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Youngvegetable:
No it's not like I am wicked or evil but he is too soft..too soft.. just too soft and kind... There are some things you should know, if he grows up with a soft nature In a country like Nigeria, he won't be happy with most encounters he'll have.

At the end I will be blamed for raising him in that way. I am just concerned about his survival but I honestly wish to live Nigeria one day. But till then, I have to make him harder

SenecaTheYonger:
You fvcking demon. You realize if we had more people like your son, this country would look better than Japan.

How do you even think people from civilized countries behave? Please note that I don’t consider America a civilized country, only Japan and Singapore (maybe some small European countries like Luxembourg etc)

We honestly don’t need people like you, OP, in this country. There’s millions of your type here that’s why it’s a shiithole.

Yes, all offence intended.

Obrigardo:
Can't you just let the child grow up? What's wrong with you?

Kandeed:
Humans will never be satisfied even if God gives them the world. you happen to have a kid who's gentle, too kind and you wanna swap that character for a thug like own?? meanwhile some families are there praying day and Night for God to change their hardened Son to ur typa boy. u got urs on a plater of Gold but you are not satisfied yet, u prolly want the tough, stubborn one.

I guess you don't know the advantage of having the type of ur boy
1. He'll quickly heed to correction and training
2. He wouldn't want to do anything that would make you mad/sad
3. Reasonable people will love me
4. people will fight to defend him if he's wrongly accused
5. with a tender heart as such he'll always have you in mind
6. he'll take to heart any advice or parental guidance easily
7. He'll respect you
8. he'll be well behaved and peer pressure may likely not affect him immediately since ur training will keep ringing to his ears. To mention but a few.

and what you don't know is that, in a bid to change an extremely gentle person the end product would be an extremely rebellious kid. there's no such thing as having a touch of gentility and a touch of stubbornness mixed together. you're either gentle or haughty/stubborn. so choose one

Ikwerelastborn:
What of those blacks killed like animals and fowls in the USA? Or the mass shootings there,I'm sure you haven't left Nigeria before because if you had,you will be more informed than this ignorance u showed

Boss13:
I can understand your sensitivity especially on the narrative concerning single mothers, but I am not wrong. Statistics has shown single mothers do not make good parenting decisions. It doesn't say all, but most single mothers and by most, it means 75% - 90%. That's a large number.

Again, why should a young man who is discerning, ambitious, and want the good things of life, enter into a relationship or marriage with another man's child? Except the single mother will remarkably increase his network and value, such young man is lost in the head.

Are you aware that, on average, it cost roughly $100,000 - $300,000 to comfortably raise a child. You can do the conversion in naira. That amount gives a child the fighting chance to compete in the world. Why would a discerning young man pick up the bill of another man's child when he could get single ladies and raise his own kids.

Unfortunately, you cannot give what you don't have or know. Ladies from broken homes do not know what it takes to be with a man. They have never seen it. They have never seen their mothers submit and be under the submission and leadership of a man. Even though their biological nature yearns to be cared for and to raise kids, they will be in friction with the men in their lives. Some of these ladies are fast learners and would make the necessary adjustments. Others will fight the men in their lives for leadership control. However, why take the risk and put your stability in jeopardy.

My writeup is to assist young men identify potential spouses and to avoid pitfalls. I have seen and read multitudes of young men marry for love or the wrong reasons and end up regretting their decisions. My writeup is a no nonsense, pragmatic approach to picking your wife.

Boss13:
I love and encourage constructive criticism. It gives room for others to either learn from opposing views or contribute to the discussion. Yours was none of this.

Boss13:
Imagine your ridiculousness. It gives you intense pleasurable joy to appear stupid.

The least you can do is go through my previous threads, comments and post. It probably would give you a little indication of me.

These are the individuals who privately send your messages begging you for financial support or guidance.

You are the reason why I stopped visiting Nairaland because it is now filled with disrespectful kids, low-lives, disgruntled elements, and angry individuals who would blame everyone and everything, but themselves for the outcome of their lives.

Go get a life! You need it.

Boss13:
I will not stoop to your level because you are unarguably smarter than me. My problem is staring at me in the mirror. I am a foolish person, I know, and my post was insensitive.

I shouldn't be dishing out unsolicited advice when the objective of the thread isn't to help reasonable men pick their wives and to assist them avoid pitfalls.

Boss13:
Are you a product of a single mom or currently a single mom? I don't deal with outliers. I deal with the majority. The statistics are there for all to see and review. While there maybe a few single moms who change the course of their situation, they make bad parenting decisions and are usually not good spouse. You don't have to argue with me on this.

My advice is for young men considering marriage to avoid pitfalls. Most young men do not understand how to pick their partner. As the world continues to condemn traditional values and pick up liberal idiosyncrasies, you find young men pairing up with the wrong women for the wrong reasons.

There are three things that define an individual - Their family, Their food content (which could defined their body structure), and the environment. Family and Environment are extremely vital in how an individual reason and adapt. For example, an individual from a poor family in a poor environment would need a miracle to break the chains of poverty because everything around that individual is poverty.

Obakashdee:
I have a man in my church, he has three children now, he gave birth to twins twice but unfortunately for him one of them died. This man and his children are suffering like it’s so obvious that they are suffering, the man takes up so many menial job just to provide and the wife also does menial job too just to feed. Now his children are 10 and 8’s respectively and his wife discovered she’s pregnant again in this buhari regime and he knows how suffering is peppering him.

I was thinking why can’t they just abort it and keep managing, I do not see the rationale of bringing another child into this world to suffer or am I wrong ni?
What to do? I

ChilamNk:


He was travelling across countries to garner support in liberating his people.

MNK is a Hero

A Lion,

freedom fighter

A brave Igbo Man.

Except the few who are living in denial of reality because of their political gain and interest.
All others have realised Nigeria has failed.

ocelot2006:
Good Lord.....bros, NATO was created because of the defunct Soviet Union, Russia in particular. Why will Russia want to join them in the 1st place?

BeeBeeOoh:



Agitations will never stop if we keep on electing ethnocentric bigot's into power. Imagine a president classifying one section of the country he is governing as 5%ters and later called same people dot in a circle and people cheered him on and you expect agitations to stop??

DUNKA:
75k for a fresh graduate

Kenn55:
Always testing weapons that are never used. What is the essence of all these brouhaha?

Russia needs a smart 21st century leader that would harness their technological prowess into economic products like China because that is where the power is not weapons. Very soon they would start playing second fiddle to China as China is becoming a bigger power than them.

Imagine Russia with all this technological brain is no where near being in the top 10 economy. I find it ridiculous that Canada of 37m people has a bigger economy than Almighty Russia because they have a leader for the past 20 years whose only idea of power is to produce weapons upon weapons that won't ever be used.

They should emulate China

emae009:
Ukraine should just become a member of NATO and all these aggressive behavior will cease to exist.
Ukraine with a US-led NATO military base.

Russia would never want to see that happen though

Parable007:
Congratulations to you ma..God bless you, I am happy for you..

cocolacec:
The Tigrays also had the support of Eritrea which was a break away region from Ethiopia.

Chloraseptic:
For this handsome son alone Ned would remain greatful to Regina..

Please if you are ugly do your children favour by marrying a good looking partner

zeusdgrt:
Lol.... that's just 1.5million.He can use it to buy something better for her

Jabar2017:
Wish I could do that for my mum....

Calitoscassius:
Angela merkel let all the muslim terrorists into Germany now innocent Germans are paying for it with their lives.



Every time i travel to Germany all i see are muslims walking about doing nada, sitting around in muslim coffee shops discussing how to harm innocent people and harassing German women. they don't want to work, although German tax payers work hard everyday to so that lazy muslims can get their free housing, food and free money for them and their 2 dozen potential terrorists children each family. Yet these muslim still want to kill the German tax payers who funds their free housing and welfares. Their women don't work either just getting pregnant and giving birth to more terrorists. They don't want to intergrate into the system, they don't wanna speak or learn the German language.


What kinda wicked and cruel humans are these muslims? I don't get it.