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Foreign AffairsRe: Iran Hackers Hack Into American Government’s Website by bindukwe(m): 4:38pm On Jan 05, 2020
Newnas:
Look at you. So you expect them to give a hurried retaliation?! Obviously you lack experience on leadership. A leader, like a chess player, always takes his time to calculate the implications of his actions and inactions. Only a pawn makes quick and uncalculated moves.

I'm not supporting Iran but I'm saying that we might not see a retaliation even till he end of this year. I attended a military secondary school so I'm telling you this from experience.
In war time you don't have all that time.

You must have thought this moves in advance if they happen. It affords you ways of defiling the enemy without emotion. Just strategy.

Peace time is for that thought.
RomanceRe: Tolu Saba Needs A Girlfriend, Advertises On Twitter, Ladies Send Audition Videos by bindukwe(m): 4:30pm On Jan 05, 2020
MycroftHolmes:
Isn't it the same Men are Scum crew?

So much hypocrisy and double standards, even in this new year.
I don't believe they all say that, only a vocal minority.
It seems you've fallen into the same pit of generalisation as them.

But still ...
both world views can be compatible, you can still believe men are scum and chase after them to validate that assertion.

You need instances of their scum moments to corroborate with what you think of them.
Foreign AffairsRe: Rockets Fall Near US Embassy In Baghdad Injuring Five As World War 3 Fears Mount by bindukwe(m): 8:20am On Jan 05, 2020
Mutemenot:
My own na make them no spray chemical, let it be bomb to bomb, gun to gun..
Well...

If it really does start, everything will be used in that warfare.

Whatever gets the win will be applied.
EducationRe: Simon P. Mallam, 5 Others Die In Kaduna Gas Explosion by bindukwe(m): 7:59am On Jan 05, 2020
englishmart:
Very sad news. My Muslim brothers will say it's his time. If he was sleeping at home would he have died?
Rip Prof.
Possibly.

That's the only thread holding that argument.

If its likely, then its worthy of consideration
RomanceRe: Is It Bad To Date My Sister's House Help? by bindukwe(m): 9:03pm On Jan 04, 2020
If you value what your sister has to say, then have a dialogue with her.

Let her list you reasons why you shouldn't go ahead with her. She clearly thinks she's not the best option for you and you might want to hear her reasons.
She might have a good reason why you shouldn't.
If she doesn't provide a good reason either, ignore her and go on with your voyage.
CelebritiesRe: Beautiful! Albino Hangout Was Lit In Lagos Yesterday. PHOTOS by bindukwe(m): 8:51pm On Jan 04, 2020
franklingud:
One albino in my yard told me that am "privileged to be his friend".

Imagine?
cheesy
Music/RadioRe: Why Your Favourite Nigerian Songs Are Getting Shorter by bindukwe(m):
Attention span didn't drop, what changed was the volume of information.

- how else would you explain people who commit their time to binge watching a whole netflix series in one sitting. Which is BTW 20x longer than 3 minutes.

If the music is uninteresting, the shorter it is, the better for it.
No one can bear listening to mainstream Nigerian songs for too long without getting jaded.

Its a false premise.
LiteratureRe: Chimamanda Adichie, Her Father, James Nwoye Adichie & Mother Grace Ifeoma Bond by bindukwe(m): 6:57pm On Jan 04, 2020
KingAzubuike:
Adichie ----> Soyinka
Reason??
RomanceRe: "Look At My Body, You Can't Have It" - Lady by bindukwe(m): 6:12pm On Jan 04, 2020
Why is every one of them striking the same pose?
CelebritiesRe: Throwback Video Of Bobrisky: How His Girlfriend Dumped Him And Lots More by bindukwe(m): 3:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
donstan18:
It's so pitiful that someone like Bobrisky is more famous and richer than 80% of Nigerian first class graduates.


E no fit better for this country again.
Sense isn't synonymous with fame
CelebritiesRe: Swanky Jerry Accused Of Sleeping With Abuja Millionaire To Acquire A Range Rover by bindukwe(m): 2:44pm On Jan 04, 2020
So what? Even if he did it, how is this significant?
What does it change?
RomanceRe: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by bindukwe(m):
Let them mate! just make sure she knows why is a bad idea.

Balance might do the trick. Don't paint it bad, let her see the sides. Let her know its something good that can be abused. Let her know how beautiful it is to preserve it for someone who deserves it not a trickster.

Have a conversation about what love feels like and how to sense it better from others. Discuss what relationship is, and what the ideal version is. What she's doing is normal for her age, let her know how to go through it more responsibly. She's doing the right thing the wrong way, it doesn't call for a beating.

Discuss these ideas with her.

Or

Introduce her to something better to do.
If you can provide a worthy exchange, you solve the problem. Right now, nothing sounds better to her than to hop on his ...
CelebritiesRe: Stainless Precious Weds Ima-Obong Ndiana Nwaokike. Onyeama, MC Tagwaya Spotted by bindukwe(m): 12:52pm On Jan 04, 2020
Every artist needs a financier.

Michelangelo had the Medici family.
RomanceRe: When Your Fiancée Is Ashamed Of Her Buttocks Size by bindukwe(m): 2:40pm On Jan 03, 2020
DissTroy:
Exactly why I dislike makeup and discourage mine against it. She's unique without it and extremely beautiful even without it, so why the makeup? I don't want you looking like every girl on social media - I want you looking like you.

Only females who are ugly or with forgettable faces should use makeup.

Thankfully, she goes for months without the makeup.

A very beautiful face ranks above large butts and boobs for many of us.
cheesy

I agree.
RomanceRe: When Your Fiancée Is Ashamed Of Her Buttocks Size by bindukwe(m): 9:51pm On Jan 02, 2020
safarigirl:
Sometimes, size is not the issue, but thee curve of the butt.

Women are starting to look generic; everyone now has a butt that doesn't fit their build because of plastic surgery. Wouldn't she like to look different?

She should check out a picture of Marcos Reus' wife, not one curve in sight, but she still has a husband. Yansh is good, but there is more to life than a big butt.
I agree completely ... Even in the makeup department
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Reacts To Dangote's 96th Ranking In The BBI World Richest People by bindukwe(m): 9:24pm On Jan 02, 2020
APCNig:
Buhari has stopped few getting rich at the expense of the majority
You can't stop that...you'll have no rich people without that expense.
RomanceRe: I See No Use In Having A Girlfriend. Change My View!! by bindukwe(m): 8:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
Dating is useful to those who desire marriage.
Its a form of biological engineering, from an evolutionary standpoint.
A way of finding a partner whom you can tolerate over a lifetime.

It can also be a good yardstick for self evaluation; knowing, only the fittest will survive. Women will only select the mate with the best chance of reproducing a stronger offspring with and their safety.
What type of women do you attract? That analysis holds within it, your worthiness.
How much you weigh in the grand scheme of things.

Its helpful to know women are attracted to men across and up dominance hierarchies.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do People Wait Till January Of Every Year To Make Resolutions? by bindukwe(m): 11:07pm On Dec 30, 2019
DigitalLogic:
I'm not rooting for plans to be set on the first day of the year. New year resolution is like National Budget 2020. it's a must if there must be progress notwithstanding when such inventory is being collated. I hope you understand the bigger picture now.
Its not a "must" for progress.

There are other paths to progress, this is just one way.

People indulge in new year plans because they believe the new year is a new start.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Do People Wait Till January Of Every Year To Make Resolutions? by bindukwe(m): 10:02pm On Dec 30, 2019
DigitalLogic:
every right thinking human aiming for greatness and all round perfection is expected to set goals(financial, emotional, physical, etc)

Goals without time attached to its attainment can take forever to achieve. Hence, the need to assess these plans annually.

this, unarguably is a worthy explanation for the birth of 'new year resolutions'
You only explained "why" time is important to goal setting not "why" it should be set on the first day of the year.
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Gets Nigeria’s Debt Figures Wrong by bindukwe(m): 9:21pm On Dec 30, 2019
amc:
A look at the World's 20 Biggest Debtor Nations should tell you debt is not a bad thing. It is what you use the loan for that matters. The aim should be to increase revenue and GDP, with serious infrastructural development. Something we never did with all the money we borrowed in the past.

OBJ's "warning" smacks of sensationalism and that is his agenda. He knows what he is doing and the original article was only pointing out his error. I am sure he is sitting somewhere smiling and fully satisfied with the result of his "error".

Now, you cant expect us to sit back and watch people believe and continue to repeat the lie even after it has been pointed out to them. It is more dangerous to ignore the lies.
Quite a solid argument you have up there.

But...

The warning remains fair, given how the money is being spent.
FamilyRe: Do You Consider Flogging An Effective Way Of Discipline? What's The Alternative? by bindukwe(m):
I don't think human beings have figured out a way to control behavior without inflicting pain.
Be it emotional or physical pain.

The problem with using pain as a regulator for behavior is its susceptibility to abuse. Simply because of the circumstances preceding it.

That's why we have constitutions in adult society to regulate punishment so it doesn't degenerate into abuse.

To serve punishment effectively there has to be a mechanism for regulating whatever is considered punishment. And whatever is called punishment has to be considered carefully.

Different individuals respond differently to punishment. What determines the differe t responses is "value"
Nobody values anything more their freedom, which is why prison sentences are the most painful thing you can do to anyone.

Anger is what engineers punishment towards abuse. There is nothing wrong with flogging by itself but anger will most likely be the reason to flog and not the wrongdoing.
Which causes you to punish the child beyond what is required for correction, just to satisfy your rage.

Children aren't robots, they have things they value, find it and take it away as punishment for wrongdoings.

Also find organic consequences for their actions.
Eg- if he doesn't eat his dinner on time, no TV.
Simply because he has encroached into his TV time with his prolonged feeding time.
Christianity EtcRe: 4 Reasons I'm Considering Becoming An Atheist by bindukwe(m): 7:59pm On Dec 30, 2019
The problem with atheism is the nihilism that follows it.

Number 4 is false, you can't prove that.
How do you know Christians suffer more?

Christian or not, you will face suffering. Its life.

We all have expectations that won't be met easily, which is where the suffering stems from.
Being a Christian doesn't make it worse for you than the non Christian.

Religion isn't there to make life heaven on earth or make it any easier. Its there for moral guidance.
Your choices have to be guarded lest you hurt the next man.
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Gets Nigeria’s Debt Figures Wrong by bindukwe(m): 7:45pm On Dec 30, 2019
The figure quoted might be wrong but the warning he gave is fair.

Its common sense not to use debts to service other debts.
You will be accruing unreasonable interests.

Isolating his mistake seems like an agenda on your part to make the warning look out of place.

I could be wrong, but its hard not to come to that conclusion.
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Faces Custody Palaver By Court Action Over Neglect Of Son In Abuja by bindukwe(m): 7:33pm On Dec 30, 2019
Timileyin1234:
Tonto is a rascal. What is that boy eating a month that sum up to 200k
A better alternative to splitting his wealth
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Just Caught Me Red Handed by bindukwe(m): 9:50pm On Dec 28, 2019
You'll need to take a step back and evaluate yourself.
Don't be quick to throw apologies or tell her of the devil's influence or how much you love her.


Ask yourself important questions:

What part of you justified that action before you carried it out?
Its being in the relationship that important to you, a part of you think it isn't and that needs to be sorted out

What is it you want out of your relationship with her?
Why is better to be with her than not being with her in your estimation?

Without good answers to these questions, then whatever action you take would be to save face and not to confront the situation squarely.
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Bans Opposite Sexes From Plying Same Tricycles - Official by bindukwe(m): 10:16pm On Dec 26, 2019
Etimocracy:
Exactly my thoughts. How does having bodily contact with the opposite sex arouse the urge for sex.# the female folk even cover up every inch of their body for crying out loud#. It's safe to say these guys are deranged hypocrites.
Their state, their law! Let me focus on my Christmas chicken for now.
If the human mind is occupied meaningfully, all these urges truly become distractions opposed to being a beckoning light.
PoliticsRe: Ganduje Bans Opposite Sexes From Plying Same Tricycles - Official by bindukwe(m): 10:12pm On Dec 26, 2019
Ladycewhy:
The same sharia law they want to impose on the entire country. I heard there is one Muslim okada man that doesn't carry women on his bike grin grin.
Will the keke driver that will carry women be women in full hijab? That one you can only see the eyes? If not this law is not complete o. Let ninja dressed women only carry women while men only carry men grin


But its still a fact that places where laws like this exist have the highest rate of homosexuals and cases of sodomy of young boys in this country.smh
Because barriers make what they conceal all the more attractive to those who is been hidden from.

The garden of Eden story was enough lesson on that strategy.
Laws make people want to break them, knowing this affords a lawmaker room to manipulate the masses.

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