on social media already. It actually reminds me of 2015 general elections and Edo, Kogi, Ondo, Ekiti and Osun elections where PDP won on social media while APC is winning in real sense.

is it appointment supposed to b based on who voted n who didn't vote? wat if Atiku win d elections n also refused to give SW any appointments wat will b ur reaction? Appointments should b based in merit n not favor.... reasons we re dis backward

hisexcellency34:
Bloody coward..he thinks Nigerians will show solidarity with him

how is he a coward?