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Newnas:In war time you don't have all that time. You must have thought this moves in advance if they happen. It affords you ways of defiling the enemy without emotion. Just strategy. Peace time is for that thought. |
MycroftHolmes:I don't believe they all say that, only a vocal minority. It seems you've fallen into the same pit of generalisation as them. But still ... both world views can be compatible, you can still believe men are scum and chase after them to validate that assertion. You need instances of their scum moments to corroborate with what you think of them. |
Mutemenot:Well... If it really does start, everything will be used in that warfare. Whatever gets the win will be applied. |
englishmart:Possibly. That's the only thread holding that argument. If its likely, then its worthy of consideration |
If you value what your sister has to say, then have a dialogue with her. Let her list you reasons why you shouldn't go ahead with her. She clearly thinks she's not the best option for you and you might want to hear her reasons. She might have a good reason why you shouldn't. If she doesn't provide a good reason either, ignore her and go on with your voyage. |
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Attention span didn't drop, what changed was the volume of information. - how else would you explain people who commit their time to binge watching a whole netflix series in one sitting. Which is BTW 20x longer than 3 minutes. If the music is uninteresting, the shorter it is, the better for it. No one can bear listening to mainstream Nigerian songs for too long without getting jaded. Its a false premise. |
KingAzubuike:Reason?? |
Why is every one of them striking the same pose? |
donstan18:Sense isn't synonymous with fame |
So what? Even if he did it, how is this significant? What does it change? |
Let them mate! just make sure she knows why is a bad idea. Balance might do the trick. Don't paint it bad, let her see the sides. Let her know its something good that can be abused. Let her know how beautiful it is to preserve it for someone who deserves it not a trickster. Have a conversation about what love feels like and how to sense it better from others. Discuss what relationship is, and what the ideal version is. What she's doing is normal for her age, let her know how to go through it more responsibly. She's doing the right thing the wrong way, it doesn't call for a beating. Discuss these ideas with her. Or Introduce her to something better to do. If you can provide a worthy exchange, you solve the problem. Right now, nothing sounds better to her than to hop on his ... |
Every artist needs a financier. Michelangelo had the Medici family. |
DissTroy: ![]() I agree. |
safarigirl:I agree completely ... Even in the makeup department |
APCNig:You can't stop that...you'll have no rich people without that expense. |
Dating is useful to those who desire marriage. Its a form of biological engineering, from an evolutionary standpoint. A way of finding a partner whom you can tolerate over a lifetime. It can also be a good yardstick for self evaluation; knowing, only the fittest will survive. Women will only select the mate with the best chance of reproducing a stronger offspring with and their safety. What type of women do you attract? That analysis holds within it, your worthiness. How much you weigh in the grand scheme of things. Its helpful to know women are attracted to men across and up dominance hierarchies. |
DigitalLogic:Its not a "must" for progress. There are other paths to progress, this is just one way. People indulge in new year plans because they believe the new year is a new start. |
DigitalLogic:You only explained "why" time is important to goal setting not "why" it should be set on the first day of the year. |
amc:Quite a solid argument you have up there. But... The warning remains fair, given how the money is being spent. |
I don't think human beings have figured out a way to control behavior without inflicting pain. Be it emotional or physical pain. The problem with using pain as a regulator for behavior is its susceptibility to abuse. Simply because of the circumstances preceding it. That's why we have constitutions in adult society to regulate punishment so it doesn't degenerate into abuse. To serve punishment effectively there has to be a mechanism for regulating whatever is considered punishment. And whatever is called punishment has to be considered carefully. Different individuals respond differently to punishment. What determines the differe t responses is "value" Nobody values anything more their freedom, which is why prison sentences are the most painful thing you can do to anyone. Anger is what engineers punishment towards abuse. There is nothing wrong with flogging by itself but anger will most likely be the reason to flog and not the wrongdoing. Which causes you to punish the child beyond what is required for correction, just to satisfy your rage. Children aren't robots, they have things they value, find it and take it away as punishment for wrongdoings. Also find organic consequences for their actions. Eg- if he doesn't eat his dinner on time, no TV. Simply because he has encroached into his TV time with his prolonged feeding time. |
The problem with atheism is the nihilism that follows it. Number 4 is false, you can't prove that. How do you know Christians suffer more? Christian or not, you will face suffering. Its life. We all have expectations that won't be met easily, which is where the suffering stems from. Being a Christian doesn't make it worse for you than the non Christian. Religion isn't there to make life heaven on earth or make it any easier. Its there for moral guidance. Your choices have to be guarded lest you hurt the next man. |
The figure quoted might be wrong but the warning he gave is fair. Its common sense not to use debts to service other debts. You will be accruing unreasonable interests. Isolating his mistake seems like an agenda on your part to make the warning look out of place. I could be wrong, but its hard not to come to that conclusion. |
Timileyin1234:A better alternative to splitting his wealth |
You'll need to take a step back and evaluate yourself. Don't be quick to throw apologies or tell her of the devil's influence or how much you love her. Ask yourself important questions: What part of you justified that action before you carried it out? Its being in the relationship that important to you, a part of you think it isn't and that needs to be sorted out What is it you want out of your relationship with her? Why is better to be with her than not being with her in your estimation? Without good answers to these questions, then whatever action you take would be to save face and not to confront the situation squarely. |
Etimocracy:If the human mind is occupied meaningfully, all these urges truly become distractions opposed to being a beckoning light. |
Ladycewhy:Because barriers make what they conceal all the more attractive to those who is been hidden from. The garden of Eden story was enough lesson on that strategy. Laws make people want to break them, knowing this affords a lawmaker room to manipulate the masses. |
